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Pretentiousness in UCD

  • 17-03-2006 4:47pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,246 ✭✭✭✭


    Havnt seen a post on this before and before anyone starts Im not moaning or being hypocritical but... has anyone noticed that the cometition between students in terms of "im more diverse and intelligent and wealthy yet not that wealthy but never working class" among a large number of students around the campus? Im seeing this alot in terms of

    1)Intelligence : People believing they are more intelligent than other people because they have a more diverse vocab
    2)Money : People who come from obvious wealthy families rubbing it in other peoples faces
    3)Bohemian Lifestyle: People who think their taste in music or lifestyle choices elevate them above other people
    3)Wealth induced poverty : My personal favourite, people from families with more money then sense pretending that they are broke, never enough money for a coffee but a pox on your if you dare call them working class.(how was your backpacking trip across Asia paid for when you never worked a day in your life pov?)

    Im not accusing anyone Im just asking has anyone else noticed this behaviour in UCD?

    Another class of people . The Poverty Princess to add to the Umpa Loompas, Hacks ect ect


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,163 ✭✭✭✭Boston


    Sounds like you hang around with a bunch of tools. Why is that then?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,246 ✭✭✭✭Riamfada


    LiouVille wrote:
    Sounds like you hang around with a bunch of tools. Why is that then?
    I never said i hang around with anyone like that and I was just wondering what otherpeople thought . I didnt post this looking for a mudslinging fight.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 337 ✭✭HappyCrackHead


    obv ucd is full of people like that... i'd say i know a few and even from just the occasional eavesdropping on other people i'd determine that there are lots of people out there like that...

    it does get fraking annoying


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,163 ✭✭✭✭Boston


    Grimes wrote:
    I never said i hang around with anyone like that and I was just wondering what otherpeople thought

    So what evidence do you have to back up these claims, or is this one of those "everybody agrees with this" facts? Are they, friends,family,people in your year? How many degree of separation is there, and how would you class youself, into the groups of people you jsut mentioned.
    I didnt post this looking for a mudslinging fight.
    Sure you did.

    altermately, if these people aren't a part of your life, why care what bull**** they fill theirs with.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,246 ✭✭✭✭Riamfada


    Im in UCD i see it. I was just asking if anyone else sees it. I dont see why it is any of your concern how I relate to it. And how I class myself is again none of your business just like I wouldn;t ask you the same questions you asked me there.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,270 ✭✭✭singingstranger


    I see it... tbh I worry that I slip into the same realms quite a lot. People reckon that because (honestly, this isn't me being a prime example of what Grimes is on about) I have a (admittedly personally annoying) habit using longer words where shorter ones would work equally well, that I'm just one of those types. It's something I had before I came to UCD but because of the environment I'm in all of a sudden it's something I'm made very self-conscious of, because if I 'put on' the vocabulary I use instead of genuinely thinking in it, I would be one of them.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,163 ✭✭✭✭Boston


    Grimes wrote:
    Im in UCD i see it. I was just asking if anyone else sees it. I dont see why it is any of your concern how I relate to it. And how I class myself is again none of your business just like I wouldn;t ask you the same questions you asked me there.

    You're making claims about people in UCD, I think what you're basing them on is relavent. Are you making gross generalisations, are can you be specific. How many people in each group do you personally know. This information gives weight to your claims, the lack of it casts doubt of them.

    As for asking me, I wouldn't be so non-specific, and I'd at least have examples to back me up.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 45,640 ✭✭✭✭Mr.Nice Guy


    Must have touched a nerve there with LiouVille, Grimey.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,246 ✭✭✭✭Riamfada


    Im not going into detail or naming people as not to offend anyone who posts here if there are any who fit the bill, im not saying there are. Thats all .


    MNG : :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,755 ✭✭✭elmyra


    Nah I'd say it's there and have noticed it a bit. There is also the case where, as Singingstranger has pointed out, you get grouped with those types just because you have one trait in common or appear vaguely similar on the surface which is a bit crap! A couple of my friends have been a bit cool with me this year cos I got more involved in debate type stuff for example. That's just my own personal experience though!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,163 ✭✭✭✭Boston


    Must have touched a nerve there with LiouVille, Grimey.

    Yea, must have, cause I clearly fit the bill.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 738 ✭✭✭TheVan


    Eh well I don't think its exclusive to UCD?....i think its just society as a whole!

