Personal Issues banning

estebancambias

I was really planning on just accepting this banning, but after thinking about it I feel my banning was uncalled for.

Victor the mod, left me a message with a link

http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=54584796

followed by go away.


What exactly did I say that was 'wrong'? If someone can tell me I will not debate with them about the banning..I just want a valid reason for why I was banned.

Jesus Wept

Mezcita

estebancambias wrote: »

I was really planning on just accepting this banning, but after thinking about it I feel my banning was uncalled for.

Victor the mod, left me a message with a link

http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=54584796

followed by go away.


What exactly did I say that was 'wrong'? If someone can tell me I will not debate with them about the banning..I just want a valid reason for why I was banned.

Well, to me its because your comments sound like you are some type of 1950's "lie back and think of Ireland" housewife who believes that sex should happen solely for the purpose of making babies. And that anyone who deviates from that act is some type of weirdo "paedo".

If giving/receiving head just because we like turning another person on makes us all "vermin" then I am one dirty, DIRTY rat.

100% warranted to me. I applaud the mod from saving us all from further ranting.

randylonghorn

AGAIN, esteban?!

What did you say? ... the following quotes from that thread in PI:

estebancambias wrote: »

Oh my God, that is vile. I nearly got sick at the end of the first paragraph.

I think giving a blowjob should vanquish any sort of dignity a person has. Think about it please. Just use common sense. I would have to look at the mental state of someone who deems it a 'turn on' touching another persons area.

estebancambias wrote: »

I never said sex was bad, sucking someones dick is a bad thing in my view.

estebancambias wrote: »

I really thought it was used as a form to show superior power, i.e pedophiles.

estebancambias wrote: »

You make it sound even worse. Someones sexual organs sexy? Ahhhhhhhhh disgusting.

Oral sex as a way of dominating / controlling, and therefore only done by paedophiles?!

Having your dick sucked "a bad thing"? No Clonkeen lad was ever that innocent!

Come on, dude, you're having a laugh, and tbh I find you funny a lot of the time, but PI is not the place for this type of pishtake.

Victor telling you to "go away" was fairly restrained, tbh.

Take it over to AH ... oh, wait, you're still banned, aren't you?

6th

In fairness to estebancambias if you look at all those quote you will see he is quite specific about it being his opinion:

I think giving a blowjob should vanquish any sort of dignity a person has

I never said sex was bad, sucking someones dick is a bad thing in my view.

I really thought it was used as a form to show superior power, i.e pedophiles.

He was not telling people how to think nor was he particularily offensive in how he got his opinion across.

Now this he deserves to be banned for:

estebancambias wrote: »

Andy-Pandy you obviously have no respect for your partner. Love is not physical, it is simply a deep feeling of joy. Just being with the one you love should be enough.

Take your ban and in future live your life as you choose and dont judge other people.


Sure didnt the good lord himself say "it is better to give than to receive" ... I presume he was talking about oral sex?

Xavi6

Another esteban thread! Yay! *cracks open a beer in celebration*

Zaph

randylonghorn wrote: »

Having your dick sucked "a bad thing"? No Clonkeen lad was ever that innocent!

Esteban is a Clonkeen boy? Jaysus, the pace has really gone down the tubes since I went there.

Ban deserved.

monkeyfudge

6th wrote: »

Sure didnt the good lord himself say "it is better to give than to receive" ... I presume he was talking about oral sex?

Nope... He was talking about anal sex there.

Zaph

An easy mistake to make. I wonder how esteban feels about anal sex?

Jesus Wept

zaph wrote: »

An easy mistake to make. I wonder how esteban feels about anal sex?

Anxious unless with someone he fully trusts

monkeyfudge

The-Rigger wrote: »

Anxious unless with someone he fully thrusts

Fixed that for you..

MagicMarker

estebancambias wrote: »

I was really planning on just accepting this banning, but after thinking about it I feel my banning was uncalled for.

Victor the mod, left me a message with a link

http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=54584796

followed by go away.


What exactly did I say that was 'wrong'? If someone can tell me I will not debate with them about the banning..I just want a valid reason for why I was banned.

To be fair ester, i thought you were trolling when i read that. Until of course you stuck to your opinion and then i realized you were being serious (i think). You're entitled to your opinion and all, but come on. I think you have issues you need to deal with my friend.

Boston

Banned because You're clearly a virgin.

David Michael

estebancambias wrote: »

I was really planning on just accepting this banning, but after thinking about it I feel my banning was uncalled for.

Victor the mod, left me a message with a link

http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=54584796

followed by go away.


