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  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 6,914 Mod ✭✭✭✭shesty


    It may also have to do with other measurements they took at the time, like lengths of limbs etc....might be showing up a bit behind relatively speaking.If the baby has suddenly slowed in growth it may have implications for how the placenta is performing etc.Sorry, I don't mean to alarm you, I don't think it's just about the weight though. However it is still a really inexact science.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,163 ✭✭✭Nead21


    I hate the conversation about the baby's weight. Loads of my friends have had this...either concern that the baby is too big or too small. In each case the consultant has been completely wrong by over a lb. All it does is create mostly unnecessary worry. My eldest was 6lb 3oz when he was born and lost weight. His lowest was 5lb 6oz until milk came in and then put it on lots of weight. There was never a concern that this wasn't normal.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,163 ✭✭✭Nead21


    shesty wrote: »
    It may also have to do with other measurements they took at the time, like lengths of limbs etc....might be showing up a bit behind relatively speaking.If the baby has suddenly slowed in growth it may have implications for how the placenta is performing etc.Sorry, I don't mean to alarm you, I don't think it's just about the weight though. However it is still a really inexact science.

    I agree that there is more cause for concern if there is a sudden change in growth pattern as opposed just being concerned about weight.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,251 ✭✭✭cyning


    Hospital tomorrow. Kind of dreading it, I want a plan, and they are not great at communicating. I’m crippled in pain I just want an induction at 38 weeks at this stage instead of 40. But guess we will see. I spent most of today in bed it helped a bit... but that’s not practical either.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,175 ✭✭✭angeldelight


    cyning wrote: »
    Hospital tomorrow. Kind of dreading it, I want a plan, and they are not great at communicating. I’m crippled in pain I just want an induction at 38 weeks at this stage instead of 40. But guess we will see. I spent most of today in bed it helped a bit... but that’s not practical either.

    Easier said than done especially when you’re not feeling well but push for a plan! How many weeks are you now?

    I was in the hospital today, 36+3... at most I have 2w2d left thank goodness. I’m so much pain with lower back and pelvis I’m miserable. Bed definitely helps but as you say not practical! Baba is back to back same as big sister was but as I’m a section I’m not too fussed!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,251 ✭✭✭cyning


    36+3 here too.... I’m havinh more regular BH at this stage so I’m exhausted from them. Between everything you’d be wrecked! And I’m sick of the crutches


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 220 ✭✭JD24


    Best of luck tomorrow cyning

    I’ve been admitted. I had reduced movements so came in to get checked, all is good with baby but being 2 days off my due date and with the GD, they decided to admit me and start induction. My May baby could be an April baby....


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,175 ✭✭✭angeldelight


    JD24 wrote: »
    Best of luck tomorrow cyning

    I’ve been admitted. I had reduced movements so came in to get checked, all is good with baby but being 2 days off my due date and with the GD, they decided to admit me and start induction. My May baby could be an April baby....

    Oh good luck!! I hope things go quickly for you xx


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,251 ✭✭✭cyning


    Oh wow JD24! Hope it all goes quickly: are you getting the gel or do you just need drip? Let us know first May baby :) even if it is in April!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,163 ✭✭✭Nead21


    cyning wrote: »
    36+3 here too.... I’m havinh more regular BH at this stage so I’m exhausted from them. Between everything you’d be wrecked! And I’m sick of the crutches

    The BH are killing me too. Totally knocking the wind out of me. So uncomfortable. I was at yoga last night and was really struggling.

    Back with consultant on Friday. Good luck today Cyning hopefully you get a plan.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,163 ✭✭✭Nead21


    JD24 wrote: »
    Best of luck tomorrow cyning

    I’ve been admitted. I had reduced movements so came in to get checked, all is good with baby but being 2 days off my due date and with the GD, they decided to admit me and start induction. My May baby could be an April baby....

    Very best of luck JD24!!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,251 ✭✭✭cyning


    I’m back in 2 weeks if I’m favourable. If not they are inducing the following week at 39+4. So look max 3 weeks left now.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,175 ✭✭✭angeldelight


    cyning wrote: »
    I’m back in 2 weeks if I’m favourable. If not they are inducing the following week at 39+4. So look max 3 weeks left now.

