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Atheism and Depression

  • 04-10-2007 12:56PM
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    Closed Accounts Posts: 25,848 ✭✭✭✭Zombrex


    PDN in the Christian forum mentioned that when he comes on to this forum he finds that most of us seem rather depressed, and seem to view life as meaningless and pointless.

    While I didn't want to speak for everyone, I said that I didn't find that at all. Quite the opposite, most people here seem to have a lust for life and the wonder of nature that I don't find in religious people.

    I thought I would get some opinions.

    Are people here generally depressed (you can be honest) or do people see life as meaningless?

    To get the ball rolling, while I find the idea of dying rather depressing. But other than that I don't find my atheism depressing.

    (by the way this isn't mean to be a "Oh those silly Christians saying we are all miserable again" type thread. If someone genuinely feels that atheism leads them to be depressed I would be interested in discussing this)


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,905 ✭✭✭Rob_l


    I dont know about depression in athetists but i do know those we a deep religious belief do have longer life spans as well as a a seeming greater chance of recovery from serious illness


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 25,848 ✭✭✭✭Zombrex


    Rob_l wrote:
    I dont know about depression in athetists but i do know those we a deep religious belief do have longer life spans as well as a a seeming greater chance of recovery from serious illness

    While that is interesting, I suggest we try and keep this to atheism, since even if theism offers benefits, believing in a particular God isn't really an option for most atheists here, since we don't pick atheism, it picks us (ie I couldn't believe in God even if I wanted to). I'm more looking for the negatives of atheism, rather than the positives of any particular religion.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,955 ✭✭✭donaghs


    Rob_l wrote:
    I dont know about depression in athetists but i do know those we a deep religious belief do have longer life spans as well as a a seeming greater chance of recovery from serious illness

    It may indeed be down to having a strong faith, and the power of positive thinking.

    I feel more cheerful already knowing that Osama Bin Laden, Tomás de Torquemada, and other fanatics of past, present and future have the improved health benefits of their oh so strong faith;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,028 ✭✭✭Hellm0


    The negative side of atheism only becomes aparent when it is accepted without an understanding of the greater philosophy your aligning yourself with when you deny the existance of a god. People who beleive in religion have no existential concerns as dogma and scripture provide all the "proof" they need to go on with their lives and so they never need to ask the tougher questions(and thereby deal with the lack of supposed answers).

    Basically an athiest has two options, to beleive that the existential questions before them are answerable(in which case a personal view of where one stands in the universe must be formulated, which is a tough thing to do) or they are not(these are the happier athiests ;) )

    Its the difference between being spoon fed(religion) and learning to use a knife and fork(athiesm with philosophy), atheism without philosophy of course being the equivilant of someone who eats with their hands.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,283 ✭✭✭✭Scofflaw


    PDN wrote:
    Actually when I wander into your forum I genuinely wonder why (with a few exceptions) most of you seem to find the world so depressing and meaningless. Maybe the posters on these boards are unrepresentative (I would be worried if the posters in the Christianity forum genuinely represented the Church ), but a lot of people on the A&A forum do come across as rather depressed. The only smiling or humour seems to be when they find somebody else they can mock.

    It's very much a tabloid assertion. It contains a smear, and one which is vague enough to withstand any amount of contradiction - a bit like saying "I have this feeling that PDN is a repressed paedophile".

    Short of posters actually saying "I suffer from depression" I cannot see how it would be possible for PDN, or anyone, to tell that any poster here is depressed. It is certainly not possible to confirm or deny such a charge. If we all immediately respond that we're perfectly happy, it looks like we are protesting too much. If we bring up research showing that atheists in general are either happier, or as happy, as the general population, PDN is covered by "maybe the posters on these boards are unrepresentative".

    However, for quite a lot of the Christians on these boards, I suspect that the A&A posters constitute close to 100% of the atheists they know - so this little smear has the effect of making it appear that atheists in general are more likely to be depressed.

    That leaves us with the question of whether PDN is being honest or not. If he is, given that there is no way to tell whether a poster is actually more depressive than general, it can only be that he is seeing what he expects to see - something that rather gives the lie to his regular claims of open-mindedness.

    cordially,
    Scofflaw


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  • Moderators, Arts Moderators Posts: 10,590 Mod ✭✭✭✭5uspect


    What gave PDN that impression? (Edit: thanks Scofflaw)

    I wouldn't consider myself depressed at all. While I go through the highs and lows that come with life I'm generally quite happy and upbeat about life.

