Should I try telling her?

MissShihTzu · 16-01-2021 4:33pm

OK. So you're not jealous of him. But if things are as awkward as you say, then the best thing to do is one of the following:

1. If he starts talking about the girl (or any girl) in a way you find uncomfortable, then say to him 'I don't want to hear about it'.
OR
2. You just phase him out. Personally, I favour option 2. Your mate sounds like an immature jerk.

Emme · 18-01-2021 12:34am

Get a new friend.

ILoveYourVibes · 18-01-2021 9:46pm

NDD18 wrote: »

I need some advice:

A friend of mine told me he is seeing this woman, nothing serious. But the way he refers to her shocked me a bit. He said she comes over about once or twice a week, they **** and she leaves after a while. He said "she seems into him, but that she is ugly, short, walks a bit crooked, skinny, saggy boobs, big nose, she even smells a bit". Basically he is seeing her just because she pleases him sexually. I was surprised by the way he described her, and quite frankly I have been thinking about trying to find out who she is and telling her. Does that sound reasonable?

Honestly I would not get involved.

I would stop being this person's friend. You end up becoming the 5 people you spend the most time with.

Keyzer · 19-01-2021 12:17pm

NDD18 wrote: »

I need some advice:

Does that sound reasonable?

No, that sounds like the actions of an interfering nutter.

Don't do this. Its none of your business.

ShatterAlan · 20-01-2021 2:16am

NDD18 wrote: »

I need some advice:

A friend of mine told me he is seeing this woman, nothing serious. But the way he refers to her shocked me a bit. He said she comes over about once or twice a week, they **** and she leaves after a while. He said "she seems into him, but that she is ugly, short, walks a bit crooked, skinny, saggy boobs, big nose, she even smells a bit". Basically he is seeing her just because she pleases him sexually. I was surprised by the way he described her, and quite frankly I have been thinking about trying to find out who she is and telling her. Does that sound reasonable?

He sounds cruel, and a bit misogynistic.

You could tell him to be a bit more than that.

He's having sex with a woman who isn't perfect and he thinks it's a laugh.

Prick.

lawred2 · 24-01-2021 9:14pm

NDD18 wrote: »

I need some advice:

A friend of mine told me he is seeing this woman, nothing serious. But the way he refers to her shocked me a bit. He said she comes over about once or twice a week, they **** and she leaves after a while. He said "she seems into him, but that she is ugly, short, walks a bit crooked, skinny, saggy boobs, big nose, she even smells a bit". Basically he is seeing her just because she pleases him sexually. I was surprised by the way he described her, and quite frankly I have been thinking about trying to find out who she is and telling her. Does that sound reasonable?

Not really got anything to do with you has it?

What outcome are you hoping for?

NDD18 · 28-01-2021 7:04pm

Case settled, I am not going to get involved. He mentioned the woman doesn’t even have a smartphone, and is quite gullible. She would never believe me.

Hannibal_Smith · 28-01-2021 7:23pm

Mod Note

As you've reached a conclusion OP, we'll close the thread there.

Thanks everyone for the help and advice.

HS

Should I try telling her?

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