"Easy" girls.

Magenta

While in college today, I overheard a lad I shifted in a nightclub telling his friend I was "easy". On that night, I started dancing with him, he seemed happy and we shifted for the rest of the night. He didn't ask me in, I texted him the next day and got nothing, possibly because he thought I was easy.
He has seen me with someone else in the same club since.

I'm wondering-what exactly, for you, defines an "easy" girl?
I shift someone on almost every night out, if they start dancing with me and I like them I'll dance back, but never sleep with them, for me, that's for relationships.

WhiteWashMan

are you worried about it?

The Troll

Magenta wrote:

I shifted

LOL.

shakaman

Generally pulling a girl involves some sort of chatting up.

In your case it looks like it doesn't, so it looks like an easy enough thing to do if all a fella has to do is dance with you. Hence the "easy" tag.

He may not have meant an easy lay but maybe just an easy snog.

mad m

Magenta wrote:

He didn't ask me in,

What do you mean by this?

Magenta wrote:

I shift someone on almost every night out.

Are you going to next boards beers by any chance? I wouldnt worry to much about it,maybe after a shift off you he thought it was a pass to the nether regions.Now that would be Easy.

by any chance!are you a law student?:D

D

I never use the term easy, because it carries too many derogatory connotations with it. Look at it this way, a girl once told me that the worst reason she had for sleeping with a guy was that his house was closer to the club than hers and she was tired. While I don't think that I would date that girl I still wouldn't use the term for the above reason. From what you told me, I wouldn't call you easy.

Magenta

A lot fo the time I'd be chatting to them first.
By asking me in, I meant asking me back to his.
I'm not particularly worried about it but I liked this guy a lot more than most of them, plus I don't want to get a really bad reputation.

I'm basically sick of getting hurt which is why I've chosen to just shift random people as opposed to being in a relationship, cos I've had nothing but trouble with relationships.

Oriel

Magenta wrote:

He didn't ask me in

Haha, looks like you're easy to me! First 'date' and you're scratching at his door...
BAD KITTY!


Righteo, I'm heading home...

Magenta

sinecurea wrote:

Haha, looks like you're easy to me! First 'date' and you're scratching at his door...

I bloody wasn't. After we left the club he asked me what I was doing and I told him I was going home.

Mossy Monk

I've chosen to just shift random people

heh, sounds like you move people about

Ruffty^

u so crazy. have fun while your young, that rhymes! When you start sleeping with randomers then u`v got a problem.

Magenta

Mossy Monk wrote:

heh, sounds like you move people about

Yeah, I line them up and play dominos with them

mad m

Ah get the Easy thing out of your head and just have fun,you are a long time dead,so Im told.




Going to next boards beers? Ill be wearing the Big Daddy outfit

Funkstard

I can't get over the overwhelming stench of mucksavageness coming from this thread.....


only joking. If you score someone every night, that's slut territory right there

Magenta

Funkstard wrote:

I can't get over the overwhelming stench of mucksavageness coming from this thread.....


only joking. If you score someone every night, that's slut territory right there

But I only shift them. I don't sleep with them.

Aisling(",)

To be honest is more girls that call other girls easy and sluts then fellas.I think you are "easy" if you are sleeping with a different guy every night.i don't think it fair that if a man where to do this he'd be called a legand but girls get called derogatory names.don't worry about it if the guy likes you he probably won't be put off by your reputation.If it makes you feel any better people call me and a few of my mates sluts and we haven't really done that much

Binomate

Enjoy yourself. If the guys are just as easy as you are.

RuggieBear

easy

Aisling(",)

Aisling(",) wrote:

If it makes you feel any better people call me and a few of my mates sluts and we haven't really done that much

god im so happy with the girls of today and their sexual innuendo!remember always to wear fresh underwear when you are out!:D !

Dave!

Yeah like some people have said, just enjoy yourself while you're able to pull the lads

Magenta

It's horrible being called names for it though.

Binomate

Magenta wrote:

It's horrible being called names for it though.

Well unfortunatly that's the way society works.

RuggieBear

Magenta wrote:

It's horrible being called names for it though.

so don't let them all seeing you being so easy

RobertFoster

He's probably afraid you want to Ctrl him next.

besty

Magenta wrote:

shift

:eek:

chern0byl

D wrote:

I still wouldn't use the term for the above reason

Ah bless...cant call a spade a spade. I'd say your easiest.

Magenta

Some of you are being plain nasty, namely sinecura and RuggieBear.

i know its horrible being called a stud but what can you do?

missingtime

The're just jealous. Personally I dont think the whole shifting some one everynight they go out would mark some one as easy. Do you keep score with your friends to see who shifted the most? I know someone who did that - sounds like a laugh in my opinion - especially if ye end up shifting the same person.

b3t4

Magenta,

Nevermind that fella's opinion or a few others on this thread. It's you're own opinion of yourself that matters. Hold you're head up high and guy's that will say things like this will not be noticed. Start to take what they say on board and that's when you'll have the problem.

A.

RuggieBear

b3t4 wrote:

Magenta,

Nevermind that fella's opinion or a few others on this thread. It's you're own opinion of yourself that matters. Hold you're head up high and guy's that will say things like this will not be noticed. Start to take what they say on board and that's when you'll have the problem.

