BOYS: Girl asking you to marry them, Yay or Nay?

Niamho!

I'm not talking about your answer...
I wanna know would you be a bit freaked out if your Girly asked you to marry them??
we hada little debate here at lunch and ive been asking every man that walks through the door since.

the dee

I asked my boss to marry me today. He said no

I think I'd prefer my boyf do the asking. That way I know he really wants to

Yes!

LadyJ

I'd be pretty freaked out if a girl asked me to marry her....

kaimera

If she's that eager...I dunno.

humanji

I'm desperate for any sort of female attention, so I'd readily accept and be happy that someone asked me (most likely by mistake)

LadyJ

humanji wrote: »

I'm desperate for any sort of female attention, so I'd readily accept and be happy that someone asked me (most likely by mistake)

So dya wanna then?

Dudess

Read the column at the back of today's Examiner. She's a great writer.

FruitLover

Maybe if we were in Vegas and we could be married by Elvis...

Zombrex

Wouldn't mind at all if my girlfriend asked me to marry her (assuming I actually wanted to of course).

robinph

Niamho! wrote: »

...and ive been asking every man that walks through the door since.

Now that is seriously desperate, no wonder they are all saying no to you.

The Sparrow

Well if the girl does the asking does she have to buy the guy an expensive ring (or equivalent... PS3, big screen tv!!) ?

I am open to bribery for my hand in marriage.

Donegal Lass

how does a fish supper sound?

jester77

Ah, but the question is, would we still get the dowry

LadyJ

Donegal Lass wrote: »

how does a fish supper sound?

Eh.....Kinda gross when you put it like that!

humanji

LadyJ wrote: »

So dya wanna then?

Sure, I'm easy. You're not sensitive to odour are you? I'm not asking for any particular reason...

Rob_l

Niamho! wrote: »

I'm not talking about your answer...
I wanna know would you be a bit freaked out if your Girly asked you to marry them??
we hada little debate here at lunch and ive been asking every man that walks through the door since.

:eek::eek::eek:
You have been asking every man that walks through the door to marry you?

Niamho!

No ya smart gits i was asking them what they think!! lol

LadyJ

humanji wrote: »

Sure, I'm easy. You're not sensitive to odour are you? I'm not asking for any particular reason...

Oh sorry, I must have asked you by accident! I actually meant to ask kaimera!

Rob_l

Niamho! wrote: »

No ya smart gits i was asking them what they think!! lol

Oh I see so you were asking if they ever think about you proposing to them

The Sparrow

Donegal Lass wrote: »

how does a fish supper sound?

Deal. :eek:

Niamho!

Niamho! wrote: »

No ya smart gits i was asking them what they think!! lol

I was under that impression too. Thanks for ruining my life...for **** sake

biko

In this day and age, sure why not. However I'd prefer if she made a few massive hints so I could do the actual proposing.

Dudess

Donegal Lass wrote: »

how does a fish supper sound?

LadyJ wrote: »

Eh.....Kinda gross when you put it like that!

woooo232 wrote: »

Deal. :eek:

LOL

Rob_l

biko wrote: »

In this day and age, sure why not. However I'd prefer if she made a few massive hints so I could do the actual proposing.

what like order a wedding dress book a hall and invite all the family?

Donegal Lass

woooo232 wrote: »

Deal. :eek:

we'll live happily in lard heaven!!

The Sparrow

Donegal Lass wrote: »

we'll live happily in lard heaven!!

:eek::eek::D

Donegal Lass

Rob_l wrote: »

what like order a wedding dress book a hall and invite all the family?

you forgot about the pre-marriage counselling course...

Rob_l

Donegal Lass wrote: »

you forgot about the pre-marriage counselling course...

Better off keeping the counselling until after the bill is seen

humanji

LadyJ wrote: »

Oh sorry, I must have asked you by accident! I actually meant to ask kaimera!

*sniff*

AckwelFoley

If i could find a woman cockeyed enough to marry me.. id gladly let her do the asking!

RxQueen

humanji wrote: »

*sniff*

ooo heart broken on a leap year , dont worry it only happens every four years

Pherekydes

the dee wrote: »

That way I know he really wants to

Now you know how we feel.

Raspberry

I don't think I could ever ask someone to marry me. That question is a question that needs to be asked by the man in the relationship.

Pighead

Never gonna happen. Well it might happen(actually it probably will) but they're never gonna get an affirmitave response. No way Jose. Chicks are not built for marriage proposals. They're too calculating and nerveless.

Marriage proposals must include cold sweats, self doubts, trembly hands and sweaty man groins. Girls are no good at any of those things. Especially the last one. Nope, not for Pighead.

