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Apadravya

  • 08-01-2006 10:09pm
    #1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 11


    Hi everyone,

    I'm thinking of getting the above and had a few questions to anybody who has it.

    1. How long after having it done have you to clean it or do you have to it forever?

    2. Does it mess your trousers up when urinating like the prince albert?

    3. How long after getting it can I have sex?

    4. Is it still possible to receive oral sex or would it mess with my gf teeth?

    5. Can i have anal sex or would it be too painful?


    6. Where would you recomend getting it done in Dublin?

    7. Should I get it done on a friday evening so I've got the whole weekend to get used to it before being backin work?

    8. How it will affect the wearing of condoms??

    Any help would be great,
    Apadravya :)


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,057 ✭✭✭amazingemmet


    Hi everyone,

    I'm thinking of getting the above and had a few questions to anybody who has it.

    1. How long after having it done have you to clean it or do you have to it forever?

    > 2-3 months

    2. Does it mess your trousers up when urinating like the prince albert?

    >yes

    3. How long after getting it can I have sex?

    >they say a month but if you can take the pain 10 days

    4. Is it still possible to receive oral sex or would it mess with my gf teeth?

    >can be uncomfortable but you can put a labret stud on the underside to make it "fit" better

    5. Can i have anal sex or would it be too painful?

    >not too sure on this on try it and let me know


    6. Where would you recomend getting it done in Dublin?

    >paddy in bodyshock has done a few and i've heard good reports

    7. Should I get it done on a friday evening so I've got the whole weekend to get used to it before being backin work?

    >seems like a good idea

    8. How it will affect the wearing of condoms??

    >Bout as much as any other piercing


    I've been wanting to get it done for ages but keep coming up with reasons not too, i really need someone to hold my hand methinks


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,733 ✭✭✭Blub2k4


    I'd disagree with Emmet on some of these, I have a PA and was thinking of getting it converted.
    Apadravya wrote:
    Hi everyone,

    I'm thinking of getting the above and had a few questions to anybody who has it.

    1. How long after having it done have you to clean it or do you have to it forever?

    The urine cleans it is what I was told with the PA, I can see you having to remove crusties for anything up to few weeks.

    2. Does it mess your trousers up when urinating like the prince albert?

    I was told in Snakebite that it wouldn't, if you had it done as a straight PA and a reverse then of course it would but if you have it done with a bar straight through then there is no reason you cant stand to piss. The showerhead effect should only happen with a ring.

    3. How long after getting it can I have sex?

    8 weeks is the recommended, apparently it can be as low as 5, depending on how fast you heal.

    4. Is it still possible to receive oral sex or would it mess with my gf teeth?

    Oral should just mean negotiating around the bar, I imagine that the first long bar that goes in may be difficult sizewise for her to fit in but the second bar when it is healed should be ok, the second bar is shorter as it no longer accounts for swelling.

    5. Can i have anal sex or would it be too painful?

    I dont know about this one, I would imagine it would be a case of taking it very easy and finding out if everyone is comfortable. My gf for example cant take doggy with the ring in, so it is out at the moment.


    6. Where would you recomend getting it done in Dublin?

    Snakebite, nowhere else really.

    7. Should I get it done on a friday evening so I've got the whole weekend to get used to it before being backin work?

    This is what I always do.

    8. How it will affect the wearing of condoms??

    It shouldn't affect condom wearing.

    Any help would be great,
    Apadravya :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11 Apadravya


    Blub2k4 wrote:
    I'd disagree with Emmet on some of these, I have a PA and was thinking of getting it converted.


    How would you disagree??


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 519 ✭✭✭ThenComesDudley


    Hi everyone,

    I'm thinking of getting the above and had a few questions to anybody who has it.

    1. How long after having it done have you to clean it or do you have to it forever?

    The urine cleans it most of the time, but for the first month or two, clean by hand

    2. Does it mess your trousers up when urinating like the prince albert?
    I didnt have to many problems with this, only once or twice did it spray.

    3. How long after getting it can I have sex?
    Best to leave it at least a month, but longer would be better

    4. Is it still possible to receive oral sex or would it mess with my gf teeth?
    Yep, but you will hear alot of clicking noises as it hits her teeth

    5. Can i have anal sex or would it be too painful?
    i was told its best not to try, it can hurt both people involved

    6. Where would you recomend getting it done in Dublin?
    I got mine in bodyshock, so yea i recomend there

    7. Should I get it done on a friday evening so I've got the whole weekend to get used to it before being backin work?
    does it really make a difference what day you get it? it will still hurt badly

    8. How it will affect the wearing of condoms??
    I never had any problems , but i use the extra safe ones mostly


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,733 ✭✭✭Blub2k4


    Apadravya wrote:
    How would you disagree??


