Feeling insecure...

Johnny Versace

Isn't it just horrible when you feel insecure about something?

For example, my girlfriend started acting really weird last night (for unknown reasons, to me anyway) and now she is ignoring my texts. So of course my brain is now getting all paranoid and I'm feeling... insecure.

It's not a nice feeling, not one I feel often, and not really beneficial to me whatsoever.

You know what I mean?

KlodaX

If you don't know what you did wrong .. how can we help you!

I'm joking.

Where you taking anything last night? ..

call round to her ask her wats up. This is a bit of a personal issue isn't it?

ClareBear

I am Miss Insecurity so I feel your pain!

Still though....I don't blame you for feeling that way because of the way she's acting.

Johnny Versace

I didn't do anything as far as I know... I'm generally a pretty caring boyfriend.

She seemed to just kind of switch off... become distant...

According to a friend of mine it was after she took a phone call which she was talking kind of suspisciously on...

Although she was quite tired...

I don't want to ring her as I wanna play it cool... not seem insecure... you know what I mean?

...

AARRRGH I prefer when I'm being the bastard

Tusky

Heh I know how it is , Im feeling the same way at the moment... Txt messages have complicated things , they should have never been invented.

ClareBear

Originally posted by Tusky
Heh I know how it is , Im feeling the same way at the moment... Txt messages have complicated things , they should have never been invented.

Exactly!!! I'm always picking up wrong signals from text messages. Not with friends, but with guys. It's just easier to ring them.

Johnny I'd say give her a ring some time this evening if you haven't heard from her.

Johnny Versace

Originally posted by ClareBear
Johnny I'd say give her a ring some time this evening if you haven't heard from her.

Yeah, I'll wait until then... in pain...

mang87

When I feel insecure I just put it out of my head by thinking of sex :cool:

Naw, I hope you feel better soon, and find out whats up with your moth. It is pretty aweful feeling when someone you care for suddenly pretends like you don't exist. I know it's hard to believe, because im so unbelievably cool and what not, but my g/f did this to me. Although she was just looking for more attention
May be the same with yours... Either that or PMS A.K.A Mad Cow Desease.

Yeah, give her a call this evening and ask her what the story is, why she is acting this way. Don't do it while you are drunk/stoned/pissed off. Have a clear head!

I try to txt as little as possible to everyone, it's better to ring them and talk to them. Less confusion.


Woman, eh? :dunno:

RichyX

Originally posted by ClareBear
I am Miss Insecurity so I feel your pain!

Freaky that I should look at this topic now. Had a big argument with my extremely insecure girlfriend last night.
Coincidence is her name is Clare too, but Clare bear is a nickname I have(had...) for her. Hope your not from Macroom in Cork too!

ClareBear

Originally posted by XCRichard
Freaky that I should look at this topic now. Had a big argument with my extremely insecure girlfriend last night.
Coincidence is her name is Clare too, but Clare bear is a nickname I have(had...) for her. Hope your not from Macroom in Cork too!

I could be so evil now and say it's me and freak you out....but no....I'm from Cork but I'm not your girlfriend

Memnoch

This is kind of stupid by me...

My gf had just gotten a new mobile, and I was texting her. Being lazy I was actually keying in her number, every time ( trying to memorise it), while texting her.

We had had a fight that day and I accidentaly sent a couple of texts to a wrong number by switching one of the digits. After going nuts for a couple of hours wondering why she hadn't texted me back, I realised my previous text was to a wrong number.

So I called her up..

turned out she had been feeling a bit antsy herself wondering I never replied to her last message

it was so stupid we forgot all about our fight :P

PrecariousNuts

YOU ARE BROADCASTING AN IP!!!!

Agent Smith

Originally posted by ClareBear
I'm from Cork but I'm not your girlfriend

i thought you were data's girlfriend?

UnrealQueen

Originally posted by PrecariousNuts
YOU ARE BROADCASTING AN IP!!!!

huh?

senordingdong

Take my advice.

Mercury_Tilt

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Woden

Originally posted by agent smith
i thought you were data's girlfriend?

careful now, down with this sort of thing,

nope clarebear is not my girlfriend, talk about viscious rumours

ClareBear

Originally posted by Dataisgod
careful now, down with this sort of thing,

nope clarebear is not my girlfriend, talk about viscious rumours

For the last time I'm not his girlfriend. Fecking bunch of gossipers!

Doodee

its like warewolves, women get that way.

One minute its happy sunshine and sugardust next *BANG* Your the twat who forgot it was your 6 month, 7 days and 14th hour anniversary.**


** Possible exaggeration

Woden

funny i didn't see any exaggeration in there at all, its all true,

/me runs off and cries

Doodee

Ahh DAta.

the man who understands women is not a man at all.

ClareBear

Originally posted by Doodee
its like warewolves, women get that way.

One minute its happy sunshine and sugardust next *BANG* Your the twat who forgot it was your 6 month, 7 days and 14th hour anniversary.**


** Possible exaggeration

I'm sure some girls are like that but most aren't....I'm nothing like that....ask Dataisgod!! LOL!

