Spotting the signs

juuge

How can you spot if a girl fancies you?
One girl I knew that fancied me would, while sitting at her desk, stretch backwards and put her hands behind her head, thus sticking her chest out. What other gestures are there?

Sir Digby Chicken Caesar

if they reduce the distance on the restraining order, it's usually a pretty good sign they're warming to you.

Pj!

As men we are just crap at this, or so im told anyway.

Karoma

If you're Irish and she's not and she dresses up as a leprechaun and touches your arm... it's all quite obvious really.

You wont know if a girl likes you until you punch her in the ovaries.

Miss Fluff

Normally if she tries to stick her tongue down my throat

biko

http://www.videojug.com/film/how-can-i-tell-if-she-is-attracted-to-me

flippythewarvet

If she lends you her crayons for colouring in.. also if she tells her friends your a 'poopy-head' (classic female reverse psychology tactic)

Rb

If there's steam coming out the top of her pants, she's definitely into you.

Ballerina

id say guess....if i fancied you you wouldnt have a clue....*runs away

ps.them videos are f*ucking hilarious!!

Dennis the Stone

Love if there was some system where if two people fancied each other then they would both become aware. The amount of people out there who fancy each other but nothing will ever happen..

Ballerina

Kemos wrote: »

Love if there was some system where if two people fancied each other then they would both become aware. The amount of people out there who fancy each other but nothing will ever happen..

so true...so many lost oppurtunities haha..seriously

galwayrush

Miss Fluff wrote: »

Normally if she tries to stick her tongue down my throat

My neighbours Labrador tends to do that:eek:

juuge

juuge wrote: »

How can you spot if a girl fancies you?
One girl I knew that fancied me would, while sitting at her desk, stretch backwards and put her hands behind her head, thus sticking her chest out. What other gestures are there?

Women don't do that.

witchywoman

I studied a bit of human psychology , and according to what i remember, if a person raises their eyebrow whilst looking at you, thats a very strong sign of attraction, also, for women, twiddling their hair is a sign, but basically open posture is the main one, for example if the girl is seated beside you, but her body is angled away from you, then she doesnt find you attractive. another trait is the girl who touches you a lot, playfully.for a man, loosening your collar and tie is a dead giveaway in the office environment.hope that helps...

Mushy

When they stare at you across the Arts block when you're trying to study..oh wait, now I get it!

Sir Digby Chicken Caesar

but then of course you have bloody flirts who do all this stuff even when they don't find you attractive.

bloody flirts.

Ballerina

witchywoman wrote: »

raises their eyebrow, twiddles their hair, touches you a lot

Yea but you see everyone is very different(this is why psychology annoys me and why im supposed to be studying it right now but am not)

i wouldnt do any of those things and i would also run a mile from somebody i really like....its wierd but i sometimes cant help it!

Dennis the Stone

What about if a confident and intelligent woman seems to be awkward only around you? Either she fancies me or she thinks I'm a rapist

Sir Digby Chicken Caesar

there's a chick in the shop across the road from me who stares at me as if I'm a rapist whenever I walk in.. it's freaky.

Ballerina

Id say she fancies you......POUNCE NOW!

no seriously id say she does...

MLE

If she laughs at your jokes, then she probably finds you attractive.

I think its fairly obvious when a guy fancies a girl and it should be obvious the other way around, but either we're great at hiding it. Or you (guys) cant read whats infront of your face.

Mr. CooL ICE

galwayrush wrote: »

My neighbours Labrador tends to do that:eek:

a/s/l plz?

No, the labrador, not you.

Pigman II

MLE wrote: »

If she laughs at your jokes, then she probably finds you attractive.

What if you're hysterically funy but ugly as fúck? (eg like Tommy Tiernan - only hysterically funny).

Dave!

If every time she sees you, the floor suddenly becomes slippery around her.

Either she likes you or she's incontinent. Or both!

Ballerina

MLE wrote: »

If she laughs at your jokes, then she probably finds you attractive.

nah i wouldnt agree, i think loads of lads are hilarious but wouldnt fancy them..it does help though

MLE wrote: »

either we're great at hiding it. Or you (guys) cant read whats infront of your face.

bit of both id say...

i think it is totally down to the person.i know some people who tell lads they fancy them by basically being in their face or all flirtatious and then theres others who hide it completely...until they've had a few vodkas at least!!

Dennis the Stone

Things would be a lot easier if I could just wear a badge saying NOT A RAPIST

Pigman II

Kemos wrote: »

Things would be a lot easier if I could just wear a badge saying NOT A RAPIST

Who's stopping you? "Society"?

Ballerina

Pigman II wrote: »

ugly as fúck like Tommy Tiernan

now hes an exception id say because he's soo funny that hes hot!