    If you look through what I did, maybe it is not so clear because of how I quoted, but my answers are in there, it is not merely a quote of emmets post.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11 Apadravya


    Oh sorry about that Blub.

    Ok another few questions, why does it hurt her when you do it doggy?

    Was there much of a before and after difference from the female's point of view?

    Does foreskin still roll over it when not erect?

    I'm probably going to get this done friday week, very eager yet vert nervous.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,057 ✭✭✭amazingemmet


    Ok another few questions, why does it hurt her when you do it doggy?
    >Some people find it so

    Was there much of a before and after difference from the female's point of view?
    > Can't really speak from experience but i've got beading done and nearly every girl i sleep with has multiple orgasms once you get the position right, also there's a reason its called a happydravya

    Does foreskin still roll over it when not erect?
    >Don't think it does

    I'm basing my reponses in this and the last post form what i've read on bme


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,733 ✭✭✭Blub2k4


    Apadravya wrote:
    Oh sorry about that Blub.

    Ok another few questions, why does it hurt her when you do it doggy?

    Was there much of a before and after difference from the female's point of view?

    Does foreskin still roll over it when not erect?

    I'm probably going to get this done friday week, very eager yet vert nervous.

    I'll answer it this way cos I cant be arsed with all the quote tags.
    1/ It doesn't hurt exactly it is just a little too sensitive for her, other women would be different. I have removed my PA recently as it was hindering things.

    2/ The PA was unusual at the beginning but it has become a bit of a hindrance as the anatomy just doesn't fit together as well. She does notice it alright but was never enamoured with it. The Apadravaya makes a lot of women crazy ...so if you can do the dry time then it is worth a try I would think.

    3/ Foreskin should still roll over it, again depending on what you get done exactly.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11 Apadravya


    Blub2k4 wrote:
    The Apadravaya makes a lot of women crazy ...so if you can do the dry time then it is worth a try I would think.


    Dry time??


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,057 ✭✭✭amazingemmet


    Not having sex


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11 Apadravya


    Not having sex


    She's going into hospital soon, nothing major, so I'll have a nice surprise for her when she gets out :p

    Blub2k4 wrote:
    The Apadravaya makes a lot of women crazy

    Do you not mean drive them crazy??




    Another question to whoever has it, how the hell did you hide the bleeding?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,057 ✭✭✭amazingemmet


    When i got my pa it bleed for a few dyas but i just stuck gauze down my boxers and was fine


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 936 ✭✭✭Beecher


    > Can't really speak from experience but i've got beading done and nearly every girl i sleep with has multiple orgasms once you get the position right, also there's a reason its called a happydravya

    What was the beading procedure/healing like and where did you get it done? Im tempted to convert my P.A into an Apadravya but in my mind I have this conception of how much that would hurt so im looking for something a bit easier for the moment, such as beading (it doesnt seem too bad), a frenum piercing or a double Dydoe.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,733 ✭✭✭Blub2k4


    Apadravya wrote:
    Do you not mean drive them crazy??


    make/drive meh .....yeah that's what I meant


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,733 ✭✭✭Blub2k4


    Beecher wrote:
    What was the beading procedure/healing like and where did you get it done? Im tempted to convert my P.A into an Apadravya but in my mind I have this conception of how much that would hurt so im looking for something a bit easier for the moment, such as beading (it doesnt seem too bad), a frenum piercing or a double Dydoe.


    If the pain is the issue then the dydoe would be worse than the apadravaya normally.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 936 ✭✭✭Beecher


    Blub2k4 wrote:
    If the pain is the issue then the dydoe would be worse than the apadravaya normally.

    Being circumcised my ridges arent as sensitive as most peoples so im presuming this should make it a lot less painful, allthough I would check this out for definite before doing it, plus I would be looking at getting them done horizontally so its not an especially deep or long piercing unlike the Apadravya.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,057 ✭✭✭amazingemmet


    Beecher wrote:
    What was the beading procedure/healing like and where did you get it done? Im tempted to convert my P.A into an Apadravya but in my mind I have this conception of how much that would hurt so im looking for something a bit easier for the moment, such as beading (it doesnt seem too bad), a frenum piercing or a double Dydoe.

