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Obesity crisis in Ireland Mod Note post 1

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  • Registered Users Posts: 2,558 ✭✭✭Ardillaun


    _Brian wrote: »
    In the vast, bast majority of cases it’s just a loss of self control.

    Hypostasising about genes and environment is just a side show.

    Obviously some families are genetically more prone to weight increases, but they will only increase weight if they continuously eat more energy than the expend, their bodies don’t magically produce energy to store as fat. If they eat less energy than they expend they will loose weight.

    People are choosing to ignore the basic physics of the problem.

    The phscyology of why they do this to themselves is desperately complex.

    That depends on what you mean by 'self-control', a dense topic in itself. The thread contains evidence that the physics of weight gain is not as simple as it appears, e.g. intake is much more important than output and the availability of calorie-rich food has gone through the metaphorical roof like our numbers on the scale. Calvin was kinda right about predestination but we can still make a deal with Providence; the weight scenario is only sketched out by yer man above and can still be pushed down in our favour if we play our cards right. The fundamental point is this: give up on the blame.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,436 ✭✭✭dartboardio


    I was obese right up until a couple of years ago. Due to laziness.. Being fed 'oven food' as i call it like chicken kievs from the freezer etc and no veg. I got up to about 15..16 stone aged 16.

    Mostly it was due to my grandad bringing me to superquinn everyday after school when i was a young child and buying me donuts! That really developed my sweet tooth. Then id sit watching matilda while he waited on me like a butler. Hahah

    But i now have a much better relationship with food and cook everything from scratch.

    Im still kinda overweight and i can notice many people in Ireland are too. Sitting on a bus and 8/10 people are overweight including me. Thats kind of embarassing


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 4,691 ✭✭✭4ensic15


    I was obese right up until a couple of years ago. Due to laziness.. Being fed 'oven food' as i call it like chicken kievs from the freezer etc and no veg. I got up to about 15..16 stone aged 16.

    Mostly it was due to my grandad bringing me to superquinn everyday after school and buying me donuts! Then id sit watching matilda while he waited on me like a butler. Hahah

    But i now have a much better relationship with food and cook everything from scratch.

    Im still kinda overweight and i can notice many people in Ireland are too. Sitting on a bus and 8/10 people are overweight.. Thats kind of embarassing

    You should be sitting on a bus. You should be walking. Your obesity would decline rapidly.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,191 ✭✭✭✭Shanotheslayer


    4ensic15 wrote: »
    You should be sitting on a bus. You should be walking. Your obesity would decline rapidly.

    Spell check.

    RIP your post


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,436 ✭✭✭dartboardio


    4ensic15 wrote: »
    You should be sitting on a bus. You should be walking. Your obesity would decline rapidly.

    That makes sense......


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,558 ✭✭✭Ardillaun


    4ensic15 wrote: »
    You should be sitting on a bus. You should be walking. Your obesity would decline rapidly.

    Some walking is a good idea but we don’t want the lad walking twenty miles a day because the bus is forbidden.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 29,930 ✭✭✭✭TerrorFirmer


    4ensic15 wrote: »
    You should be sitting on a bus. You should be walking. Your obesity would decline rapidly.

    Unless you were walking countless miles a day, it's not really going to make that much difference to someone who's noticably overweight or obese.

    Weight is overwhelmingly diet related, rather than exercise, for the vast majority of people.

    Moderate diet, moderate intensity exercise = healthy weight. It doesn't mean you can't eat unhealthy things, but it's about making an effort to balance everything and keep track of your calories.

    EG if you have a big takeaway, maybe have a light breakfast and lunch that day, and/or spend an extra 30 minutes in the gym, or whatever.

    You cannot outtrain or out-exercise a considerably excessive diet in almost every case (unless you're living in the gym or bulking as part of weight lifting).


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,436 ✭✭✭dartboardio


    Ardillaun wrote: »
    Some walking is a good idea but we don’t want the lad walking twenty miles a day because the bus is forbidden.

