what do people do?

The Second · 22-10-2003 3:59pm #1

if you are seeing someone ... and you've done the whole cinema and pub thing... what do you do then? taking into account we both live with our folks.

yossarin · 22-10-2003 4:07pm

bring her on a tour of the nicer landscapes and natural sights, like the back seat of your fathers car.

where are you ?
what are you into? (outdoor-sey, etc?)

dublin:
go out for a day to howth or dalkey on the dart.
go to dalkey island and look at the fort.
go up 3 rock and look at the city.
go to the various art galleries in town.

or more active:
go-kart racing
cook her a nice meal when you folks are going to be out
...more to come as i think of them... but try to plan activities together.

Sarky · 22-10-2003 4:07pm

Paintball?
Bowling?
Week in Europe?

The Second · 22-10-2003 4:10pm

not in Dublin unfortunately ... Dundalk

misswex · 22-10-2003 4:12pm

Only 3rd date and you have run out of ideas already????

elexes · 22-10-2003 4:22pm

ask her what she would like to do ?

Dr. Dre · 22-10-2003 4:24pm

"Take her to an owl sanctuary or a victorian folly"
Or maybe "longstanton spice museum"

Anyone......???

EDIT: There is now a bowling alley in scumdalk, close to the racecourse.

The Second · 22-10-2003 4:50pm

a: I am the she
b: not bowling
c: came up with a solution... my gaf and alcohol

jonhate · 22-10-2003 4:58pm

Ye and dont forget sex as well...:D

he'll love that

elexes · 22-10-2003 5:00pm

sex ? r is it a bad time ?

u could go for a long walk ? excersize ? cinema ? get a vid and over to a house ? clubbing ?

The Second · 22-10-2003 5:01pm

cheeky

jonhate · 22-10-2003 5:03pm

Go the gym and make him look like a weed...that will float his boat ...maybe???

Have you tried Experimenting??

The Second · 22-10-2003 5:05pm

experimenting? how do you mean?

GuanYin · 22-10-2003 5:09pm

Experimenting....

you get a test tube some chemicals and a willing test subject.....

patch · 22-10-2003 5:21pm

Originally posted by The Second
experimenting? how do you mean?

:eek: Don't ask a question like that! -It's just looking for trouble...

Mossy Monk · 22-10-2003 5:34pm

go to the zoo

ShriekingSheet · 22-10-2003 5:40pm

Originally posted by Mossy Monk
go to the zoo

ahh the zoo...!

jonhate · 22-10-2003 5:45pm

RE: Experimenting skyeirl has it right a test tube and a willing subject in this case, him.

And beat the hell out of him....Nah seriously Whips, S&M, dungeon games...EXPERIMENTING.

Originally posted by Mossy Monk
go to the zoo

Nah dont go to the zoo unless you like faecal matter thrown at you...DO YOU???

NOW THATS EXPERIMENTING.

PS Patch you are a man of much wisedom.

Mac daddy · 22-10-2003 6:07pm

have a ride come back to use then we will tell you what to do next

Other thing bring one of your girlfriends over have a ride with her in front of him then let him join in

jonhate · 22-10-2003 7:40pm

Originally posetd by Mac daddy
have a ride come back to use then we will tell you what to do next

ROFL!!!!:D

OR Just wait till Funderland rolls around

FUN FOR ALL THE FAMILY!:p

T.G Catter · 22-10-2003 7:47pm

Go to the beach some day, nice long walk.. maybe even build a sandcastle, and write your names in the sand....

tman · 22-10-2003 7:48pm

Originally posted by T.G Catter
Go to the beach some day, nice long walk.. maybe even build a sandcastle, and write your names in the sand....

yes, and then pick some flowers, blokes love that kind of stuff:rolleyes:

misswex · 23-10-2003 7:59am

Blokes might not like that stuff but most women do and more than likely will be very thankful and grateful

tman · 23-10-2003 10:39am

ahhhhh, gotcha.
doing all that girly crap = sex at the end...

yossarin · 23-10-2003 1:23pm

how about a day trip somewhere if your home town is carp?
its funny though how we all assumed that it was the boy trying desparetly to entertain the girl.

Kalina · 23-10-2003 1:29pm

Take her horseriding.. that would win me over for sure!!

patch · 23-10-2003 1:36pm

Originally posted by Kalina
Take her horseriding.. that would win me over for sure!!

Then of course you could just compromise. Show him a picture of a horse, and ask him if wants to go riding? ww)

Kalina · 23-10-2003 1:51pm

Originally posted by patch
Then of course you could just compromise. Show him a picture of a horse, and ask him if wants to go riding? ww)

Charming Patch, charming!!:D

elexes · 23-10-2003 2:18pm

Originally posted by tman
ahhhhh, gotcha.
doing all that girly crap = sex at the end...

this is why guys stick all the every day crap that girls put us through .

the zoo dose sound like a good ida
that poler bear kicks ass

Hobart · 23-10-2003 2:56pm

Originally posted by elexes
this is why guys stick all the every day crap that girls put us through .

the zoo dose sound like a good ida
that poler bear kicks ass

The Polar bear(s) is (are) gone.

elexes · 23-10-2003 3:26pm

Originally posted by Hobart
The Polar bear(s) is (are) gone.

what who stole them . they were classic

Kold · 23-10-2003 3:30pm

originally posted by jonhate

quote:

Originally posetd by Mac daddy
have a ride come back to use then we will tell you what to do next
quote:
Originally posetd by Mossy Monk
go to the zoo

THE WORD IS POSTED!!!!