    Looking at how my non belief in gods affects this I might see how PDN might consider us all to be depressed. I find the extent of religiosity and its affects on the majority of people frustrating but I wouldn't equate this frustration with depression.

    On a personal level the knowledge that I'm very, very lucky to be be here living a life that is very likely an improbable event makes me appreciate life for as fleeting a moment as it is.

    Silly Christians :p


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,905 ✭✭✭Rob_l


    Wicknight wrote:
    While that is interesting, I suggest we try and keep this to atheism, since even if theism offers benefits, believing in a particular God isn't really an option for most atheists here, since we don't pick atheism, it picks us (ie I couldn't believe in God even if I wanted to). I'm more looking for the negatives of atheism, rather than the positives of any particular religion.


    but surely if having a belief has positive effects then the non-believer should surely suffer negative affects.

    I.e mental heatlth issues can in many cases stem from actual real illnesses and also mental issues can in many cases bring on actual physical sickness.

    as in the old saying healthy body healthy mind


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,283 ✭✭✭✭Scofflaw


    Rob_l wrote:
    but surely if having a belief has positive effects then the non-believer should surely suffer negative affects.

    I.e mental heatlth issues can in many cases stem from actual real illnesses and also mental issues can in many cases bring on actual physical sickness.

    as in the old saying healthy body healthy mind

    Not at all. It is quite possible, for a start, that any strong belief has those effects, whether it is a theistic belief, a political belief, or self-belief - or indeed that the kind of people who have strong belief also have that characteristics.

    Also, I think you are referring to this kind of survey:
    MSNBC wrote:
    Want to make it to 100? You've got to have faith
    Survey: Very old say spirituality, hard work, good diet source of long life

    Updated: 3:00 p.m. ET Aug 10, 2006
    BOSTON - Faith and spirituality were cited most often by people over the age of 100 as the source of their longevity, according to a survey sponsored by a unit of UnitedHealth Group.

    In a survey of 100 people between the ages of 100 and 104, 23 percent said faith rather than genes and good medical care were responsible for their long life.

    Other factors given included hard work, a healthy diet and living a good, clean life.

    Sixty-one percent of those surveyed said there was nothing they would have done more of in their lives and 78 percent said there is nothing they would have done less.

    About 13 percent said they wished they had traveled more, 9 percent said they wished they had worked less and 6 percent said they wished they had spent more time with their families.

    Can you tell me why this doesn't support your conclusions?

    cordially,
    Scofflaw


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,021 ✭✭✭Hivemind187


    Depressed? Because I have no need to believe in superstitions? Do me a lemon!

    Personally, I am happy in my hedonism thank you. I need no spiritual cross-guard to keep me in line or to soothe my bruises.

    While I can see a correlation between higher intellect and a greater propensity towards "blue periods" I can see no such correlation between religion (or belief in God) and feeling better about the world or my personal circumstances.

    Besides, shedding the blinkers of faith allows you to see the true beauties and miracles of the universe (miracles used in a poetic intonation). From the massive cosmic bodies to the intricate arrangements of molecules in DNA these things give me a sense of wonder and joy.

    At the end of the day, I find the idea of death depressing only in that I will cease to know, learn, discover, experience and enjoy. the event itself is largely irrelevant


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,283 ✭✭✭✭Scofflaw


    Depressed? Because I have no need to believe in superstitions? Do me a lemon!

    Personally, I am happy in my hedonism thank you. I need no spiritual cross-guard to keep me in line or to soothe my bruises.

    Yes, it's kind of curious the way that Christians like to claim that atheists reject God in order to live hedonistic lifestyles (well, until we get married, anyway), and are also unhappier than Christians.

