Stupid young man

unreg54756987

Ok, going unreg for this one. Pretty girl, all dressed up knocks on boys door and asks him if he wanted to go for a walk. Boy says yes. Out for at least 2 hours, spent about 20mins of that sitting on the beach. Pretty girl drops ALL the signs she likes boy (I think), but boy does NOT go in for kiss.

Result: boy feels stupid, and pissed off with himself, but will get to see girl again on Monday.

Boy knows girl likes him, but fails to make a move.

Does girl think this is "cute" and expect boy to finally make a move next chance on monday? or does girl think it's funny, and lose interest in boy?

Help, advice, etc... wanted.

Boy feels like an idiot and is 80% she is disappointed now.

Squirrel

unreg54756987 wrote:

Ok, going unreg for this one. Pretty girl, all dressed up knocks on boys door and asks him if he wanted to go for a walk. Boy says yes. Out for at least 2 hours, spent about 20mins of that sitting on the beach. Pretty girl drops ALL the signs she likes boy, but boy does NOT go in for kiss.

Result: boy feels stupid, and pissed off with himself, but will get to see girl again on Monday.

Boy knows girl likes him, but fails to make a move.

Does girl think this is "cute" and expect boy to finally make a move next chance on monday? or does girl think it's funny, and lose interest in boy?

Help, advice, etc... wanted.

Boy feels like an idiot and is 100% she is disappointed now.

Text here, ring her something. Tell her you want to meet up tomorrow and if young man does like her young man should tell her, try to avoid saying it in a phone call unless nessecary, say it to her face.

Try and meet up with her tomorrow and tell her, or show her the thread if you can and say tell her how stupid you feel.

Oh yeah, I have been in this situation before, it worked itself out for a while then she lost interest

iFight

Call for her tomorrow, should all work out fine

unreg54756987

Girl txts stupid young man about 15minutes after arriving home, says thanks for going out for a walk with her, and leaves loadsa xxxxx (which is ironic really) boy replies that he really enjoyed talkin to her, and is sry for being so shy. Girl says dont worry, it's cool blah blah, and boy writes back that he still feels stupid, but looks forward to seeing her again on monday? boy still waiting on reply.

iFight

smoooooooooooooooooooth...;) LOL

unreg54756987

iFight

unreg54756987 wrote:

I wasnt saying you ruined it btw....You did fine

TempestSabre

Such a nice story. Hope it all works out.

unreg54756987

Girl texts back and asks why boy feels stupid, (as if she doesnt know) also says course were still on for monday, makes a smiley face with cleaver use of symbols, and leaves more x's.

should boy write back? and if he should, what would one boy say?

0utshined

If she's at home now and you're at home now are you both heading out somewhere tonight?

unreg54756987

0utshined wrote:

If she's at home now and you're at home now are you both heading out somewhere tonight?

no, and just to confirm, boy 18, girl 16. (is that ok? I always thought gap was big, but when pretty girl knocks on door things change) So girl cant go out anyway.

Ciaran500

I'm jealous

unreg54756987

of what? silly boy?

anyone know what boy should write back to last message???

Ciaran500

Having a girl that likes me

0utshined

Oh ok, well that gap is not as big as you think it is.

Def text her back but ignore the whole "Stupid" thing. Just tell her you're looking forward to Monday and you'll see her then. Really from what you've told us she would seem to be in to you so don't stress it.

unreg54756987

mmm... ok, but wont me avoiding the question only make is more difficult come monday? i still aint replied..

up for anything

By asking you why you feel stupid when as you say she already knows she is seeking some confirmation that you feel something for her because even if she k nows you fancy her, she may now feel unsure about it because you didn't make a move. God, that's complicated. Give her a wee bit more than looking forward to seeing you Monday. She is young and won't be inwardly confident about why you didn't kiss her even if she makes out to be.

Have you sent her any xxxx's back? If you haven't do.:)

up for anything

I may be out of the ark and this may be a really, really weird, old-fashioned, off-the-wall idea but why don't you phone her and say something like, "I just wanted to hear your voice again." Give both yourself and her a reason to go to sleep with pleased grins on your faces.:D

unreg54756987

Keep the advice coming please!! I wanna txt her back before 12 so she really doesnt think im not interested! (she deffo knows i am though) a few more ideas would help me out! but thanks so far guys.

