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If Propositioned for sex by an attractive stranger would you ?

  • 03-05-2008 10:36am
    #1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,111 ✭✭✭


    I saw this on telly once, attractive girl goes up to numerous blokes and says I've noticed you around and find you very attractive, will you sleep with me, and an attractive bloke does the same to girls guess what the outcome was, what about you, how would you react ?

    If propositions by an attractive stranger would you ? 259 votes

    I'm a bloke - Yeah
    0% 0 votes
    I'm a bloke - Nay
    69% 179 votes
    I'm a girl - Yay
    15% 39 votes
    I'm a girl - Nay
    5% 15 votes
    Atari Jaguar
    10% 26 votes


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,738 ✭✭✭Jay D


    did the girls say no? if I was a girl I would have so not screwed him


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,866 ✭✭✭Adam


    I'd point to the nearest coffee establishment and demand we have one of those first. After that? Sure.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,705 ✭✭✭✭Tigger


    when i was single in college this was not uncommon and yes i did
    not now tho but only 'cos i'm happy and loyal

    i'd say a good few girls would go for it but its gotta be between 95-100% for singl;e fellas


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,111 ✭✭✭MooseJam


    Jay D wrote: »
    did the girls say no? if I was a girl I would have so not screwed him

    yea they all said no


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 30,661 Mod ✭✭✭✭Faith


    How attractive?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,584 ✭✭✭c - 13


    If I was single and was physically interested in the person asking then yes I most definately would say yes. However i'd probably be wondering if there was some ulterior motive for asking.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,258 ✭✭✭✭Rabies


    Probably.

    Last year I was at a party. Met a socttish girl. Few minutes later we were kising. She then said, "I guess we're having sex tonight. My place or yours?".
    Didn't take me long to make my exit from the party and end up back at her house.

    Ahhh.. That was a fun night :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 842 ✭✭✭Weidii


    Depends. If I was propositioned by a guy, then no way, no matter how studly he looked. However if a foxy lady was to proposition me I couldn't imagine saying no :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,111 ✭✭✭MooseJam


    Faith wrote: »
    How attractive?

    not Brad Pitt but someone you wouldn't kick out of bed


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 40,919 ✭✭✭✭Xavi6


    If you were single and they were hot then why wouldn't you? Bit of a no brainer really, well for guys anyway.


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  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 30,661 Mod ✭✭✭✭Faith


    Yeah, assuming he was suitably attractive, I probably would.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,339 ✭✭✭✭tman


    I'm pretty damn horny right now, so a definite yes!:p


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,977 ✭✭✭GhostInTheRuins


    Of course I would :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,866 ✭✭✭Adam


    Faith wrote: »
    Yeah, assuming he was suitably attractive, I probably would.
    Of course I would :D

    I've noticed you around and find you very attractive, will you sleep with me?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,727 ✭✭✭✭Sherifu


    Seeing as i'm not single, no.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 40,919 ✭✭✭✭Xavi6


    Mirror wrote: »
    I've noticed you around and find you very attractive, will you sleep with me?

    That line reminds me of this song


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,866 ✭✭✭Adam


    Xavi6 wrote: »
    That line reminds me of this song
    And what a terrible song it is :(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 36,433 ✭✭✭✭LuckyLloyd


    Xavi6 wrote: »
    That line reminds me of this song

    Bingo, good man Xavi! :) Video still as bad as I remember it though.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,844 ✭✭✭✭cormie


    I was out one night and this girl came up to me and says "my friend wants to know will you have a one night stand with her", she wasn't bad but I turned her down and they got all "what the **** is your problem" on me:pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,919 ✭✭✭Bob the Builder


    i'd definetley make sure there wasn't a reason for asking, and that she wasn't single, and that there was no reprecussions... and i'd wear protection up to the hilt, but after that, yeah...


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,866 ✭✭✭Adam


    nevf wrote: »
    i'd definetley make sure there wasn't a reason for asking, and that she wasn't single, and that there was no reprecussions... and i'd wear protection up to the hilt, but after that, yeah...
    Do you usually only wear half of it?


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 30,661 Mod ✭✭✭✭Faith


    cormie wrote: »
    I was out one night and this girl came up to me and says "my friend wants to know will you have a one night stand with her", she wasn't bad but I turned her down and they got all "what the **** is your problem" on me:pac:

    What age was she, 14? That reminds me of those days long ago where you'd go to discos and be routinely asked throughout the night, "Will you get off with* my friend?". Ah, the romance...

    *'Get off with' being the fashionable term back then for kiss.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,844 ✭✭✭✭cormie


    She looked between 25 and 30 so I don't think it was just a kiss she was after...


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 30,661 Mod ✭✭✭✭Faith


    That's actually quite sad. I mean, I actually kind of feel bad for her. You really should have done it, cormie :pac:.