Woden

Originally posted by Doodee
Ahh DAta.

the man who understands women is not a man at all.

back all cried out,

your ideas intrigue me though and i wish to subscribe to your newsletter

KlodaX

well Johnny ... are we getting closure on this story? ... did you find out if you did anything?

Doodee

Originally posted by ClareBear
I'm sure some girls are like that but most aren't....I'm nothing like that....ask Dataisgod!! LOL!

Yea right.
Thems is just the gurls who lure you into a false sense of security then *WHAM* all of a sudden your doing the washing up and holding handbags cause an hour or so before she snuck up on you from behind the fridge and hit you over the head with a frying pan.

wheres the mathematical equation when u need it
GIrls = Evil

ClareBear

Proper order too!

Emboss

Originally posted by Johnny Versace
Isn't it just horrible when you feel insecure about something?

For example, my girlfriend started acting really weird last night (for unknown reasons, to me anyway) and now she is ignoring my texts. So of course my brain is now getting all paranoid and I'm feeling... insecure.

It's not a nice feeling, not one I feel often, and not really beneficial to me whatsoever.

You know what I mean?

Stop being a girl.

You're worse than a wife

Woden

translate that as your worse then MY wife

Doodee

Isn't Emboss married to Typedef?

Woden

i see interesting, so doodee your worse then typedef for some reason

Emboss

Originally posted by Dataisgod
translate that as your worse then MY wife

No, They're all the same so it's A WIFE

Emboss

Originally posted by Doodee
Isn't Emboss married to Typedef?

What are you sticking your little man into this for?

Doodee

He aint heavy, he's my Buddy

the fnj

More of a personal issue to be honest.

Gordon

Johnny - has this got to do with the ex husband guy of your girlfriend?

Johnny Versace

Originally posted by KlodaX
well Johnny ... are we getting closure on this story? ... did you find out if you did anything?

Yeah, sorry, just got back online now.

Turns out my instincts were right - she thought I was sleeping with a friend of mine (a misunderstanding) - my friend had stayed with me because of a rat in her apartment. I thought my girlfriend had heard me inviting the friend to stay over, but she didn't, and later found out...

It's cleared up now... kind of

And no, I didn't shag my friend!

patch

Originally posted by Johnny Versace


And no, I didn't shag my friend!

We believe you Johnny. Really, we do.

Johnny Versace

Originally posted by patch
We believe you Johnny. Really, we do.

OK, I didn't have sexual relations with her

Trojan

Originally posted by Johnny Versace
OK, I didn't have sexual relations with her

And she didn't inhale, right?

Emboss

A rat.....ok

That's a new one...

quarryman

.....because of a rat in her apartment. [/B]

is that who was on the phone to her so?

Johnny Versace

There actually is a rat in her apartment... and no we didn't do anything. She's my friend.

God you're a cynical bunch

Sleipnir

Rats? That a good un'
Plus you can use that excuse again and again for different creatures

"Ants, this time darling"

"She only staying because there's a moose in her bathroom.
Nuisance mooses"

The Corinthian

Originally posted by Johnny Versace
There actually is a rat in her apartment... and no we didn't do anything. She's my friend.

God you're a cynical bunch

But have you ever had sexual realtions with your friend? Does your gf know or suspect that you have had? If so, then she would have good reason to be concerned, even if you are blameless.

Johnny Versace

Originally posted by The Corinthian
But have you ever had sexual realtions with your friend? Does your gf know or suspect that you have had? If so, then she would have good reason to be concerned, even if you are blameless.

No sexual relations with this friend I'm afraid

The girlfriend has no reason to be suspiscious... I'm a good boy

The Corinthian

Originally posted by Johnny Versace
I'm a good boy

But does she know this or has she reason to think otherwise? She may have heard stories of past gf's, for example. A woman may knowingly go out with a guy who has played the field, and even logically know that he's turned a new leaf, but the doubt and paranoia will remain there for a long time to come.

Uphill struggle for you to convince her, I'm afraid.

Johnny Versace

Originally posted by The Corinthian
Uphill struggle for you to convince her, I'm afraid.

Yup, she is defo suspiscious. Most likely because my friends are such dogs

Ahhh... with time she'll be grand...

Tiesto

Just looking at ur reply to the "which methods of contraceptive u use Johny"

ur reply being

Originally posted by Johnny Versace
Normally pill.

Current girlfriend, withdrawal method.

Yes, very risky, I know.

maybe thats why she is not replying, maybe u are gonna be a daddy haha

Mighty_Mouse

She thought you were shagging around and all she did was ignore you "texts" !!!

Johnny Versace

Yeah I know

Actually, she didn't think I was shagging her, but she knows this friend wants to shag me. She trusts me, but still worries.

It was just a misunderstanding though. There is no way I would cheat on my girlfriend.

Kone

Fair play to you Johnny, if I could find a nice asian gal, I would never cheat on her ever!