    Its just a diverse range of people in UCD, so you get jerks along with the 99% of UCD who are up front, honest and true to their circumstances/


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,326 ✭✭✭pretty*monster


    Grimes wrote:
    1)Intelligence : People believing they are more intelligent than other people because they have a more diverse vocab

    I have a wide vocabulary, I don't make any apologies for it. I don't think it makes me more intelligent than other people, but I'm not going to pick a shorter word when a longer word expresses what I mean better, because I don't anaylse what I say that much.

    It annoys me when people assosiacte a diverse vocabulary with pretentiousness.
    Grimes wrote:
    2)Money : People who come from obvious wealthy families rubbing it in other peoples faces

    Don't know any people like this, I'm sure they exist, but I don't have to deal with them.
    Grimes wrote:
    3)Bohemian Lifestyle: People who think their taste in music or lifestyle choices elevate them above other people

    Emm... to a certain extent everyone thinks their life style is the best one. I have boho friends, indie friends, metalhead friends, electro friends, preppy friends, and (shamfully) a hand ful of emo friends.
    Diversity is fun!

    Grimes wrote:
    3)Wealth induced poverty : My personal favourite, people from families with more money then sense pretending that they are broke, never enough money for a coffee but a pox on your if you dare call them working class.(how was your backpacking trip across Asia paid for when you never worked a day in your life pov?)

    Hmmm... my parents are comfortably middle class and I'm never short of essentials, doesn't mean that I don't have to work, and yes, sometimes I can't afford a coffee. Y'know, most students inhabit a curiouse twilight zone where their parents money is still sort of there for the taking, but also, sort of not. It's really not worth getting in a fuss over. Every family doles out (or doesn't dole out) the cash their own way.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,885 ✭✭✭Stabshauptmann


    LiouVille wrote:
    Yea, must have, cause I clearly fit the bill.
    are you in a bad mood today, because you're clearly picking a fight for no reason. You implied Grimmes was a tool in your first reply and your tone has been nothing short of aggressive. Take a step back and have a St. Paddys day drink.

    Yeah Grimes I do notice people like that. I hang round with a few people from different courses and colleges and some places are worse than others for some of the traits you mention.

    1)Intelligence : People believing they are more intelligent than other people because they have a more diverse vocab
    Well perspicuity is a good indication of intelligence, and to be precise and concise one often must use polysyllabic words, but I always think it funny when writers (I shant be calling them journalists) for the observer use meandering protracted sentences just to show off their extensive vocabulary. Thats the very antonym of sagacious reporting.

    2)Money : People who come from obvious wealthy families rubbing it in other peoples faces
    To be honest, as a commerce student I'm lucky enough to rub shoulders daily with the cream of irish society and I can safely say that it really is the empty vessel making the most noise. The girls who feel the need to mention their Versachi bags, Gucci ipod case, Armani watch and Dolce et Gabbana gloves all in one sentence probable come from families with only 2 properties; positively lower middle class

    3)Bohemian Lifestyle: People who think their taste in music or lifestyle choices elevate them above other people
    My friend Lenord, hes actually gay though that’s not his actual name right? Well we were shopping in town, and you know the way you can only find the good stuff in small shops that most sheep haven’t heard of, before heading to a gig by this new band that does a mix of grunge-punk-emo, I like them but you probably wouldn’t get it, and he noticed how I haven’t shaved, showered or got a hair cut in months so I called him pretentious for always going with the flow and looking down on us intellectual rebels

    3)Wealth induced poverty : My personal favourite, people from families with more money then sense pretending that they are broke, never enough money for a coffee but a pox on your if you dare call them working class.(how was your backpacking trip across Asia paid for when you never worked a day in your life pov?)
    Actually this one I dont see as pretentious so I'll be serious. Modesty is a form of class, you cant give out to the gonzaga twerps who go round shouting "affluence" out of their car windows as they drive through the northside and then in the same breath condemn those who choose to be discreet about their privilege.
    However yeah, when they go overboard constantly harping on about their disadvantage to help them fit in to certain groups/situations when in actual fact they nothing of hardship - thats pretentious. But I cant think of anytime *I* see this in UCD.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,885 ✭✭✭Stabshauptmann


    TheVan wrote:
    Eh well I don't think its exclusive to UCD?....i think its just society as a whole!