    Lady but yeah i agree.

    For me my weight came off all with my diet being healthier and more balanced and very minimal exercise.

    As a pp said above its more about diet for some and that is definitely the case for me. Lost about 10 pounds in the last 4 weeks just by eating a more balanced diet.. Still eating out in a restaurant once a week with a few drinks and maybe having a pig out every so often like a regular person.

    I used to have a very active job but now im sitting at a computer all day so literally no exercise. Just goes to show the impact the diet alone can have. Crazy really


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,786 ✭✭✭wakka12


    Depends how much exercise you do. I started jogging for an hour a day without any change to my diet and the weight started falling off me and I started eating more so that I wasnt losing too much weight, an hour a day is a lot for most people though I suppose so diet is more important then, given how busy most peopels lifestyles are


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,436 ✭✭✭dartboardio


    wakka12 wrote: »
    Depends how much exercise you do. I started jogging for an hour a day without any change to my diet and the weight started falling off me and I started eating more so that I wasnt losing too much weight, an hour a day is a lot for most people though I suppose so diet is more important then, given how busy most peopels lifestyles are

    Oh yeah dont get me wrong id love to excercise more just i cant find the time or should i say prioritise!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 29,930 ✭✭✭✭TerrorFirmer


    wakka12 wrote: »
    Depends how much exercise you do. I started jogging for an hour a day without any change to my diet and the weight started falling off me and I started eating more so that I wasnt losing too much weight, an hour a day is a lot for most people though I suppose so diet is more important then, given how busy most peopels lifestyles are

    Yes but that would suggest your diet is OK (from a calorific POV at least).

    Whereas if you're eating 3.5k kcal a day, the odd jog or run won't prevent weight gain, it'll just stop some of it.

    It's not really about what you eat, more about the calorie intake on a daily basis.

    Now, it can be more complex than that - obviously 2k kcal of mostly protein/fat/complex or few carbs v 2k kcal of majority carb/low protein will make a major difference.

    But broadly speaking, if your calorie intake is somewhere near your maintainance, and you throw in some exercise, you will still have a relatively OK BMI, even if it's all crap.

    Doesn't mean it is necessarily a healthy diet, but you'll still look relatively OK.

    Fundementally, for 99% of people, it's about kcal in, and energy expended, regardless of how it's made up.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,618 ✭✭✭✭_Brian


    Yes but that would suggest your diet is OK (from a calorific POV at least).

    Whereas if you're eating 3.5k kcal a day, the odd jog or run won't prevent weight gain, it'll just stop some of it.

    It's not really about what you eat, more about the calorie intake on a daily basis.

    Now, it can be more complex than that - obviously 2k kcal of mostly protein/fat/complex or few carbs v 2k kcal of majority carb/low protein will make a major difference.

    But broadly speaking, if your calorie intake is somewhere near your maintainance, and you throw in some exercise, you will still have a relatively OK BMI, even if it's all crap.

    Doesn't mean it is necessarily a healthy diet, but you'll still look relatively OK.

    Fundementally, for 99% of people, it's about kcal in, and energy expended, regardless of how it's made up.

    This is it, for the 99%, but people love to muddie the waters pretending it’s genetics, bread, gluten, chlorine in the water or whatever fairytale they are into at the moment.

    Burn more energy that your eating and you will loose weight, the more the difference the more the weight loss, it’s not linear, there will be good weeks and bad weeks, there is no quick fix, no herbal tea or detox coffee magic drink.

    It takes effort, willpower and discipline, these are the areas people fall down on. There’s a whole business online built on this, selling the tea and coffee detox that “sheds the pounds with no effort”, it’s all nonsense and preying on people’s stupidity and laziness.


  • Posts: 17,728 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    _Brian wrote: »
    This is it, for the 99%, but people love to muddie the waters pretending it’s genetics, bread, gluten, chlorine in the water or whatever fairytale they are into at the moment. ......................
    It takes effort, willpower and discipline, these are the areas people fall down on. .................

