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going mad.

  • 22-10-2004 1:22pm
    #1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 550 ✭✭✭


    I started seeing this guy in August, and before we went to college, everything was great!we were having a great time getting to know eachother, and I actually felt I could trust him.But he went to college in Dublin, and I went to Derry, and we only see each other at the weekends.
    the problem is, he told me he's been with 4 other girls.the thing thats gettin to me is, why did he tell me???he knew i was slightly pissed off about it, and lastnight, he txt me and asked for a blow job, even though he knows iv changed my ways.i really dont get him...what is he playing at?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,560 ✭✭✭optiplexgx270


    why bother with him sounds like a right tosser


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 217 ✭✭daosulli


    DUMP HIM, he doesnt sound like a tosser, HE IS A TOSSER


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 31,967 ✭✭✭✭Sarky


    Barbie_666 wrote:
    what is he playing at?

    It's called Silly Buggers, and you don't want to play along.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,304 ✭✭✭✭koneko


    Yeah, I'm going to have to agree, he doesn't sound very interested (except in the blowjob). Just dump him.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,643 ✭✭✭magpie


    You can ask for blow jobs by text now? Why didn't they have mobiles when I was 18?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,415 ✭✭✭Optikus


    Barbie_666 wrote:
    he txt me and asked for a blow job, even though he knows iv changed my ways.

    What were your ways before you changed them.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,120 ✭✭✭PH01


    He's obviously not the love of your life, so dump him, and put the whole thing down to experience.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 550 ✭✭✭Barbie_666


    "What were your ways before you changed them."

    I'v made a few mistakes in the past, (people who used Boards.ie last year will know this) , but i got over them and now its happening again.why the feck do i always pick suck f*ckin loosers???


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,415 ✭✭✭Optikus


    THB Don't worry to much about this guy he is just a wanker if you say you have changed well that is great for you, just try and change the type of guy you go for, if you seem to be having a lot of bad luck just put it down as experience and move on.. try not to dwell to much on things like this you will only end up recking your own head.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 31,967 ✭✭✭✭Sarky


    Perhaps you take things, or let others take things, too fast? Relax, there's plenty of life to enjoy...


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 217 ✭✭daosulli


    Barbie_666 wrote:
    "What were your ways before you changed them."

    I'v made a few mistakes in the past, (people who used Boards.ie last year will know this) , but i got over them and now its happening again.why the feck do i always pick suck f*ckin loosers???

    Dont worry about it, he's not so why should you, its da weekend ( and a bank holiday weekend at that :D ) get the glad rags on and have a good one tonite. 1st drinks on me


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,415 ✭✭✭Optikus


    Sindy wrote:
    thanks, but i dont feel up to it...mabey sunday night!

    Who's asking you?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,506 ✭✭✭irlirishkev


    Barbie_666 wrote:
    he knew i was slightly pissed off about it, and lastnight, he txt me and asked for a blow job

    :rolleyes: What an asshole... Ditch the creep.

    Kevin.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 550 ✭✭✭Barbie_666


    i think i just might!thanks guys.and sindy, join me 4 a drink if ya like!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,415 ✭✭✭Optikus


    Barbie_666 wrote:
    he txt me and asked for a blow job, even though he knows iv changed my ways.i really dont get him...what is he playing at?

    Was it his natural charm that attracted you to him??
    ;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 550 ✭✭✭Barbie_666


    i really dont know what attracted me to him!he hasn't txt me today yet, mabey he was stoned or drunk or something....


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 31,967 ✭✭✭✭Sarky


    Barbie_666 wrote:
    , mabey he was stoned or drunk or something....
    If you take one thing from this thread let it be the following: That's not an excuse.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,415 ✭✭✭Optikus


    Sarky wrote:
    If you take one thing from this thread let it be the following: That's not an excuse.

    An explanation none the less... that clearly explains he is a twat, and no good for you .. forget about him.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,478 ✭✭✭tribble


    Four other girls - go him!

    But seen as your his girlfriend then DUMP HIM.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,967 ✭✭✭✭Zulu


    Barbie_666 wrote:
    ...he knew i was slightly pissed off about it, and lastnight, he txt me and asked for a blow job...
    ...i think i just might!!
    :eek:
    You need to think about this? Do you like being treated like sh1te?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,099 ✭✭✭✭WhiteWashMan


    youre in university.
    go out and have fun with new people.
    if you want to give him a blowjob, give him one. hell, give everyone a blowjob, but stop wasting your time on just this guy. hes obviously not wasting his time on just you.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,859 ✭✭✭logic1


    I'd like a blowjob.

    .logic.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,560 ✭✭✭optiplexgx270


    hell so would i come to think of it can i be 1st in the queue?? .... PLEASE?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,859 ✭✭✭logic1


    hell so would i come to think of it can i be 1st in the queue?? .... PLEASE?

    Get in line buddy.

    .logic.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 19,777 ✭✭✭✭The Corinthian


    Barbie_666 wrote:
    why the feck do i always pick suck f*ckin loosers???
    That was Freudian...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,983 ✭✭✭✭tuxy


    the inability for certin people to get banned on this forum... i like it :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,959 ✭✭✭Nala


    Here's an idea...

