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  • #8492
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    tara73 wrote: »
    ?? so this is more a philosophical thread..:)
    Chysagon just lowers the tone of the thread! :p It's whatever you want it to be, really. :)


  • #8493
    eternal
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 8,867 ✭✭✭eternal


    tara73 wrote: »
    ?? so this is more a philosophical thread..:)

    Hahaha I wouldn't listen to his musings :P He will eat you alive!


  • #8494
    tara73
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,358 ✭✭✭tara73


    eternal wrote: »
    Hahaha I wouldn't listen to his musings :P He will eat you alive!

    ok..., good that there's the internet between...


  • #8495
    eternal
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 8,867 ✭✭✭eternal


    Or so you think...
    I'm crawling through these critical essays. I feel really sick as well. I think I'm too stupid for my course.


  • #8496
    Hugo Stiglitz
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,891 ✭✭✭✭Hugo Stiglitz


    tara73 wrote: »
    new here to this thread and was trying to figure out what's this about, so I went to the first post. found this. and I think: no, there is no more to life than relationships. it's all about relationships:)

    hello everybody.

    Hi there, T.

    Welcome to the thread. :)


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  • #8497
    chrysagon
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,813 ✭✭✭chrysagon


    relationships...on a single thread.... or we single on a relationship thread?

    im as confused as a baby in a topless bar !!


  • #8498
    Trebor176
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,435 ✭✭✭Trebor176


    Welcome on board Tara :)

    Is there more to life than relationships? Well. . .yes, I suppose. Still, the thoughts of not being with someone and wanting to meet someone is bloody hard not to think about, and there can be the frustration too, of course.


  • #8499
    qo2cj1dsne8y4k
    Closed Accounts Posts: 23,646 ✭✭✭✭qo2cj1dsne8y4k


    There's definitely more to life than relationships. If you're not happy by yourself you won't be happy with someone else.


  • #8500
    Hugo Stiglitz
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,891 ✭✭✭✭Hugo Stiglitz


    LexieOnRale wrote: »
    There's definitely more to life than relationships. If you're not happy by yourself you won't be happy with someone else.

    Jaysus, don't say that!


  • #8501
    tara73
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,358 ✭✭✭tara73


    LexieOnRale wrote: »
    There's definitely more to life than relationships. If you're not happy by yourself you won't be happy with someone else.

    yes, I agree. I included in the word relationships also friendships..and without friendships the whole would be a nightmare...


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  • #8502
    Hugo Stiglitz
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,891 ✭✭✭✭Hugo Stiglitz


    I was sorta expecting a relationship to save me. Ah well, that's that then.


  • #8503
    MsGiggles
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,268 ✭✭✭MsGiggles


    Hugo Stiglitz wrote: »
    I was sorta expecting a relationship to save me. Ah well, that's that then.

    Hugo you need to save yourself first :) Guarantee you the landscape will look better after that


  • #8504
    Hugo Stiglitz
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,891 ✭✭✭✭Hugo Stiglitz


    MsGiggles wrote: »
    Hugo you need to save yourself first :) Guarantee you the landscape will look better after that

    So I need saving?! *punches* :p


  • #8505
    qo2cj1dsne8y4k
    Closed Accounts Posts: 23,646 ✭✭✭✭qo2cj1dsne8y4k


    No, definitely not Hugo. I've learned that jumping from one to the other without actually dealing with whatever is going on is just a recipe for disaster. If you're not ok and strong by yourself, another person isn't going to fix that.

    I'm with my OH on and off for what 7 or 8 years and we've been through so much, great stuff and really awful stuff. And while it's good having him always in my corner, looking out for me, when things are bad he's the emotional punching bag, he's the one taking the brunt of my anger, my temper, he'll be the one holding me in the middle of the night when I'm crying and can't sleep.

    That's draining as hell on him. It's hard for him to see me upset and him not being able to stop things or fix things. He can never do or say the right thing in those situations either.

