Pr*ck Teasing

Dudess

I suppose most of us girls are guilty of it to some extent - just by dressing up, wearing make-up etc, but what do guys think of those girls who act all "cutesie" and innocent and childish, yet at the same time mischievous and sex kitten-ish - basically just teasing for the sake of teasing. Do they not annoy the tits off you?! They're the kind of women that make me ashamed of my gender...

Aard

Yeah it's really annoying. It's even more annoying when you know the person doing it, and know that they're usually the soundest person going.

easyontheeye

i love it! i see it as a challenge!!

Terry

that crap doesn't work on me anymore.
any time a woman tries that sh!t with me, i'll be like...hey, woman. stop that crap and get in the kitchen and bake me a pie.

Cuddlesworth

julep wrote:

that crap doesn't work on me anymore.
any time a woman tries that sh!t with me, i'll be like...hey, woman. stop that crap and get in the kitchen and bake me a pie.

Who wants to put a vote up for how many pie's Julep has got?

Dudess

julep wrote:

that crap doesn't work on me anymore.
any time a woman tries that sh!t with me, i'll be like...hey, woman. stop that crap and get in the kitchen and bake me a pie.

And the response would be: "Hee hee! *fluttering eyelashes* You're a bad boy!"

X-SL

julep wrote:

that crap doesn't work on me anymore.
any time a woman tries that sh!t with me, i'll be like...hey, woman. stop that crap and get in the kitchen and bake me a pie.

that made me laugh. not as easy thing. well done

Terry

plagarism is always funny.

Basq

julep wrote:

plagarism is always funny.

Correct me if i'm wrong but South Park?

The Sweeper

Dudess wrote:

I suppose most of us girls are guilty of it to some extent - just by dressing up, wearing make-up etc, but what do guys think of those girls who act all "cutesie" and innocent and childish, yet at the same time mischievous and sex kitten-ish - basically just teasing for the sake of teasing. Do they not annoy the tits off you?! They're the kind of women that make me ashamed of my gender...

What makes me ashamed of my gender is people who suppose that dressing up and wearing makeup makes one guilty - to any extent at all - of "prick teasing".

Perhaps we should all wear hijabs so we don't give the poor men impure thoughts.

padi89

easyontheeye wrote:

i love it! i see it as a challenge!!

Read read the post mate.Its birds that go around teasing just for the sake of it, not the ones that are worth a challange.I cant stand the little b1tches, normally il just rip the piss out of them,they are normally the ones with no brain for a reply

Dudess

Minesajackdaniels wrote:

What makes me ashamed of my gender is people who suppose that dressing up and wearing makeup makes one guilty - to any extent at all - of "prick teasing".

Perhaps we should all wear hijabs so we don't give the poor men impure thoughts.

Well I only said that because someone pedantic might make the point that a girl looking sexy in the first place is a form of prick-teasing in itself - thus making me a hypocrite. I certainly love to dress up and make myself look good and I'm not saying for one second there's anything wrong with it.

Terry

basquille wrote:

Correct me if i'm wrong but South Park?

you are correct.
cartman referring to shelley's bullying of stan.

Minesajackdaniels wrote:

What makes me ashamed of my gender is people who suppose that dressing up and wearing makeup makes one guilty - to any extent at all - of "prick teasing".

Perhaps we should all wear hijabs so we don't give the poor men impure thoughts.

depends on the man who is looking at the woman.
some men think that a woman wearing make-up is game for anytihng.

i prefer the natural look myself, but that's just me.

The Sweeper

For most of the readers of After Hours, pretty much every goddamn thing they encounter in their waking and indeed their sleeping lives could be said to tease their pricks in one form or another. They don't need to be encouraged to think that women wanting to dress up and wear makeup is specifically for the purpose of teasing their pricks. (Fish. Barrel.)

eth0_

It's a sign of low self esteem - on the woman's part, I mean.

Kinetic^

eth0_ wrote:

It's a sign of low self esteem - on the woman's part, I mean.

And of being an a-hole too!!!!!!!!!!!!

Terry

Minesajackdaniels wrote:

For most of the readers of After Hours, pretty much every goddamn thing they encounter in their waking and indeed their sleeping lives could be said to tease their pricks in one form or another. They don't need to be encouraged to think that women wanting to dress up and wear makeup is specifically for the purpose of teasing their pricks. (Fish. Barrel.)

know your audience.

