New here, I'm due to give birth at anytime now and I have a huge problem, I can't even sleep it's annoying me that much.
My husbands mother and sister want to be at the birth of our first baby, for a start since I met them they have been nothing but cruel to me but I say nothing for my husbands sake. Bottom line I don't want them in the room when I give birth, they are more than welcome to be in the next room and see the baby ASAP after we meet our little one and have our moment.
I will be accused of shutting them out, I know that they are nana and aunt and can have a huge part in the babies life as long as it's positive.
The slap in the face for them is, because we are having a home birth I can have people in, I decided with my husband that it will just be us, the midwife and our dog. The dog has been with us since day one and we are very attached. I thought this would solve anyone feeling left out but they will see it as I picked a dog over them.