Dustaz · 23-10-2003 4:50pm

jesus, just go to the pub like everyone else.

Selik · 23-10-2003 6:19pm

Watch some TV.....

And the do it like they do on the Discovery Channel!!!

jonhate · 24-10-2003 12:03am

Man Kold you a petty man...you could even say cold...
And why could you be arsed to say anything man???

JUST FOR YOU POSETD,POSETD,POSETD,POSETD,POSETD,POSETD.
Bet you Hated THAT!!!

Do you want me to go back and change them????CAUSE I WILL JUST FOR YOU

Anyway Take him to See Kill Bill he'll love that.
:ninja:

The Second · 28-10-2003 5:06pm

seen Kill Bill with him... went to the pub...
trying hard not to sleep with him... hense the reason for this thread! need an alternative!

zoo is a day time thing... I'm sure they have security guards at night... but other than that it was a good idea!

any other suggestions?

patch · 28-10-2003 5:19pm

Finally proof!!!!!! See lads? They DO go out of their way not to sleep with us!

What ever happened to letting things take their natural course? If you want him, and you know he wants you, SLEEP WITH HIM.
Damn mind games.......

][cEMAN** · 28-10-2003 5:33pm

Originally posted by The Second
seen Kill Bill with him... went to the pub...
trying hard not to sleep with him... hense the reason for this thread! need an alternative!

zoo is a day time thing... I'm sure they have security guards at night... but other than that it was a good idea!

any other suggestions?

It's not a great thing to be thinking 'Sleeping with him is an option only as something to do when we can't think of anything else'.

TBH guys don't really care what they do too much. I mean you've done cinema and pub - if he likes films do it again. If he likes drink he might prefer that. It is something you can do over again, but if he's into you i'm sure if you do whatever you want to do he'll tag along.

Failing that....um...I dunno....take up skateboarding

The Second · 28-10-2003 5:40pm

I don't want things to get boring... or routine .. and I've only been seeing him for 2 weeks now... and we seem to end up somewhere in his car all the time! .. we are broke students so pubbing all the time would seem obvious .. but expensive .... and there are only so many films you can see in the cinema

The Second · 28-10-2003 5:45pm

I'm not thinking of sleeping with him as an alternative... I just don't want it to end up being the only thing!

elexes · 28-10-2003 7:06pm

but its fun

Lord Nikon · 29-10-2003 5:11am

Watch a video,
cinema,
pub,
clubbing,
concert,
bowling,
ice-skating,
go to the beach late at night,
show up naked and bring beer,
go shopping,
plan a trip away,
get to know each other better,
go for ice-cream and cappuchino,

Don't hang out or ring each other every day. Spend sometime apart so when you do talk to each other you have something to talk about.
:cool:

wild_eyed · 30-10-2003 1:12pm

if i was the fella, and you were some hot piece of ass, i'd be happy to hang out. but let him know that sex is not an option, cause guys (like me) see reasons to have sex in everything, eg. ohh look she is starting to lean on me, i'll pop a rubber on, or . ohh look she is getting a glass of water, i'll take off my clothes.

CombatCow · 30-10-2003 2:06pm

Originally posted by Dr. Dre
"Take her to an owl sanctuary or a victorian folly"
Or maybe "longstanton spice museum"

Anyone......???

Holy $hit thats the funniest thing i have ever read.:D:D

CombatCow

The Second · 30-10-2003 2:12pm

... things have changed since I started this thread... it seems the more we see each other the more we have to talk about... not getting boring ... actually the opposite ... so I'm not really worried bout what we do anymore...

how and ever ... I'm gonna try not to drink so much water in future!

wild_eyed · 30-10-2003 2:41pm

if your getting bored of him, dump him, put him out of his misery. have you got common interests? or is it just physical attraction?

The Second · 30-10-2003 4:09pm

Bored ... no way ... I just didn't want him getting bored of me... or thinking of me as a f!*k buddy ...

we seem to have the same interests ... but we talk about sex alot ... that is a common interest

... he isn't boring... he is interesting... I just hope he sees past "some hot piece of ass" and doesn't let his view of me become boring...

SoundWave · 30-10-2003 4:42pm

to quote public enemy;

"Give it up, give it up, give it up yo

Give it up, give it up, gotta give it up

yeah

you gots ta give it up now"

girldef · 30-10-2003 4:46pm

maybe its ok that at the beginning he thinks your "some hot piece of ass". Thats not necessarily a bad thing.
And if its only been two weeks i'm sure he's not bored of you, your being paranoid, it doesnt have to be a brand new theme every time you see him. At the beginning its all about getting to know him. And hey u can f**k without being a f**K buddy

(What can i say im a classy gal!)

wild_eyed · 31-10-2003 11:07am

hmm. sounds like a relathionship i was in once, i used to be interested in her but cud never get the questions i wanted to ask into legigable english. hope it works out for you, im gonna die lonely.

Havelock · 31-10-2003 11:50am

Coffee Shops are good places to chat. Am I breaking any rules by recommending one that I like? (If so mod, please delete offending recommendations) But I have found Kaffe Moka near St Stephens Green and Siomon cafe are the nicest places to go for a good natter and coffee. All the best
-Havelock

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