What exactly did I say that was 'wrong'? If someone can tell me I will not debate with them about the banning..I just want a valid reason for why I was banned.

You are just not wanted around these parts it seems. Your opinion is considered wrong because it is in the minority and you are considered a "dick" cos you know nothing about good sex and stuff.

Deal with it.

Move on.

DonJose

estebancambias, we get it, you don't like blowjobs, its not the end of the world but at least you'll get a steak on March 14th!!!

PS : I miss those Timothy McVeigh threads.

The Sparrow

Most of your posts seem so ridiculous that I can only assume that you are taking the piss. Otherwise you have issues man!

I can`t believe that you went to the same school as me:eek:

estebancambias

To be the fair though, responding to 6th, I apologised to Andy Pandy further in the thread.

I honestly was not trolling, the thread was basically about attitude to this sort of thing, and I am not that much for it.

I must say I enjoyed my time in Clonkeen.

6th

estebancambias wrote: »

To be the fair though, responding to 6th, I apologised to Randy Pandy further in the thread.

Had you been banned at the point of making that comment would you have accepted it? I presume so because if you apologised then you can see you were in the wrong. Dont get me wrong I dont think you are a bad guy ... rather someone who thinks differently to alot of people but doesnt let that stop them from talking.

Oryx

estebancambias wrote: »

I honestly was not trolling,

I apologised to Randy Pandy further in the thread

This is a non trolling typo then?

estebancambias

Sorry...the mistake has been rectified.

Stark

Fight the power, estebancambias. Don't let the hip liberal nazi mods win.

6th

estebancambias, run! Stark is hitting on you!

estebancambias

Actually for the most part I think the mods do a good job and are fair. Like I will never appeal the AH banning, as I have no grounds for it, even though I would like to get back in.

estebancambias

6th wrote: »

estebancambias, run! Stark is hitting on you!

Lol.

estebancambias

Oh by the way I accept the banning.

Boston

How do you feel about anal?

estebancambias

Simply Very dangerous, but this is not the time for a discussion.

Dudess

There are times when I'm actually reeling from some of the sh*t esteban posts (where on earth does an 18-year-old guy GET this stuff from?!) but I don't understand this banning at all. He finds the idea of oral sex disgusting. A lot of people do - I did when I was younger. Yep, sucking the organ that urine comes from and then a load of gooey fluid landing on your face - great fun. Of course I realised later it depends on the person you're with, but the IDEA is definitely disgusting, and that's what esteban meant. Some of the language he used was definitely OTT but why did it warrant a banning?

And Boston, yes esteban IS a virgin and has no qualms saying it.

estebancambias

Cheers Dudess.

Andy Pandy wrote: ''whats the point of being naked in bed with someone if ya cant lick them and suck them and touch them in the way you want''

I responded by saying ''you obviously have no respect for the person your with' Now in fairness I had a point, although it was out of line, like really how do I know? I said true love is just simply being happy around the person you love, there should be no physical gain needed.My exact quote:


Love is not physical, it is simply a deep feeling of joy. Just being with the one you love should be enough.

Dudess

estebancambias wrote: »

Andy Pandy wrote: ''whats the point of being naked in bed with someone if ya cant lick them and suck them and touch them in the way you want''

I agree 100%

I responded by saying ''you obviously have no respect for the person your with' Now in fairness I had a point, although it was out of line, like really how do I know? I said true love is just simply being happy around the person you love, there should be no physical gain needed.My exact quote:


Love is not physical, it is simply a deep feeling of joy. Just being with the one you love should be enough.

I disagree. When you're in love with a person, expressing that physically is one of the most amazing things you can do, and oral sex is very much part of such profound intimacy. But as I said before, the idea of oral sex - outside of the above context - is disgusting. If/when you fall in love, you will feel differently and you will disassociate what you find disgusting about the act alone, from the person with whom you fall in love - unless you refuse to allow yourself.

But I'd be surprised if anyone found it enjoyable performing fellatio on a random person they're not especially attracted to when sober.

I also think though, that you don't necessarily have to be in love with someone - you might just be majorly physically attracted them. In that context, enjoying giving oral sex is perfectly understandable too.

Boston

Dudess wrote: »

There are times when I'm actually reeling from some of the sh*t esteban posts (where on earth does an 18-year-old guy GET this stuff from?!) but I don't understand this banning at all. He finds the idea of oral sex disgusting. A lot of people do - I did when I was younger. Yep, sucking the organ that urine comes from and then a load of gooey fluid landing on your face - great fun. Of course I realised later it depends on the person you're with, but the IDEA is definitely disgusting, and that's what esteban meant. Some of the language he used was definitely OTT but why did it warrant a banning?

