Girl Problems

kmart6

Ok you might be sick of seeing these type of threads but anyway juat give it a read and advise me

Right there's this girl in my class that is a year older than me and we have none eahother for four years.In that four years we have always been very close she would tell me everything that was happening to her.I really like her but I don't no if she feel's the same.

Another problem in the equation now is that her younger sister and I are becoming very close aswell in the last two weeks.She's only three months older than me but I can't say I know ger aswell as her sister.

The two of them are drop dead gorgeous.So it's not like I can pick one on looks.

Anybody got any advice for me on who to pick or what to do??

Sir Digby Chicken Caesar

you're young

**** it.. does it matter?

kmart6

It does in a way cause I don't wnna ruin a friendship with the older sister

MojoMaker

Then don't do anything, could it be any simpler?? Put it back in your pants until you meet someone you don't want to be platonic friends with. It will happen sooner or later.

Why do you have to pick one anyway? Would she be your first?

kmart6

Originally posted by MojoMaker
Why do you have to pick one anyway? Would she be your first?

because the younger one told me earlier she really likes me so I just wanna decide on one of them now so I can tellher my decision.

I would pick the older one,but like I said she tell's me everything and told me she's after this older lad

Davey Devil

Go with the younger version then and be friends with the older one.Simple.

cerebus

Originally posted by kmart6
The two of them are drop dead gorgeous.So it's not like I can pick one on looks.

There is a lot to be said for thinking it through.
How do you feel about them both?
Really, ask yourself which sister speaks to your soul.
Every time you're talking to them, see who you're most comfortable with.
Even go so far as to mention it to them.
See how they react.
Open not just your eyes, but your heart.
Make your decision once you're happy.
Eventually, only you can really decide.

My first post on PI - I feel dirty...

Magic Monkey

You should write for Hallmark :rolleyes:

Davey Devil is right.

Magic Monkey

You should write for Hallmark :rolleyes:

Mr. Devil hit it on the head...

TheWolf

Originally posted by cerebus
Even go so far as to mention it to them.
See how they react.

Why do I forsee that ending in a "WHAT????" followed by a quick slap?

hedgetrimmer

Well, if you are close to both sisters, and start going out with one, you are inevtiably going to alienate the other - there is no way around it. Have you any gauge as to whether they have feelings for you, cos if they don't and you "make a move", you change the nature of the friendship.

If you sole reason for wanting to be with either is becuase they are good friends and "Drop dead gorgeous", maybe you should pause a second, forget about little kmart6 and just maintain the friendship. Risking a friendship for love is one thing. Risking it for a potentially brief relationship or a shag oftne leads to ruining the (or in this case possibly both) friendships

L5

Ask them how they'd feel about a threesome....

*ducks*

Beruthiel

:rolleyes:
there's always one...

catho_monster

Go with the younger version then and be friends with the older one.Simple.

i definately agree,
you've nothing to lose there - too much to lose with the older one

Walls

If you can't choose between the two you shouldn't be in a relationship with either one. Do both a favour and leave 'em alone.

Go buy yourself a nice hamster or something. That should be enough responsibility for now.

midget lord

there's always one...

This time there is two, as i would definitely go for the two of them, play them off against eachother and see which one is

a) better in bed
b) better in the kitchen
c) which one brings you beer quicker
d) which one supports your football team

DUX

Suggest a threesome.....:D

Beruthiel

Originally posted by DUX
Suggest a threesome.....:D

I'll be suggesting a 'threesome bannage' if ye keep this up!
B

uberwolf

ménage et never mind.

I reckon the younger one, cos the older one is more of a risk. At the same time that extra baggage might be the thing that makes it worthwhile. This is tougher than it first appears. She's considerably older, given your age, and that is a factor. I'm still leaning towards the younger one.

fitz

Well, 4 years plus telling you about chasing older bloke = well into the friend-zone with the older one.

I'd tend to agree with Walls to a certain extent, but at the start of a relationship, with not as much emotional investment, if you don't find your feelings for the older one resolving to platonic ones as your feelings for the younger develop in something deeper, then you're not going to do too much damage in withdrawing from your entanglement with the younger.

However, go after the older, and you'll most likely get the knock-back, ruining your friendship, and you won't have a hope with the younger one.

















