Shan's Stygian Shack of Shenanigans (Lair Thread)

Gremlinertia · 21-10-2018 4:09am

I think as we continue mentally evolving anything is possible really.. People watching is so very interesting

Shpud2 · 21-10-2018 4:23am

People watching is enjoyable. I do it a lot as I don't have any people to be with myself.

Gremlinertia · 21-10-2018 4:26am

I still do it when i'm with others sometimes. Can't help myself

Luckily my friends know what i'm like..

Shpud2 · 21-10-2018 4:29am

"Friends". An interesting concept and a great tv show.

Gremlinertia · 21-10-2018 4:35am

It's a strange one, they very much come and go for some of us.. Other people are still best mates with kids they were born with.. I know no one from my teens back..

Shpud2 · 21-10-2018 9:29am

I don't know if I have any friends

21-10-2018 4:10pm

Shpud2 wrote: »

I don't know if I have any friends

Ah Shpud

I remember you made a lovely post a few weeks back along the lines of being thankful to have such a good friend in your life.

Shpud2 · 21-10-2018 4:22pm

[Deleted User] wrote: »

Ah Shpud I remember you made a lovely post a few weeks back along the lines of being thankful to have such a good friend in your life.

Yeah but are they really friends? Like when you are my age do you have friends or are they just people you get on with because you see them 5 days a week?

21-10-2018 4:36pm

Shpud2 wrote: »

Yeah but are they really friends? Like when you are my age do you have friends or are they just people you get on with because you see them 5 days a week?

I'm not sure age comes in to it. Friendships can very in their intensity depending on age but good friends are to be found in all stages of life. When I was 18 I had best friends who I saw a lot and who I genuinely wanted to been around.

Don't look for negativity when there isn't any Shpud. If you're having difficulty with your relationships then of course that's hard but really just enjoy the people in your life.

Shpud2 · 21-10-2018 4:44pm

[Deleted User] wrote: »

I'm not sure age comes in to it. Friendships can very in their intensity depending on age but good friends are to be found in all stages of life. When I was 18 I had best friends who I saw a lot and who I genuinely wanted to been around.

Don't look for negativity when there isn't any Shpud. If you're having difficulty with your relationships then of course that's hard but really just enjoy the people in your life.

I don't think I'm looking for negativity.

21-10-2018 4:52pm

Shpud2 wrote: »

I don't think I'm looking for negativity.

Then see those people who you spend five days a week with and get along with as friends

Shpud2 · 21-10-2018 4:56pm

[Deleted User] wrote: »

Then see those people who you spend five days a week with and get along with as friends

Oh I can do that and all but still can't shrug off the loneliness

21-10-2018 5:06pm

Loneliness is an awful thing. You are in a crowded room, you're with people who you love, and still can feel lonely. I think it might come from a kind of disconnect or feeling like you don't belong.

It might be no harm to mention it to your counsellor Shpud. Remember that lots of people feel similar to you x

Shpud2 · 21-10-2018 5:45pm

[Deleted User] wrote: »

Loneliness is an awful thing. You are in a crowded room, you're with people who you love, and still can feel lonely. I think it might come from a kind of disconnect or feeling like you don't belong.

It might be no harm to mention it to your counsellor Shpud. Remember that lots of people feel similar to you x

Yeah that's how I felt last night even though every one was around I felt super lonely.

I've got it all written down in my diary to show her. I really went to town on my fears and worries last night.

Shpud2 · 22-10-2018 12:13am

Happy Monday :rolleyes:

Gremlinertia · 22-10-2018 12:15am

That managed to sneak right up on me!.

Shpud2 · 22-10-2018 12:18am

Same here. The weekend flew.

Gremlinertia · 22-10-2018 12:20am

Last night crawled for me, tonight i can't believe i'm already four hours in..

Shpud2 · 22-10-2018 12:22am

It was a long one for me too. Got a terrible headache too.

Gremlinertia · 22-10-2018 12:24am

Ergh i HATE headaches, it seems to be the one pain i cannot touch or comprehend

Shpud2 · 22-10-2018 12:34am

It's not even the pain that gets me it's just an inconvenience like I'll have to put away my phone when I have one.

Gremlinertia · 22-10-2018 12:36am

Yeah screens and light are woeful then..

Shpud2 · 22-10-2018 12:38am

Yeah I hate using my phone in the dark.

Gremlinertia · 22-10-2018 12:42am

I'm a darkness fiend.

Shpud2 · 22-10-2018 12:46am

I prefer the darkness because it matches my soul.

Gremlinertia · 22-10-2018 12:47am

Spoken like a true goth

Shpud2 · 22-10-2018 12:56am

I was told you can see the pain in my eyes so I may as well embrace it at this stage.

Gremlinertia · 22-10-2018 1:00am

Wow, got told that a few years back too. Bit more obvious these days with twitches at times and stuff. We could be related Shpud :P

Shpud2 · 22-10-2018 1:09am

Imagine Christmas if we were related...

Gremlinertia · 22-10-2018 1:14am

At least it's at the darkest time of the year....

Shpud2 · 22-10-2018 1:26am

Ah yes winter. When I go to school in darkness, come home in the darkness and live my life in the darkness.

Gremlinertia · 22-10-2018 1:26am

When i take my vitamin D.

Shpud2 · 22-10-2018 1:32am

Good girl G. Make sure you always get the D.

Gremlinertia · 22-10-2018 1:32am

Hah nice!!

Shpud2 · 22-10-2018 1:35am

I try.

Gremlinertia · 22-10-2018 1:43am

What you got happening tomorrow?. (today even)

Shpud2 · 22-10-2018 1:46am

8 hours in school that I'm not looking forward too.

Gremlinertia · 22-10-2018 1:47am

None of the classes appeal even?.

Shpud2 · 22-10-2018 1:53am

Business and history but that's about it.

Gremlinertia · 22-10-2018 1:56am

You'll get through man.

Shpud2 · 22-10-2018 1:58am

Just two more days and the parent teacher meetings will be over and I can stop trying.

Gremlinertia · 22-10-2018 2:00am

Oh that time of year :eek:

Shpud2 · 22-10-2018 2:02am

For me at least. Worried enough about them although I know I'll get a good review from some teachers.

Gremlinertia · 22-10-2018 2:03am

Once nowt too bad is said..

Shpud2 · 22-10-2018 2:04am

I'm afraid of something bad though. What if one of my teachers really doesn't like me?

Kitty6277 · 22-10-2018 2:04am

I used to hate parent teacher meetings. Always knew that my attendance (or lack of

) would come up

Gremlinertia · 22-10-2018 2:07am

Have you any new teachers since the last meeting Shpud?

Heyo Kitty

Shpud2 · 22-10-2018 2:08am

Kitty6277 wrote: »

I used to hate parent teacher meetings. Always knew that my attendance (or lack of ) would come up

I literally haven't called home early at all this year nor have I missed any days and I'm still worried it will be mentioned.

Shpud2 · 22-10-2018 2:08am

Gremlinertia wrote: »

Have you any new teachers since the last meeting Shpud?

Heyo Kitty

3 new ones

Gremlinertia · 22-10-2018 2:10am

Shpud2 wrote: »

3 new ones

Once you are attending and trying most of them aren't too bad. Why would they drag unnecessary hassle on themselves with a bad report.

Shan's Stygian Shack of Shenanigans (Lair Thread)

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