Terry

witchywoman wrote: »

I studied a bit of human psychology , and according to what i remember, if a person raises their eyebrow whilst looking at you, thats a very strong sign of attraction, also, for women, twiddling their hair is a sign, but basically open posture is the main one, for example if the girl is seated beside you, but her body is angled away from you, then she doesnt find you attractive. another trait is the girl who touches you a lot, playfully.for a man, loosening your collar and tie is a dead giveaway in the office environment.hope that helps...

Nope.
If last night was anything to go by, then that's a load of crap.
I came home alone, smelling of her perfume from the constant hugs and crap.

Mordeth wrote: »

there's a chick in the shop across the road from me who stares at me as if I'm a rapist whenever I walk in.. it's freaky.

Go in and re-enact the opening scene from intermission.

Dennis the Stone

Pigman II wrote: »

Who's stopping you? "Society"?

you're damn right. [makes badge]

MLE

Tommy Tiernan Hot? Not my cup of tea at all.

I do find funny men attractive though and I do think that if your funny it makes you hotter -- but like you said maybe not hot enough to fancy them.

DonJose

If she doesn't file charges after the date rape drug wears off, thats a good sign!!!

Pigman II

DonJose wrote: »

If she doesn't file charges after the date rape drug wears off, thats a good sign!!!

Yeah you'd think so, but that's just a womans way of gaining leverage.

MLE

In fairness a lot of people flirt with other people and are touchy feely with them etc and would even fancy them to a certain extent but would have no intention of taking it any further, do you think?

galwayrush

LordChessington wrote: »

a/s/l plz?

No, the labrador, not you.

9 in Doggie years, Female in Galway:D

Terry

MLE wrote: »

In fairness a lot of people flirt with other people and are touchy feely with them etc and would even fancy them to a certain extent but would have no intention of taking it any further, do you think?

Yes. Every fúcking weekend I think that.

Then I go home and knock one out.

thefinalstage

Kemos wrote: »

What about if a confident and intelligent woman seems to be awkward only around you? Either she fancies me or she thinks I'm a rapist

I got that from a lady on the bus the other day. She must have been about 40 odd though...Very fidgety. She didn't start until I began talking about Shakespeare.

Terry

thelastangryman wrote: »

I got that from a lady on the bus the other day. She must have been about 40 odd though...Very fidgety. She didn't start until I began talking about Shakespeare.

Did you bring up the Scottish play?
That might have freaked her out a bit.

thefinalstage

Terry wrote: »

Did you bring up the Scottish play?
That might have freaked her out a bit.

Macbeth? Yes it was part of the conversation. Mostly about the Merchant of Venice though.

Pigman II

thelastangryman wrote: »

Macbeth? Yes it was part of the conversation. Mostly about the Merchant of Venice though.

aagh! He said it.

Terry

Pigman II wrote: »

aagh! He said it.

I banned him.

Miss Fluff

Terry wrote: »

I banned him.

Good. Philistine.

Black Swan

Everyone is different. There are no magic formulas. Then again, if in the beginning she:

• gives you a lot of eye contact
• smiles when she first sees you
• looks back a second time when leaving
• likes to sit close to you
• expresses interest in what you have to say
• shares things personal about herself
• wants to know more personal things about you
• asks if you have a g/f or are married
• gives you her phone number without hesitation
• accepts your invitation for a date
• tells her friends how HOT you are (and it gets back to you)

...it just might be worth your while to pursue her?

thefinalstage

Miss Fluff wrote: »

Good. Philistine.

You madam are the philistine.

Terry

thelastangryman wrote: »

You madam are the philistine.

That was a fun 10 minutes.

thefinalstage

Terry wrote: »

That was a fun 10 minutes.

Twas interesting alright.

juuge

Blue_Lagoon wrote: »

Everyone is different. There are no magic formulas. Then again, if in the beginning she:

• gives you a lot of eye contact
• smiles when she first sees you
• looks back a second time when leaving
• likes to sit close to you
• expresses interest in what you have to say
• shares things personal about herself
• wants to know more personal things about you
• asks if you have a g/f or are married
• gives you her phone number without hesitation
• accepts your invitation for a date
• tells her friends how HOT you are (and it gets back to you)

...it just might be worth your while to pursue her?

Would you include 'when she stares at your crotch'?

thefinalstage

juuge wrote: »

Would you include 'when she stares at your crotch'?

With a large gasp.

alleepally

Pigman II wrote: »

aagh! He said it.

Feeling a bit pedantic tonight and unless boards.ie is actually a theatre and putting on the play, you don't have to worry about saying Macbeth. It's only the luvvies that get themselves into a sweat about it.

Break a leg is also a theatrical expression and I do point this out to anyone who uses the term inappropriately in everyday conversation.

Back on topic.

Women - I will never understand them. I sometimes think it would be easier to be gay - I'd get my hole everynight no problem.

eroo

Mordeth wrote: »

but then of course you have bloody flirts who do all this stuff even when they don't find you attractive.

bloody flirts.

i second that:(