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asking a girl out..

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  • 22-07-2007 4:40pm
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    Timmy_d
    Closed Accounts Posts: 273 ✭✭


    ok started a job about 2 months ago,just weekends doing deliveries...debating whether to ask this girl out that works there,she seems really nice and we chat away(small talk) but at any one time i would only be talking to her for a max of 3 to 4 mins cause i gotta go n do me work...ANYWAY was leavin work today and said "see you next week" to which she replied "no im finished on wednesday" and im like **** cause i thought she would be there for the summer...how should i go about askin her out,will she think its weird as its so little time,would i ring the shop and ask to talk to her or what...dont wanna let this one go,if she says no feck it i asked her anyway....any ideas??


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    #2
    sprinkles
    Registered Users Posts: 4,510 ✭✭✭sprinkles


    it wouldn't be weird. Ring the place up and ask to speak with her. Just ask her seen as she's leaving on wednesday does she fancy going out for a few drinks or somethign to that effect..


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    Timmy_d
    Closed Accounts Posts: 273 ✭✭Timmy_d


    ya i guess whats there to lose


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    Necronomicon
    Registered Users Posts: 11,589 ✭✭✭✭Necronomicon


    Go for it. If she says no you'll never have to see her again! I met my current girlfriend at work, it wasn't until I left that I asked her out. The rest is history and all that.


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    OhNoYouDidn't
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,934 ✭✭✭OhNoYouDidn't


    you know the rules. we need to see a photo before we can decide. ;) get it posted.

    go for it tim. better to have had a crack than regret not doing anything.

    let us know how you get on.


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    biko
    Registered Users Posts: 81,223 ✭✭✭✭biko


    Don't ask her out - stay single.


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    Dirk Gently
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,784 ✭✭✭Dirk Gently


    Perfect situation tbh. If / when she turns you down you don't have to bury your head in shame and spend your time avoiding awkward moments in work.

    Not a good idea to go out with someone you work with anyway. This is a risk free endeavour, go for it.


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    Timmy_d
    Closed Accounts Posts: 273 ✭✭Timmy_d


    biko wrote:
    Don't ask her out - stay single.

    ya thats good advice biko haha,i dont think she even knows my name..oh well she will soon enough


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    Timmy_d
    Closed Accounts Posts: 273 ✭✭Timmy_d


    if she says ya will i ask her for her number or give her mine,stupid things going through my head


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    [Deleted User]
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    biko wrote:
    Don't ask her out - stay single.

    +1. When you're single, you can be as happy as you want but once you're in a relationship you can be as happy as the other is unhappy.


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    Zillah
    Registered Users Posts: 17,371 ✭✭✭✭Zillah


    "Nowadays people die of a sort of creeping common sense, and realise too late that the only thing one never regrets are one's mistakes" - Oscar Wilde.


    Go for it.


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    spooiirt!!
    Closed Accounts Posts: 482 ✭✭spooiirt!!


    If you ask her out, the millions of people that watch you constantly and scrutinise your every move will all laugh at you and make fun of you! I wouldnt do it if i were you, you could lose so much by taking this unecessary risk!


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    cooperguy
    Registered Users Posts: 2,650 ✭✭✭cooperguy


    Go for it. Call into the place if you can. You have to report back here tho:D


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    Niamho!
    Registered Users Posts: 1,060 ✭✭✭Niamho!


    Timmy_d wrote:
    if she says ya will i ask her for her number or give her mine,stupid things going through my head
    Ask for hers. coz IF you give her your number and she just so happens not to get in touch you'll kick yourself for not taking hers?


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    aequinoctium
    Closed Accounts Posts: 667 ✭✭✭aequinoctium


    why not go for it?


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    #16
    kristen
    Closed Accounts Posts: 21 ✭kristen


    Tell her you will miss her and say you would like to keep in touch. its a sure fire way of swapping phone numbers, when you have her number then you can ask her out in a more private setting.


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    FlutterinBantam
    Closed Accounts Posts: 14,576 ✭✭✭✭FlutterinBantam


    No... bad move.
    Don't do anything, just go home as normal and have a whak off in the kitchen.

    Better for your self belief.

    You will feel stronger after it... no rejection like.


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    aequinoctium
    Closed Accounts Posts: 667 ✭✭✭aequinoctium


    you can always do that after asking her .... regardless of the answer


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    ClareBear
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,616 ✭✭✭ClareBear


    Do it! Do ittttt!


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    Karoma
    Registered Users Posts: 19,396 ✭✭✭✭Karoma


    Do not x-post. http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2055124453

    This thread will not be re-opened so don't ask.


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