Actually, to hell with it, shag them both...at the same time.

And get a video-recorder.

Gearoid

Pick one and send the other to me!!:D

Agent Orange

Go for the younger one. She can be more easily manipulated.

Typedef

Originally posted by Walls If you can't choose between the two you shouldn't be in a relationship with either one. Do both a favour and leave 'em alone.

Bad advice ... ignore.

Go buy yourself a nice hamster or something.

Perhaps ... very ... very good advice.

Ask Richard Gere for clarification.


Basically though.

There 'IS NO SUCH THING AS A FEMALE FRIEND'... the sex thing always gets in the way... somehow.

So, should you turn down sister (1) (who you might be able to have sex with) in order to 'stay-friends' with sister (2) (who you aren't having sex with, and might never)?




That's a rhetorical question bye the bye.

Quigs Snr

You're young. They both look good, you like them both, one is up for it, you don't know about the other one.

There really is no choice, go for the one who's up for it.

kmart6

Originally posted by Davey Devil
Go with the younger version then and be friends with the older one.Simple.

Ah well yu see it's not that simple as I don't no how the older sister would react to the fact I'm with her younger sister

Kali

She fancies some other guy you said, so go for the younger one.

Doodee

Girls are evil.

Typedef

Funny enough so is Doodee....


What with the hippie hair-cut....


Maybe that makes him a girl too.

/saunters away at speed.

Gangsta

Doodee is evil, evil i say.










If you're that good friends with the older one then ask her about going with the younger one as she likes u and the older one like sum other lad, go for the younger

Doodee

Originally posted by Typedef
Funny enough so is Doodee....


What with the hippie hair-cut....


Maybe that makes him a girl too.

/saunters away at speed.

well hello...

I only just noticed this.

I am no girl, my hair is as long as is cause im worth it.

and yes, i am evil.

/me gives chase with a tinfoil axe

cerebus

Originally posted by cerebus
There is a lot to be said for thinking it through.
How do you feel about them both?
Really, ask yourself which sister speaks to your soul.
Every time you're talking to them, see who you're most comfortable with.
Even go so far as to mention it to them.
See how they react.
Open not just your eyes, but your heart.
Make your decision once you're happy.
Eventually, only you can really decide.

Sometimes I don't know why I bother - looks like nobody knows what acrostic means.

I hereby claim credit for all threesome references in this thread - yay for subliminal messages \o/

Silent Grape

ahhhhhh! thats funny! teehee

Doodee

You cant have your cake and eat it too.

Pick which one u want and sto[p causing so much bother.

DriftingRain

Without reading anyone elses comments I think you gave yourself the answer...The younger one already told you she likes you and chances are she probally already told her sister she liked you before she told you, anyhow, your not near as close to her as you are the older. Go for the younger...and if things don't happen the correct way...let her go gently so as not to ruin things with the sister!


Good Luck!


~DR~

Psygnosis

Man bit of advice here after comming out of a long relationship 5 years ill give u a bit of advice (from a bitter twisted old man). Dont go out with any girl younger than 25 they have this mad idea in ther head called AUSTRALIA if they dont go they will regret it for the rest of there lives.

Myg

Pick the one with the strongest character (reliable, honest, caring, etc...) and the highest moral standard. Easy. BTW LOL at your comment mickb, its too damn true (atlest in my perspective).

dod

<warning>This is not a generalisation</warning>
WIMMIN. They're all nuts.

kaimera

Originally posted by Myg
Pick the one with the strongest character (reliable, honest, caring, etc...) and the highest moral standard.

this is real life, not a frickin' RPG

Giblet

Younger one, don't mess around when you have a sure thing like, jesus, just causing yourself hassle then, and it sounds like you've got it complicated enough by even having to think about it.

