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Am I the asshole?

IJS84 · 2020-08-14 03:31:27

Bit of a back story. July 2019 my child (16 at the time) moved out of their other parents home, citing years of mental & physical abuse, obviously as a parent if your child came and advised you of a situation they were not comfortable and did not feel safe, you take them out of that situation. Tusla investigation found no…

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#92 14-08-2020 5:51pm
Liamo57

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I get the impression neither you or your former partner were good parents. Poor kid.

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#93 14-08-2020 5:54pm
Liamo57

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And to add to that, that does not mean you are a bad person. You probably have your own issues, so best of luck and I wish you the best of luck.

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#94 14-08-2020 5:56pm
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Liamo57 wrote: »

I get the impression neither you or your former partner were good parents. Poor kid.

They still are the kids parents, no reason they can’t turn it around so the kid doesn’t become an asshole.

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