0utshined

up for anything wrote:

I may be out of the ark and this may be a really, really weird, old-fashioned, off-the-wall idea but why don't you phone her and say something like, "I just wanted to hear your voice again." Give both yourself and her a reason to go to sleep with pleased grins on your faces.:D

Yeah probably this. Best of luck dude.

unreg54756987

Sounds a bit to cheesy coming from someone who didnt even kiss her though!!!

0utshined

yeah, but the point is just ring her rather than text.

unreg54756987

Boy just txted her, thought it would be a bit wierd ringing her ( i rang her ealier before we went for walk anyway) I will prolly end up talkin to her again tomorrow, and we are goin out on monday anyway It's soo frustrating though Boy can smell her off his clothes, but didnt even kiss her!

Oh well, boy will keep his fellow boardies posted. Wish boy luck, he needs many!!

up for anything

Come on, I can't go to sleep without knowing what you texted and what she replied?:D

unreg54756987

Boy: "soz i dint write bac sooner, what movie is on? (she said there was some movie on tv3) Il prolly go to bed soon anyway! X"

that was the first message i ended with an x.

She replied that it was crap, (the movie not me LOL) and she is in bed, she is getting up for a cycle in the morning. she then wishes me "sweet dreams" and leaves a few more xxxx's.

smashey

CALL her in the morning and arrange to meet her tomorrow, if at all possible. Trust me.

up for anything

Bloody hell, don't sound too enthusiastic!:rolleyes: One miserable 'x'.:eek: I was hoping you'd show her your hand (poker term in case you've taken me up wrong ) a bit. Don't be a 'man' and play games with her, just be yourself.

unreg54756987

I aint playing games with her? or at least im not doing it intentionally? shes prolly alseep now, i will she her again on monday, and make sure I get the kiss in early on, so then we can relax a bit more?

still not sure howto deal with it.

5uspect

16 isn't too young if your 18, +/- two years is nothing.
But seriously man, when you see her next time just grab her and kiss her
think Freinds Ross Rachel stuff, just don't be a prick, she seem to really like you for who you are. Best of luck

unreg54756987

5uspect wrote:

16 isn't too young if your 18, +/- two years is nothing.
But seriously man, when you see her next time just grab her and kiss her
think Freinds Ross Rachel stuff, just don't be a prick, she seem to really like you for who you are. Best of luck

thanks boy going to bed now.

Black Swan

0utshined wrote:

Oh ok, well that gap is not as big as you think it is.

Def text her back but ignore the whole "Stupid" thing. Just tell her you're looking forward to Monday and you'll see her then. Really from what you've told us she would seem to be in to you so don't stress it.

Definitely do not bring up the "stupid" comment again. It was cute and honest the first time. Don't dwell on it. You already covered it in texting. Phone her. Be honest. You truly are looking forward to Monday to be with her!

Not sure this will reach you in time. Several time zones away.

Elessar

Well from what I can see she didn't make much of an effort to kiss you herself, so you can stop blaming yourself, you are not stupid.

unreg54756987

Elessar wrote:

Well from what I can see she didn't make much of an effort to kiss you herself, so you can stop blaming yourself, you are not stupid.

But maybe she was just expecting me to make the first move? with being the guy in all. Or maybe she wasnt sure If I wanted to? Hopefully monday will be better

5uspect

i think she has dropped enough hints - make your move first first thing on monday

unreg54756987

5uspect wrote:

i think she has dropped enough hints - make your move first first thing on monday

you spying on me or something man?

ST*

unreg54756987 wrote:

she is getting up for a cycle in the morning. she then wishes me "sweet dreams" and leaves a few more xxxx's.

smashey wrote:

CALL her in the morning and arrange to meet her tomorrow, if at all possible. Trust me.

Definitely. She does seem very keen. I could understand you being a bit hesitant if you weren't sure how she felt, but she has dropped enough hints. Grow a pair lad! - make your move. And for the love of God, will you add another two kisses to the end of your text?!

Don't be so frosty with her, she is trying really hard here. If you don't warm up a bit she may think you don't like her, and give up.