    Its just a diverse range of people in UCD, so you get jerks along with the 99% of UCD who are up front, honest and true to their circumstances/

    TBH, I see more pretentious people, (as well as more) hacks, D4 wanna bes, stoners, whores and behemians in college than in the real life.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,255 ✭✭✭anonymous_joe


    Redeye - legendary post.

    I must confess to enjoying having a fairly extensive vocabulary, I just like language.

    To be honest, I think Grimes is WUM-ing a little with this post, but yes, UCD is full of D4 heads, some are arrogant air-heads, other's Boho coolcat's, many are pretentious, maybe I'm pretentious, I don't know. Go to Trinity and you'll find similar types of people, it's hardly limited to just this college.

    There are lot's of pretentious people floating about, not exactly limited to UCD.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,016 ✭✭✭Blush_01


    I honestly can't see why this is relevant. Lots of the people you're talking about there Grimes are just so insecure that they indulge in faux-pretension in groups to make themselves feel like they fit in better. I don't know, does it really bug you that much? If it does, avoid it - you won't change it.

    As for intelligence being dictated by your vocabulary - that's only if you know how to use the words you're using. Plenty of my classmates have disturbingly large vocabularies, but know how to use them - that's not intellectual superiority in action, it's intellect in action. I'd prefer someone would talk to me as they speak rather than dumbing it down because my own vocabulary isn't as extensive. That's more laziness on my part for not being as widely read (when I could be, and simply am too lazy) than intellectual snobbery on theirs.

    I don't know anyone who would rub their financial situation in my face - if I did, I wouldn't know them for long. Either insecurity or just plain being a dick in action.

    I'm with Pretty*Monster on the lifestyle thing - everyone thinks that their ideal lifestyle is THE ideal lifestyle - otherwise they wouldn't aspire to it in the first place, nor would they relish it if they attained it.

    Grimes, not everyone from a wealthy home has money. The money someone's parents have is not their money, it's their parents. Everyone's situation is different - plenty of people can have very flush days and very dry ones financially. Circumstances are constantly in flux - for most people.

    Sure, I've indulged in generalisations too, but the snobbery and pretentiousness you describe there can also be seen as the opposite end of the scale you're on - you're just as biased as they are. You make the same assumptions about them as you expect them to make of you. We all make assumptions, I'm not saying you're the only one who does it. But things only get to you if you let them. Jesus, we all know that!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,487 ✭✭✭boneless


    I have an ex.. ex... big voc... voc... word thingy, but most of it is rude. I know the longest swear words there are. I'm a working class snob too. I have as much money as I can liberate at any one given moment.

    I do recognise the type that Grimes is referring to. It used to get on me tIts at the start but not anymore. All I care is, I've met some really genuine and lovely people in UCD during the past four years, from all classes of society and none!! If a person is willing to communicate and engage in craic and banter, that's all that matters.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 88,972 ✭✭✭✭mike65


    Grimes, its Pretentions in TCD not Pretentiousness.

    Mike.

    ps Pretentious moi?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 137 ✭✭Economaniac!


    Grimes wrote:
    Im not accusing anyone Im just asking has anyone else noticed this behaviour in UCD?

    You really should read "The Pope's Children" by David McWilliams... Welcome to Ireland's new young elite! We're sexy, we're cute, we're popular to boot! Basically what you've touched on here is a new mentality in young irish people of today. We don't really care anymore, we'll do what we want, when we want, for as long as we want, as often as we want!

    I really believe UCD is a microcosm of Ireland, if not Dublin, in 2006, moreso than other colleges or places. It strikes me often how seldom the college is used for studies by the ESRI or like for Big Brother etc. ha!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,561 ✭✭✭Umaro


    that David McWilliams is a good writer, very umm.. i cant think of the word.. its like incisive i think? he's that.

    i do commerce.

    i am probably pretentious, i know it. i wear abercrombie, dolce, hilfiger, ralph lauren, american eagle and dubes. i dont care for the bohemian lifestyle or anyone who who wanders around with long hair being "different" and "alternative". i believe there are certain bands that college people like because thats whats being forced down their throats: the killers, arctic monkeys, franz ferdinand, kaiser chiefs. theyre all rubbish. i dont have any gay friends, its not that i have something against them, i just dont. i pretty much live off the bank of mum&dad and i couldnt care less what people think of me as a result. i am from the middle classes and i dont care. i wear what i like to wear, i dont go out of my way to make friends, i go to college and i come home. thats what i do.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,391 ✭✭✭arbeitsscheuer


    TheVan wrote:
    Eh well I don't think its exclusive to UCD?....i think its just society as a whole!