Dudess

Minesajackdaniels wrote:

For most of the readers of After Hours, pretty much every goddamn thing they encounter in their waking and indeed their sleeping lives could be said to tease their pricks in one form or another. They don't need to be encouraged to think that women wanting to dress up and wear makeup is specifically for the purpose of teasing their pricks. (Fish. Barrel.)

Well it certainly isn't done specifically for the purpose of prick-teasing. It's just that some might argue it is.

ToxicPaddy

I've saw this on many ocassions from many girls, flirting, teasing etc with guys in pubs usually to get a drink or just attention and then they walk away.

But as MAJD said why should all girls change what they wear or their behaviour because of it. Just cause there are a few childish idiot girls who think this "teasing" is fun, doesnt mean all should be thought of that way. Kind of tarring all with the same brush isnt it?

Dudess, dunno why you would even consider changing what you wear etc just cause of these idiots who act like that. Any guy with a bit of common sense will cop it within minutes and tell the girl in question where to go. I've told many a barbie doll, ditsy and childish tease where to go, as I'm sure many others guys on here have. Most call me a pr*ck etc, but I just have absolutely no time for that sort of thing.

Tox

Hail 2 Da Chimp

Minesajackdaniels wrote:

For most of the readers of After Hours, pretty much every goddamn thing they encounter in their waking and indeed their sleeping lives could be said to tease their pricks in one form or another. They don't need to be encouraged to think that women wanting to dress up and wear makeup is specifically for the purpose of teasing their pricks. (Fish. Barrel.)

So technically you're only posting in order to tease us men?!?

The Sweeper

I don't think Dudess was considering changing her apparel. I've just reacted badly to her opening line on this thread - I can't for the life of me think why she supposes we're all guilty of prick teasing to some extent.

Sir Digby Chicken Caesar

because you are.

if you ever made an effort to look good, walked in eye view of a man and you had no intention of sleeping with him.. you're a cock tease

i'm not saying you're a bad person for it.. but let's be realistic here.

it isn't hard to tease a cock.

The Sweeper

It's like, have you ever seen that comic strip - it's been made into a birthday card too. Little Susie and little Tommy.

Little Tommy: I have TEN marbles.
Little Susie: I have TEN beads.
Little Tommy: Yeah? Well I have two cakes.
Little Susie: Yeah? Well I have two sweets.
Little Tommy: [/shows off penis] I have one of these.
Little Susie: [/pauses to think, then lifts skirt] Yeah, well I've got one of these, and with one of these I can get as many of those as I want.

Dudess

Mordeth wrote:

because you are.

if you ever made an effort to look good, walked in eye view of a man and you had no intention of sleeping with him.. you're a cock tease

i'm not saying you're a bad person for it.. but let's be realistic here.

it isn't hard to tease a cock.

MAJD, I only said it because of the likelihood of posts like the one above. It's not that I agree with it.

Civilian_Target

Saw the nicest case of prick teasing I've seen in a good few years in the students union about 2 weeks ago. She was gorgeous and just wanted to dance (and holy hell, she could dance)

Nevyn

Dudess wrote:

I suppose most of us girls are guilty of it to some extent
- just by dressing up, wearing make-up etc,

What bollix if a person choose to go out wearing nothing but a biniki and a smile that does not make them a prick tease.
People wear clothes and make up to feel good about themsleves and to appear as they wish to not to merely wind up anyone who looks at them.

Dudess wrote:

I suppose most of us girls are guilty of it to some extent
- just by dressing up, wearing make-up etc,

That statement is very close to saying that girls/women are asking for it due to what they wear and that if they get raped or sexually assulated well then what did they expect wearing clothes like that.

Dudess wrote:

but what do guys think of those girls who act all "cutesie" and innocent and childish, yet at the same time mischievous and sex kitten-ish - basically just teasing for the sake of teasing.

Teasing or flirting ?

I never saw the point in dumbing down, smart is sexy too and anyone who feels they have to behave in that way I feel sorry for them and really what is the point of disrespecting the person you are talking to in such a fashion assuming they can't handle a woman with a brain.

Dudess wrote:

Do they not annoy the tits off you?! They're the kind of women that make me ashamed of my gender...

People who make stupid gender bases assumptions annoy the tits off me.
People who try define who or what a person should be based on gender annoy the tits off me.
People who say other people can't let themsevles down with out it following on that all people of that gender or grouping are the same annoy the tits off me.
People who say that feminism is dead and gone and not needed and that young women don't need good strong role models annoy the tits off me.
People who assume that I would there fore think that young men don't need good strong role models annoy the tits off me too.

