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Irish Government violating the human rights of women

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,785 ✭✭✭The Golden Miller


    I'd love to see some evidence of this biological basis for conscience...

    So you'd go out and murder someone tomorrow and never give it a second thought or feel bad?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,601 ✭✭✭Gaygooner


    Fine? How so? She never gave it a second thought?

    Well one of my mates became depressed, and an immediate family member has been constantly wrapped in guilt. As for me and my then girlfriend, when it came to us, we were all "pro-choice" and had the money and were ready to go to the UK, but luckily enough we both came around and saw the light. You know, the conscience kicked in. Biology doing it's job. Now we have a beautiful daughter. A little baby girl who nearly had her chance at life robbed from her even though she was the only party involved who had no hand in creating the situation, yet was the only one who faced being ended.

    Too many college clowns on social media these days spouting out the same cliches to look liberal and progressive in front of their mates despite never being faced with the situation, and when it comes down to it most change their stance dramatically when their conscience kicks in. It's because it's morally wrong

    How Pauline Conversion - where is the con-science in biology???

    Morally wrong to whom???

    Surely forcing a young girl through a pregnancy, after being raped, is morally wrong???

    Or forcing a mother to carry a foetus incompatible with life to term, to satisfy the beliefs of others, is morally wrong???


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,601 ✭✭✭Gaygooner


    So you'd go out and murder someone tomorrow and never give it a second thought or feel bad?

    Its not murder, you should like you were very prochoice alright...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,681 ✭✭✭bodice ripper


    So you'd go out and murder someone tomorrow and never give it a second thought or feel bad?

    That's not what I asked.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,555 ✭✭✭Ave Sodalis


    Too many college clowns on social media these days spouting out the same cliches to look liberal and progressive in front of their mates despite never being faced with the situation, and when it comes down to it most change their stance dramatically when their conscience kicks in. It's because it's morally wrong


    Of you go with your morality thing again, which is based entirely on a single anecdotal bit of "evidence". Tell me... how do you suppose animals, that in every other way show no signs of morality, go through the same biological and (heres that word again) hormonal and even behavioural processes as a human in the same circumstance? How is it a moral issue?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,973 ✭✭✭RayM


    Fine? How so? She never gave it a second thought?

    Well one of my mates became depressed, and an immediate family member has been constantly wrapped in guilt. As for me and my then girlfriend, when it came to us, we were all "pro-choice" and had the money and were ready to go to the UK, but luckily enough we both came around and saw the light. You know, the conscience kicked in. Biology doing it's job. Now we have a beautiful daughter. A little baby girl who nearly had her chance at life robbed from her even though she was the only party involved who had no hand in creating the situation, yet was the only one who faced being ended.

    That's great that you ultimately made a choice that you were happy with, but plenty of people are just as glad to have chosen an abortion. People can actually be trusted to make such choices, without other people sticking their noses in.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,785 ✭✭✭The Golden Miller


    I wonder if every citizen was faced with abortion at one point or another and after that we then all had a vote on the issue, how do people here reckon it would turn out?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,555 ✭✭✭Ave Sodalis


    I wonder if every citizen was faced with abortion at one point or another and after that we then all had a vote on the issue, how do people here reckon it would turn out?


    You seem under the impression that this is something you alone has ever had to face...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,785 ✭✭✭The Golden Miller


    sup_dude wrote: »
    Of you go with your morality thing again, which is based entirely on a single anecdotal bit of "evidence". Tell me... how do you suppose animals, that in every other way show no signs of morality, go through the same biological and (heres that word again) hormonal and even behavioural processes as a human in the same circumstance? How is it a moral issue?

    Are most animals conscious?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,601 ✭✭✭Gaygooner


    I wonder if every citizen was faced with abortion at one point or another and after that we then all had a vote on the issue, how do people here reckon it would turn out?

    depending on how strong the dogma being forced down their throats methinks...


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,601 ✭✭✭Gaygooner


    Are most animals conscious?

    living ones are.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,770 ✭✭✭The Randy Riverbeast


    And while people throw around anecdotes lets get some statistics. Everyone loves statistics. 95% of women dont regret having an abortion and felt it was the right decision for them with "The stigma often associated with abortion and a lack of social support caused more negative feelings in women, researchers said."

    So there we go, the women feel ok about it so therefor it must be right as their conscience would otherwise tell them its wrong. I even tried to find the most likely website to not want their view to look positive.

    http://www.religionnews.com/2015/07/20/overwhelming-majority-of-u-s-women-dont-regret-abortion/


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,785 ✭✭✭The Golden Miller


    sup_dude wrote: »
    You seem under the impression that this is something you alone has ever had to face...

    No but I reckon the outcome would be significantly different. I'd be guessing a landslide victory for pro-life.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,555 ✭✭✭Ave Sodalis


    Are most animals conscious?

    It depends on what you mean by conscious. Are most animals self aware? No. Can most animals partake in moral decision making? No.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,785 ✭✭✭The Golden Miller


    Gaygooner wrote: »
    living ones are.

    You know what I mean


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,681 ✭✭✭bodice ripper


    No but I reckon the outcome would be significantly different. I'd be guessing a landslide victory for pro-life.

    Like you are guessing that conscience is a biological imperative?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,601 ✭✭✭Gaygooner


    No but I reckon the outcome would be significantly different. I'd be guessing a landslide victory for pro-life.

    If everyone thought like you, perhaps.

    My friend would vote yes to allow abortion in ireland


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,555 ✭✭✭Ave Sodalis


    No but I reckon the outcome would be significantly different. I'd be guessing a landslide victory for pro-life.