    Its just a diverse range of people in UCD, so you get jerks along with the 99% of UCD who are up front, honest and true to their circumstances/
    Bingo.

    Whatever you find in UCD you can find anywhere else tbh.

    Pretentiousness knows no boundaries of race, class, intelligence or religion.

    Can we talk bout sumfink else now, me darlin's?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,016 ✭✭✭Blush_01


    If you're happy and you're not hurting anybody, who the hell cares?:confused:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,255 ✭✭✭✭The_Minister


    Grimes wrote:
    1)Intelligence : People believing they are more intelligent than other people because they have a more diverse vocab


    I sometimes have a very diverse vocabulary. I must congradulate my post-primary pedagouges for that. On the other hand I still haven't found a PC swearword to replace "faggoty" since I hit college.
    Grimes wrote:
    2)Money : People who come from obvious wealthy families rubbing it in other peoples faces

    Never seen this. Someone is jealous
    Grimes wrote:
    3)Bohemian Lifestyle: People who think their taste in music or lifestyle choices elevate them above other people

    Dude! Open your mind and oppose the war.
    and now for the other
    Grimes wrote:
    3) Wealth induced poverty : My personal favourite, people from families with more money then sense pretending that they are broke, never enough money for a coffee but a pox on your if you dare call them working class.(how was your backpacking trip across Asia paid for when you never worked a day in your life pov?)

    Are you talking about the "socialists" who come from rich backgrounds but manage to put on dub accents?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,578 ✭✭✭Scraggs


    1)Intelligence : People believing they are more intelligent than other people because they have a more diverse vocab
    I've come across this, mainly because I have quite limited vocab..unless its swearing of course:D [yes I am possibly the worst linguistics student in existance!!] I'm not talking about normal people who genuinely have a broad repertoire of vocab -that I have absolutely no problem with... its the people who use larger words out of context and look down on you if you have to ask the meaning or just generally think they are ubersmart when really they just sound like tools who got a 'word a day' calender for christmas.
    2)Money : People who come from obvious wealthy families rubbing it in other peoples faces
    Unfortunately I come across this alot.. Both my flatmates are doing Commerce and [now I'm not saying all but a few] of their classmates that I've met are people who like to go on and on about their earnings, the cars their parents bought for them and how much allowance they get a week. I havent just noticed this in commerce I just used that as an example, it can be seen in a lot of places but generally I tend to not hang around with people like that so it doesnt bother me too much sure let them on! And I'll always remember what my papa said to me many moons ago 'if somebody looks down their nose at you Dani, You know what to do..Break it!!':)
    3)Bohemian Lifestyle: People who think their taste in music or lifestyle choices elevate them above other people
    I've met a few of these type of people but its not just in UCD really.. I suppose it could be due to the fact that theres such a wide range of people here and all the groups seem to compact together into one big stereotype. One thing I absolutely cannot stand is music snobbery.. people who look down on you for not liking 'their' music. I love all kinds of music...I have such a wide taste from all sorts of genres. I hate the way people look down on my taste in pop music but yet at the same time love the fact I love some other type...god I could get into such a rant over this but lucky ye I'm gonna spare ye!
    3)Wealth induced poverty : My personal favourite, people from families with more money then sense pretending that they are broke, never enough money for a coffee but a pox on your if you dare call them working class.(how was your backpacking trip across Asia paid for when you never worked a day in your life pov?)
    This is the bane of my life... well not really bane.. but its something I have to deal with alot. One or two of my friends can be like this... they're grand most of the time but sometimes you should hear the way they go on it'd make ya want to kill them!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,016 ✭✭✭Blush_01


    Am I the only one who noticed that there are two point 3)'s there? I was waiting for someone else to mention it, but nobody did...

    I keep putting "k" in front of all the words I type that begin with "n". Now, I'm not the world's greatest speller, but I'm not dense - is "k" just taking over my brain?

