I don't know where we're going, but I know where I am (part 7.

qo2cj1dsne8y4k · 08-07-2019 8:55am

Kitty6277 wrote: »

I am in bed, contemplating what life as a single woman will be like. Last night saw me find out more and while he was almost forgiven (how?) this is it now. If he wants to act single, then I’ll save him having to act at all.

Know your own worth, you’ll be okay kitty. I’d rather be single, than be disrespected and walked on. Remember how you would treat someone that you love and accept nothing less for yourself. Chin up ❤️

Kitty6277 · 08-07-2019 9:04am

Natalia Old Miser wrote: »

Know your own worth, you’ll be okay kitty. I’d rather be single, than be disrespected and walked on. Remember how you would treat someone that you love and accept nothing less for yourself. Chin up ❤️

Thanks Shoes. At this point I’m not really even sad about it, I’m just pissed at him for lying to me so much. And especially when we’ve been together so long, surely he’d just tell me the truth like :rolleyes: you really never know anyone

wildwillow · 08-07-2019 9:22am

Kitty6277 wrote: »

Thanks Shoes. At this point I’m not really even sad about it, I’m just pissed at him for lying to me so much. And especially when we’ve been together so long, surely he’d just tell me the truth like :rolleyes: you really never know anyone

You come across as a strong person, capable of organising your own life. Take a relationship break and enjoy the freedom of being single. Be selfish for a while.

ytpe2r5bxkn0c1 · 08-07-2019 9:25am

Watching the rain and thinking "a little rain never hurt anybody", so will probably head off for a walk with Mrs S and see if the weather improves while we're en route.

Sephiroth_dude · 08-07-2019 10:07am

Deskside with coffee

Kitty6277 wrote: »

I am in bed, contemplating what life as a single woman will be like. Last night saw me find out more and while he was almost forgiven (how?) this is it now. If he wants to act single, then I’ll save him having to act at all.

You deserve so much better than this ****e, his loss x

08-07-2019 10:48am

The dog wanted a rest, he is getting old I guess! So we are sitting on a bench looking over the war memorial gardens towards the Dublin mountains.

Kitty, you know you are worth more, stay strong.

RMAOK · 08-07-2019 12:55pm

Kitty6277 wrote: »

I am in bed, contemplating what life as a single woman will be like. Last night saw me find out more and while he was almost forgiven (how?) this is it now. If he wants to act single, then I’ll save him having to act at all.

As others have said, it's his loss Kitty. Take care of yourself and to hell with him.

Sephiroth_dude · 08-07-2019 3:00pm

Just back from a walk down the park, starved of the hunger! everything in sight will be eaten!

smurfjed · 08-07-2019 3:00pm

What a pragmatic bunch we are.... @Kitty, dump him and move on, I have read your posts on here and it appeared that you were the one doing all the running (or driving), it he can't respect that, then it's his loss and his stupidity.

Having new fibre internet installed, 200 meg apparently

leahyl · 08-07-2019 3:18pm

In work, first day back after being off for a week and a half. Countdown is on to my next week and half off in 2 weeks time

I'm just wishing my life away.....

ytpe2r5bxkn0c1 · 08-07-2019 3:56pm

Having a long cold drink in the garden. Decided to saw away some overgrown tree branches, after cutting the lawn, and it was a tougher job than I had anticipated. A muggy kind of a day.

Kitty6277 · 08-07-2019 5:37pm

smurfjed wrote: »

What a pragmatic bunch we are.... @Kitty, dump him and move on, I have read your posts on here and it appeared that you were the one doing all the running (or driving), it he can't respect that, then it's his loss and his stupidity.

Having new fibre internet installed, 200 meg apparently

Ahaha yes, he doesn’t drive so if he ever needs to go somewhere, I’m on call :rolleyes:

Back in Tipp, came to have a chat with mam but when I got home she wasn’t here and isn’t answering her phone to let me know where she is so I can go collect her. So I’ll just wait till she gets back.

Trigger Happy · 08-07-2019 5:51pm

Back home after a days work.
To be fair though, there are dead sloths who have had a more productive day than me.

Autosport · 08-07-2019 6:43pm

What a day!! Weather doesn't know if it wants to rain or shine.

As the others have said Kitty you are a strong person and it's his loss

it's what I like to call a bump in the road

Now carside

Witchie · 08-07-2019 7:07pm

Sorry to hear you are hurting Kitty but you know you will be fine. You know in your heart and soul that you deserve better and you will get it. Take it from an auld pussy who has been around the block a few times.

Finally feeling a bit better. Maybe it was the doctor's threat of putting me in hospital tomorrow if am not better that is motivating my body to heal. Really could do without hospital a few days before flying home!

