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Traveller sues hotel for not having enough security for wedding

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,925 ✭✭✭✭anncoates


    Might be an idea to just increase the breakage deposit required; sigh a legal disclaimer to cover any damage to the premises or even force the wedding/funeral party to foot security costs.

    Unfortunately, I think you'd just see somebody taking action on discrimination grounds.


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    abff wrote: »
    Actually, there is one point you made in relation to which I would be grateful if you could provide some clarification.

    You suggested in one of your replies that the lawyers on the winning side in a case such as this might end up having little or none of their fees paid.

    No I didn't. The point you raised was about lawyers for Plaintiffs being liable where the case fails. I pointed out that, as in this case, the obvious "penalty" they will face is the prospect of getting little or no fees.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,776 ✭✭✭abff


    No I didn't. The point you raised was about lawyers for Plaintiffs being liable where the case fails. I pointed out that, as in this case, the obvious "penalty" they will face is the prospect of getting little or no fees.

    If you go back and read your post, you said that the lawyers in this case might not get paid. You did not say that this only applied to the plaintiff's lawyer. Thanks for the clarification.

    By the way, I never accused you of saying that the current system is perfect. I asked you a question about whether you think it is absolutely fine and whether there was any change that you might approve of that might make things less litigious.

    Do you feel like answering this question?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,310 ✭✭✭✭Cienciano


    You evidently have absolutely fcuk all experience of working in hotels if you think that they refuse custom from travellers purely because they are travellers. If you are good for payment, won't act the bollocks or inconvenience other paying customers and or bring negative attention to the hotel(eg an extremist group holding a convention there) then they don't really give a damn who you are. Margins are tight and bringing in revenue is king.

    Travellers are refused simply because of their actions. They are grand at the start, but once drink is taken; oh boy. You might get a few grand out of them for the reception, dinner and a good bar takings. But the destruction they cause and the comps and apologies you will have to dish out the next day make it not worth your while.

    If you ever worked a traveller wedding you would know the score. Once the dinner and speeches are over, the same lads who were great craic at the start of the day start becoming extremely rude and threatening. So much so that it's actually unsafe to have younger and female staff on the floor. When it kicks off, welp. If you experienced it then you would change your tune.

    I've worked hundreds of weddings, christenings and other types of functions featuring all sorts of different cultures and backgrounds. Sure, on occasion they have had brief moments of idiots acting out too. But that's immediately nipped in the bud and the organisers and the rest of the attendees are full of apologies for the rest of the night. Usually my biggest gripe was arseholes clicking their fingers, lads tapping me on the shoulder when I've my back turned and carrying a large drinks order or drunk, horny aul wans talking nonsense. Working a traveller function is a different ball game altogether. There's an inevitable feeling of dread throughout the shift. It's going to kick off.

    Just a matter of when.

    I'm sure hotels don't open up and decide they're never going to do traveller weddings. I'd say it's along the lines of out of the 20 weddings a year, 5 were traveller weddings, and maybe 4 out of that 5 were a disaster. Do that for a few years and work out that it costs you money so you stop doing them. But you're racist for not doing them.
    It's not exactly the hoteliers association of ireland is run by a load of racists that would rather refuse money than serve travellers.
    Any big event in ireland the pubs make a fortune. Concerts or matches around croker, pubs around towns when festivals are on. But when it's a travellers horse fair in Borris where the pubs would be jammed they'd rather close than make thousands. Are the struggling publicans actually racist? Or is it more hassle than it's worth?
    http://www.irishtimes.com/news/borris-pubs-and-shops-to-close-for-street-fair-1.930027
    All people hotellers and publicans want from travellers is to behave in a civilised way, no agro, sure they want to take your money.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 4,290 ✭✭✭mickydoomsux


    Cienciano wrote: »
    from travellers is to behave in a civilised way, no agro, sure they want to take your money.

    Let's not let a few dozen bad apples ruin the bunch.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,867 ✭✭✭SeanW


    First of all, do you understand the concept of insurance? It is unlikely that the hotel owner will actually pick up the bill at all.
    A lot better than you I imagine. The insurance company is not a charity. You pay for insurance according to risk. You claim (or for any other reason) you present more risk, you pay more for insurance to compensate for the risk, so that you (or other customers) eventually pay for the cost of the claim.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,246 ✭✭✭✭Dyr


    I knew a fella who let some travellers use a community hall for a wedding because everywhere else refused them

    They were so grateful that they repaired to the football pitch outside for the inevitable post nuptial digging match rather than risk damaging the venue.

