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I'm totally devastated

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  • 03-07-2020 12:22pm
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    LegacyUser
    Registered Users Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi all

    So I'll cut to the chase, basically a guy I really liked and cared for unmatched me on bumble he said nothing just did it.

    I'm just so hurt I can't believe he would just cut me off like that, we got on so well we had a connection but for him to do that without warning has shocked me. I can't stop crying and the worst thing is I don't know what to do now.

    Should I try contacting him another way?Or leave it?

    Believe me I know it's over I just dont want it ending badly like this

    Thanks for any advice.


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    Sardonicat
    Registered Users Posts: 12,378 ✭✭✭✭Sardonicat


    Don't attempt to contact him. He does not share your feelings and has made that clear.

    Did ye ever meet up IRL? If not I have to say your reaction is quite extreme. Perhaps you were coming across as a bit intense?


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    Locker10a
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 4,142 Mod ✭✭✭✭Locker10a


    Sorry so were you only chatting on bumble !? Not on WhatsApp or other social media!? If this is the case why not?
    How long were you chatting? Months? Because if this was a guy you matched and chatted to for a day or two... it’s a pretty extreme reaction but you’ve not said


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    Telly
    Registered Users Posts: 520 ✭✭✭Telly


    How can you be so invested in someone you only chatted to on a dating app?


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    Thelonious Monk
    Registered Users Posts: 13,745 ✭✭✭✭Thelonious Monk


    Telly wrote: »
    How can you be so invested in someone you only chatted to on a dating app?

    These things happen, probably more likely to happen in the current circumstances given people's lack of human contact over the last few months.
    OP you'll get over it, but try not to get so invested in future.


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    The chan chan man
    Registered Users Posts: 824 ✭✭✭The chan chan man


    You’ve never even met this person??


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