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Girls making the first move....

  • 12-02-2006 8:17pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,203 ✭✭✭


    Right what everyone s opinion on this, predominantly the lads view...


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 844 ✭✭✭casanova_kid


    it's good, makes it way easier.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,437 ✭✭✭Crucifix


    Yeah, it's pretty cool.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,773 ✭✭✭Binomate


    it's good, makes it way easier.
    Ditto.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,598 ✭✭✭ferdi


    i'm for it


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,193 ✭✭✭[Jackass]


    I like girls who have the confidence to do it. As long as it's not a drunken slag who throws herself at you. But the same goes for lads...girls like lads who have the confidence to chat to them and make a move, as long as they're not drunken fools drooling on her tits.

    I say fair play, go for it!! I for one like it!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,863 ✭✭✭✭crosstownk


    Me too...................


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,144 ✭✭✭DonkeyStyle \o/


    Yeah go for it.
    Let's spread the rejection around a bit.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 31,967 ✭✭✭✭Sarky


    Speaking as an immensely lazy git, I approve.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,767 ✭✭✭Hugh Hefner


    It's the way with the future!

    Way with the future!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,598 ✭✭✭ferdi


    Yeah go for it.
    Let's spread the rejection around a bit.
    what rejection? provided shes not a heffer, chances are there will be no rejection.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,193 ✭✭✭[Jackass]


    There should be seperate clubs for fat chicks.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,227 ✭✭✭✭Sparky


    yeah im all for it, as long as shes not what ferdi said.
    DubGuy wrote:
    There should be seperate clubs for fat chicks.
    Fire Hazard tbh :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,584 ✭✭✭✭Creamy Goodness


    i think the problem is, there isn't of enough of girls who do this. :p


  • Administrators, Entertainment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 18,781 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭hullaballoo


    I reckon it would make a lot more sense if girls made the first move. As Ferdi said, more than likely the guy will not reject a girl.

    Personally, I'd give anyone a chance. Girls are way to up themselves.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 951 ✭✭✭Eminem


    I think it should be both who do it . I would and have done if you like someone go for it thats what i think:)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 28,128 ✭✭✭✭Mossy Monk


    nothing wrong with ladies pouncing


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,144 ✭✭✭DonkeyStyle \o/


    ferdi wrote:
    what rejection? provided shes not a heffer, chances are there will be no rejection.
    Well some guys have standards...


    Not me though, bring on the heffers.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,928 ✭✭✭✭rainbow kirby


    Sparky-s wrote:
    yeah im all for it, as long as shes not what ferdi said.


    Fire Hazard tbh :D
    "There's something wrong here... this lesbian bar has no fire exits!"


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,561 ✭✭✭Rhyme


    Preferrable...

    :v: :eek:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 951 ✭✭✭Eminem


    Mossy Monk wrote:
    nothing wrong with ladies pouncing


    yeah i think its good when girls do the chatting up as wel . I would any way


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,598 ✭✭✭ferdi


    Mossy Monk wrote:
    nothing wrong with ladies pouncing
    i think thats the issue. once she's pounced, is she still a lady?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,561 ✭✭✭Rhyme


    ferdi wrote:
    i think thats the issue. once she's pounced, is she still a lady?
    Unless she sprouts a beard et al mid flight, yes


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 688 ✭✭✭skye


    Oh yes - make the first move - that's how I bagged my man...never knew what hit him, poor sod!!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 951 ✭✭✭Eminem


    ferdi wrote:
    i think thats the issue. once she's pounced, is she still a lady?

    Ithink he ment chatting up someone


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,598 ✭✭✭ferdi


    you know what i mean.

    ladies are meant to be demure at most. if she gets too forward, she turns into a brazened hussy.*


    *its not me, its society.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,561 ✭✭✭Rhyme


    ferdi wrote:
    you know what i mean.

    ladies are meant to be demure at most. if she gets to forward, she turns into a brazened hussy.
    I got you, that might be a deterrent for women making the first move in the first place... better to ignore that social thing


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,735 ✭✭✭ST*


    ferdi wrote:
    you know what i mean.
    ladies are meant to be demure at most. if she gets too forward, she turns into a brazened hussy.*
    *its not me, its society.

    And what of forward men Ferdi?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 951 ✭✭✭Eminem


    ferdi wrote:
    you know what i mean.

    ladies are meant to be demure at most. if she gets too forward, she turns into a brazened hussy.*



    *its not me, its society.