    That was back in the 80s though, the current shower lack that touch of class


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,246 ✭✭✭✭Dyr


    irishgeo wrote: »
    . Surely people who live on the off shore islands could be an ethnic group.

    Dam right they could, If webbed toes don't qualify you for ethnicity then I don't know what does


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 4,290 ✭✭✭mickydoomsux


    Bambi wrote: »
    I

    That was back in the 80s though, the current shower lack that touch of class

    That's down to our new,caring, sharing society.

    We've basically told travellers and scumbags that they can do whatever they want because "shure, aren't they fierce deprived and don't they have a hard time of it. Isn't anyone who criticizes them for acting like animals an utter bollox/bigot who is discriminating against them. Here have some more money!"


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,391 ✭✭✭✭mikom


    Grayson wrote: »

    The vast majority of travelers weddings go off without a hitch.

    Bollox.
    There is always a hitch.
    How else are you supposed to tow the caravan.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,126 ✭✭✭Reoil


    You have to feel sorry for the kid, a 14 year old should not be exposed to such dangers and end up stabbed at a function.

    Yeah, I'm sure he's a little angel alright...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,956 ✭✭✭✭Omackeral


    It's odd reading Conor74's posts without them being thanked by the Undisputed Champion of PC. Im sure that'll be rectified as soon as he's online. The thing is, ask any given amount of people what traveller weddings are about and I bet you the vast majority will say OTT dresses for the women (as seen on those tacky TV shows, which are harmless tbh) and the other answer you'll get for the males is violence and trouble. The stereotype isn't born out of myth.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,547 ✭✭✭✭El_Duderino 09


    Was it a sociologist who gave that evidence?

    Oh no, it was a "security consultant" who gave the "they need more security" evidence! Well there's a surprise.

    It doesn't really carry much weight at all, does it?

    He was saying travellers need MORE security than settled people because of the fact that they are travelers and typically behave violently at weddings.

    Why not take it up with the consultant and the plantiff? If he's wrong then he's making a fairly abusive statement on behalf of the traveller


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,291 ✭✭✭✭VinLieger


    Was it a sociologist who gave that evidence?

    Oh no, it was a "security consultant" who gave the "they need more security" evidence! Well there's a surprise.

    It doesn't really carry much weight at all, does it?

    A security consultant testifying traveler weddings need more security on behalf of the traveler carries quite a lot of weight imo.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,802 ✭✭✭✭suicide_circus


    The lengths people will go to in order to maintain their liberal ethos is quite extraordinary and is not dissimilar to the way in which people maintain religious faith in the face of overwhelming scientific evidence. It is hard to comprehend this level of willing delusion.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,547 ✭✭✭✭El_Duderino 09


    I'm only on page 8 but I have to ask whether end of the road and conor think there is any elevated risk of violence at a traveller wedding or funeral over a settled funeral?

    I'm finding it difficult to understand how you could call it discrimination if there is a reasonable expectation of different behaviour between travellers and settled people. A business could be set up for weddings and 1% might end in damage to the establish in damaged property and reputation. If traveller events pose a 10% risk of damage then the business might not be able to sustain that rate of damage.

    Should a business be able to turn down a wedding because it can't afford to cater for the wedding and it's associated risks?

    So do end of the road and conor think there is any elevated risk of violence at a traveller wedding or funeral over a settled funeral?


  • Registered Users Posts: 6,544 ✭✭✭Samaris


    I don't care if they were Travellers or not, if it's not the hotel's policy to post security, if it wasn't enquired into, and the wedding party made no request or confirmation of such, they can't complain that there was no security. It's a wedding, for heaven's sake, most weddings don't -expect- more than Mad Uncle Jimmy having a few too many and passing out under the table after swearing at the curtains.

    I'd be fairly surprised if a hotel staffmember mixed up a Fat Frog cocktail for a kid of fourteen, since that particular cocktail doesn't -tend- to be on a drinks list and it's fairly well known to be a drink (a few years back) of teenagers. Also, it should, in a family function, be at LEAST as much on the parents of said sprog as to what he's drinking. Three of them? And none of the adults around even noticed? Yeah, right.

    It's up to the family of the wedding party who they do or don't invite, and if they deliberately invited people that they suspected would result in trouble and chaos, it's their own fault, not the fault of the unfortunate hotel that hosts them. There's a certain duty of care and consideration that should go both ways. I'm sorry the kid got injured, but again, that was not the fault of the hotel not having "security" (for a -wedding-), it's the fault of whoever started the fight and was carrying a weapon, be it a broken glass or a knife. Sue them, not the hotel.


