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Advice for dating

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  • 24-08-2016 3:53pm
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    LegacyUser
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    Im a 33 year old guy looking for any advice getting back into the dating scene.

    Im single about a year now - out of a long term 15 year relationship with my ex who cheated on me (with kids involved) and just getting back into the dating scene the past while now.

    I've been on a few dates Tinder dates now - met some lovely women but no real spark as of yet. Have joined a few clubs to widen my social circle a bit and try meet new people that way too. Besides this - any other advice how to meet new women?

    I rarely approach women on the street or in pubs - do I need to do a bit more of this randomly and throw caution to the wind?

    Any other advice to meet new people?
    Thanks! :)


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    Xterminator
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    hey OP.

    your on tinder, and you are in a few clubs, so it sounds like you have made some real efforts to try to meet ms right.

    But i wouldn't not recommend randomly hitting on strangers for as they walk up the street and to be fair i am not sure thats what you meant.

    I would recommend you like yourself and project confidence. and secondly take a chance. dont be looking back afterwards and say I god i wish i had asked that person for a coffee etc, but i was afraid to do so; or that girl was so good looking i didn't want to risk it.

    IE if someone makes a remark to you, dont just remark back and walk away, engage them in a conversation. If you get talking and the signals are there, be bold - ask them out for a movie , a coffee, anything. Nothing ventured nothing gained.


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