    Done it myself with glen from fanatasia supervising, the procedure was pretty much painless was using xylocaine in the lube so was numb after the initial piercing. Heals fast as there's no open wound so your pretty much ready to rock after the stitches come out. Defintiely reccommend getting them their my favourite mod.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,733 ✭✭✭Blub2k4


    Beecher wrote:
    Being circumcised my ridges arent as sensitive as most peoples so im presuming this should make it a lot less painful, allthough I would check this out for definite before doing it, plus I would be looking at getting them done horizontally so its not an especially deep or long piercing unlike the Apadravya.


    Apparently there is a layer of some sort in the middle, a bit like if you have ever pierced your ear, and the needle needs to pop through that, apparently it is pretty tough and the pain is immense, it has the honour of the most painful piercing. In Snakebite they describe the pain of an appadravaya as being like slamming your dick in a door, dunno what could be more painful than that, but apparently it is the dydoe, have a read through some of the bmezine accounts, they are good.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11 Apadravya


    Blub2k4 wrote:
    In Snakebite they describe the pain of an appadravaya as being like slamming your dick in a door


    Hold on just a minute, are you for real??


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 936 ✭✭✭Beecher


    Blub2k4 wrote:
    Apparently there is a layer of some sort in the middle, a bit like if you have ever pierced your ear, and the needle needs to pop through that, apparently it is pretty tough and the pain is immense, it has the honour of the most painful piercing. In Snakebite they describe the pain of an appadravaya as being like slamming your dick in a door, dunno what could be more painful than that, but apparently it is the dydoe, have a read through some of the bmezine accounts, they are good.

    :eek: love beads it is im thinking!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,057 ✭✭✭amazingemmet


    Apadravya wrote:
    Hold on just a minute, are you for real??

    Yup thats what i've heard aswell hence the holding off getting it done. Still though i think we should have a group appadravya-athon


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,733 ✭✭✭Blub2k4


    Beecher wrote:
    :eek: love beads it is im thinking!

    I dont think that you should let the pain be the deciding factor, but that is just me, I always think that if the pain is your biggest concern and in a negative way, then you should consider sticking needles in your privates full stop....but that's just me.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 936 ✭✭✭Beecher


    Blub2k4 wrote:
    I dont think that you should let the pain be the deciding factor, but that is just me, I always think that if the pain is your biggest concern and in a negative way, then you should consider sticking needles in your privates full stop....but that's just me.

    I know I shouldnt let pain be the biggest factor, and I never have before. I Didnt have any worries before getting my P.A done or getting both my ears pierced and stretched to 6mm in one sitting or any other piercing I have had done but the general concensus I have heard about apadravya's leads me to believe that the procedure is on a pain treshhold far exceeding anything I have ever self-inflicted on my body before and its hard to get my mind and body into the right frameset for that.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,057 ✭✭✭amazingemmet


    I reckon the pain is all hype and what we need to do is have an Apadravya-athon bet we could get a discount aswell


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 936 ✭✭✭Beecher


    I reckon the pain is all hype and what we need to do is have an Apadravya-athon bet we could get a discount aswell

    If post-piercing-beers (maybe 1 pre ;) ) and 'Apadravya-athon 2006' T-shirts are involved im game :v:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,057 ✭✭✭amazingemmet


    Seems like a plan, any one else in?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11 Apadravya


    Seems like a plan, any one else in?


    Mmmmmm, I'm having doubts about "slamming a door on my cock", but I think I'll go through with it.

    Just trying to build up the willpower.

    Anybody know how much it is?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,057 ✭✭✭amazingemmet


    I checked with paddy just before x-mass and piercing at 3.4 was 80 yoyos. thats 2 in blub you in?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11 Apadravya


    piercing at 3.4

    Eh what??

    I'm a complete N00b to piercing apart from having both my ears done about 5 years ago (which were taken out soon after coz I looked like a twat :p ).


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,057 ✭✭✭amazingemmet


    its the diameter of the piercing most piercings are done at 1.6mm so this one would be double the size of a normal ring


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 936 ✭✭✭Beecher


    I checked with paddy just before x-mass and piercing at 3.4 was 80 yoyos. thats 2 in blub you in?

    Sweet, my P.A is allready at 3.4 so that should make this experience somewhat (like 5%) easier :v:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,057 ✭✭✭amazingemmet


    Well its half done if you think about it


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,733 ✭✭✭Blub2k4


    I know the appadravaya is a hard one to stretch so you have to get them done at the size more or less that you finally want them to be done.
    I cant get it done at the moment, am having err too much extracurricular fun at present....well not right now :P
    In any case it took me 5 years(ish) to build up to the PA so this will take a bit yet.
    I'll only go to snakebite anyway.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11 Apadravya


    Ok, will someone break it down for me, what exactly do they do in the procedure??