    Seriously, if one feels like one would be comfortable getting naked in front of a random stranger, surely one would be confidant enough to talk to them :confused:.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 625 ✭✭✭princess-sprkle


    Xavi6 wrote: »
    If you were single and they were hot then why wouldn't you? Bit of a no brainer really, well for guys and girls anyway.

    fixed that for ya! :p


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 625 ✭✭✭princess-sprkle


    cormie wrote: »
    I was out one night and this girl came up to me and says "my friend wants to know will you have a one night stand with her", she wasn't bad but I turned her down and they got all "what the **** is your problem" on me:pac:

    :eek: thats horrific, its not like you're 14 again. and who says will you have a one night stand with me?! surely both people know what they're getting into.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,555 ✭✭✭✭AckwelFoley


    if it was an attractive guy? No

    An attractive woman that was not related to me? yes

    An unattractive woman not related to me? Yes

    Im a firm believer of equal oppertunities




    I needed to denote the not related bit because of the whole fritzel thingie going on now.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 81 ✭✭cowan


    Faith wrote: »
    'Get off with' being the fashionable term back then for kiss.

    It was shift back in my day...

    Memories.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 178 ✭✭Phantasm


    No way, maaan.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,988 ✭✭✭constitutionus


    i voted nay.

    mainly because im a psycho magnet and with my luck i'd end up like an extra in "hostel".

    TBH if it was on the level i really wouldnt mind. christ knows we need more forward women. but if were talking about how i'd ACTUALLY react to someone i just met on the street or in a pub/club id view it with suspicion.

    still,doesnt mean i havent gone off with women i only met that night. just means id expect to get to know them a little first.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,857 ✭✭✭✭Dave!


    Very much so, yes.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,191 ✭✭✭✭Latchy


    Very much so and it's not somthing i am proud of, but back in my early 20s i once had a sexual encounter with a girl whom i had only met in a pub earlier in the evening. I recall it was she who sugggested we go back to her place and i ended up staying the night in her flat .Thing was ,from what i remember, i thought we might just might fumble around a bit but it was she who seemed more keen to go the whole hog so to speak and we did, but not as i recall due to any pressure on my part on her to do so .We had a coffee next morning , said our farewells and i dont even remember her name .

    It was also the night i lost my virginity :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,096 ✭✭✭ImDave


    Well, I suppose I would have to think about it...

    :confused: Wait a minute :confused:

    OF COURSE I WOULD :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,555 ✭✭✭✭AckwelFoley


    could the wimmens that voted "im a girl yay" please contact me.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,844 ✭✭✭✭cormie


    and who says will you have a one night stand with me?!

    What do you mean by that?

    So Faith, you're saying I should have offered myself up to her so she wouldn't feel bad? lol


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,396 ✭✭✭✭kaimera


    Faith wrote: »
    Yeah, assuming he was suitably attractive, I probably would.
    How you doin'? :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,309 ✭✭✭Vertigo100


    definately a yes seeing as i have, on 2 occasions, had sex with women whose names i did not know :)


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 30,661 Mod ✭✭✭✭Faith


    cormie wrote: »
    What do you mean by that?

    I think she means that people are usually a little more subtle about it.
    So Faith, you're saying I should have offered myself up to her so she wouldn't feel bad? lol

    It would have been only polite, really :pac:.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    Of course I would if I found him really hot and I was single. Nothing unusual about it. It happens all the time and is referred to as the one-night stand.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 40,919 ✭✭✭✭Xavi6


    fixed that for ya! :p

    How you doin? :cool: Giggidy :pac:


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,510 ✭✭✭Tricity Bendix


    Dudess wrote: »
    Of course I would if I found him really hot and I was single. Nothing unusual about it. It happens all the time and is referred to as the one-night stand.
    I don't think they are necessarily the same thing, tho. The OP is talking about someone walking right up to you and asking for sex. One night stands usually involve drinks and laughs and dancing first, or something similar.

    I voted Nein. I'd automatically think she was emotionally unstable and likely to tie me to the bed and bite my willy off. If she started chatting to me etc, of course I'd go home with her if she was attractive and up for it. But the situations aren't comparable.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,191 ✭✭✭✭Latchy


    So thats what it is i had , a one night stand :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    Heh, lovin' the results of the poll. Over 80% of the males who voted would, only a third of the females who voted would.

    To those who voted no, would extreme hotness not even be enough?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,191 ✭✭✭✭Latchy


    I am guessing a lot of the no votes are in denial (but not the river ) :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    The scenario has happened to me twice: being propositioned by a random stranger. The first time was when I was leaving work drinks one night at about 11.30. I declined. The second time was outside a pub having a smoke. I gladly complied - simply because he was a muthafuppin' ride. It's seedy but ultimately it's just sex and filling a biological need.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 86,729 ✭✭✭✭Overheal


    I wouldnt actually.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,107 ✭✭✭flanum


    i must be ludicrously permissive. i cant count the amount of one nighters ive had with strangers. i thought this was basically a normal thing.

    ill not bother going into the details of when i once answered an ad from buy and sell and had a "swinging" time!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,509 ✭✭✭✭randylonghorn


    I'd probably leave the decision to Junior.





    So that's a yes then ... >_>


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 28,128 ✭✭✭✭Mossy Monk


    In a heartbeat. Wouldn't necessarily need to be that attractive either.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 625 ✭✭✭princess-sprkle


    I think I would, honestly. If an attractive guy comes up to me, I'm hardly gonna say no. hell yes would be the more likely answer!:p


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