    Take her advice.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,467 ✭✭✭✭Sleepy


    Sarky wrote:
    It's called Silly Buggers, and you don't want to play along.
    Sleepy's Post of the Week.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,467 ✭✭✭✭Sleepy


    That was Freudian...
    It won't let me give you any more rep Corinthian but that was a good spot!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 374 ✭✭meepmeep


    *cough*

    He slept with 4 other girls and you were only slightly pissed off about it?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 916 ✭✭✭MicraBoy


    I take it when you say:
    having a great time getting to know eachother

    you mean "sh@gging like rabbits"? No probs with that.

    Him mentioning about the four girls means one of two things:

    (A) He thinks you are a slapper.
    (B) He thinks you are just sex buddys.

    Him txting you for a bj following mentioning about the four girls means one of two things: See (A) and (B) above.

    I reckon two answer (A)'s = Dump him, cease all contact immeadiately!
    Two answer (B)'s = If thats okay with you, party on. Other wise dump him, cease all contact immeadiately.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 550 ✭✭✭Barbie_666


    meepmeep, im very pissed off, and micraboy i never shagged him, and i never will.
    iv just kicked (thats KICKED, not kissed, Corinthian) his sleazy, crotch-rot infected, herpes ridden, crab hopping, sorry ass to the kerb, leaving him begging for me to come back to him, promising he'll never do it again.
    i ain't going back agan.

    D. x


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 32,286 Mod ✭✭✭✭The_Conductor


    Sense prevails.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,500 ✭✭✭Mercury_Tilt


    This post has been deleted.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 345 ✭✭tck


    You really have to wonder about ppl like that.. just goes to show you what 'kind of' guys are out there, anyways, thing is women will still put up with it .


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 31,967 ✭✭✭✭Sarky


    Barbie_666 wrote:
    meepmeep, im very pissed off, and micraboy i never shagged him, and i never will.
    iv just kicked (thats KICKED, not kissed, Corinthian) his sleazy, crotch-rot infected, herpes ridden, crab hopping, sorry ass to the kerb, leaving him begging for me to come back to him, promising he'll never do it again.
    i ain't going back agan.

    D. x

    Christmas is saved! Huzzah!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 19,777 ✭✭✭✭The Corinthian


    Barbie_666 wrote:
    (thats KICKED, not kissed, Corinthian)
    Clever girl. There's hope for you yet.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 550 ✭✭✭Barbie_666


    he showed up at my house lastnight!!!OMG!!!
    we talked, and were not going 2 see each other again.were just gonna be friends.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 78,644 ✭✭✭✭Victor


    Barbie_666 wrote:
    the problem is, he told me he's been with 4 other girls.
    Since September? Or ever?
    Barbie_666 wrote:
    even though he knows iv changed my ways.
    Damn!! Oooh, wrong woman. MMmmmm, bacon. [/Homer voice]


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,707 ✭✭✭skywalker


    Barbie_666 wrote:
    he showed up at my house lastnight!!!OMG!!!
    we talked, and were not going 2 see each other again.were just gonna be friends.

    out of interest why do you want to be friends with him? from your post above about him being disease ridden it dosent seem like you want to be his friend.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 550 ✭✭✭Barbie_666


    friends close, enemys closer, and all that stuff....


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,522 ✭✭✭✭Gordon


    So that's why women love bastards.

    *ding* it all makes perfect sense!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,099 ✭✭✭✭WhiteWashMan


    Barbie_666 wrote:
    friends close, enemys closer, and all that stuff....

    what you mean is its sometimes better to not burn your bridges when you may at some stage in the future want a shag?

    makes sense.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 87 ✭✭kopijack


    what ya doin in Derry??


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,859 ✭✭✭logic1


    How about that blowjob?

    .logic.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,807 ✭✭✭chump


    hey barbie, just a tip for the next time you choose a boy to go out..
    instead of caving into to the pressure to impress him too early why nawt make him work for you a bit - make him take you out for dinner and the like and get to know him a bit b4 you decide to juice him ...

    if you hold off a while you might find out if they're hanging around for you or for ... other things


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,120 ✭✭✭PH01


    logic1 wrote:
    How about that blowjob?

    .logic.
    Logic, are you the same guy that Barbie has just dumped?

    Anyway, blowjobs are over-rated.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,859 ✭✭✭logic1


    PH01 wrote:
    Logic, are you the same guy that Barbie has just dumped?

    Sorry to disappoint but no.
    Anyway, blowjobs are over-rated.

    You'd probably have to actually get one before making sweeping assumptions like that.

    .logic.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,336 ✭✭✭OfflerCrocGod


    PH01 wrote:
    Anyway, blowjobs are over-rated.
    Wait 'till your balls drop.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,120 ✭✭✭PH01


    logic1 wrote:
    Sorry to disappoint but no.
    Aww, pity. It's would have been interesting to have one of those girlfriend and boyfriends break-ups live on air.
    logic1 wrote:
    You'd probably have to actually get one before making sweeping assumptions like that.
    .logic.
    Wait 'till your balls drop.
    :D:D:D
    Well I guess then I've never had a good one yet. ;) But, hey, who am I to judge?

    Like how many women out there like giving blowjobs? I would say few. And you know yourself, if you don't like something you're just not going to do a good job. Therefore good blowjobs are few and far between (unless one pays for it). And/or they just existed primarily in the sexual fantasy world of men.


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