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  • 22-08-2020 11:40pm
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    Without Borders
    Closed Accounts Posts: 29 ✭


    Is there anyone in your life you want to say those words to?
    And before all of boards say I should for making this thread:
    Me I am sorry to you at school and yes you did smell really bad but we were young and cruel and the adult me acknowledges we treated you badly.
    So schoolpal I'm sorry.


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    bazz26
    Registered Users Posts: 51,114 ✭✭✭✭bazz26


    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oYOZ3IzRaf4


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    cj maxx
    Registered Users Posts: 13,359 ✭✭✭✭cj maxx


    Without Borders wrote: »
    Is there anyone in your life you want to say those words to?
    And before all of boards say I should for making this thread:
    Me I am sorry to you at school and yes you did smell really bad but we were young and cruel and the adult me acknowledges we treated you badly.
    So schoolpal I'm sorry.

    I kind of feel sorry for you :(


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    Church on Tuesday
    Registered Users Posts: 3,858 ✭✭✭Church on Tuesday


    I'd prefer if they ever said it to me tbh.


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    punisher5112
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    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oCyXsHC-lQ4


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    Quantum Erasure
    Registered Users Posts: 8,166 ✭✭✭Quantum Erasure


    I'm sorry I ever met you


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    jimbobaloobob
    Registered Users Posts: 5,153 ✭✭✭jimbobaloobob


    I’m sorry to the singers I couldn’t sit through at open mic sessions years ago. I just had to walk out. Sorry.


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    Dancewithme
    Registered Users Posts: 70 ✭✭Dancewithme


    Without Borders wrote: »
    Is there anyone in your life you want to say those words to?
    And before all of boards say I should for making this thread:
    Me I am sorry to you at school and yes you did smell really bad but we were young and cruel and the adult me acknowledges we treated you badly.
    So schoolpal I'm sorry.

    An easy get out for yourself because you were a bully in school and probably still are. Few drinks now making you think about your behaviour. You aren't sorry. You are trying to justify your horrible behaviour which I have no doubt is still the same today


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    gammygils
    Registered Users Posts: 17,229 ✭✭✭✭gammygils


    I'll put you in my underpants hamper :(


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    LETHAL LADY
    Registered Users Posts: 3,145 ✭✭✭LETHAL LADY


    I'm sorry God for not loving you,
    For saying things that were untrue,
    For being unkind and calling names,
    For not letting others play in my games.

    A first confession hymn I remember.


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    Without Borders
    Closed Accounts Posts: 29 ✭Without Borders


    Dancewithme wrote: »
    An easy get out for yourself because you were a bully in school and probably still are. Few drinks now making you think about your behaviour. You aren't sorry. You are trying to justify your horrible behaviour which I have no doubt is still the same today

    I was wrong in the fact that I thought only children could be mean. You have carried it through to adulthood.
    I dont drink and I am not justifying anything to anyone.
    As a male who now identifies as female I have had my fair share of bullying over the years. And to be honest its your comments that are coming across as horrible not mine as a 9/10 year old.


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    Gruffalux
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,023 ✭✭✭Gruffalux


    Even a small child knows when they are being nasty or a bully. I remember being wholly conscious as a child and having emotional awareness around activities*. Those who are nasty can vibe with it unless they have psychopathy. They choose it regardless.

    Sorry is a very light weight word. People seem to imagine it has the power to change what was done and the consequences of what was done. A child bullied at school for example might go on to have life long depression or addiction problems or never achieve their potential as a human being. Sorry is a bit of a trinket to throw at that tragedy, isn't it. Or many others. Betrayal of a loved one. Carelessness. Selfishness.
    Sorry is not a kiss it better magical spell. What is done is done.

    *PS I was not bullied but was aware when it was done.


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    Skill Magill
    Registered Users Posts: 2,568 ✭✭✭Skill Magill


    100% sure this was a Mr_Fegelian thread :)


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    ThewhiteJesus
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    I’m sorry to my parents for embarrassing them and not living up to expectations, this eats away at me every day


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    Gruffalux
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,023 ✭✭✭Gruffalux


    ThewhiteJesus wrote: »
    I’m sorry to my parents for embarrassing them and not living up to expectations, this eats away at me every day

    "I am not in the world to live up to your expectations." - Bruce Lee

    Be cool like Bruce Lee, White Jesus. Anyone elses expectations of you are their own neurosis.


