As a logged in user you have helped me many times just from me reading replies to other peoples problems. Now I need help.
I've been with my boyfriend for 8 years. We've always been very happy together besides some jealousy issues he has with me speaking to other guys. This generally only happens when he has a few drinks and always apologises next day. He's never done anything worse than stopped speaking to me for a few hours.
Anyway my problem is that over the last 2 years I have become friends with a girl with the most massive breasts and my boyfriend is obsessed with them. I've noticed him staring and generally acting like a total idiot around her while thinking he is slyly sneaking a peek. He is always making reference to them, pretending to grab them etc. She in no way flaunts them or reveals herself inappropriately and I've a feeling it is making her uncomfortable.
I said it to him recently and all he had to say back was that now I know how he feels when I'm flirting with other guys, started shouting and finally when he knew he couldnt defend himself stopped talking to me.
I know he is going to come along with some half arsed apology soon and if I'm not ready to accept it then the silence will go on much longer.
How do I approach it while letting him know that I am really not OK with his behaviour?