    So much tension, so little need for it!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,238 ✭✭✭humbert


    Grimes wrote:
    Havnt seen a post on this before and before anyone starts Im not moaning or being hypocritical but... has anyone noticed that the cometition between students in terms of "im more diverse and intelligent and wealthy yet not that wealthy but never working class" among a large number of students around the campus? Im seeing this alot in terms of

    1)Intelligence : People believing they are more intelligent than other people because they have a more diverse vocab
    2)Money : People who come from obvious wealthy families rubbing it in other peoples faces
    3)Bohemian Lifestyle: People who think their taste in music or lifestyle choices elevate them above other people
    3)Wealth induced poverty : My personal favourite, people from families with more money then sense pretending that they are broke, never enough money for a coffee but a pox on your if you dare call them working class.(how was your backpacking trip across Asia paid for when you never worked a day in your life pov?)

    Im not accusing anyone Im just asking has anyone else noticed this behaviour in UCD?

    Another class of people . The Poverty Princess to add to the Umpa Loompas, Hacks ect ect

    I think those comments are fair and accurate, the money thing is actually the one that pisses me off the least, they are just being themselves. Seb's right too those things are evident throughout all facets of society but the one place I would expect to see a little less of it is in a college, whereas if anything it's more prolific in UCD. Having been here as long as I have I have reached the stage where they don't bother me and I can just laugh at it all.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,124 ✭✭✭Jonny Arson


    Grimes wrote:
    Havnt seen a post on this before and before anyone starts Im not moaning or being hypocritical but... has anyone noticed that the cometition between students in terms of "im more diverse and intelligent and wealthy yet not that wealthy but never working class" among a large number of students around the campus? Im seeing this alot in terms of

    1)Intelligence : People believing they are more intelligent than other people because they have a more diverse vocab
    2)Money : People who come from obvious wealthy families rubbing it in other peoples faces
    3)Bohemian Lifestyle: People who think their taste in music or lifestyle choices elevate them above other people
    3)Wealth induced poverty : My personal favourite, people from families with more money then sense pretending that they are broke, never enough money for a coffee but a pox on your if you dare call them working class.(how was your backpacking trip across Asia paid for when you never worked a day in your life pov?)

    Im not accusing anyone Im just asking has anyone else noticed this behaviour in UCD?

    Another class of people . The Poverty Princess to add to the Umpa Loompas, Hacks ect ect


    By all of this you mean this is UCD students in general.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 738 ✭✭✭TheVan


    So much hate for fellow students out there! Where's the love people?!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 687 ✭✭✭scop


    Dear UCD boards thrad, name is P**l and I know lots of words but also know that to be concise is to communicate well but also that wordplay makes the girls wet, I kid, it does in fact not do so.

    I hang around with a load of people who are very intelligent but also modest, except in jest and even then its tongue in cheek. I am glad they exist, who else will discuss Eliot with me?

    I'm from Tallaght but we have money and I do not need to work, remember that even at that there is a certain lack of control as regards money and thus some days you actually dont have cash for a coffee.

    Boho lifestyle? Whatever a lifestyle is I hope to God one dosent attach itself to me.

    My point, people are complex, if they are exhibiting the characteristics you mention its because you are seeing them in their public, out there moments and on an individual or small group basis they'd be shocking you with their interests all over the shop.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 56 ✭✭Dr. Octagon


    LiouVille wrote:
    You're making claims about people in UCD, I think what you're basing them on is relavent. Are you making gross generalisations, are can you be specific. How many people in each group do you personally know. This information gives weight to your claims, the lack of it casts doubt of them.

    As for asking me, I wouldn't be so non-specific, and I'd at least have examples to back me up.

    I'm sorry but you are a prime example of the "diverse vocabulary" argument. You are using terms like "gross generalisations" and "non-specific" and yet your grammar is terrible. Try using question marks...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,326 ✭✭✭pretty*monster


    I'm sorry but you are a prime example of the "diverse vocabulary" argument. You are using terms like "gross generalisations" and "non-specific" and yet your grammar is terrible. Try using question marks...
    And you're argument shows that the anti-big-word posse are as, if not more, guilty of pretension as we big-wordians (as we shall henceforth be known).

    The grammar was bad, but not so bad that any meaning was lost.
    "Gross generalisations" and "Non-specific" are perfectly intelligible words that one hears all the time. Should they be stricken from the dictionary along with all polysyllabic?


    Pray, what words would you have replaced "gross generalisations" and "non-specific" with?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 56 ✭✭Dr. Octagon


    And you're argument shows that the anti-big-word posse are as, if not more, guilty of pretension as we big-wordians (as we shall henceforth be known).