Sluts and teases are modes of behaviour that both genders use and hopefully they grow out of it if they didnt' have the sense that it is not a good way to behave in the first place.

Zascar

I love it. Yes it may be a bit mean to kind of lead a guy on, but realistically I'd perfer that to no attention at all...

Dudess

Ok, I'm totally being taken up the wrong way. I wear short skirts, ****-me boots, low-cut tops and make-up when I go out. I'm not doing it with the intention of prick-teasing. I'm doing it because it makes me feel good about myself. Girls like the ones I've described piss me off. I only said what I said in the opening line as a sort of "disclaimer" for those who were bound to retort with "well, a girl who dresses up to look sexy in the first place is technically a prick tease". I realise now I shouldn't have bothered and I'm only reinforcing such attitudes, but that wasn't the intention.
I agree, Thaedydal, a girl can wear/not wear what the hell she wants. I've always thought that and I take great offence when people - particularly other women - refer to girls as sluts just because they are wearing revealing clothes.

Thaedydal wrote:

That statement is very close to saying that girls/women are asking for it due to what they wear and that if they get raped or sexually assulated well then what did they expect wearing clothes like that.

Please don't think that of me. It's exactly the kind of thinking that I rail against.

Nevyn

Mordeth wrote:

because you are.

if you ever made an effort to look good, walked in eye view of a man and you had no intention of sleeping with him.. you're a cock tease

i'm not saying you're a bad person for it.. but let's be realistic here.

it isn't hard to tease a cock.

Just cos a guy gets a hard on looking at a girl that does not mean she is responsible for it or any actions he takes as a result of it.

Your cock, your sex drive, your urges, your dirty toughts, your actions, your responsibilty.

Civilian_Target wrote:

Saw the nicest case of prick teasing I've seen in a good few years in the students union about 2 weeks ago. She was gorgeous and just wanted to dance (and holy hell, she could dance)

If she wanted to dance then fine, hell if she wanted to dance provocatily fine that does still not make her a prick tease or make her responsible for any of the actions they guys may take or what they think.

Really all 15 yearolds should be made watch or read the accused.
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0094608/

Terry

Thaedydal wrote:

People who try define who or what a person should be based on gender annoy the tits of me.

i'm a firm believer that only women should give birth and be mothers.

Tar.Aldarion

Would the gals here wear the same clothes and do themselves up like they do if all men hated it?
I would, maybe you would, I dress to make me happy, but for the most part, I don't think people would.



Anyway, imo, a prick tease is not a sexy girl, it's a sexy girl acting like a ****, begins with a c people.

Crucifix

julep wrote:

i'm a firm believer that only women should give birth and be mothers.

Don't you oppress me!

Nevyn

Crucifix wrote:

Don't you oppress me!

'Where's the fetus going to gestate ? in a box ?'

Behaviour such as being a tease or being slutty or sleazey isn't acceptible and we should say it to people and make it not acceptible thing to do.

Sam Vimes

Minesajackdaniels wrote:

What makes me ashamed of my gender is people who suppose that dressing up and wearing makeup makes one guilty - to any extent at all - of "prick teasing".

Perhaps we should all wear hijabs so we don't give the poor men impure thoughts.

well..... maybe you should*

we could all go around saying "oooo, look at the ankles on that one"








*that was a joke. for god's sake don't flame me. bans are also unnecessary.

Nevyn

There was a time when a woman flashing her ankles was consider indecent you only have to go back about 110 years.
That is why the cancan was so shocking as women showed off thier legs.

If enough people when spoken to or addressed by a tease or a sleaze called them on and said what do you think your are doing, if you dont respect yourself fair enough but don't disrespect me with your behaviour ' then they would learn.

Amazotheamazing

I think us guys do the same thing to girls, who among us hasn't half flirted with the nerd girl in the class to get notes, or ever totally flattered a girl in order to score her hotter friend? It's human nature.

Setun

Thaedydal wrote:

People who make stupid gender bases assumptions annoy the tits off me.
People who try define who or what a person should be based on gender annoy the tits off me.
People who say other people can't let themsevles down with out it following on that all people of that gender or grouping are the same annoy the tits off me.
People who say that feminism is dead and gone and not needed and that young women don't need good strong role models annoy the tits off me.
People who assume that I would there fore think that young men don't need good strong role models annoy the tits off me too.

Well that's taking it waaaaaaaay too far. You need to lighten up.