    Good to have a deadline! I've definitely found it helps. Fingers crossed you go yourself first of course - that would be the Brucie Bonus :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,448 ✭✭✭evil_seed


    Just a quick update to say our daughter came a day early but all is amazing. I can;t wait to bring her home. Fair play to all the women out there that go through natural child birth, I don't know how you do it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,175 ✭✭✭angeldelight


    evil_seed wrote: »
    Just a quick update to say our daughter came a day early but all is amazing. I can;t wait to bring her home. Fair play to all the women out there that go through natural child birth, I don't know how you do it.

    Congratulations! Enjoy getting to know her :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,251 ✭✭✭cyning


    evil_seed wrote: »
    Just a quick update to say our daughter came a day early but all is amazing. I can;t wait to bring her home. Fair play to all the women out there that go through natural child birth, I don't know how you do it.

    Ah brilliant massive congratulations enjoy every second :)


  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 6,914 Mod ✭✭✭✭shesty


    Congratulations evil_seed :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,163 ✭✭✭Nead21


    Huge congratulations evil_seed. Hope mum and baby are doing well.

    Happy May to us all!

    I'm getting lots of period type pain the last few days so I'm hoping that's the baby moving down. I'll know more Friday I guess.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 220 ✭✭JD24


    Congratulations evil_seed!

    Still no baby for me. Induction from Monday was not successful so Consultant gave me the day off yesterday! I’m back in again today to start it all over again...

    Hopefully I’ll be updating you all sooner rather than later


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,163 ✭✭✭Nead21


    Oh you poor thing. Very best of luck today.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,251 ✭✭✭cyning


    JD24 wrote: »
    Congratulations evil_seed!

    Still no baby for me. Induction from Monday was not successful so Consultant gave me the day off yesterday! I’m back in again today to start it all over again...

    Hopefully I’ll be updating you all sooner rather than later

    Ah no fun JD24. My first induction was a very long one so you have my every sympathy hopefully today goes better.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,175 ✭✭✭angeldelight


    Oh I had that nightmare long induction first time round... hope things move swiftly today


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,214 ✭✭✭witchgirl26


    evil_seed wrote: »
    Just a quick update to say our daughter came a day early but all is amazing. I can;t wait to bring her home. Fair play to all the women out there that go through natural child birth, I don't know how you do it.

    Massive congrats! Enjoy every single moment :)
    JD24 wrote: »
    Congratulations evil_seed!

    Still no baby for me. Induction from Monday was not successful so Consultant gave me the day off yesterday! I’m back in again today to start it all over again...

    Hopefully I’ll be updating you all sooner rather than later

    Oh hopefully it goes better today.

    I completely dropped off here just because things were mental at home. Off work now which is just as well as the final week was a bit of a struggle. BH are happening a lot now for me but always start at 3ish in the afternoon. We've bets now that that's when I'll actually start on it all lol.
    Had growth scan today & consultant app too. Baby is measuring in the 39th percentile which they're really happy with considering the GD. It's right down the middle of the chart between the 10th & 90th. Based on that they're happy to let me go myself. Bump is defo dropping so not sure I'll make my due date. 2 weeks left officially!

    Hope everyone is keeping well (or as well as you can).


  • Registered Users Posts: 4 Abbieboo


    Hi all
    I posted here previously.
    I have about 9 more days for my section date.
    But unlike all of ye I'm feeling depressed and feeling like i don't want this baby.
    I'm single and currently caring for an extremely difficult 3 yr old and have absolutely no help.
    I'm dreading this baby .
    And am afraid to talk to doctor or a professional to consider or discuss my options.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,251 ✭✭✭cyning


    Abbieboo wrote: »
    Hi all
    I posted here previously.
    I have about 9 more days for my section date.
    But unlike all of ye I'm feeling depressed and feeling like i don't want this baby.
    I'm single and currently caring for an extremely difficult 3 yr old and have absolutely no help.
    I'm dreading this baby .
    And am afraid to talk to doctor or a professional to consider or discuss my options.