He wasn't banned for the opinion, he was banned because he replied to someones personal account stating it made him feel like puking.

And Boston, yes esteban IS a virgin and has no qualms saying it.

Oh righty then.

estebancambias

Ok, lets say I agree with you about oral sex being a major part of a true loving relationship, but outline the 'whats the point' in Andy-Pandy's quote. I did not mean that you should not have oral sex if your in a true loving relationship, just that it really should not matter if it is part of it or not.

estebancambias

I responsed to le rack, I found the wording of the post disgusting.

leninbenjamin

Dudess wrote: »

There are times when I'm actually reeling from some of the sh*t esteban posts (where on earth does an 18-year-old guy GET this stuff from?!) but I don't understand this banning at all.

Esteban is a troll... he's had enough run ins with mods to have figured out by now that he needs to tone it down a bit. I mean in that thread, he made his point, there was absolutely now need to keep hammering home the point... it wasn't a discussion it was just him saying no, no, no repeatedly.
ban deserved.

David Michael

leninbenjamin wrote: »

Esteban is a troll... he's had enough run ins with mods to have figured out by now that he needs to tone it down a bit. I mean in that thread, he made his point, there was absolutely now need to keep hammering home the point... it wasn't a discussion it was just him saying no, no, no repeatedly.
ban deserved.

In fairness a few people have suggested he/she is a Troll. No real proof. He/She could just be young with morals/thoughts that a lot of people disagree with.

Luckily Tails is no longer an Smod just to ban him or her on the popular thought.

FruitLover

estebancambias wrote: »

true love is just simply being happy around the person you love, there should be no physical gain needed

10 out of 10 for rose-tinted optimism, but let's see how you feel about that when you're a grown-up.

(Plus actually had sex)

David Michael

FruitLover wrote: »

10 out of 10 for rose-tinted optimism, but let's see how you feel about that when you're a grown-up.

(Plus actually had sex)

Are you all grown up?

I have some questions...

:rolleyes:

Talliesin

estebancambias is probably a troll, but not definitely. He could just be a pervert. Now, I'm cool with perverts posting in PI from their own perverted point of view, given that I'm a pervert who does this all the time.

But, there is a considerable difference between posting from ones own point of view, and flaming others for not sharing their particular kink.

estebancambias

FruitLover wrote: »

10 out of 10 for rose-tinted optimism, but let's see how you feel about that when you're a grown-up.

(Plus actually had sex)

Well I hope that the person I have sex with will be the one I will be eternally happy with.


Let me assure you Esteban is no troll.

leninbenjamin

estebancambias wrote: »

Let me assure you Esteban is no troll.

before reading through that thread on PI i would have actually given you the benefit of the doubt, but having read through it and seen the context and extent of your postings I'm now convinced you are. you completely derail the thread past the point of rescue, and offer the OP no advice whatsoever, so you shouldn't have even been posting frankly.

Terry

estebancambias wrote: »

Well I hope that the person I have sex with will be the one I will be eternally happy with.


Let me assure you Esteban is no troll.

You basically insulted Le Rack in a lame attempt to garner more votes for yourself in the "Muppet of the year" poll.

Seeing that it is a close run contest between both of you, you decided to up the ante and insult her.

Or...
You thought that by insulting her in the manner that you did, you would gain support for yourself and garner less votes for yourself.

Either way, you were deliberatley trolling.

SimpleSam06

FlutterinBantam

Estaban,are you challenged in some way or something.

Don't act the bollix on PI.

You don't fool me and you obviously didn't fool Victor.

estebancambias

SimpleSam06 wrote: »

Surely that could be considered trolling..

estebancambias

Insult minorities? My grandparents are Jewish from Ukraine.

SimpleSam06

estebancambias wrote: »

Surely that could be considered trolling..

You would know, wouldn't you?

Xavi6

estebancambias wrote: »

Insult minorities? My grandparents are Jewish from Ukraine.

Innocent by association? So I couldn't ever possibly be racist cause I had a black lad in my class in school.

MrJoeSoap

estebancambias wrote: »

Insult minorities? My grandparents are Jewish from Ukraine.

Did you troll them with your Christian views too?

FruitLover

Xavi6 wrote: »

I had a black lad in my class in school

If your lad turns black again, you need to lay off the low-fives for a few days. That's one part you don't want getting gangrene and dropping off.

Jesus Wept

estebancambias wrote: »

Insult minorities? My grandparents are Jewish from Ukraine.

What's the definition of minorities?

There are loads of Jewish people.
There are almost 50 million people in Ukraine.

Maybe we are all minorities.