Jenna James · 08-07-2019 7:49pm

Kitty6277 wrote: »

Thanks Shoes. At this point I’m not really even sad about it, I’m just pissed at him for lying to me so much. And especially when we’ve been together so long, surely he’d just tell me the truth like :rolleyes: you really never know anyone

Thinking of you Kitty. x

0lddog · 08-07-2019 8:14pm

Alayna Faithful Switchboard wrote: »

Having a long cold drink in the garden. Decided to saw away some overgrown tree branches, after cutting the lawn, and it was a tougher job than I had anticipated. A muggy kind of a day.

@Alayna Faithful Switchboard, One of the gadgets that really earns its keep here is a battery operated pruning saw from Aldi.

https://www.aldi.co.uk/cordless-garden-saw/p/097419254798300

bolgbui41 · 08-07-2019 8:27pm

After yet another afternoon spent running around trying on shoes (my least favourite activity in the world) and looking at shoes online, I have decided: I am wearing my flat 5 year old sandals to my graduation. And I don't care how they look with my fancy dress, because I hate shoes that aren't runners or comfy sandals and I'd go barefoot if I could.

So I am currently hiding in my room from my shoe loving mother, who is not taking this decision well at all.

4Ad · 08-07-2019 8:34pm

In a bar beside Lake Bled in Slovenia.
It's lashing down outside.
Tight fecker I am I am staying in a hostel..
Bad move, full of young Dubs..a lad cooking in front of other people in his skinny boxers..**** off..
The lad in the room with me is so cool man...North American, could be stoned, but I dont smell it off him, **** off too..

4Ad · 08-07-2019 8:34pm

In a bar beside Lake Bled in Slovenia.
It's lashing down outside.
Tight fecker I am I am staying in a hostel..
Bad move, full of young Dubs..a lad cooking in front of other people in his skinny boxers..**** off..
The lad in the room with me is so cool man...North American, could be stoned, but I dont smell it off him, **** off too..

08-07-2019 8:46pm

I am on the couch watching a Scandi crime thing called Borderliner.

@Kitty, hard time for you. I know it all too well. He has behaved dreadfully and you deserve a lot better than that. In time you will hurt less but remember that the end of a relationship is a loss and so must be grieved. Love in our early twenties can be intense. Mind yourself and enjoy being single

Fathom · 08-07-2019 9:04pm

Pool to swim laps.

honeybear · 08-07-2019 9:19pm

Entertaining visitors ... again

RMAOK · 08-07-2019 9:20pm

honeybear wrote: »

Entertaining visitors ... again

Sounds fun :pac:

arybvtcw0eolkf · 08-07-2019 11:52pm

I'd a lovely evening on the beach with Richo listening to The Wolf Tones.

Wearing one of those 24 hour blood pressure monitors. Its been a royal pain in the ass most of the day, usually going off when I'm driving and making my arm useless until its finished the test.

So, about to open my latest read 'One Day in my Life', Bobby Sands and hoping this cuff lets me sleep

Gremlinertia · 09-07-2019 5:59am

Roll on bedtime i'm a tired wee curmudgeon today.

smurfjed · 09-07-2019 6:08am

Wearing one of those 24 hour blood pressure monitors. Its been a royal pain in the ass most of the day, usually going off when I'm driving and making my arm useless until its finished the test.

Did they ask you to make a diary of your daily activities? No point in the machine registering high BP if you were marching down a beach.

smurfjed · 09-07-2019 6:10am

Mutt ate something that didn't agree with him, (too many bones:):)) So he woke me 4 times during the night to let him out to pooh. Now he is walking around with a big stupid smile on his face.

Was supposed to take to the skies, but got turned into an office bum instead.

quickbeam · 09-07-2019 7:07am

Gary Uninterested Dashboard wrote: »

I'd a lovely evening on the beach with Richo listening to The Wolf Tones.

Wearing one of those 24 hour blood pressure monitors. Its been a royal pain in the ass most of the day, usually going off when I'm driving and making my arm useless until its finished the test.

So, about to open my latest read 'One Day in my Life', Bobby Sands and hoping this cuff lets me sleep

OMG, had to wear one of those once. Absolute agony! I think once I heard it start to pump up my blood pressure shot up anyway with the anticipation of what was to come. It was a horrible 24 hours with very little sleep!

Ted_YNWA · 09-07-2019 7:09am

About to get up & face the day.

Anyone see where I left my happy face, it has defaulted to resting bitch mode.

ILoveYourVibes · 09-07-2019 7:25am

Face almost done. About to head out the door.

I had to drop something into my mother before earlier this morning So i had to get up at like half six to make it all happen.