    It’s not easy having a new baby. Is there anyone you would feel comfortable talking to? I know people can panic at the mention of TUSLA but there are supports available: or your local family resource centre? It’s daunting and you feel how you feel. Esp with a toddler at home. Would childcare be an option (I know our local community crèche have low cost options, as do some of the private ones: I paid €3 per day when I was on a CE scheme). Your maternity unit will have people either if you felt more comfortable with that. Pre natal depression is not at all uncommon but even at this late stage there is help available.


  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 6,914 Mod ✭✭✭✭shesty


    Please speak to a midwife in the hospital.You need to ask for help, even just a shoulder to cry on.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,163 ✭✭✭Nead21


    Abbieboo wrote: »
    Hi all
    I posted here previously.
    I have about 9 more days for my section date.
    But unlike all of ye I'm feeling depressed and feeling like i don't want this baby.
    I'm single and currently caring for an extremely difficult 3 yr old and have absolutely no help.
    I'm dreading this baby .
    And am afraid to talk to doctor or a professional to consider or discuss my options.

    As others have said please talk to someone. You deserve better than feeling like this. 3 is also a notoriously difficult age. My 3 year old have been very difficult lately and even though I have lots of help I'm still worried about how I will manage once baby is here.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 220 ✭✭JD24


    So our baby girl arrived on Friday morning after a very long induction! She’s a little dote.

    Can’t wait to hear of all the other May Babies
    Best of luck to all x


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,163 ✭✭✭Nead21


    JD24 wrote: »
    So our baby girl arrived on Friday morning after a very long induction! She’s a little dote.

    Can’t wait to hear of all the other May Babies
    Best of luck to all x

    Huge congratulations. Hope you are recovering well


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,251 ✭✭✭cyning


    Ah fantastic JD24! Long inductions are the pits, hope you are recovering well and she’s doing great :)


  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 6,914 Mod ✭✭✭✭shesty


    Congratulations to the May babies and their parents :-) My own May baby is turning a year old this week, so this time last year is very much in my mind.Good luck to you all!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,214 ✭✭✭witchgirl26


    Abbieboo - please talk to someone. They're there to help you and even just saying it out loud to someone can help relieve some of the burden.

    JD24 - massive congrats!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,175 ✭✭✭angeldelight


    Congratulations JD24!! Had that experience myself first time round - it’s draining!

    At my appointment on Monday the fluid levels around baby were too high so I’ve to have a repeat diabetes test tomorrow and if it’s positive they want to deliver on friday. It’s awful timing as my parents will still be on holidays so that’s our childcare for 4 year old :( I’m so stressed out


  • Registered Users Posts: 4 Abbieboo


    Thank you all for your replies.
    I feel unable to talk or express how I feel as I've a history with tusla regarding my eldest child
    Several yrs ago I had some mental health issues and addiction problems.
    I haven't touched a tablet in 4 yrs now.
    Nor do I feel tempted to do so.
    I'm afraid to talk as when I had my lil girl 3 yrs ago the health nurse stalked me for about 2 yrs.
    And I know if I say how I'm feeling alarm bells will go off left right and centre.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,251 ✭✭✭cyning


    Angel delight ask for help: if you were one of my friends id be there and I’d bet you would be too? It’s not ideal but if you have a plan it would help. My mum is having an op tomorrow so she’s out for the next week or so.

    Abbieboo sometimes if you ask for help it’s easier than waiting until you need help? The family support services through Family Resource Centres might be less daunting. You can always request a different PHN too if you aren’t comfortable with the one you have.