    It's a bit like wartime propaganda, where the enemy is simultaneously vast, powerful, menacing, and ridiculous, stupid and bound for defeat.

    cordially,
    Scofflaw


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,905 ✭✭✭Rob_l


    Scofflaw wrote:


    Can you tell me why this doesn't support your conclusions?

    cordially,
    Scofflaw

    i dont see hwo this doesn't support me :confused:


  • Posts: 81,310 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Jazlynn Slow Spout


    Wicknight wrote:
    PDN in the Christian forum mentioned that when he comes on to this forum he finds that most of us seem rather depressed, and seem to view life as meaningless and pointless.
    lol?
    I find the christians miserable. Not pdn, but some of the others definitely.
    And some seem to think there's no point to living and it all starts when you die. And that they're worthless horrible sinners.
    No thanks.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,021 ✭✭✭Hivemind187


    Scofflaw wrote:
    Yes, it's kind of curious the way that Christians like to claim that atheists reject God in order to live hedonistic lifestyles (well, until we get married, anyway), and are also unhappier than Christians.

    It's a bit like wartime propaganda, where the enemy is simultaneously vast, powerful, menacing, and ridiculous, stupid and bound for defeat.

    cordially,
    Scofflaw

    What gets me is many of the creationists, ID proponents and theists out there have actually read 1984 and yet dont bat an eyelid when the phrazes "Doublethink" and "Blackwhite" and "cognitive dissonance" are used to explain their arguments.

    Another thing that bothers me about it is the assumption that "hedonism" is some how a bad or sinful thing. Surely an appetite for life, ALL OF LIFE, should be the ultimate in compliaments to a creator ... that one would use all of his "gift" to its greatest extent.

    But I digress ...


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 25,617 Mod ✭✭✭✭Dades


    I can see how for someone with real faith, having no belief might appear to be a bleak lifestyle choice.

    So maybe it's simply that this notion has been subliminally 'projected' onto unbelievers, as it would be abhorrent to them not to believe.

    Other than that I believe happiness is dictated by how your life unfolds and how you accept what's thrown at you, not what you believe.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,283 ✭✭✭✭Scofflaw


    Rob_l wrote:
    i dont see hwo this doesn't support me :confused:

    "In a survey of 100 people between the ages of 100 and 104, 23 percent said faith rather than genes and good medical care were responsible for their long life."

    First, it is meaningless to cite why people feel they have lived a long life as evidence of why they really lived a long life. They may be wrong.

    If you asked a sample of Christians without, say, cystic fibrosis, why they felt they didn't have cystic fibrosis, many of them will ascribe it to their faith, or to God - but if both parents have the necessary defective gene, the person will have cystic fibrosis, and if not, not.

    Second, even if the centenarians were correct in their assertion that their personal faith has been a contributory factor in their personal longevity, it is impossible to tell whether that is applicable as a general rule, since it is not possible to interview people who have already died. The "survey" suffers from what is called "survivorship bias".

    Primitive peoples often have 'battle fetishes' which protect them in battle. You cannot shake their faith in their fetishes even after a battle in which many of them have died - because those who survive will point out that their fetishes worked, and that, self-evidently, the fetishes of those who died didn't work.

    cordially,
    Scofflaw


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,983 ✭✭✭Red Hand


    I find life pretty meaningless alot of the time, and yeah, I'm an atheist, and have been since childhood. But that would be down to me not doing enough to find meaning in my life.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,021 ✭✭✭Hivemind187


    I find life pretty meaningless alot of the time, and yeah, I'm an atheist, and have been since childhood. But that would be down to me not doing enough to find meaning in my life.

    Of course stating that implies that their should be a meaning to find in life! Where this imperative for life to have more meaning than existance itself comes from is a question that, I feel, should be asked more readily.

    On the other hand, if it makes you feel good to do it then more power to you.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,983 ✭✭✭Red Hand


    I didn't mean finding a meaning to life, I meant finding meaning in life. There is a huge difference. Meaning to life implies that there is or should be a solution.

    What I meant was meaning in someone's life. For instance someone getting joy from having a family, or following a passion such as music or theatre. What I meant was passion/meaning in life, not a meaning to life.

    Victor Frankl's Man's Search for Meaning should be read. Part of it is about him spending time in a concentration camp as a young man during WW2 and how, as a Jewish Doctor, he saw some people having such a will to live (people who managed to find meaning in life) and others, be they atheist or somewhat religious, not displaying as much vitality. He himself saw the goal of publishing a text he had written as being some of the meaning in his life that gave him hope.