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    I'm only on page 8 but I have to ask whether end of the road and conor think there is any elevated risk of violence at a traveller wedding or funeral over a settled funeral?

    I would certainly accept that there is an increased risk of violence.

    Just as there might be at, say, events where people from poorer urban areas congregate.

    But I would be much more willing to examine why that is and to accept that it may not be because poor people or travellers are just bad, and should be condemned accordingly. But whether it comes from other issues, generations of marginalisation, discrimination, stress, exposure to violence from their parents and so on. I would not say travellers are angels (although posts here that portray a 14 year old in a negative light solely on the basis that he is a traveller say much more about the poster) or there are no issues, but we cannot wash our hands of those issues and say it's their fault.

    It is the exact same in other countries. Black people in the USA and the Indigenous in Australia are also likely to be hit with that tag of being bad, being predisposed to violent crime, and certainly have much higher numbers in prison and so on. But we are more willing to explore why that is so, while dismissing the issues of travellers here.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,547 ✭✭✭✭El_Duderino 09


    I would certainly accept that there is an increased risk of violence.

    Just as there might be at, say, events where people from poorer urban areas congregate.

    But I would be much more willing to examine why that is and to accept that it may not be because poor people or travellers are just bad, and should be condemned accordingly. But whether it comes from other issues, generations of marginalisation, discrimination, stress, exposure to violence from their parents and so on. I would not say travellers are angels (although posts here that portray a 14 year old in a negative light solely on the basis that he is a traveller say much more about the poster) or there are no issues, but we cannot wash our hands of those issues and say it's their fault.

    It is the exact same in other countries. Black people in the USA and the Indigenous in Australia are also likely to be hit with that tag of being bad, being predisposed to violent crime, and certainly have much higher numbers in prison and so on. But we are more willing to explore why that is so, while dismissing the issues of travellers here.

    It has nothing to do with them being good or bad people. If taking traveller weddings would break your business because their behaviour can reasonably be expected to be more violent, then the business should be able to refuse their custom.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,812 ✭✭✭✭sbsquarepants


    The main difference between traveller weddings and settled weddings is that there is no invite required for travellers. Your average settled wedding goes off without much trouble because if the happy couple have any sworn enemies they tend not to invite them, thus avoiding the much feared "cultural fracas"!
    That's not the case with our more malodourous travelling brethren - half the guests want the other half dead - throw in a bucket load of alcohol and a sprinkling of slash hooks - it's never going to end well.
    Anyone who says otherwise has most likely never had to deal with them. Their reputation for aggression, thievery and general assholery is not based on thin air. The majority of people are not racist in my opinion - but neither are they blind. If I was running the hotel - no way would I book their weddings - It's not racism, it's economics. Even if only 1 in 10 end in disaster (at a guess I'd say it's actually more than 1 in 2), that 1 negates all the profits you'd made from the other 9. If there's no money it - it's stupid to be doing it, any business that operates differently is doomed!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,373 ✭✭✭✭foggy_lad


    Was it not shown before that certain groupings of people including Aborigines and Irish travellers as well as American Indians do not have the same physical tolerance for alcohol as other groups? it has also been shown that fast foods have an awful effect on the health of indigenous populations such as the Aborigines and Indians with many more suffering from obesity and conditions such as diabetes. it was argued that because they were not accostomed to alcohol for so long and that it was not a part of their culture over thousands of years they were basically not able to handle fast fatty foods or alcohol.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,923 ✭✭✭To Elland Back


    How do I amend my settings to prompt me when certain keywords are posted? I'm always late for the good stuff :(


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,154 ✭✭✭silverfeather


    Lets use analogies.

    Which do you think requires more security a tennis match or a football match?

    And let us say there are two football matches one Ireland vrs France and the other England vrs Germany both happening in Dublin. Which do you suppose requires more security?

    And again lets use more analogy. An English football fan decides to attend the Germany/England match. He is a lovely man , a family man and a die hard England supporter. He is from Liverpool and has a charming scouse accent. He is educated and polite. He attends the match and is accosted by another England fan who has previous form with this type of behavior and is a degenerate nut job. He sues the stadium saying that they should have realized that the match needed more security. He loses. He goes to the pub later to buy a drink wearing his England kit....he is refused because English football fans are trouble. :rolleyes: The man who attacked him goes into the same pub and is not wearing the England kit and is served. The Irish football fans wearing their kits are also served.

