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Geekness1234 wrote: »I upset her (those were the words she used) but to be honest I think we might be on the verge of breaking up.
She's away at the moment and this all unfolded last night,we called briefly and then resorted to text with her telling me we'll talk about it when she gets back,on the Monday.
(It's long distance,she lives on the opposite side of Ireland to me)
Essentially I've a small chance of seeing her in person tomorrow,which I told her I might do before the fight,but it's wether I should or not that's the point.
Any advice would be appreciated guys
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Ah, that would suck, long distance relationships are hard. Well thats totally upto you. I cant say how it would play out. you do fighting? going tomoro and shes still not happy with you could just go sour. but i cant say because i dont know what ye two are like. thats all i cant say i dont really have advice for you im afraid.
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Geekness1234 wrote: »I don't have any intention of fighting-just apologising.
I'd much prefer to say it in person,because I'd think she'd appreciate it.
Because of me being unable to contact her,I can't really gauge how she might react.
Things just feel like they've gone from nothing to everything in the space of 12 or so hours.
To be blunt I've no f****** idea how it got this bad...
ahh sorry misread your post. thought you ment you do fighting as in a sport. but see what you mean now. Defo agree that it is much better to do it in person. anything over the phone always happens to be 3 times worse . was it something small that started it? or silly. If you can determine the cause that yer arguing over then you may be able to resolve this. usually the most case for me during long distance was that i never put in the effort to come and see them. And then that spiralled into a load of things i didnt do and done wrong.
But i stand my ground and i know where i am wrong.0 -
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ahh sorry misread your post. thought you ment you do fighting as in a sport. but see what you mean now. Defo agree that it is much better to do it in person. anything over the phone always happens to be 3 times worse . was it something small that started it? or silly. If you can determine the cause that yer arguing over then you may be able to resolve this. usually the most case for me during long distance was that i never put in the effort to come and see them. And then that spiralled into a load of things i didnt do and done wrong.
But i stand my ground and i know where i am wrong.
Yeah it'll be better to do it in person.
The cause was,I felt I was putting the effort into keeping in contact with her while she was away,I felt she wasn't and when she eventually replied, she failed to gauge that I was pissed off,glazed over the fact I was angry and proceeded to talk about other things.
At that point I snapped back at her over text (the whole fight was done almost entirely through text-making it worse) she asked what was wrong,I told her I felt she wasn't caring and that I felt like I was being taken for granted, despite what my friends were telling me to do I wasn't going to cheat*.She responded saying the messege upset her,so I called her and she freaked.
As it stands I sent her a text (can't call~she can't really answer) explaining how I'm sorry and that I never meant to upset her and asking her to forgive me.
Tomorrow she's flying back and then getting a train,we planned to meet at the train station before we fought,so I'm going to apologise there.
I've always put the effort into seeing her and I still want to.I don't know how she feels now but I know I want to make things work.
*My friends never liked the idea of "us" too much,and when I explained to them the situation,they said she probably was getting with other people herself.I've always told her about them and she's always appreciated knowing so her flipping at that got me off-guard.
That's it,I've no clue if we are going to stay together.0 -
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YayForYuffie wrote: »In order to study, I need to remove the laptop from the immediate vicinity. This is my fifth time realising this in the past two weeks. Hurrah! I'm a smarticle!
In order to study, I too must remove the laptop from the room.
But in order to study, I need my laptop.
Paperless classrooms are a mixed blessing. :pac:0 -
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I have to wear this for the next week at least. All my exams are this week and I have work placement next week. Need to get another xray done on Friday because there could still be a broken bone in my hand. Perfect timing.
Also god help whoever has to read my exams. Lols.0 -
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Geekness1234 wrote: »So me and my girlfriend broke up...
****. I feel for you man, long distance is a cruel cruel thing.
try not to let it send you to too dark a place. easier said than done I know. now is the time to pick up a hobby, or gym or anything that'll distract your mind. keeping yourself busy will heal you a lot better than locking yourself away from the world in a haze of sleep and sadness.0 -
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wnolan1992 wrote: »Things go away if you ignore them right?
Right?
I f****** hope so,if not I'm about to have a really s*** time next week.. 0 -
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bluejaymraz wrote: »I may have the possibility of a summer job. However, unskilled manual labour is not really my thing...........
F****** take it! :0
I did that before,I can tell you it's actually handy,because it makes you want to do well in school/college.
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Geekness1234 wrote: »F****** take it! :0
I did that before,I can tell you it's actually handy,because it makes you want to do well in school/college.
I also don't really fancy smelling like tobacco the whole time :L or working from
6 in the morning.
But ~€500 a week would be rather mind blowing.......0 -
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