  • Moderators, Arts Moderators Posts: 10,590 Mod ✭✭✭✭5uspect


    What gets me is many of the creationists, ID proponents and theists out there have actually read 1984 and yet dont bat an eyelid when the phrazes "Doublethink" and "Blackwhite" and "cognitive dissonance" are used to explain their arguments.

    Thats because Ocenania is an Atheist superstate silly!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,905 ✭✭✭Rob_l


    Scofflaw wrote:
    "In a survey of 100 people between the ages of 100 and 104, 23 percent said faith rather than genes and good medical care were responsible for their long life."

    First, it is meaningless to cite why people feel they have lived a long life as evidence of why they really lived a long life. They may be wrong.

    If you asked a sample of Christians without, say, cystic fibrosis, why they felt they didn't have cystic fibrosis, many of them will ascribe it to their faith, or to God - but if both parents have the necessary defective gene, the person will have cystic fibrosis, and if not, not.

    Second, even if the centenarians were correct in their assertion that their personal faith has been a contributory factor in their personal longevity, it is impossible to tell whether that is applicable as a general rule, since it is not possible to interview people who have already died. The "survey" suffers from what is called "survivorship bias".

    Primitive peoples often have 'battle fetishes' which protect them in battle. You cannot shake their faith in their fetishes even after a battle in which many of them have died - because those who survive will point out that their fetishes worked, and that, self-evidently, the fetishes of those who died didn't work.

    cordially,
    Scofflaw


    and 23 percent is a high enough portion to be taken into account and given some further thought
    Also I remember reading people who have strong religious beliefs also have increased chances of surviving operations and recovering. But this is off topic I was merely suggesting and as these are theories and you have no more answers than me to prove or disprove they shall remain so here.


    Awaiting your cordial response

    Rob


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,021 ✭✭✭Hivemind187


    I didn't mean finding a meaning to life, I meant finding meaning in life. There is a huge difference. Meaning to life implies that there is or should be a solution.

    What I meant was meaning in someone's life. For instance someone getting joy from having a family, or following a passion such as music or theatre. What I meant was passion/meaning in life, not a meaning to life.

    Victor Frankl's Man's Search for Meaning should be read. Part of it is about him spending time in a concentration camp as a young man during WW2 and how, as a Jewish Doctor, he saw some people having such a will to live (people who managed to find meaning in life) and others, be they atheist or somewhat religious, not displaying as much vitality. He himself saw the goal of publishing a text he had written as being some of the meaning in his life that gave him hope.

    Fair enough.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,283 ✭✭✭✭Scofflaw


    Rob_l wrote:
    and 23 percent is a high enough portion to be taken into account and given some further thought

    Alas, no - instead, it's completely meaningless. In fact, it's kind of doubly meaningless, first because it only examines what people "feel" to be important (on the day they answered the survey, and when answering surveys), second because the sample size is statistically worthless, third because of the survivorship bias.

    In order to find out whether having faith really makes you more likely to live longer, we would actually need to survey a significant sample of people with faith, and without, and compare their ages at death. If only 1% of people with strong faith make it past age 75, and 25% of people without it do, then it doesn't matter whether some portion of the 1% of people with strong faith go on to live past 100 - we can say with confidence that having strong is 99% likely to mean you'll die by 75.

    If none of this makes sense to you, consider this instead: if you asked a random sample of Americans (since these centenarians are American) how important faith is in their daily lives, and what part it plays in their 'daily blessings', you will find that the proportion is much higher than 23% - in other words, the percentage attribution of good fortune by centenarians to faith is actually much lower than in the general population. The survey, if it proved anything, would prove the opposite of what the article claims it does.

    cordially,
    Scofflaw


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,036 ✭✭✭Tim Robbins


    There are some people who think you should be happy all the time and if you are not there is something wrong with you.
    There are other people who think you should be happy some of the time, neutral some of the time and sad some of the time. I would be in this category.
    I think there is something wrong with you if when you find about things like Darfur, Burma etc. you do not feel sad. I also think, if you live in a little bubble and you don't know about these things, that is just another manifestation of selfish isolation and an absence of common humanity.
    So it's normal to feel sad, depressed regularly.

