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Someone invites themselves to stay in your home

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    #32
    holyhead
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,249 ✭✭✭holyhead


    Cheerful Spring wrote: »
    I not sure why you care if only every six months you meet? You may be over thinking this., he must annoying fella for you to be worried.

    Not worried just don't want to insult someone and he's not so much annoying but just overbearing. I would be happy just having phone call conversations with him and leaving it at that.


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    #33
    Cheerful Spring
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,893 ✭✭✭Cheerful Spring


    holyhead wrote: »
    Not worried just don't want to insult someone and he's not so much annoying but just overbearing. I would be happy just having phone call conversations with him and leaving it at that.

    You said he was married and his old enough to be your dad and you barely know him? This sounds weird mind I ask are you married or single? Am I struggling to understand why an older man who married is planning a stay over at your house? Visit I can understand but a stay overnight is unusual.


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    #34
    BettePorter
    Registered Users Posts: 2,257 ✭✭✭BettePorter


    holyhead wrote: »
    Cheerful Spring wrote: »
    I not sure why you care if only every six months you meet? You may be over thinking this., he must annoying fella for you to be worried.

    Not worried just don't want to insult someone and he's not so much annoying but just overbearing. I would be happy just having phone call conversations with him and leaving it at that.

    What exactly is he saying /proposing ? I must come visit u? If u only speak a couple of timea a year it's easy enough to give the ....'oh yeah we must ' non committal reply ! And I'd he says ....'X date' just say.....no sorry that's not good for me.


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    #35
    Hector Bellend
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    holyhead wrote: »
    How do you say no without insulting someone?

    Don't worry about insulting them.

    Just them to stay somewhere else.


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    #36
    misstearheus
    Registered Users Posts: 2,115 ✭✭✭misstearheus


    I can't stop laughin picturin yer man plonked in Ted's Bathroom!! :D:D:D:D I'm gonna wake the child Nextdoor.


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    #37
    holyhead
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,249 ✭✭✭holyhead


    Cheerful Spring wrote: »
    You said he was married and his old enough to be your dad and you barely know him? This sounds weird mind I ask are you married or single? Am I struggling to understand why an older man who married is planning a stay over at your house? Visit I can understand but a stay overnight is unusual.

    In fairness the wife would come with him. He never goes anywhere without her. He would like to see my house. I have been to his but never looked to stay over. I am put up by work if I ever have to stay in the town he lives in. He is not a bad skin but small dose is plenty for me.
    I don’t mind listening to his troubles etc but ideally phone calls would suffice from my perspective


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    #38
    Demonique
    Registered Users Posts: 2,818 ✭✭✭Demonique


    Stoner wrote: »
    If you have a partner just say they take up the spare room with

    Walk-in wardrobe
    Trainset
    Tanning bed
    Something he's no interest in

    First thing I did in my house was stick a jacks in under the stairs. Stop all that nosey upstairs wandering.

    I know someone whose spare bedroom houses their snakes and lizards


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    #39
    Donald Trump
    Registered Users Posts: 19,099 ✭✭✭✭Donald Trump


    Stoner wrote: »
    First thing I did in my house was stick a jacks in under the stairs. Stop all that nosey upstairs wandering.

    In fairness, I've been to your house and a manky half cracked mop bucket fecked under the stairs wasn't as enticing as you made it out to be


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    #40
    Donald Trump
    Registered Users Posts: 19,099 ✭✭✭✭Donald Trump


    holyhead wrote: »
    In fairness the wife would come with him.


    Fecking swingers nowadays have no manners.


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    #41
    brevity
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    This situation is extremely weird.


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