As per my previous post my marriage ended 2 weeks ago.
He called around at the weekend as due to his drinking I'm not happy with unsupervised access. I could tell from him that he had been drinking, most likely into the early hours.
When he called around he was so nice, compliments, offering to help, even bought me a box of chocolates. Even though he was primarily with our son, we spoke just general chitchat but in the 3 hrs we spoke more than we have done in years.
I'm so angry and upset and I actually feel broken. For those few hours he was the kind sweet person I fell in love with all those years ago
The reality is that he stopped being like that a long time ago. No intimacy, no affection just a lot of hurt and pain.
I don't know why now, why be nice now. Is he trying to get in my good books to take him back as all he's doing is hurting me even more by reminding me what it should have been like.
I have been in tears since he was here. I just don't know what to do but I can't go through all that pain and worry again