    Indeed, the insatiable hunger thing applies to a minority of the 1% even, folk in here would have you believe every obese person is some sort of special case whereas the vast majoirty dont' want to make the effort as they don't want to lose the weight enough., for whatever reason.
    If you want to lose it, really want to, then you will.
    It's like anything.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,420 ✭✭✭Lollipops23


    A girl I am acquainted with has been very big as long as I know her.

    She's constantly posting pics of workouts (big red sweaty face, so she's defo doing *some* workout) and diet dinners etc. Been doing this for about 3 years now.

    She's *maybe* lost a stone in this time.

    There's no way she's being honest, as the size she still is should be greatly diminished by now if she was doing all the things she claims to be.


  • Posts: 17,728 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    She's on the biscuits/sweets/takeaways/wine/other high calorie foods more than she's letting on I imagine :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,325 ✭✭✭xi5yvm0owc1s2b


    A girl I am acquainted with has been very big as long as I know her.

    She's constantly posting pics of workouts (big red sweaty face, so she's defo doing *some* workout) and diet dinners etc. Been doing this for about 3 years now.

    She's *maybe* lost a stone in this time.

    There's no way she's being honest, as the size she still is should be greatly diminished by now if she was doing all the things she claims to be.

    At that rate, she's losing less than half a pound per month.

    I suspect she's putting these images on social media to get praise/encouragement, but pictures of her late-night binges, etc., are not going online.


  • Posts: 17,728 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    To be fair at least she is losing weight :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,325 ✭✭✭xi5yvm0owc1s2b


    Augeo wrote: »
    To be fair at least she is losing weight :)

    Well, that's true. :) There's something to be said for going in the right direction, albeit slowly.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,676 ✭✭✭✭silverharp


    _Brian wrote: »
    This is it, for the 99%, but people love to muddie the waters pretending it’s genetics, bread, gluten, chlorine in the water or whatever fairytale they are into at the moment.

    Burn more energy that your eating and you will loose weight, the more the difference the more the weight loss, it’s not linear, there will be good weeks and bad weeks, there is no quick fix, no herbal tea or detox coffee magic drink.

    It takes effort, willpower and discipline, these are the areas people fall down on. There’s a whole business online built on this, selling the tea and coffee detox that “sheds the pounds with no effort”, it’s all nonsense and preying on people’s stupidity and laziness.

    willpower is overrated :pac: Part of the problem is that people end up on unsustainable diets , so they end up either eating very bland and anaemic food or they never really let go of the cr@ppy food in their diet and they slip back into old ways.

    A belief in gender identity involves a level of faith as there is nothing tangible to prove its existence which, as something divorced from the physical body, is similar to the idea of a soul. - Colette Colfer



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  • Registered Users Posts: 1,850 ✭✭✭Lillyfae


    Was getting the bus home from work yesterday, I live in the Benelux region, and an Irish couple in their 30s or so got on to go to the airport. They were easily 18 - 20 stone each, if not more. They couldn't fit on the normal seats, what a stark comparison to the natives- they knew it too. That's the worst thing, a person's self esteem and self worth must take an awful hit.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,967 ✭✭✭Pyr0


    Lillyfae wrote: »
    They couldn't fit on the normal seats, what a stark comparison to the natives- they knew it too. That's the worst thing, a person's self esteem and self worth must take an awful hit.

    And the spiral continues and they get heavier due to that lack of self esteem and self worth.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,420 ✭✭✭Lollipops23


    Augeo wrote: »
    To be fair at least she is losing weight :)

    True, but she's still nearly 300lbs (in fairness, she bravely posted her weight a while ago). I think she's trying really hard to be motivated, but she needs to join over eaters anon at this point.


  • Posts: 17,728 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Defo on the biscuits so.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,149 ✭✭✭Ariadne


    Augeo wrote: »
    Defo on the biscuits so.