    Read the above. Do the the decent individuals have the right to be protected from a criminal element within their social or hobby group without being the victims of discrimination against their group as individuals? I think the answer is yes.

    We should distinguish between the football hooligans and the football fans and also protect the good ones from the bad ones at the same time....or try to anyway...


  • Registered Users Posts: 723 ✭✭✭Luke92


    Lets use analogies.

    Which do you think requires more security a tennis match or a football match?

    And let us say there are two football matches one Ireland vrs France and the other England vrs Germany both happening in Dublin. Which do you suppose requires more security?

    And again lets use more analogy. An English football fan decides to attend the Germany/England match. He is a lovely man , a family man and a die hard England supporter. He is from Liverpool and has a charming scouse accent. He is educated and polite. He attends the match and is accosted by another England fan who has previous form with this type of behavior and is a degenerate nut job. He sues the stadium saying that they should have realized that the match needed more security. He loses. He goes to the pub later to buy a drink wearing his England kit....he is refused because English football fans are trouble. :rolleyes: The man who attacked him goes into the same pub and is not wearing the England kit and is served. The Irish football fans wearing their kits are also served.

    Read the above. Do the the decent individuals have the right to be protected from a criminal element within their social or hobby group without being the victims of discrimination against their group as individuals? I think the answer is yes.

    We should distinguish between the football hooligans and the football fans without prejudicing the football fans. And we cannot blame the law abiding football fans for objecting to the discrimination nor asking for the same protecting against the hooligans that non football fans get.

    You just confused me.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,154 ✭✭✭silverfeather


    Luke92 wrote: »
    You just confused me.
    Germany England match is being played. An English fan of good character goes and gets attacked by a fellow fan who is a criminal. The victim sues the stadium for not having enough security. He says England fans need more security especially if they play Germany. He still wants to go to the pub and not be refused because he is an English fan.

    That sounds fair.

    There are football hooligans. And genuine football fans. If a football fan is hurt and it's because of not enough security he has a point if he says the stadium should have known. That doesn't mean pubs can refuse to serve him because he is wearing an England kit.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,736 ✭✭✭✭kylith


    foggy_lad wrote: »
    Was it not shown before that certain groupings of people including Aborigines and Irish travellers as well as American Indians do not have the same physical tolerance for alcohol as other groups? it has also been shown that fast foods have an awful effect on the health of indigenous populations such as the Aborigines and Indians with many more suffering from obesity and conditions such as diabetes. it was argued that because they were not accostomed to alcohol for so long and that it was not a part of their culture over thousands of years they were basically not able to handle fast fatty foods or alcohol.

    I believe you have a point re: Aboriginal Australians and Americans, because alcohol was not a part of their diet for many thousands of years. Irish travellers have had access to alcohol as long as the rest of the population of Ireland and Europe has. They did not develop in isolation as in Australia.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,246 ✭✭✭✭Dyr


    Let's use another analogy, a family invite a number of guests to their wedding. Presumably they are familiar with their guests characters. The guests then proceed to leather the bejaysus out of each other on such a scale that the staff have to seek refuge and send for the shades, then *missing sequences* the venue is to blame for it all.

    Sounds about right


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 4,290 ✭✭✭mickydoomsux


    Luke92 wrote: »
    You just confused me.

    Think it's the usual "it's only a few bad apple travellers ruining it for a majority of perfectly law abiding travellers".

    Utter nonsense as shown by the high incidence of prosecutions/imprisonment among their population.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,291 ✭✭✭✭VinLieger


    That doesn't mean pubs can refuse to serve him because he is wearing an England kit.

    It actually does there are many pubs in England that disallow the wearing of football jerseys due to football hooliganism rivalries


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,154 ✭✭✭silverfeather


    VinLieger wrote: »
    It actually does there are many pubs in England that disallow the wearing of football jerseys due to football hooliganism rivalries
    You can take clothes off. That's why it's different to racial or ethnic discrimination.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,291 ✭✭✭✭VinLieger


    You can take clothes off. That's why it's different to racial or ethnic discrimination.

    You can also choose to not get blind drunk and start riots


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,154 ✭✭✭silverfeather


    I was playing around with arguments. Trying to show just because a man asks for protection from elements in his community does not mean he should be discriminated against.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,154 ✭✭✭silverfeather


    VinLieger wrote: »
    You can also choose to not get blind drunk and start riots
    I'll try not to.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,291 ✭✭✭✭VinLieger


    I was playing around with arguments. Trying to show just because a man asks for protection from elements in his community does not mean he should be discriminated against.