    I find some Christians and Atheist depressing, generally those who refuse to look at things from more than one perspective.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,188 ✭✭✭pH


    I think that PDN comes here looking for depressed atheists and finds them, I personally think this forum contains a lot of upbeat humour and (on its day) some reasonably intelligent debate.

    However according to this both strong atheists and devoutly religious seem to be less depressed than those two-minded fence-sitters - THE AGNOSTICS! :)

    So agnostics - be happier - live long - get off the fence!


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 25,617 Mod ✭✭✭✭Dades


    pH wrote:
    I personally think this forum contains a lot of upbeat humour and (on its day) some reasonably intelligent debate.
    And if the humour appears to be cynical or at the expense of some belief or other (e.g. agnostics ^^), it's only because it's usually in the context of the forum it's in...

    I tend to leave behind theological humour once I log out. ;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,082 ✭✭✭lostexpectation


    Wicknight wrote:
    PDN in the Christian forum mentioned that when he comes on to this forum he finds that most of us seem rather depressed, and seem to view life as meaningless and pointless.


    well he's more then a bit of condscending prick so what can we do?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,686 ✭✭✭✭PDN


    Wicknight wrote:
    PDN in the Christian forum mentioned that when he comes on to this forum he finds that most of us seem rather depressed, and seem to view life as meaningless and pointless.

    While I didn't want to speak for everyone, I said that I didn't find that at all. Quite the opposite, most people here seem to have a lust for life and the wonder of nature that I don't find in religious people.

    OK, let's put a bit of context into this little charade.

    My comments were in response to a wonderful little cameo that Wicknight had painted of Christians and Muslims visiting this forum and wandering around in stunned amazement at how happy you all are. :rolleyes:

    Therefore I shared my impression, that many (but not all) on this forum do come across as rather depressed. However, since this appears to be causing so much offence I will withdraw those remarks.

    Instead, may I say how much I enjoy the cheerfulness and zest for life that pervades all your postings. I come here almost every day knowing that I will encounter a ray of sunshine that brightens up my otherwise sad and cheerless life. Your good humour and spirit of generosity to those with whom you disagree is a constant inspiration to me. While it would seem unfair to make special reference to anyone, I must single out Zillah who always comes across as being a bundle of unmitigated joy. His cheerful optimism in the face of life's adversities reminds me of Timmy Cratchit. I can hear his little voice ringing out, "God bless us, every one."

    There. Will that make you happy? (Or rather, Will that cause your already ecstatic existences to just burst with excitement?).


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,369 ✭✭✭✭Zillah


    PDN wrote:
    I must single out Zillah who always comes across as being a bundle of unmitigated joy.

    Don't mistake a distaste for you and your circular brain as a distaste for life.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,283 ✭✭✭✭Scofflaw


    PDN wrote:
    OK, let's put a bit of context into this little charade.

    My comments were in response to a wonderful little cameo that Wicknight had painted of Christians and Muslims visiting this forum and wandering around in stunned amazement at how happy you all are. :rolleyes:

    Therefore I shared my impression, that many (but not all) on this forum do come across as rather depressed. However, since this appears to be causing so much offence I will withdraw those remarks.

    Instead, may I say how much I enjoy the cheerfulness and zest for life that pervades all your postings. I come here almost every day knowing that I will encounter a ray of sunshine that brightens up my otherwise sad and cheerless life. Your good humour and spirit of generosity to those with whom you disagree is a constant inspiration to me. While it would seem unfair to make special reference to anyone, I must single out Zillah who always comes across as being a bundle of unmitigated joy. His cheerful optimism in the face of life's adversities reminds me of Timmy Cratchit. I can hear his little voice ringing out, "God bless us, every one."

    There. Will that make you happy? (Or rather, Will that cause your already ecstatic existences to just burst with excitement?).

    Of course! So kind of you to come and reiterate your message in a more appropriate context with a heavy layer of sarcasm. Certainly gives a different meaning to "turn the other cheek".

    Still, you know what they say - the one constant factor in all your dysfunctional relationships is you.

    cordially,
    Scofflaw


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,686 ✭✭✭✭PDN


    Scofflaw wrote:
    Still, you know what they say - the one constant factor in all your dysfunctional relationships is you.

    Ah yes, on that at least we can agree.

    I am actually quite touched that so many atheists care enough about what I think to post in this thread. I wish my congregation were as concerned. :)


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