[Jackass]

unreg54756987 wrote:

Boy: "soz i dint write bac sooner, what movie is on? (she said there was some movie on tv3) Il prolly go to bed soon anyway! X"

that was the first message i ended with an x.

She replied that it was crap, (the movie not me LOL) and she is in bed, she is getting up for a cycle in the morning. she then wishes me "sweet dreams" and leaves a few more xxxx's.

You should show her that you think of her and want to help her....Ring her at 4am to check if she's asleep. If not, tell her she should be if she plans on getting up for that early cycle.

Repeat on the hour every hour.

5uspect

yes, you're part of a new reality TV show...

Nevyn

DubGuy, unhelpful and off-topic posting will get you banned from this forum.
Do take time to read the charter which contains the rules and abide by them.
Have a nice day.
Thaedydal

Húrin

Why do teenage girls always expect the teenage boy to make the first move???

unreg54756987

H&#250 wrote: »

Why do teenage girls always expect the teenage boy to make the first move???

dunno, but it's just the way it is! dunno weather to txt her today? Maybe Ill txt her later and sort out a time for meetin up tomorrow morning.

[Jackass]

Thaedyda wrote:

DubGuy, unhelpful and off-topic posting will get you banned from this forum.
Do take time to read the charter which contains the rules and abide by them.
Have a nice day.
Thaedydal

Sorry

Nevyn

H&#250 wrote: »

Why do teenage girls always expect the teenage boy to make the first move???

Because of the stupid idea that it makes them forward and slutty.

cookiemonst3r

H&#250 wrote: »

Why do teenage girls always expect the teenage boy to make the first move???

Didn't she make the first move by calling for him??

LegacyUser

Be a man and kiss her tomorrow, no matter what. If she doesn't kiss back and gives you the "we're just friends" thing, at least you know where you stand. The longer you stay texting without being with her the deeper into the "friendzone" you drift and the less your chances become. Just "lob the gob" and either you end up with her or you find out she's only playing you/interested in you as a friend, inwhich case you move onto the next girl.

Femelade

let us know hoe you get on today, meeting the girl, stupid young man...:)

Magic Pips

when you see her, if she asks about the stupid comment say...

Step 1)

"i just felt stupid because i didnt do this..." SMACK THE GOB HERE

Step 2a) -she's cool with it

Enjoy

Step 2b) - she's not cool with it (unlikely, fingers crossed for you)

Don't get freaked out, just say sorry and be mates with her still...

unreg54756987

Ok, day went ok, got to know each other alot better, but there was still the fair share of dodgy silence. Boy did kiss her, but later on in the day girl asked why?

Boy says that he tought maybe she liked boy, specially after saturday's huge flirting session on the beach! but I guess were just friends now.

Boy hasnt got any regrets, but is a bit pissed off after her reaction later on in the day, specially after saturday, were she was soooooooooo up for it, but I didnt kissed her I guess maybe she thought, well he doesnt like me (after saturday) and when I eventually did kiss her on monday she got a bit freaked? I honestly dont no, she is VERY confusing

Femelade

she asked you why?
thats a bit of a stupid question, why else would someone kiss someone else...?
She made it obvious that she liked you on saturday, she called to you and flirted with you and sent you lots of txts with xxxx....she is after confusing me too...

unreg54756987

Femmy wrote:

she asked you why?
thats a bit of a stupid question, why else would someone kiss someone else...?
She made it obvious that she liked you on saturday, she called to you and flirted with you and sent you lots of txts with xxxx....she is after confusing me too...

I know Im disappointed, but deffo dont regret kissing her! I honestly dont know whats going on in her head. TBH if I was interested enough in her, I prolly still wouldnt have bothered trying to get to know her. But when she shows up at your door, asks if you'll go for a walk with her, flirts like **** with you, and then acts like that. I just cant get over the fact she was suprised, I'd love to know what she thought she was doing on saturday, cause it deffo wasnt just being friendly.

LegacyUser

Take some advice from a guy who's seen it all. She's playing you. Drop her like she's hot.

If you keep persuing her you might get one or two more kisses, but she only sees you as a bit of fun. My advice drop her now, you'll only get more involvid and she'll break your heart.