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    Gretas Gonna Get Ya!
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    :P


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    Bubbaclaus
    Registered Users Posts: 4,461 ✭✭✭Bubbaclaus


    Without Borders wrote: »
    Is there anyone in your life you want to say those words to?
    And before all of boards say I should for making this thread:
    Me I am sorry to you at school and yes you did smell really bad but we were young and cruel and the adult me acknowledges we treated you badly.
    So schoolpal I'm sorry.

    Have you actually apologised to that person, or are you just trying to make yourself feel better?


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    #18
    Signore Fancy Pants
    Registered Users Posts: 3,682 ✭✭✭Signore Fancy Pants


    Thread needs more rereg.

    And some cowbell, any spare cowbell around?


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    antodeco
    Registered Users, Subscribers Posts: 13,425 ✭✭✭✭antodeco


    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zREY7m8FoHo


    Ah wait, I spelt it wrong


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    #20
    Eire Go Brach
    Registered Users Posts: 1,368 ✭✭✭Eire Go Brach


    I’m sorry I ever voted for Fianna Failure during the Celtic tiger.
    But Bertie like a pedophile threw sweets at the country and groomed us. All the while doing unspeakable things to our country.


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    Thelonious Monk
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    To all the girls I've loved before...


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    begbysback
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    Thread is a bit heavy here for After Hours on a Sunday morning.


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    Mad_maxx
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    Without Borders wrote: »
    Is there anyone in your life you want to say those words to?
    And before all of boards say I should for making this thread:
    Me I am sorry to you at school and yes you did smell really bad but we were young and cruel and the adult me acknowledges we treated you badly.
    So schoolpal I'm sorry.

    no ,I've never treated anyone badly on a constant basis , I've said sorry to people who I've criticised illegitimately, said sorry within weeks at most once I realised it wasn't their mistake


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    [Deleted User]
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    begbysback wrote: »
    Thread is a bit heavy here for After Hours on a Sunday morning.

    I'm sorry about that.


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    #25
    Trebor176
    Registered Users Posts: 3,409 ✭✭✭Trebor176


    Yes!


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    #26
    rtron
    Registered Users Posts: 637 ✭✭✭rtron


    I was at a golf game last week, had a bit of dinner and few pints after it. While the whole country was adhering to social distancing and obeying the guidelines I had a minor slip and want to apologise. Sorry.


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    #27
    Rubberchikken
    Registered Users Posts: 5,083 ✭✭✭Rubberchikken


    No. No one to say sorry to.
    I was neither a bully nor bullied. Called a few names maybe but water off a ducks back to me.


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    BorneTobyWilde
    Registered Users Posts: 35,634 ✭✭✭✭BorneTobyWilde


    Without Borders wrote: »
    Is there anyone in your life you want to say those words to?
    And before all of boards say I should for making this thread:
    Me I am sorry to you at school and yes you did smell really bad but we were young and cruel and the adult me acknowledges we treated you badly.
    So schoolpal I'm sorry.


    You are saying sorry, but can't help have one last dig?


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    #29
    Discodog
    Registered Users Posts: 15,822 ✭✭✭✭Discodog


    I am sorry that I suggested & proposed the Current Affairs forum.


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    EmmetSpiceland
    Registered Users Posts: 10,527 ✭✭✭✭EmmetSpiceland


    Discodog wrote: »
    I am sorry that I suggested & proposed the Current Affairs forum.

    No need to, really, D.

    It does a great “job” of keeping all the creeps, homophobes, sexists, weirdos, SF voters, misogynists, oddballs, TERFs and malcontents away from AH, and other, more normal forums.

    Just a shame when some of them loiter in here, spiting their bile and “attacking” people.

    The tide is turning…



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    #31
    Gruffalux
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,023 ✭✭✭Gruffalux


    "Barf", I'm "sorry", I "felt", shall we "say", a tad "queasy" there.
    My apologies.


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