    Were not all like that if a girl wants to chat a guy up that dont mean shell brazened hussy as you called it


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 688 ✭✭✭skye


    ferdi wrote:
    you know what i mean.

    ladies are meant to be demure at most. if she gets too forward, she turns into a brazened hussy.*


    *its not me, its society.

    Yeah but some guys can be somewhat shy so if a girl likes him she has to make the move...you fellas love it;)


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,598 ✭✭✭ferdi


    as i said - i dont hold these opinions as fact. they are the general view of society.

    personally i'd love if a girl came up to me in a bar, slapped my arse, used some cheap pick up line and started stairing down my low cut top..


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 688 ✭✭✭skye


    LOL - you tart!!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 951 ✭✭✭Eminem


    Yeah if i like a guy i will make a move if hes not intrested fair enough but if hes at least someone made the first move instead of know one making any move:)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,144 ✭✭✭DonkeyStyle \o/


    ferdi wrote:
    personally i'd love if a girl came up to me in a bar, slapped my arse, used some cheap pick up line and started stairing down my low cut top..
    Slag :/


  • Administrators, Entertainment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 18,781 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭hullaballoo


    ferdi wrote:
    personally i'd love if a girl came up to me in a bar, slapped my arse, used some cheap pick up line and started stairing down my low cut top..
    No problemo.

    You said guy, right?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,719 ✭✭✭ARGINITE


    Heyes wrote:
    Girls making the first move....
    Right what everyone s opinion on this, predominantly the lads view...
    Its a great idea, especially if the guy in question is shy:)


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,193 ✭✭✭[Jackass]


    ferdi wrote:
    I'm only quoting ferdi cause everyone else is

    Oh, for just one night of rohipnoll fueld fun....jesus girls, get with the times! Don't always leave everything up to the lads!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,165 ✭✭✭DEmeant0r


    I too am of the lazy type, so girls making the first move is muchos appreciated :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,066 ✭✭✭✭omb0wyn5ehpij9


    ARGINITE wrote:
    Its a great idea, especially if the guy in question is shy:)

    Agreed :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 491 ✭✭nowuckenfurries


    Deadly........Bring on these women!! The more the merrier!!!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,391 ✭✭✭arbeitsscheuer


    Being immensely bad at reading signals, or even intercepting them at all, let alone mustering up the energy required to react accordingly to them, I heartily endorse this product and/or service.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 521 ✭✭✭EOA_Mushy


    No problems with this, some one has to do some thing, leave it to the guys and theres only half the chance...

    (Probably less = Im prittly sh*te @ the signals issue too...):confused:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,719 ✭✭✭Hal1


    about f*ckin time... get with times as previous poster said. ;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,874 ✭✭✭dceire


    Go for it girls...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 51 ✭✭Gunshot


    Heyes wrote:
    Right what everyone s opinion on this, predominantly the lads view...
    much better if grls make da 1st move lolz


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,921 ✭✭✭✭Pigman II


    I prefer the hunt and would consider it an affront to my fun.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,719 ✭✭✭ARGINITE


    SebtheBum wrote:
    Being immensely bad at reading signals, or even intercepting them at all, let alone mustering up the energy required to react accordingly to them, I heartily endorse this product and/or service.

    Ya she could be wearing a flashing neon sign and I still wouldnt be able to read the signal.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,211 ✭✭✭✭Sangre


    Of course these bunch of internet freaks want the girls too make the first move! Don't listen to them.
    Be classy and act like you think the approaching guy is nothing to you.
    Half the fun is in the chase. (Although it is quite hard to run with your pants around your ankles)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,224 ✭✭✭✭Kinetic^


    Heyes wrote:
    Right what everyone s opinion on this, predominantly the lads view...

    My gf did and 5 years later she still hasn't made the move to leave :p


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 526 ✭✭✭mandz


    well some of you should move to my area. In my experience making the first move hasn't had much success (and i'm not a heffer!!) so that's why i've given up on doing it


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I made the first move on my boyfriend, way back when, but only because I was 100% sure I was not gonna get rejected, we had been flirtting for months, now technically, he moved in for the 1st kiss, but really, it was all part of my calculated master plan.


    We broke up for a bit, and then I completely seduced him all over again
    Poor boy never stood a chance:D ;):D


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