    That's not the argument he used though. He said that due to the violent nature of his community protection should be provided as default


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,982 ✭✭✭Caliden


    You hire a hape of security and they would probably complain and threaten to sue you for discrimination. You don't hire security and they bait the ****e out of one another and sue you.

    You cannot win.

    Well in this case they did.

    The judge dismissed the case on appeal.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,291 ✭✭✭✭VinLieger


    Caliden wrote: »
    Well in this case they did.

    The judge dismissed the case on appeal.

    I think they meant you cannot win in that no matter what you do they will always cry discrimination


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,210 ✭✭✭nelly17


    The Lumville House is on the market now, its a quiet spot and quite nice. Owners probably thought its just not worth the bother


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,246 ✭✭✭✭Dyr


    You can take clothes off. That's why it's different to racial or ethnic discrimination.

    How is NOT making the assumption that pavees are violent neanderthals discrimination :confused:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,802 ✭✭✭✭suicide_circus


    Bambi wrote: »
    How is NOT making the assumption that pavees are violent neanderthals discrimination :confused:

    "Discrimination" is the battle cry of liberal tyranny. It doesn't matter if discrimination is actually happening, the word is used to send fear into the gutless and weak willed.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 4,290 ✭✭✭mickydoomsux


    no, they should be forced to open and take in some money so we can get more tax revenue for the economy

    Yeah, **** the potential cost of repairs/lost business to the private business owner who will have to deal with these "people".

    In fact let's just fine them if they do close their business to stop it from being wrecked by these animals!

    Want to be treated without "discrimination"? Act like a normal person then.

    People are starting to tire of the fact that certain sections of society (who contribute nothing to said society) are seen as being above reproach whilst they thumb their noses at everyone else.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,140 ✭✭✭✭end of the road


    Omackeral wrote: »
    You occupied Dame Street, didn't you?

    i didn't no

    I'm very highly educated. I know words, i have the best words.



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,624 ✭✭✭Little CuChulainn


    You can take clothes off. That's why it's different to racial or ethnic discrimination.

    Ethnicity requires a shared ancestry and culture. Why is it only the positive aspects of a culture that can be recognised?


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,965 ✭✭✭Help!!!!


    How does one become a " Traveller "?? I think it would be a great life, travel around the country see the sights, get paid by the government. No bills to pay
    Would I only need a caravan?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,140 ✭✭✭✭end of the road


    JaffOs wrote: »
    I want to bang my head against my desk every time I read a post of yours. Everyone one should be "forced" to deal with this but when anything is put on you "its not your problem".

    because for the purposes of the post i originally quoted its not my problem. people commiting crime is the job of the police and courts to deal with. if they refuse to do so thats them not doing their job.

    I'm very highly educated. I know words, i have the best words.



  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 4,290 ✭✭✭mickydoomsux


    Ethnicity requires a shared ancestry and culture. Why is it only the positive aspects of a culture that can be recognised?

    Because you aren't allowed to say anything negative about a group of people regardless of how much evidence you have to back your point up.

    Only positive statistics matter.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,154 ✭✭✭silverfeather


    Ethnicity requires a shared ancestry and culture. Why is it only the positive aspects of a culture that can be recognised?
    We are not supposed to positively discriminate either. The positive stereotypes can be patronizing.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,624 ✭✭✭Little CuChulainn


    We are not supposed to positively discriminate either. The positive stereotypes can be patronizing.

    So if we cannot recognise differences without being racist then what is the point of recognising ethnicity at all and how can an ethnic group be recognised?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,140 ✭✭✭✭end of the road


    You evidently have absolutely fcuk all experience of working in hotels

    you don't know what experience i do or don't have nor will i be telling you
    if you think that they refuse custom from travellers purely because they are travellers.

    oh they do
    If you are good for payment, won't act the bollocks or inconvenience other paying customers and or bring negative attention to the hotel(eg an extremist group holding a convention there) then they don't really give a damn who you are.

    well seeing as they won't take them in the first place they can't prove they aren't good for payment or will act the bollox. the fact is they can get away with refusing them because they are a minority group. if someone doesn't pay their bill thats what the courts are there for. if you can prove they didn't pay up then unless your legal deffence is completely incompetent you will win.
    Margins are tight and bringing in revenue is king.

    cry me a river
    Travellers are refused simply because of their actions.