A.

sound advice...i'd only add don't ask for opinions if you really don't want to hear them

Zombrex

To OP, the guy is probably an immature prick, but it is a reminder to you that you don't actually know any of these guys you shift in night clubs.

There is no guarranty that guys you shift that you barely know are going to be nice about it, or to you, afterward. If what they think of you afterwards can upset you maybe you might want to get to know them a bit better and limit your romantic encounters to men you have had a chance to properly suss out so you know they are decent blokes.

Otherwise you just have to accept that if you shift guys in clubs or night outs some of them are going to turn out to be pricks and say nasty things about you afterwards.

daRobot

Meh, that whole snogging that goes nowhere is annoying, and really childish underage disco type behaviour.

For me, if I fancy someone enough to kiss them, I fancy them enough to sleep with them.

Discretion is your friend.

LadyJ

Oh God,I could argue about this topic until I'm blue in the face and still everyone would have a different opinion and a different definition.

OP,what you did was not the actions of someone who could be described as "easy".

It has always angered me that there seems to be a whole different set of rules for guys and for girls when it comes to sex.

Personally,I think that everyone should be able to do whatever they like with regard to sex as long as they are safe and careful.

The reason being because,in time,most people realise that the best sex is with someone you really care about. So really it doesn't matter if you sleep with over a hundred people as long as you want to do it and you maintain your dignity and pride.

The term "easy" was given to women by men who were terrified when they realised that they weren't the only ones who could be players. They were used to using but not being used.

daRobot

I'm only to happy to be used:D

Giblet

Sounds like a teenage disco.

J.R.HARTLEY

just forget about him, what does his opinion count, and anyway if he's off talking about it the next day and calling you easy without even getting past first base, then why are you worried, the person he is and the people he'll mix with aren't worth worrying over.

jesus i remember when i was young, shiftin someone was the slang for goin all the way.

OFDM

Magenta wrote:

But I only shift them. I don't sleep with them.

What a prick tease. :eek:

RobertFoster wrote:

He's probably afraid you want to Ctrl him next.

Not as bad as Ctrl-Alt-Deleting him.

Miguel_Sanchez

It seems funny to me that a lot of guys and girls feel like they have to get off with someone every time they go out.

Doesn't make you easy, just makes you a young student.

You'll grow out of it.

*Oul_Doll_Cork*

Magenta...... I wouldn't call you easy because you kissed him because you thought he was good looking etc.... the term "easy" is used to describe someone who is easy to get into bed!!
The guy was probably bragging to his mates saying he did get something off you... what a f**ker...
... What you should do is confront him about it and make sure his friends are around!... don't leave him get away with that....

keevita

RobertFoster wrote:

He's probably afraid you want to Ctrl him next.

oh thats a good one. yes, i like that.

RuggieBear

*Oul_Doll_Cork* wrote:

Magenta...... I wouldn't call you easy because you kissed him because you thought he was good looking etc.... the term "easy" is used to describe someone who is easy to get into bed!!
The guy was probably bragging to his mates saying he did get something off you... what a f**ker...
... What you should do is confront him about it and make sure his friends are around!... don't leave him get away with that....

lol

Airblazer

definitely wouldn't class you as being easy..so you go out,have a few drinks,dance and a snog..who here hasn't done that when they were young?
to hell with the guy...sounds like an immature tosser who's only trying to sound like a man making out that he scored when all he's done is touch first base..
go out enjoy yourself and to hell with the begrudgers..u only live once and u might as well enjoy it

padser

Eh any girl who constantly gets scored on the dancefloor with no chatting up is most definetly easy.
If you dont go and sleep with em straight away i suppose thats something.
Maybe rather then whining about this on boards you could maybe 'shift' less randomers.
Also do you realise that lads actually have a tendency to respect you more if ur actually a challenge?

Rb

Magenta wrote:

While in college today, I overheard a lad I shifted in a nightclub telling his friend I was "easy". On that night, I started dancing with him, he seemed happy and we shifted for the rest of the night. He didn't ask me in, I texted him the next day and got nothing, possibly because he thought I was easy.
He has seen me with someone else in the same club since.

I'm wondering-what exactly, for you, defines an "easy" girl?
I shift someone on almost every night out, if they start dancing with me and I like them I'll dance back, but never sleep with them, for me, that's for relationships.

ROFL!
My guess is it's because you texted him so soon, probably made yourself look desperate and made him think "I can get that again when I want now" i.e that you're easy.
If you're going to be going around scoring different guys every night you're out, at least wait 'til they text you otherwise you'll get even more of a reputation.

Rnger

guys say all sorts off ****e to each other when girls arent around, dont take it too seriously just cuz your a slut

Rnger

now i hope you dont take that i called u a slut to heart

Binomate

Rnger wrote:

now i hope you dont take that i called u a slut to heart

Now, now. There is no need to resort to name calling just because you don't pull when/if you go out.

cregser

From what you've said I wouldn't say you're easy.

But if I saw you out a few nights and you were always 'shifting' different guys and talking to them outside afterwards, my imagination would fill the rest in - I'd think you were easy. I wouldn't bother finding out if you did or didn't shag all the guys, I'd assume you shagged most of them. Am I the only one?

Thordon

Christ, so many mixed messages in this thread, I agree with LadyJ, do what you want, just be safe, and dont take random peoples opinions too seriously.