    Christ. Have you nothing better to do?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 119 ✭✭ohfa6muwtsvkc1


    I wouldn't say I'm great (though I'm in the healthy BMI whatever that means) but I'm not fat. I was. And I changed. It was long and hard and not fun at all. I got into bad diet in college (didn't learn to cook properly and being away from home) but thankfully have turned it around.

    It's a disgrace to hear some of the comments on plus sized people. How dare you.

    I think every person should become fat once in their lives, just so they know how easy it can happen, how awful it makes you feel (physcially and from abuse from others) and how hard it is to shake off.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 2,558 ✭✭✭Ardillaun


    Michael Pollan summarizes his dietary recommendations this way:
    Pollan says everything he's learned about food and health can be summed up in seven words: "Eat food, not too much, mostly plants."

    He also has some rules for eating:
    https://www.webmd.com/food-recipes/news/20090323/7-rules-for-eating#1

    A similar message about plants comes from the new Canada food guide:
    https://www.bbdnutrition.com/2019/01/22/the-new-canada-food-guide-at-a-glance/


  • Posts: 17,728 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Succubus_ wrote: »
    Christ. Have you nothing better to do?

    I was overly fond of the biscuits myself, truth be told.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 608 ✭✭✭Dalomanakora


    I think every person should become fat once in their lives, just so they know how easy it can happen, how awful it makes you feel (physcially and from abuse from others) and how hard it is to shake off.

    The bit I've bolded. It's really sad to me, that losing THAT was my favorite part of losing weight.


    Forget that I'm able to walk long distances, my throat doesn't burn, I can run around all day in work and still be full of energy, I can go into any shop i want for normal size clothes and am nowhere near the plus size sections now. Forget all of that.


    The best part for me was noticing that little ****er kids don't shout abuse at me for being fat anymore and my relatives treat me as a human instead of gossiping about my weight.


    And that's a horrible realization about how society is today. When your favourite, most memorable part of losing weight is of losing verbal abuse, rather than any health benefits, it says a lot about other people.


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,558 ✭✭✭Ardillaun


    silverharp wrote: »
    willpower is overrated :pac: Part of the problem is that people end up on unsustainable diets , so they end up either eating very bland and anaemic food or they never really let go of the cr@ppy food in their diet and they slip back into old ways.

    Does free will even exist? The closer one looks, the smaller it gets. Whatever about that philosophical question, weight loss regimes based primarily on ‘willpower’ generally fail.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    The bit I've bolded. It's really sad to me, that losing THAT was my favorite part of losing weight.


    Forget that I'm able to walk long distances, my throat doesn't burn, I can run around all day in work and still be full of energy, I can go into any shop i want for normal size clothes and am nowhere near the plus size sections now. Forget all of that.


    The best part for me was noticing that little ****er kids don't shout abuse at me for being fat anymore and my relatives treat me as a human instead of gossiping about my weight.


    And that's a horrible realization about how society is today. When your favourite, most memorable part of losing weight is of losing verbal abuse, rather than any health benefits, it says a lot about other people.

    The people who used to call me names when I was overweight made a point of telling me I looked ill once I lost it.

    Funny that


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 608 ✭✭✭Dalomanakora


    eviltwin wrote: »
    The people who used to call me names when I was overweight made a point of telling me I looked ill once I lost it.

    Funny that

    Surprisingly that hasn't happened to me. The few who bullied me for it in school keep repeatedly adding me on Facebook. I don't accept naturally. So they like and comment on every full body photo I post on Instagram, telling me how great I look (and I don't look great, I still have weight to lose!). But tbf, most of them now look a good decade older than me, so I revel in it tbh


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,474 ✭✭✭Obvious Desperate Breakfasts


    Lillyfae wrote: »
    Was getting the bus home from work yesterday, I live in the Benelux region, and an Irish couple in their 30s or so got on to go to the airport. They were easily 18 - 20 stone each, if not more. They couldn't fit on the normal seats, what a stark comparison to the natives- they knew it too. That's the worst thing, a person's self esteem and self worth must take an awful hit.