OnTopic: Yes, Prickteases <and by that I mean the type to obviously seem interested, then feck off to the next bloke or whatever right after> are annoying.
I'm sure the opposite exists aswell, from the female point of view.

Terry

Daddio wrote:

Well that's taking it waaaaaaaay too far. You need to lighten up.

OnTopic: Yes, Prickteases <and by that I mean the type to obviously seem interested, then feck off to the next bloke or whatever right after> are annoying.
I'm sure the opposite exists aswell, from the female point of view.

only when i leave my house.

Kernel

Thaedydal wrote:

What bollix if a person choose to go out wearing nothing but a biniki and a smile that does not make them a prick tease.

Ah now that's not really true thaed. I mean, if a girl were to go out in a bikini, underwear, slutty Jodie Marsh dress etc. Then it's because they want men to look at them in a sexual way, and want some cock-time from Kernel.

As for prick teasers, hey, they're fine, I get my cheap thrill from them teasing, they get some attention.

Baggly

what is your definition of a cock tease thaedydal?

unless i missed it above.

Dave!

Daddio wrote:

Well that's taking it waaaaaaaay too far. You need to lighten up.

Agreed!

I don't mind so-called pr*ck-teases. It's just a bit of fun. I won't be goin home and cutting my wrists because I can't have some hot girl (well... depends how hot).

Nevyn

Kernel wrote:

Ah now that's not really true thaed. I mean, if a girl were to go out in a bikini, underwear, slutty Jodie Marsh dress etc. Then it's because they want men to look at them in a sexual way, and want some cock-time from Kernel.

As for prick teasers, hey, they're fine, I get my cheap thrill from them teasing, they get some attention.

It's not what they wear it is how they behave is the point being made.

Kintarō Hattori

Thaedydal wrote:

It's not what they wear it is how they behave is the point being made.

Absolutely. Women should be allowed wear what they want. It's their behaviour that defines what they are.

Kernel

Thaedydal wrote:

It's not what they wear it is how they behave is the point being made.

Nope, what they wear has a lot to do with it. I've seen many a bird wearing an outfit that suggests total slapper - and they love the attention from men. Prick teasers. But as I say, it doesn't bother me.

Kintarō Hattori

Kernel wrote:

Nope, what they wear has a lot to do with it.

That says alot about your mentality Kernel. Your generalising.

JC 2K3

julep wrote:

i'm a firm believer that only women should give birth and be mothers.

http://www.malepregnancy.com/

3greenrizla's

it's always nice when a pretty lady smiles your way, dose no harm in the world.:)

but, there are some girls out there who use their charns to go out look all pretty & have thier night oit paid for by hapless fellas





some people on this thread need to lighten up a bit though

turbot

Thaedydal wrote:

Just cos a guy gets a hard on looking at a girl that does not mean she is responsible for it or any actions he takes as a result of it.

Your cock, your sex drive, your urges, your dirty toughts, your actions, your responsibilty.

If she wanted to dance then fine, hell if she wanted to dance provocatily fine that does still not make her a prick tease or make her responsible for any of the actions they guys may take or what they think.

I think this view is:

- niave
- convenient for females who don't want to take responsibility for the effects of their behaviour
- disrespectful of men and male sexuality
- partially dishonest
- totally sexist

Are you insulted? I hope so.

And by your logic, your reaction, your inner response, is entirely your responsibility. By your logic, if you are angry or provoked in any way, then I'm not responsible, in anyway, whatsoever.

At the same time, ask yourself, have I participated in stimulating this reaction within you?


I remember reading an article, by an irish (female) journalist, about a guy in the states who taught men how to pick up women, and she was very critical of it, and any men who might take such a course, and towards the end of the article, alluded to wanting men to just be like the guys described in mills and boon novels.

And yet, every womens magazine is riddled with advice for looking good and make up. Most women are much more exposed to finer details of how to induce attraction *and* many expect the guy to make most of the moves.

I think many women, subconciously, collectively conspire to make it so guys are less skilled in understanding how to turn them on, than more. It's not very often a hot girl will tell her "nice guy" friend he needs to be more of a "bad guy". She'll often just enjoy the convenient attention.

More than this, women conspire to optimise their sexiness. This goes way beyond what is obvious (to a guy), and literally includes how to put on make up for every occassion, like precise guidance on what make up works if you are having a candle lit dinner, in a house with red wallpaper.