    IE refused because they are travelers IE discrimination because they can get away with it. you can't refuse someone because of actions that person hasn't commited but as the hotels can get away with it they do which is why they need to be put out of business and a climate of fear installed.
    They are grand at the start, but once drink is taken; oh boy. You might get a few grand out of them for the reception, dinner and a good bar takings. But the destruction they cause and the comps and apologies you will have to dish out the next day make it not worth your while.

    you serve alcohol. people behaving badly is the risk of selling alcohol. don't serve alcohol to anyone and you won't have the risk. there is no excuse for bigotry toards travelers and it should be cracked down on hard. whatever takings you do get are worth it as they go back into the economy.
    If you ever worked a traveller wedding you would know the score. Once the dinner and speeches are over, the same lads who were great craic at the start of the day start becoming extremely rude and threatening. So much so that it's actually unsafe to have younger and female staff on the floor. When it kicks off, welp. If you experienced it then you would change your tune.

    anything to back that up? people like yourself always come out with this nonsense "if bla bla bla you will change your tune" wrong. i don't change my tune and i haven't changed my tune on anything i've experienced, my opinion stays the same no matter what. whether i have or haven't experienced this particular situation you will never know
    I've worked hundreds of weddings, christenings and other types of functions featuring all sorts of different cultures and backgrounds. Sure, on occasion they have had brief moments of idiots acting out too. But that's immediately nipped in the bud and the organisers and the rest of the attendees are full of apologies for the rest of the night. Usually my biggest gripe was arseholes clicking their fingers, lads tapping me on the shoulder when I've my back turned and carrying a large drinks order or drunk, horny aul wans talking nonsense. Working a traveller function is a different ball game altogether. There's an inevitable feeling of dread throughout the shift. It's going to kick off. Just a matter of when.

    tough. thats the industry. bankrupt businesses and their owners who refuse people because they are travelers, gay, black, brown, whatever. bann their owners from operating a business. a climate of fear against bigotry must be installed in ireland

    I'm very highly educated. I know words, i have the best words.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,140 ✭✭✭✭end of the road


    Schism wrote: »
    End of the road, hi. How's it going?

    Few questions if you don't mind.

    1. Can you stop typing bigot? The word has lost all meaning to me.
    2. Are you Batman?
    3. Do you live in the same world as everyone else?

    Man, you're totally blinkered to the way of the world for some reason. It seems you've got this belief that everything should be proper, correct and done exactly by the book but it's way off. Things aren't black and white like you're describing them. Let's take an example.

    You say that a hotel owner must take all and any business from anyone. OK. The hotel takes a traveller wedding, some property damage occurs, some fights break out and as a result due to breakage / comping other guests / bad press any monetary gain from the booking has been nullified.

    With me still? Good. There's one last step. You are now that hotel owner. This is your business, this is how you make a living. You've had a bad experience and being a man(woman) of the world you're surely aware of the reputation this group of people have, you've seen it first hand. Do you take another booking?

    In a perfect world the hotel owner gets sufficient remuneration for their losses and life goes on, another similar booking comes along and they take it and hope for the best but that just doesn't happen.
    thats the industry. i'm risking my business the minute i open my door. as the law states i cannot refuse to serve someone on the basis of them being from a particular commmunity, race, or skin colour, i have 2 choices. serve and put up. or get out of that industry and find another business.

    I'm very highly educated. I know words, i have the best words.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,140 ✭✭✭✭end of the road


    Yeah, everyone just discriminates against travellers for no reason. We have a local halting site and the same families are in court at pretty much every sitting of the District and Criminal Courts, it's not uncommon to see several family members up on the same day. They're notorious for causing trouble and last year a local bar refused them entry, they then went on to sue the bar and try to have their licence removed, a case which they lost.

    There's a lot of very good and valid reasons that travellers are disliked by the settled community and mainly it's as a result of their behaviour. Basically if someone behaves like scum they are unwanted and shunned by society, if they want to be treated differently then they're attitude and actions need to change. When I was 19 I saw a traveller guy put a broken Bulmers bottle to the throat of his wife against a pub wall, while she was holding their baby. He was threatening to kill her because she'd come over to the pub to ask him to come home. I'll never forget that.
    its only an excuse. if they are really that bothered, the hotels will gladly go to court and prove the particular person is involved in trouble before they get the right to refuse their booking. if guilty, they are put on a trouble makers list which is for all. if not guilty, the booking must be taken

    I'm very highly educated. I know words, i have the best words.



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