    In Ireland, I rarely see anyone on public transport who can’t fit in the seats. And public transport has been my main form of transport for the past 17 years. And it’s been a very rare occurrence for me to find myself beside someone who is spilling over on to my side.
    I wouldn't say I'm great (though I'm in the healthy BMI whatever that means) but I'm not fat. I was. And I changed. It was long and hard and not fun at all. I got into bad diet in college (didn't learn to cook properly and being away from home) but thankfully have turned it around.

    It's a disgrace to hear some of the comments on plus sized people. How dare you.

    I think every person should become fat once in their lives, just so they know how easy it can happen, how awful it makes you feel (physcially and from abuse from others) and how hard it is to shake off.

    +1

    Thankfully, I wasn’t carrying extra weight for long but I totally agree. Especially when people start mouth-farting about personal responsibility. Please. Anyone who is human has areas of personal weakness. It’s easy to pontificate when your own weakness isn’t advertised on your person. And, boy, do people love to be sanctimonious.


  • Registered Users Posts: 325 ✭✭MUFC91CS


    The bit I've bolded. It's really sad to me, that losing THAT was my favorite part of losing weight.


    Forget that I'm able to walk long distances, my throat doesn't burn, I can run around all day in work and still be full of energy, I can go into any shop i want for normal size clothes and am nowhere near the plus size sections now. Forget all of that.


    The best part for me was noticing that little ****er kids don't shout abuse at me for being fat anymore and my relatives treat me as a human instead of gossiping about my weight.


    And that's a horrible realization about how society is today. When your favourite, most memorable part of losing weight is of losing verbal abuse, rather than any health benefits, it says a lot about other people.

    Would you therefore attribute this to being a big part of the reason you were motivated to lose the weight?

    As nasty and all as it sounds I think a lot more people find motivation to lose weight after suffering abuse as opposed to the other potential health benefits. Realistically before you lost the weight you wouldn't have known how much more energy you would have had or how much better you would feel but you would have had to assume the abuse for being overweight would have stopped if you were no longer overweight. Well done on losing the weight btw


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 608 ✭✭✭Dalomanakora


    MUFC91CS wrote: »
    Would you therefore attribute this to being a big part of the reason you were motivated to lose the weight?

    As nasty and all as it sounds I think a lot more people find motivation to lose weight after suffering abuse as opposed to the other potential health benefits. Realistically before you lost the weight you wouldn't have known how much more energy you would have had or how much better you would feel but you would have had to assume the abuse for being overweight would have stopped if you were no longer overweight. Well done on losing the weight btw

    Nope. I assumed I'd still get abuse because Jesus, there's always something for idiots to give you grief over. I'm still called a "speccy cnut" on occasion, as an example. Nasty kids will remain nasty, nasty relatives will find something else to be nasty about.


    I lost weight because I wanted to wear nicer clothes mainly. I was sick of spending a fortune on things that barely fit me and looked rubbish on me. I wanted to be able to walk into any shop and choose whatever I wanted. I can now. But now I want to lose more weight because I still am not happy with how I look.



    And quite frankly, due to the sh!t I received for my weight, the sheer amount of times I was insulted for my appearance, I don't believe I'll ever actually be truly happy with how I look.


    That's what abuse does to overweight people. It makes damn sure that they'll always question how they look, they'll always be unhappy with their weight loss, they'll always have low self esteem and they'll always question why people all of a sudden are nice to them. It destroys confidence. Fat people deserve to be confident too.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,436 ✭✭✭dartboardio


    eviltwin wrote: »
    The people who used to call me names when I was overweight made a point of telling me I looked ill once I lost it.

    Funny that

    Ah, childhood bullies.

    I remember a fella i used to play on the street with used to make fun of my mams banger of a car. She was a single working mother.

    Then i realised he was from a family of 5 and they never even had a car.

    Really wish i realised and commented on that at the time.