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,057 ✭✭✭amazingemmet


    Put simply, clean the area then mark the piercing it goes in one side of the frenum and through the urethra and exits in the middle of the head. cue screams and much hand gesturing


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11 Apadravya


    Put simply, clean the area then mark the piercing it goes in one side of the frenum and through the urethra and exits in the middle of the head. cue screams and much hand gesturing


    And is simply a needle straight through??

    Are we talking excruciating pain??

    I knew I should've just got it done before asking any questions :p


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,057 ✭✭✭amazingemmet


    And is simply a needle straight through??
    >yup

    Are we talking excruciating pain??
    >Supposedly like slamming your dick in a door but i reckon its all hype adn even it it does its all in the name of good fun

    I knew I should've just got it done before asking any questions
    >should of


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,733 ✭✭✭Blub2k4


    Are we talking excruciating pain??
    >Supposedly like slamming your dick in a door but i reckon its all hype adn even it it does its all in the name of good fun

    This is not my description, I saw it first on BMEzine and then was talking to Rob in Snakebite and he said " you sure he didn't talk to me, cos that's what I normally tell people"....I dont have any experience of it so this is second hand....but like emmet says....meh.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,057 ✭✭✭amazingemmet


    You know there is only one way to test this, is to slam someones dick in a door then make them get an appadravya and see which is worse. Any volunteers?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,733 ✭✭✭Blub2k4


    You know there is only one way to test this, is to slam someones dick in a door then make them get an appadravya and see which is worse. Any volunteers?

    Ok I'll get the appadravaya and you can do that door thing and we can compare notes on a pain scale of one to mary harney*.

    *a unit of pain which is the most painful that one can experience.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,057 ✭✭✭amazingemmet


    To be truly scientific the same person would have to do both maybe even do a large sample group and seeing as its my experiment ethically i can't take part


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 286 ✭✭!_Brian_!


    Got the apadravya about 3 years ago. Straight up, it was the sorest piercing I'v had done. It does hurt but the pain is only temporary, 10 minutes later its only an extremily sensitve member and a bit of a throb. Slamming your cock in a door? Not too far off the mark but thats only for a few seconds after the neddle goes through. You'll survive and its one deadly piercing afterwards. Was working in Bodyshock for a while at the time so got it done in there.

    To answer some of the previous questions, condoms are grand. Oral sex, as said before can get a little "noisier" due to clattering around but once you fit the smaller barbell if measured properly it'll only be a 5 or 6mm bead showing on either side when standing up to the challange. Anal sex wasnt bad but can be a bit much for some women and theres potential for some damage to the recieving party cause the tissiue is so delicate around the rectal wall kinda thing but be careful and lube up loads and you should be fine.

    Seriously tho, get it done. Its the job and no one will every question how hard you are again after! lol


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 19,183 ✭✭✭✭Will


    Im coming around to the idea of getting it done, been on my mind for a while. Thought id never actually consider getting it done before but it sorta is at the back of my mind, same with other piercings too :v:
    Thank god i have no money at the moment to do any of this :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,133 ✭✭✭Explosive_Cornflake


    Thinking about getting an apadravya. I don't currently have any genital piercings. Should i start with an AP first, or be a man and jump in at the deep end? Can you do that?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,057 ✭✭✭amazingemmet


    Go for it. From what i've read there's only two genital procedures really worth it from both partners point of view Appadrayvas and beads.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,133 ✭✭✭Explosive_Cornflake


    Been thnking about it a bit. If i think about it too much i won't get it done, so might just pop in wednesday, and say **** it, i'll do it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,057 ✭✭✭amazingemmet


    Yeah don't think about it, i started thinking about it and still haven't got it done


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1 Hentz


    Hello, I've had my apadravya piercing for 4 months now, but it still hurts like hell when i have sex? I can take max 2-3 minutes and then i have to stop because it is to painfull.. I have to remove the piercing when i have sex and then put it back in after..

    Any of you know that could be wrong? or have experiences anything simular?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 19,183 ✭✭✭✭Will


    Could be any number of issues. Go into a piercing studio and get them to check it out.

    The bar could be too long, could be too short. Very strange, go to a piercing studio as soon as possible.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30,123 ✭✭✭✭Star Lord


    The piercing could also be done with too narrow a gauge of piercing, I've heard that when it's done with too fine a bar it can feel like (and I quote!) "Cheesewire"... :eek:


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