    The grammar was bad, but not so bad that any meaning was lost.
    "Gross generalisations" and "Non-specific" are perfectly intelligible words that one hears all the time. Should they be stricken from the dictionary along with all polysyllabic?


    Pray, what words would you have replaced "gross generalisations" and "non-specific" with?

    Don't be ridiculous, words are great whether they are big or small. My point is that they should only be used in their correct context and that includes the use of grammatically correct sentences.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,010 ✭✭✭besty


    mike65 wrote:

    ps Pretentious moi?
    :D

    To be honest, you'll find pretentious people anywhere you go!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,885 ✭✭✭Stabshauptmann


    Though I said it first tongue in cheek, it really is the empty vessels make the most noise


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 281 ✭✭Samos


    Umaro wrote:
    that David McWilliams is a good writer, very umm.. i cant think of the word.. its like incisive i think? he's that.

    i do commerce.

    i am probably pretentious, i know it. i wear abercrombie, dolce, hilfiger, ralph lauren, american eagle and dubes. i dont care for the bohemian lifestyle or anyone who who wanders around with long hair being "different" and "alternative". i believe there are certain bands that college people like because thats whats being forced down their throats: the killers, arctic monkeys, franz ferdinand, kaiser chiefs. theyre all rubbish. i dont have any gay friends, its not that i have something against them, i just dont. i pretty much live off the bank of mum&dad and i couldnt care less what people think of me as a result. i am from the middle classes and i dont care. i wear what i like to wear, i dont go out of my way to make friends, i go to college and i come home. thats what i do.

    Are you serious?

    To the original poster: do you think that a tally of unsubstantiated generalisations with regard to appearance and assumed behaviour has any kind of beneficial role to play? It is lazy, convenient and above all, dangerously divisive to create within your mind an exclusive one-to-one relationship between a form of behaviour you dislike and a certain appearance that you associate with some people who exhibit this trait. This is the potent ingredient of prejudice and discrimination. Do not assume that another person is inferior to you because of some superficial qualities.

    I reckon that if you made the effort to acknowledge and befriend some of the many people you denigrate, you would soon find that your original assumptions were unjustified. Should you find that they are in fact vulgar and misled, than you may try to persuade them in a personal capacity. Moaning and whining will never effect change. Go out there and be positive and appreciate diversity instead of being vitriolic. Rember that ever hour you spend in anger is sixty minutes less happiness!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,255 ✭✭✭✭The_Minister


    Blush_01 wrote:
    Am I the only one who noticed that there are two point 3)'s there? I was waiting for someone else to mention it, but nobody did...

    I keep putting "k" in front of all the words I type that begin with "n". Now, I'm not the world's greatest speller, but I'm not dense - is "k" just taking over my brain?

    So much tension, so little need for it!
    I made a quiet little comment about it:

    I sometimes have a very diverse vocabulary. I must congradulate my post-primary pedagouges for that. On the other hand I still haven't found a PC swearword to replace "faggoty" since I hit college.


    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Grimes
    2)Money : People who come from obvious wealthy families rubbing it in other peoples faces


    Never seen this. Someone is jealous


    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Grimes
    3)Bohemian Lifestyle: People who think their taste in music or lifestyle choices elevate them above other people


    Dude! Open your mind and oppose the war.
    and now for the other

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    Originally Posted by Grimes
    3) Wealth induced poverty : My personal favourite, people from families with more money then sense pretending that they are broke, never enough money for a coffee but a pox on your if you dare call them working class.(how was your backpacking trip across Asia paid for when you never worked a day in your life pov?)


    Are you talking about the "socialists" who come from rich backgrounds but manage to put on dub accents?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,505 ✭✭✭✭DirkVoodoo


    Well, im an engineer so we sue lots of big words like 'Budweiser' and 'Nobleman fortified wine is only 4 euro in Lidl'

    Ok, so not that big and hey, if you're looking' not even one word. I don't really notice it in UCD, maybe engineers don't use big words, I don't know.