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,558 ✭✭✭Ardillaun


    Leaving aside bullying, there are people who will tend to tell you when you’ve put on weight and others who compliment you on weight loss. Obviously, it’s nicer to hear from the latter category but both have their value. A GP friend of mine was told by a patient, “Doc, you’re some plimmed up”. He was irritated by such an observation travelling the other way in his direction but did start trying to lose weight thereafter.


  • Posts: 17,728 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    eviltwin wrote: »
    The people who used to call me names when I was overweight made a point of telling me I looked ill once I lost it.

    Funny that

    I've been asked quite a few times am I ill after losing 3+ stone.
    Most of the queries are genuine though ......... I was never called names when I was north of 16 stone.
    I think folk are just surprised to see a big/fat lad getting small quickly.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,850 ✭✭✭Lillyfae


    In Ireland, I rarely see anyone on public transport who can’t fit in the seats. And public transport has been my main form of transport for the past 17 years. And it’s been a very rare occurrence for me to find myself beside someone who is spilling over on to my side.

    Ya, because they're probably in their cars- whenever I go back to Ireland I really can't get over how many cars are on the road all day every day- even during the recession, when apparently no one had a job to go to! Nobody walks anywhere.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,474 ✭✭✭Obvious Desperate Breakfasts


    Lillyfae wrote: »
    Ya, because they're probably in their cars- whenever I go back to Ireland I really can't get over how many cars are on the road all day every day- even during the recession, when apparently no one had a job to go to! Nobody walks anywhere.

    I knew that’s how you’d respond.

    My experience is different. Anyone within walking distance of work generally does walk, in my experience.

    One key thing. Ireland even now is much less built up than the Benelux countries. Many more people are travelling to work from rural locations, sometimes quite far. They are hardly going to walk or cycle, are they?


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,850 ✭✭✭Lillyfae


    I knew that’s how you’d respond.

    My experience is different. Anyone within walking distance of work generally does walk, in my experience.

    One key thing. Ireland even now is much less built up than the Benelux countries. Many more people are travelling to work from rural locations, sometimes quite far. They are hardly going to walk or cycle, are they?

    How else would I respond? I don't get it, this is a thread about the obesity crisis in Ireland, is there or isn't there one? I don't see my siblings walking or cycling to work within the same city, and I would wager that it's pretty much the same with people that they know.

    If experience is what we're talking about then I have little to no experience of rural Ireland, I come from a city and only really visit there when I'm back now. Plenty of infrastructure there for walking and while the infrastructure for cycling isn't well connected, it does exist- this should be solved. As for rural Ireland, their definitely needs to be more bus routes and decentralisation should occur so that people have viable options and don't have to travel so far. Otherwise people need to take a bit of responsibility and if they decide to live in the middle of nowhere, they also have to realise that they're not going to have everything on their doorstep- maybe jog around the house a few times in the lovely, fresh, rural air.


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  • Posts: 17,728 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    ......... Anyone within walking distance of work generally does walk, in my experience. ...........

    It takes 40 mins to walk two miles, there's very few folk walking anything over 20 minutes to work.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,676 ✭✭✭✭silverharp


    Looks like a bit of a mashing up of cause and effect here, walking doesn't prevent obesity , all you can say is they obese people probably don't walk that much. The better advice is to lose the weight so you can become more physically active

    A belief in gender identity involves a level of faith as there is nothing tangible to prove its existence which, as something divorced from the physical body, is similar to the idea of a soul. - Colette Colfer



  • Registered Users Posts: 1,282 ✭✭✭Le Bruise


    It’s easy to pontificate when your own weakness isn’t advertised on your person.

    This is one of truest statements I've ever read! Some people just have an innate hatred of all things that don't fit into their 'perfect' size category....and it's usually down to massive insecurities of their own that aren't as noticeable on the outside.

    When I was a huskier gent a few years back, I was best man at my older brothers wedding in Bali. My brother lived in Australia and competed in iron man comps and thus, had friends of a similar ilk i.e. very fit, bordering on the obsessively so.