    I’m totally miserable vomiting all the time and the hypersalivation is back. I was up until 4 last night with non regular contractions but regular enough I couldn’t sleep. And my eyes keep going funny but no protein and blood pressure is fine. It’s exhausting. My 6 year old had scarlet fever at weekend and my 5 year old took a reaction to suncream and was up all night with hives and itching. I swear a newborn is so much easier than how I’m feeling right now.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 4 Abbieboo


    I'd just like to thank everyone.
    My baby came early and unexpected emergency section.
    And I love him.
    I feel totally different xx


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,251 ✭✭✭cyning


    Abbieboo wrote: »
    I'd just like to thank everyone.
    My baby came early and unexpected emergency section.
    And I love him.
    I feel totally different xx

    Congrats Abbieboo! Hope you are recovering well and both you and baba are doing great xx


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,175 ✭✭✭angeldelight


    Congratulations Abbieboo!

    Hope everyone else is holding on ok... I passed the second diabetes test so section scheduled for Wednesday. My parents are home Tuesday evening so am hoping baby doesn’t decide to arrive before then and all will be fine!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,251 ✭✭✭cyning


    They are going to see if I’m favourable Tuesday and if I am induce :) if not Tues week! I’m hanging on by a thread at this stage so fingers crossed....


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,175 ✭✭✭angeldelight


    Oh everything crossed for this Tuesday!! I’ve got to the point where the only way I’m not in constant severe pain from the pelvis and lower back is to lie down. I’m hoping it goes away with the spinal like last time and that’s the end of it! I feel like an 80 year old


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,251 ✭✭✭cyning


    I can’t sit or stand or lie down or sleep I’m beyond everything at this stage. If I eat one meal a day I’m doing well: I’m just totally over it all now. Yesterday I thought I did really well: I had a chicken pitta and some chips. Didn’t eat the pitta just the filling :D and a magnum. My husband pointed out that wasn’t great! And I keep getting regular Braxton Hicks that go no where. Anyway look it’s nearly over!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,163 ✭✭✭Nead21


    Abbieboo wrote: »
    I'd just like to thank everyone.
    My baby came early and unexpected emergency section.
    And I love him.
    I feel totally different xx

    Congratulations Abbieboo. Don't be afraid to seek help if you need it xx


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,163 ✭✭✭Nead21


    Angeldelight and Cyning...ye both could have babies by the end of the week. Exciting!!

    Honestly I can't believe I'm still pregnant. My youngest had arrived already at this stage so I think i convinced myself it would be the same. Also so uncomfortable. Tightenings are painful at this stage but nothing happening. Back with consultant on Wednesday.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,251 ✭✭✭cyning


    So far today I’ve set up nappy changing unit, filled all the baskets with the muslins bibs etc, tidied my 2 girls bedrooms and most of their playroom (I might kill them if I have the energy when they get home!!) done all the laundry, got all the winter clothes ready for attic... if nesting is a sign I’m so ready for labour. Just must set up co sleeper and baby hug now later. Have car sorted with 3 car seats across the back and only had to buy one seat which was great.... must bring 6 year old to football match at 630. So I’m pretty sure I’m ready for this baby to come :D if only s/he would realise that!


  • Registered Users Posts: 16 sillysuz


    Our little baby arrived in the early hours of Sunday morn. Holles st was very busy must've been a full moon. We came home today on request. Good luck everyone, I'm so proud of myself :) and have huge admiration for my own mother x


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,251 ✭✭✭cyning


    Congrats Sillysuz! Babies everywhere at the moment :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,175 ✭✭✭angeldelight


    sillysuz wrote: »
    Our little baby arrived in the early hours of Sunday morn. Holles st was very busy must've been a full moon. We came home today on request. Good luck everyone, I'm so proud of myself :) and have huge admiration for my own mother x

    Congratulations!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,175 ✭✭✭angeldelight


    cyning wrote: »
    Congrats Sillysuz! Babies everywhere at the moment :)

    Good luck today - hope things are favourable for induction!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,163 ✭✭✭Nead21


    Our little lady arrived this morning 11 days early. She's a beauty and we are smitten with her.

    Best if luck Cyning today and Angeldelight for tomorrow


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,175 ✭✭✭angeldelight


    Nead21 wrote: »
    Our little lady arrived this morning 11 days early. She's a beauty and we are smitten with her.

    Best if luck Cyning today and Angeldelight for tomorrow

    Congratulations! That was a quick turn around from nothing happening :)


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