CrowdedHouse · 09-07-2019 7:30am

....Sometimes I lie awake at night and wonder, where the years have gone, they have all passed under sleeps dark and silent gate...

Morning all,

Grey but I can see bits of blue sky 15C

I had to attend the reposing of a friend and colleague last evening, only a year or two older than me kinda stops you in your tracks..

Kitchen with coffee

Autosport · 09-07-2019 7:39am

Morning all

Happy Tuesday!!!

honeybear · 09-07-2019 7:44am

Just in from walkies. It’s lovely out

09-07-2019 8:33am

Grey skies here this morning, warm though, time for a walk.

leahyl · 09-07-2019 8:33am

Alarm went off at 6.45....closed my eyes for "2 minutes".....I opened them at 7.30am :pac: It's all good - still got to work on time, somehow! Quite proud of myself actually, managed to slap on some makeup and all!

qo2cj1dsne8y4k · 09-07-2019 8:38am

I’m just awake, laying like a starfish on my bed. Delighted with that lie on.

Gremlinertia · 09-07-2019 8:41am

Heading for bed, anxiety nearly made me black out a while ago. Eff this..

leahyl · 09-07-2019 8:44am

Gremlinertia wrote: »

Heading for bed, anxiety nearly made me black out a while ago. Eff this..

Oh God, take care of yourself.

ytpe2r5bxkn0c1 · 09-07-2019 9:17am

Damp and muggy but a decent walk is called for.

Beasty · 09-07-2019 9:18am

Costa, whitecity Retail Park (#40)

Trigger Happy · 09-07-2019 9:34am

I am at home with nothing to do. I am sure the brain will kick in shortly and put me to good use. But until then...

09-07-2019 9:44am

Greetings from Costa del Cork,a fantastic morning here,hot and sunny...and I've a day off.

leahyl · 09-07-2019 10:24am

Deleted User wrote: »

Greetings from Costa del Cork,a fantastic morning here,hot and sunny...and I've a day off.

Oh you lucky thing!

Great day to be off....well, any day is a great day if you're off but today looks to be a scorcher!

arybvtcw0eolkf · 09-07-2019 11:26am

smurfjed wrote: »

Did they ask you to make a diary of your daily activities? No point in the machine registering high BP if you were marching down a beach.

Nope, never got anything like that. But when I went came home yesterday I researched the monitor and yours is the same info I found online.

I asked when I went back this morning, and for some reason they'd assumed I wasn't doing anything yesterday until I told them I'd been very busy running around The Curragh.

Then the batteries died last night, which I replaced but the machine never logged the previous readings so I only got readings from 22:20 last night, which were all very high, the highest was 168/104.

But on the manual cuff I was 135/75 less than 30 minutes later.

So I've to wear the monitor again next Monday and in the meantime I've to manually log my readings.

Pain in the ass because with all the exercise I take I'm stumped as to how to lower the numbers if they're high.

In the meantime I was sent home from the clinic and told to relax, and no coffee

qo2cj1dsne8y4k · 09-07-2019 11:43am

Gary Uninterested Dashboard wrote: »

Nope, never got anything like that. But when I went came home yesterday I researched the monitor and yours is the same info I found online.

I asked when I went back this morning, and for some reason they'd assumed I wasn't doing anything yesterday until I told them I'd been very busy running around The Curragh.

Then the batteries died last night, which I replaced but the machine never logged the previous readings so I only got readings from 22:20 last night, which were all very high, the highest was 168/104.

But on the manual cuff I was 135/75 less than 30 minutes later.

So I've to wear the monitor again next Monday and in the meantime I've to manually log my readings.

Pain in the ass because with all the exercise I take I'm stumped as to how to lower the numbers if they're high.

In the meantime I was sent home from the clinic and told to relax, and no coffee

If we could only swap to even out! I have low bp, and no matter how hydrated I stay, or what I seem to do, it doesn’t really raise. Occasionally when I do get sick and they take my bp, and it’s like say 115/80 they tell me it’s perfect but normal for me would be usually 80/60.

Sephiroth_dude · 09-07-2019 12:01pm

Heading into town to get fitted for a suit for my brother's wedding next month.

Kitty6277 · 09-07-2019 12:20pm

Homeside, about to do my makeup while listening to the 2 Johnnies Podcast

Sephiroth_dude · 09-07-2019 1:13pm

Sephiroth_dude wrote: »

Heading into town to get fitted for a suit for my brother's wedding next month.

Mission accomplished 😀

09-07-2019 1:17pm

Sephiroth_dude wrote: »

Mission accomplished ðŸ˜€

I bet you will look very handsome Sephers

I am sitting down mid clean.

Grem I just read your post and I hope you're ok x Its a terrible thing, anxiety.

I don't know where we're going, but I know where I am (part 7.

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