    More anecdotal stuff. You're basically saying that because you had a certain experience, everyone else is exactly the same.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,785 ✭✭✭The Golden Miller


    Gaygooner wrote: »
    How Pauline Conversion - where is the con-science in biology???

    Morally wrong to whom???

    Surely forcing a young girl through a pregnancy, after being raped, is morally wrong???

    Or forcing a mother to carry a foetus incompatible with life to term, to satisfy the beliefs of others, is morally wrong???

    Pro-choice back to arguing on the exceptions again is it? There's one for the books. I'd be in favor of liberalizing the law to a point (ffa etc) but not legalizing abortion akin to the UK


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,785 ✭✭✭The Golden Miller


    And while people throw around anecdotes lets get some statistics. Everyone loves statistics. 95% of women dont regret having an abortion and felt it was the right decision for them with "The stigma often associated with abortion and a lack of social support caused more negative feelings in women, researchers said."

    So there we go, the women feel ok about it so therefor it must be right as their conscience would otherwise tell them its wrong. I even tried to find the most likely website to not want their view to look positive.

    http://www.religionnews.com/2015/07/20/overwhelming-majority-of-u-s-women-dont-regret-abortion/

    Well my immediate family member said she would do it again as a baby wasn't compatible with her life at the time and didn't regret it in that sense, but it doesn't mean she doesn't also feel guilty at the same time


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,785 ✭✭✭The Golden Miller


    sup_dude wrote: »
    More anecdotal stuff. You're basically saying that because you had a certain experience, everyone else is exactly the same.

    Funny how people can never answer the "anecdotal" stuff in an honest manner. Honestly, how would you see a vote going in that scenario?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,555 ✭✭✭Ave Sodalis


    Well my immediate family member said she would do it again as a baby wasn't compatible with her life at the time and didn't regret it in that sense, but it doesn't mean she doesn't also feel guilty at the same time


    You've got to ask two questions:
    1) is she feeling guilty because of people like you?
    2)is it guilt she's feeling?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,555 ✭✭✭Ave Sodalis


    Funny how people can never answer the "anecdotal" stuff in an honest manner. Honestly, how would you see a vote going in that scenario?

    I take it you don't understand what anecdotal is either...
    Honestly? I don't know because unlike you, I can't talk for everyone else.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,785 ✭✭✭The Golden Miller


    sup_dude wrote: »
    You've got to ask two questions:
    1) is she feeling guilty because of people like you?
    2)is it guilt she's feeling?

    1. No. I never gave her an opinion on the matter.
    2. Yes


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,601 ✭✭✭Gaygooner


    Well my immediate family member said she would do it again as a baby wasn't compatible with her life at the time and didn't regret it in that sense, but it doesn't mean she doesn't also feel guilty at the same time

    So your sister had an abortion and your gf didn't...

    Did you feel it was wrong that your sister had to travel for her abortion?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,555 ✭✭✭Ave Sodalis


    1. No. I never gave her an opinion on the matter. 2. Yes


    Not you specifically but pro life people, in particular the extreme ones.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,785 ✭✭✭The Golden Miller


    sup_dude wrote: »
    I take it you don't understand what anecdotal is either...
    Honestly? I don't know because unlike you, I can't talk for everyone else.

    So you've absolutely no idea? I reckon it would be a pretty handy landslide, no? You really don't know, or just don't want to hurt your stance?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,555 ✭✭✭Ave Sodalis


    So you've absolutely no idea? I reckon it would be a pretty handy landslide, no? You really don't know, or just don't want to hurt your stance?


    No, I don't know. You're making an awful lot of presumptions based on your own single experience.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,106 ✭✭✭manonboard


    I really hope, expect and want a referendum on this.

    I think pro choice will win easily enough.

    At the end of the day, the rules for these things are and should be decided by the people.
    The people who don't wish to partake of the abortion service wont. That's their personal choice and its ok.
    I understand that they believe a wrong is being committed, and its good that they try to stop that. In the end though, I'm on the other side of that argument. I am pro choice.

    I wont avail of the service myself. I'm grown up enough and mentally/financially/life ready to support a child in a healthy environment.
    5 years ago? Not a chance. I would only be recycling the same silly cycles i was raised.

    Words like murder or abortion mean nothing. Its just both sides trying to copt the word that manipulates the listener to their side. I consider it gross on all accounts. Murder implying a morally wrong taking of a 'conscious' life. Aborting, a neutral word denoting the stopping of a process. Both trying to shine their own light to minimise their damage, and maximise their righteous choice.

    Its a shame people don't agree on the facts. That there is a life, but that its parents for whatever reason do not want to support its survival. Neither situation is ideal and each person is just trying to try do their best, in an extremely difficult situation. This all happens in the context of a society which other people feel affected by what others do.

    I think the trend of opinion is moving towards choice as successive generations occur. Hopefully, it will all be behind us in 20 years. It will take a while for people to move on to other issues .

    I think the pro life movement really shot themselves in the foot with bad strategy. It would of been a far more efficient strategy in terms of long term winning to foster a society of love, growth, adoration of children. Supporting the parents who may struggle or who are on the fence. Not with the decision, but with the life that follows it. Instead, anger, shame and guilt were used. Something that everyone rebels against. Its a failing strategy. I understand the often deeply held morals come often from the religious background which used anger guilt and shame in copious amounts. Its not a surprise they carried over, but the painting was on the wall for how society would react.

    Tis a misfortune that it causes such hardship for either side.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,785 ✭✭✭The Golden Miller


    Gaygooner wrote: »
    So your sister had an abortion and your gf didn't...

    Did you feel it was wrong that your sister had to travel for her abortion?

    Well my "immediate family member" had it first so I didn't really have an opinion back then and have never given her my opinion and I'm not gonna bring it back up with her. But looking back no, it wasn't wrong.


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