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We can't have sex..

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    #32
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Hi Nosex,
    I just was going thru all the posts on this and came across your post. I am going thru v similar situation to u. Im in my early 20s and he's in early 30's. I wish i had advice to offer u but really i suppose im just wondering if u have spoken to him n whats happened since? my boyf is denying theres a prob even tho like urself he can come within mins, other times become floppy the min he penetrates and if u even mention the word condom it nearly has an instant effect. Like urself i tink i know hw ur feeling, all these ppl telling u to wrk on other areas of the sex like foreplay is gr8 but it doesnt help u feeling frustrated.

    I really would like to kno how did u broach the subject with him? did he admit to the problem? my boyf will come soft, il prob lose the mood n then he'll try again, after a while im like leav it n then he gets annoyed with me cos he's had "no sex" which is really quite annoyn.


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    #33
    the_syco
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    Get your hubbie to get his GP to refer him to a specialist that deals with it. Doctors are good, but they won't know everything.


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    #34
    seraphimvc
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    just wanna give a small advice that,you dont need to swallow the whole blue pill,take a small part of it and adjust the amount that you desire.

    while for the problem i think the lifestyle could be an issue?too much pressure and busy life?OP you didnt tell us how old are yis but could that be age-related too?


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    #35
    Silverfish
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    seraphimvc wrote: »
    just wanna give a small advice that,you dont need to swallow the whole blue pill,take a small part of it and adjust the amount that you desire.

    while for the problem i think the lifestyle could be an issue?too much pressure and busy life?OP you didnt tell us how old are yis but could that be age-related too?

    Shes in her early twenties, hes in his early thirties.


    I think the problem goes far beyond Viagra, the underlying causes need to be looked at.


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    #36
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    OP, would your boyfriend be willing to try alternative medicine maybe? There are Chinese clinics all over Dublin, treating all sorts of things by either acupuncture or herbs.


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