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Advice Needed!

  • 25-03-2016 11:09PM
    #1
    Clint212
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 37 ✭


    Hi guys,

    Im in a situation which is absolutely head wrecking, and after much thinking Ive decided to ask ye good people of anyone could give me your opinions. Basically Im a 32 year old guy, been in and out of not so serious relationships over the last few years. Over the last few months I was seeing a woman and for ages I felt things were going well, but since Christmas Ive had doubts, basically Im doing all the running to make things work etc.

    A few weeks ago I went out with a few friends for a few drinks and met a girl whom I knew of but hadn't really met before. We had a great chat and a laugh, it was really refreshing, something I hadn't had with the girl I was seeing in a long time! she asked was I seeing anyone a the moment and I said I was so at the end of the night nothing else happened and we parted ways.

    Its since ended with the girl I had been seeing, not because of that night, just because I could see it wasn't working. Just wondering should I take a chance with the new person and how do I let her know without feeling like a creep that Im now single,?

    any advice greatly welcome, thanks guys!:)


Comments

  • #2
    Summer148
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4 ✭Summer148


    Just go for it , arrange coffee (or whatever) and go from there , casually bring in to conversation you and the misses ended and she will get the hint I'm sure, good luck 😊


  • #3
    whiskeyman
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,564 ✭✭✭✭whiskeyman


    Deffo go for it!


  • #4
    Tigger99
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,247 ✭✭✭Tigger99


    "Hey, it was good to see you at x. Anyways at the time I was seeing someone but that ended since. I was wondering if you'd like to meet up for coffee?"

    If a guy asked me for a coffee and last I heard he was in a relationship, I wouldn't meet him for coffee. So I think you'd be best making it clear from the start.


  • #5
    Lavinia
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,122 ✭✭✭Lavinia


    As a girl if a guy would meet me afterwards and first thing he says is that hes single I'd freak out a bit. But if he'd say he liked meeting me and invite me for a coffee & a chat and let me ask the question about gf or says that when it comes up in the conversation I think it would come down on me a bit better...


  • #6
    Clint212
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 37 ✭Clint212


    Thanks for the advice guys, well first step is now taken anyway and she accepted so its onwards and upwards from here! Happy and healthy wishes to you all!:-)


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