The girl I share my apartment with is hot, and gets loads of attention from all kinds of men (and women). And at the same time, before she goes out, she'll quiz me on what looks good and what looks best, down the combination of belt / shoes / scarf / handbag... She'll often spend at least an hour getting ready.


In this, I recognise women orient a lot of their lives around looking good, and making themselves look sexy and get attention from men. Some even have plastic surgery, and I suspect that more women have plastic surgery than men. Many women go way beyond this, and I know several who describe how they go to a club, purposely get a guys attention, and play a personal game wherein at the point where they know they can have him, they ignore him and play the game with another guy.

Assuming they are heterosexual, these same women are (unspokenly) delighted if a male they fancy is interested. But guys who respond and react too easily, piss them off.

The reason, Thaedydal, I think your viewpoint is niave is because many women thrive on the attention they get from men, and actively orient their lives around how to get the attention they want.

I don't think there is anything wrong with this, yet, it's unfair on men to say that men are totally responsible for their behaviour and reactions to these women, when these women make a lifestyle out of conspiring how to elicit the desired reaction from the men, as part of a social power game, to give that same female maximum choice in the men she can be with.

Look at the pictures on myspace, and ask yourself, what proportion of women optimise their sexiness? Why else are they conscious of using photos that make them look good?

It's important to acknowledge that when women do this, they'll also get attention from less desired men.

Many of these women boost their egos by teasing the guys who desire them, and turn them on and only when this leads to male behaviour they are bothered by, do they complain.

Some women will flirt with a guy, get him to buy her a drink, then walk away, ignore him and sometimes even brand him a loser.

Strippers make money by calibrating what turns guys on.

Women aren't innocent victims in all these scenarios. Many men are just as much victim of women who *purposely exploit* a guys sexual responses to control them and (mid)direct them to their own ends, as many women are victim of unsolicited advances from guys. Very few gorgeous women, faced with a challenging situation, won't use their attractive charms to help turn it their way.

This is about sexual power.

Thus, women need to be responsible for their participation in such things as much as men do.


So Thaedydal, if I walk up to you, and hurl insults of a profound and personal nature, there is a reasonable chance you'll retalliate or respond. You might react verbally. Some women will react violently. You might even find me more interesting for it.

By your logic, I shouldn't be responsible for your reaction whatsoever, regardless of the stimuli I put in front of you.

"Your eyes, your ears, your reactions, your responsibility."

Now, lets say I happen to represent your sexual fantasy, and happen to be the kind of guy (looks, attitude, personality) you secretly think about when "annoying" men are making the wrong moves. To put it simply, the kind of guy who really turns you on.

If I happen to be in front of you, and you notice, there is a good chance you will actively conspire to get my attention, by flirting with me, twiddling your hair, or brushing past me, and if you were to do such things and I'm not into you, is it more graceful for me to appreciate you compliment you've shown me behaviourally, or to get annoyed and to tell you to **** off?

You see, communication is a loop. You participate in the reactions of people around you. You share some responsibility in how you interact, and bear some responsibility for the reactions of the people you encounter.

So women, be responsible for your participation in a guys reactions. This is not just about what you do in the moment. It's about how you prepare for those moments in the make up and hairstyles and sexy clothes.

You're entitled to be treated respectfully, but if you dance like a stripper in a niteclub, don't be surprised if guys play along with the game you are participating in, because whether or not you realise it, *you are playing a game* of attraction and sexual power.

um7y1h83ge06nx

Turbot, that's a good post but tough reading for a Monday morning!

I sometimes get the pr!ck tease who is just fishing for a drink. When she asks for one, I just say "Yes of course, but you must do one thing foe me first"

When she asks what, whisper in her ear and say "Could you give me a good blow job?"

Then see her get all p!ssed off!

Oriel

Dudess wrote:

by dressing up, wearing make-up etc

It doesn't stop the most of them from being fat and ugly. We can see through it all deary...
Anyway, these same girls are the ones sitting sobbing in the corner for weeks after they've been raped on their way home.

Surrender

Dudess wrote:

I suppose most of us girls are guilty of it to some extent - just by dressing up, wearing make-up etc, but what do guys think of those girls who act all "cutesie" and innocent and childish, yet at the same time mischievous and sex kitten-ish - basically just teasing for the sake of teasing. Do they not annoy the tits off you?! They're the kind of women that make me ashamed of my gender...

And the problem is...
Am I missing something here, if I meet a woman like that... Happy days:D .
Chr**t , what do ye want?