Myg

Emmm, someone has been playing UO too much. These things exist in this world, just look for them and you will find them.

krattapopov

id for the younger one, specially if she seems to like you, stay mates with the older one

if you do start going out with the younger one, maybe the older one will get jealous and then you can get her, hahaha cos lets be honest thats the one you want

androphobic

Originally posted by mickb00
Man bit of advice here after comming out of a long relationship 5 years ill give u a bit of advice (from a bitter twisted old man). Dont go out with any girl younger than 25 they have this mad idea in ther head called AUSTRALIA if they dont go they will regret it for the rest of there lives.

lol

Quigs Snr

Originally posted by mickb00
Man bit of advice here after comming out of a long relationship 5 years ill give u a bit of advice (from a bitter twisted old man). Dont go out with any girl younger than 25 they have this mad idea in ther head called AUSTRALIA if they dont go they will regret it for the rest of there lives.

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Funny enough, after finishing up after 7 years, I didn't even laugh at this. Its definitely a factor.

kmart6

Originally posted by Giblet
Younger one, don't mess around when you have a sure thing like, jesus, just causing yourself hassle then, and it sounds like you've got it complicated enough by even having to think about it.

Ok another new problem to the equation.The younger sister has a identical twin sister and i just found out that she likes me two.I know many of you think I should go with the first one as the second one could only be doing what her sister does and I have no problem with that,because if I am going to pick one of the first two it will be the younger sister over the older sister.Butnow back to the twins I can't tell them apart for the life of me,so the second twin that I don't want to be with could easily come up to me and I could mistake her for the first twin.

Now it's very compicated:rolleyes:

MF2HD

Ok Ok this sounds a bit odd now....who told you the other twin likes you....i'm thinking they're winding you up.....being girlies and all lol

for what its worth I don't think you should go near any of them, if you have to choose one of them like a packet of candy you don't like any of them enough....you should feel it in your gut....er or something

(thats my tuppence as a gurl)

Sir Digby Chicken Caesar

this is the most fantasticist bestest thread EVUR

Psygnosis

Man though isnt it true though about that AUSTRALIA place whats the dilio there

Da_cOmRaDe_MiKe

dude, i think its clear that the older girl is a great friend to you. so id she is areal friend then she would not have a problem with you going with her sister.

look at it this way, she wants you to be happy. and you want her to be happy. but if she were to have a problem with you going with her sister then she isnt all shes cracked up to be. and you know where your priorities lie then. but she will be happy for you.

try explaining it to her that you like her sister and her aswell but have chosen her sister only bcos the older one is obviously interested in someone else that she told you about. whats the point in hurting your self anymore over the feelings of the older sister when she fancy's some other lad? to be honest and blunt friend, if she had feelings for you she would have told you by now. i can understand that your best friends. but where does best friends stop and relationships begin?

my advice to you is salvage your friendship with the OLDER girl who is CLEARLY INTERESTED in someone ELSE and is also a better friend to you than her sister.
Go with the younger sister but i stress the point of telling/informing BUT NOT ASKING her permission as she can easily make it hard for you. But i tell you if she truly is a friend that you love as a friend and she values your friendship then she will give you the go ahead and will be happy for you.

thats my view. and advice. dont worry about hurting any of them. They are the ones who CAN possibly hurt you. they have each other. Sisters are best friends. You dont have them in your life for ever. make the most of it. dont listen to the stupid **** about threesomes. you want a relationship. not a good night. you deserve to be happy aswell.. thats the important thing. just dont let them run your life or make you feel guilty about it. because in the end they will be the first to abandon a friendship. from experience girls always walk first... they can easily find more however in a lot of cases men cant... and im not on about sex... im on about friendship and commitment as a good honest friend...

JUST REMEMBER BE HONEST ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS. ITS YOUR DECISION... YOUR LIFE... YOUR HEART... dont let them ruin you over nothing... its just a relationship.

androphobic

Originally posted by Quigs Snr
Funny enough, after finishing up after 7 years, I didn't even laugh at this. Its definitely a factor. [/B]

must apologise.. wasnt tryin to be rude! just did a similar thing myself so hit home

secret_squirrel

Originally posted by kmart6
Butnow back to the twins I can't tell them apart for the life of me,so the second twin that I don't want to be with could easily come up to me and I could mistake her for the first twin.

Like they are gonna play swapsies on ya? - And if they do - think of the bragging rights.....

BTW All these scenarios arent occuring in your dreams are they??? (the rest of you were thinking it too)

/me chants : are you magnus hedman in disguise?

kmart6

No there not from my dream's.I know that it is very hard to believe but i can assure all reader's that it is true and none of it is made up