    Now I play a good bit of rugby, so would have a level of fitness, but I'd always been a fairly big guy. At that time, however, I'd let my weight creep up after being out with an injury for a season and not curtailing my large appetite to match my lack of movement.

    Unfortunately, one particular triathalony chap I'd never met took it upon himself to make constant snide comments about my size. I was first introduced to him 10 minutes before making my speech (to a load of people I didn't know), and the first words out of his mouth were 'I was expecting a slimmer, better looking man'. Did my confidence and nerves the world of good!

    He then referred to me as Shrek for the rest of the night, so I just stayed away as much as I could. Eventually, my brother told him I was going to hit him if he kept on (I wouldn't have), but at least he stopped. Never understood why he held his little campaign against me, and I never saw him again.

    I've since lost the excess weight (most of it anyway)......but I'm quite sure he's still an ass-hat. People like that surely can't be happy in themselves.


  • Posts: 17,728 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    In a thread about obesity folks are not pontificating as such, they're just saying it as they see it on the topic in question.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,850 ✭✭✭Lillyfae


    Augeo wrote: »
    In a thread about obesity folks are not pontificating as such, they're just saying it as they see it on the topic in question.

    Couldn't agree more- that seems to be the norm around here recently, anyone expressing an opinion on a specific topic when asked is told to stop as soon as they do. No room for polite disagreement, just "no- you're wrong/ sexist/ a nazi/ triggering me".

    It's obvious that there's a problem with obesity, more than in some other countries and less than in some other countries. I would never dream of shaming anyone for their size, hell I could probably do with dropping a few pounds, but if there's a conversation about it then I'm not going to stop offering my views on solutions in case I offend someone. I don't think it's constructive to throw obstacles in front of anyone else's ideas if I disagree with them.

    Eat less, move more, leave the car at home if you can do without it. Leave out all the denial because it doesn't achieve anything.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 608 ✭✭✭Dalomanakora


    Augeo wrote: »
    In a thread about obesity folks are not pontificating as such, they're just saying it as they see it on the topic in question.

    :pac:

    For real?

    You've spent most of this thread talking about "fat cnuts," "fat fcuks," "personal responsibility" and ranting about how you used to be fat but are now 85kg.


    And you're saying there's no pontificating? Congrats, you lost 3 stone. You're still not an expert.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 419 ✭✭Cryptopagan


    Lillyfae wrote: »
    Was getting the bus home from work yesterday, I live in the Benelux region, and an Irish couple in their 30s or so got on to go to the airport. They were easily 18 - 20 stone each, if not more. They couldn't fit on the normal seats, what a stark comparison to the natives- they knew it too. That's the worst thing, a person's self esteem and self worth must take an awful hit.

    Somehow I think the people of Belgium, a country famous for its beer, chocolate, and waffles, wouldn’t need to look for Irish tourists if they wanted to see an obese person.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,676 ✭✭✭✭silverharp


    Somehow I think the people of Belgium, a country famous for its beer, chocolate, and waffles, wouldn’t need to look for Irish tourists if they wanted to see an obese person.

    good point, plenty of obesity in Belgium, they be driving obviously and not taking the Bus :pac:

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  • Registered Users Posts: 16,500 ✭✭✭✭DEFTLEFTHAND


    Somehow I think the people of Belgium, a country famous for its beer, chocolate, and waffles, wouldn’t need to look for Irish tourists if they wanted to see an obese person.

    Quite right.

    Most of Belgium is as common as fck.


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  • Posts: 17,728 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    :pac:

    For real?

    You've spent most of this thread talking about "fat cnuts," "fat fcuks," "personal responsibility" and ranting about how you used to be fat but are now 85kg.


    And you're saying there's no pontificating? Congrats, you lost 3 stone. You're still not an expert.

    lolers

    I only mentioned I lost weight as some knowfnckall claimed fatfolk are forever fat due to an insatiable hunger, that same person said they were never fat themselved iirc.


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