Need girl advice!

Shurwhynot

Hi ladies

Bored at work so i said i would try this place for a bit of girl advice.

So im 22 years old, first year out of college and working full time. In April of last year i met a girl at college who i fell for...took her to the cinema, brought her to my place to watch dvds etc. I stayed with her a few times but nothing more than cuddling occurred.

I went away for the summer and thought that was the end of it even though i wanted more but never said anything to her about it. Sent her a few txts over the course of the summer but it always seemed to be me making contact with her.

So i came home and thought "right...may as well forget about her and move on". Befor i started work, i went for a night out to the college i had left and met her randomly...we kissed and went our seperate ways at the end of the night.

Then about a month later i found out she kissed one of my best mates. I wasnt too pissed off at my buddy cos boys will be boys but i was raging at her. She slipped from my mind a bit then until i went back to the college for a night out again and when i woke up the next morning i had a missed call and msg off her.

So since then ive been in regular contact with her and she even gave me a drunken phone call one night saying she was sorry. We have spoken on the phone a couple of times since but its a strange situation. I work in one part of the country and she is in college in another part.

I am crazy about her (ive just realised this lately) and duno what to do. Im paying another visit to the college next month for a few days and am scheduled to meet up with her but im afraid that its just gona make me like her even more and i cnat do much about it. I dont know what she feels for me...she mentioned in her drunken call that the timing of us meeting was bad seeing as i was finishing college and going away etc. She txts me pretty often and whenever i talk to her on the fone she sounds like she likes me but i really dont know!!

So ladies...any advice?

Dizzyblonde

You'll be worn out with all this to-ing and fro-ing, just ask her out. Either before you go down to see her, or while you're there. If she says yes it'll be great, and if she says no at least you'll know where you stand and you'll be able to move on.

Jules

second the above, take the bull by the horns... all you can get is rejected!

Niamho!

yup you're pretty much gonna have to just go for it and ask her out i reckon!
she might be the type who does want something to happen but is waiting for you to make the first move!
and as Jules said the worse that can happen is she says no.

Shurwhynot

Cheers girls i may just do that next time i see her. Shes a gorgeous girl and has plenty lads after her so i suppose im just being paranoid

Cathmandooo

You're 22 and working full time, any chance you'll start driving soon and get your own car? that would solve the distance problem a bit. Sounds like you're BOTH into each other, she wouldn't be texting you often and talking on the phone (much better than texting btw) and arranging to meet you if she didnt like you. What more of a sign are you looking for? Forget that she kissed your mate, she did nothing wrong if ye weren't together at the time.

Go ask her out properly, do some kind of gesture to show her how you feel and just go for it. These are good times, enjoy

Shurwhynot

Cheers girls i may just do that next time i see her. Shes a gorgeous girl and has plenty lads after her so i suppose im just being paranoid

Shurwhynot

Ya im in the process of buying a car and should be on the road soon enough so that should help. Shes hard to figure out sometimes but i am mad into her so we will see. Cant wait to see her again now! Sorry for replying twice above too!