I am just looking for a bit of advice.
The main jist of it is my 2 sisters behaviour and inlaws behaviour.
I think it is bully behaviour.
When there is a family event. I.e wedding.
One sister purposefully ignores me and goes out of her way not be photographed beside me. It is very hurtful.
She ignores me at weddings and family events. She is good looking and knows it. Also v confident. I dunno if that is the reason she ignores me at all these events. She would go out of her way to talk to everyone else and purposefully ignore me.
This is not a one time thing. Has been going on for years. If it was just a one time thing I would be over it.
Last few years I have noticed inlaws making faces at me.
I also noticed the above sis and husband making faces at me last year. I am sure there are many a time it went unnoticed by me.
I confronted her about it last year. She denied it happened....and played innocent. I seen it with my own eyes.
2 yrs ago I was beside her in photo and while she was taking it she cut me out so not be photographed beside me...
I did not wanna believe that but then I got her to send me photos I was 100% right.
At events my 2 sisters will totally or almost totally ignore me when inlaws there.
This year there was gonna be a family event. I decided not to go. Even though there was a group already set up for this.
The 2nd sister decided to set up a new group so I would be excluded. I had already decided not to go before this.
I wouldn't have minded that at all but there was a group already set up. I think this was to get in with sis in law. All I can think of.
Anyways the making faces of my sister and bullying by inlaws has been really getting me down the last few months.
The bro in law and sis in law making faces at me has prob been going on longer than I know but I don't have to put up with it any longer.
Obviously it's not nice but my own sisters behaviour is what gets me down the most.
I mean going out of her way not to talk me at weddings/christenings etc and going above and beyond not to be photographed beside me.
We get on grand when meet on own but when in group she acts totally different.
I am an easy target and they know I won't say anything. I am quiet.
Even now I am upset about this.
I have decided not to go to any events in the future and only go to immediate family events. Even those will be difficult but I know I will have to go to them.
I don't think I have to live my life being bullied at events and then being upset about it for months thereafter.
I hope this makes sense. Feel better having typed it anyway.