    One thing is for sure, you hear some god awful ****e if you take a wander through the arts block :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,578 ✭✭✭Scraggs


    DirkVoodoo wrote:
    Well, im an engineer so we sue lots of big words like 'Budweiser' and 'Nobleman fortified wine is only 4 euro in Lidl'
    rofl:D :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,750 ✭✭✭ghostchant


    I don't think people using 'big words' is something that you'd encounter much in the science buildings, what with our lack of need for them...well apart from all those big scientific wordamajigs (a wordamajig being specific type of thingamajig, for those of you whose vocubulary isn't advanced enough ;) )


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,326 ✭✭✭pretty*monster


    DirkVoodoo wrote:
    One thing is for sure, you hear some god awful ****e if you take a wander through the arts block :D

    See stuff like that is what I hoped to get away from in college.

    On any day in the arts block in between talking about drinking, sex, what was on telly last night, and the like, I'll be found chatting away about poetry, philosophy, theatre, politics (the real kind as opposed to the student kind) and similar '****e'.

    It is not, in fact, because I am a pretentious orshole. The people I talk to about such things are rarely at all impressed by what I have to say. It just so happens that such ****e is of interest to me, and lucky for me, I have found friends in ucd with similar interests (I know, shocking isn't it, English and Philosophy students talking about English and Philosophy, outside class and everything).
    We're not hurting anyone, we try not to do it in front of people who aren't interested in it, and really, it's no different to people talking about sports which I personally find completely unintelligible.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 337 ✭✭HappyCrackHead


    i dont think thats the point of this... you can discuss your courses and topics and books you may have read with your fellow students no one is complaining about that.

    its people who ACT like they're better than others, try to make others feel inferior by talking about particular topics with people they know havent a clue. you remember what it was like for me in first year with all you philosophy students, i thought you were all pretentious, turns out you were just wildly excited about dead guys...

    but thats just people being people... its the pretentiousness of CERTAIN people that bothers me. you know who they are, you figure them out in around about 30 seconds...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,246 ✭✭✭✭Riamfada


    man thats alot of reading. Happy a good discussion started. Just incase anyone thought i was bitching about anyone else I wasnt. I respect all. Even the d4 and the scobie and the nerd. Each to their own .


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 281 ✭✭Samos


    But if you really respected everyone then you wouldn't make character judgments based on appearance or use generalisations like these:
    Grimes wrote:
    ...the d4 and the scobie and the nerd.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,246 ✭✭✭✭Riamfada


    Samos wrote:
    But if you really respected everyone then you wouldn't make character judgments based on appearance or use generalisations like these:

    Well spotted. Give that man a can of coke


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,380 ✭✭✭daRobot


    Welcome to the world grimes.This isn't a phenomenon that ucd is a victim of.

    Some people are twats of variable degrees (Depending on what grinds your gears), and some are sound(Also depending on what oils your gears) .Money and education are not really factors in this.

    Instead of letting this annoy you, perhaps it's better to be safe in the knowledge that you see through their supposed transparency.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,246 ✭✭✭✭Riamfada


    daRobot wrote:
    Welcome to the world grimes.This isn't a phenomenon that ucd is a victim of.

    Some people are twats of variable degrees (Depending on what grinds your gears), and some are sound(Also depending on what oils your gears) .Money and education are not really factors in this.

    Instead of letting this annoy you, perhaps it's better to be safe in the knowledge that you see through their supposed transparency.



    I was just trying to get a debate going. Was really wondering was it a common view. Dosn't bother me that much really. I have seen it everywhere in society but on the UCD forum I just asked UCD students about life in UCD.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 189 ✭✭The Gecko


    Surely this thread was started to allow students from UCD to squawk on at each other with disdain and love for those challenged with poverty, wealth, their taste in music, sport, social behavior's or any idiosyncratic trait you can mention, all the while engaging in their favored pastime of belittling and entertaining the crowd with unnecessary sesquipedalian put-downs, perfect diction and punctuation.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,391 ✭✭✭arbeitsscheuer


    The Gecko wrote:
    Surely this thread was started to allow students from UCD to squawk on at each other with disdain and love for those challenged with poverty, wealth, their taste in music, sport, social behavior's or any idiosyncratic trait you can mention, all the while engaging in their favored pastime of belittling and entertaining the crowd with unnecessary sesquipedalian put-downs, perfect diction and punctuation.
    I love you and I want to have your babies.

    Excellent post.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,238 ✭✭✭humbert


    SebtheBum wrote:
    I love you and I want to have your babies.
    do you really think that line's ever going to work:rolleyes:


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