Pighead

Pighead wrote: »

Never gonna happen. Well it might happen(actually it probably will) but they're never gonna get an affirmitave response. No way Jose. Chicks are not built for marriage proposals. They're too calculating and nerveless.

Marriage proposals must include cold sweats, self doubts, trembly hands and sweaty man groins. Girls are no good at any of those things. Especially the last one. Nope, not for Pighead.

Good to see the Pighead we know and love back - quality lol !

CantGetNoSleep

You'd have to say yes for the shag anyway and then dump the sl*t (unless the shag was great)

Drift

I don't think I'd have much of a problem with a girl asking me. I'd feel under HUGE pressure to say yes though so I think I'd prefer to be the one doing the asking .... that way I decide when . But like another poster said ... in most cases both parties are going to see it coming anyway.

shqipshume

Although its a nice idea i really would rather him asking me:o Hinting loudly lol

We have so little left in this country of men been the men sorry don't mean 2 insult but i find so many girls now are taking the roll over so guys really dont know where they stand.
Wasn't leap year meant 2 be a way for a woman to ask him to marry her,and in return he was meant to ask her? Like a mock proposal to give him the ok

Drift

shqipshume wrote: »

We have so little left in this country of men been the men sorry don't mean 2 insult but i find so many girls now are taking the roll over so guys really dont know where they stand.

Well you see where they went wrong there was allowing them to wear trousers. I was all downhill after that!

shqipshume

Drift wrote: »

Well you see where they went wrong there was allowing them to wear trousers. I was all downhill after that!

Aahahahaha Yes it did lol i guess your skirt fan then?

CuLT

shqipshume wrote: »

Although its a nice idea i really would rather him asking me:o Hinting loudly lol

We have so little left in this country of men been the men sorry don't mean 2 insult but i find so many girls now are taking the roll over so guys really dont know where they stand.
Wasn't leap year meant 2 be a way for a woman to ask him to marry her,and in return he was meant to ask her? Like a mock proposal to give him the ok

Less womens lib would fix that right up for ya!

Drift

shqipshume wrote: »

Aahahahaha Yes it did lol i guess your skirt fan then?

Tis the legs shqipshume, can't beat them

Nightwish

I wouldnt dream of asking him. I want to see if he has a romantic side, cos after 3 years I've yet to see it.

shqipshume

CuLT wrote: »

Less womens lib would fix that right up for ya!

I dont have a problem my man been the man i actually like him been strong for me,I dont mean go back 2 the stone age or anything just let men be the men and woman be the woman.I feel our country although i love it very much has lost its way a little cause of this Celtic tiger thing and women have become just as power hungry as men?

Drift wrote: »

Tis the legs shqipshume, can't beat them

Well very little we see legs in our sweet country anymore,I love 2 wear nice skirts and show my legs

shqipshume

Nightwish wrote: »

I wouldnt dream of asking him. I want to see if he has a romantic side, cos after 3 years I've yet to see it.

Well sweetie u know romance isnt about what he does its how he does it.I am sure u have special little things he does for u which are romantic, coming in and kissing u for no reason? sending u that secret smile pushing ur hair behind ur ears and brushing ur cheek,
Maybe i am easily pleased

P.s hope he asks u soon then

Nightwish

shqipshume wrote: »

Well sweetie u know romance isnt about what he does its how he does it.I am sure u have special little things he does for u which are romantic, coming in and kissing u for no reason? sending u that secret smile pushing ur hair behind ur ears and brushing ur cheek,
Maybe i am easily pleased

P.s hope he asks u soon then

lol he does none of those things :eek:

shqipshume

Nightwish wrote: »

lol he does none of those things :eek:

He doesnt what? wow are u a real girlie girl? What way is he with u? if u dont mind me asking

Nightwish

Not a girlie girl at all. He's nice just not affectionate or at all romantic. Valentines card just read "happy valentines day" and his name. Its just the way he is, thats why I'd wait for him to propose - I'd like to see him being romantic and affectionate!

shqipshume

Nightwish wrote: »

Not a girlie girl at all. He's nice just not affectionate or at all romantic. Valentines card just read "happy valentines day" and his name. Its just the way he is, thats why I'd wait for him to propose - I'd like to see him being romantic and affectionate!

Yeah i guess alot of guys dont know how 2 be or are afraid to show that more affectionate side i am sure he thinks he is though
Dont worry mine doesnt go in for the whole valentines thing either, he hates it in fact lol . Big against the whole commercial side of it.But i think romance is in the way he treats you and he is good to you so thats ten fold over any whats meant to be romantic.But i am sure when he asks u it will be very romantic

A Dub in Glasgo

My wife asked me to marry her 12 years ago today, I obviously said yes