    And there's no doubt if he didn't know me so well, or there wasn't such deep feelings there, there's no way he'd put up with my crap.
    And I'm not even depressed, I've just had really bad things happen and I'm trying to find my feet and start a new, different life.


  • #8506
    MsGiggles
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,268 ✭✭✭MsGiggles


    Hugo Stiglitz wrote: »
    So I need saving?! *punches* :p

    Absolutely !!!! I'll save ya *wink*


  • #8507
    tomwaterford
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16,768 ✭✭✭✭tomwaterford


    tara73 wrote: »
    yes, I agree. I included in the word relationships also friendships..and without friendships the whole would be a nightmare...

    Being honest little/no friends are better than crap friends IME


  • #8508
    tomwaterford
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16,768 ✭✭✭✭tomwaterford


    Hugo Stiglitz wrote: »
    I was sorta expecting a relationship to save me. Ah well, that's that then.

    If your not happy on your own....what will you do if who your with gets rid of ya??

    A recipe for misery/getting treated crap??


  • #8509
    MsGiggles
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,268 ✭✭✭MsGiggles


    tomwaterford wrote: »
    Being honest little/no friends are better than crap friends IME

    Very true Tom


  • #8510
    mg1982
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,772 ✭✭✭mg1982


    There is a lot more to life than relationships. As has already being said here if your relying on other people for your happiness or self worth its not going to work out.


  • #8511
    Autosport
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,280 ✭✭✭✭Autosport


    I agree with the above posters, you have to be happy with yourself and bring that happiness to the relationship :)


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  • #8512
    Autosport
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,280 ✭✭✭✭Autosport


    For my lovelies :)


  • #8513
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    Hugo Stiglitz wrote: »
    I was sorta expecting a relationship to save me. Ah well, that's that then.
    I've had to accept this recently myself.

    I think that part of me feels like if I meet someone it'll solve everything. The truth is, as long as I think that way it probably won't happen.


  • #8514
    Hugo Stiglitz
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,891 ✭✭✭✭Hugo Stiglitz


    Was just saying that having someone could make things better and easier. I doubt my view on that will ever change.

    Some interesting replies here. I'd be here all night to address them all! LOL


  • #8515
    MsGiggles
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,268 ✭✭✭MsGiggles


    Hugo Stiglitz wrote: »
    Was just saying that having someone could make things better and easier. I doubt my view on that will ever change.

    Some interesting replies here. I'd be here all night to address them all! LOL

    And having someone also means that your life is not your own !! There are definitely pros And cons to both


  • #8516
    Autosport
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,280 ✭✭✭✭Autosport


    Hugo we will all be always in your life ;)



    That could also be scary :D


  • #8517
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    Autosport wrote: »
    Hugo we will all be always in your life ;)



    That could also be scary :D

    Says the one creeping in the bushes outside Hugo's gaff! :pac:


  • #8518
    Autosport
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,280 ✭✭✭✭Autosport


    Karsini wrote: »
    Says the one creeping in the bushes outside Hugo's gaff! :pac:

    Shush don't blow my cover Kar, I don't want Tom to get jealous ;)


  • #8519
    Hugo Stiglitz
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,891 ✭✭✭✭Hugo Stiglitz


    Ah no, that's where the cats poop! :eek:


  • #8520
    tomwaterford
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16,768 ✭✭✭✭tomwaterford


    Autosport wrote: »
    Shush don't blow my cover Kar, I don't want Tom to get jealous ;)

    Pfft...I don't get jealous :eek:

    Never get attached to anyone :P
    Terrible flaw really but fcuk it :pac:


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  • #8521
    tomwaterford
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16,768 ✭✭✭✭tomwaterford


    Hugo Stiglitz wrote: »
    Was just saying that having someone could make things better and easier. I doubt my view on that will ever change.

    Some interesting replies here. I'd be here all night to address them all! LOL

    I very much doubt having someone makes things easier...most people I know are pretty miserable in couples...besides I've met v.few WANs worth the effort and more so I doubt I'd be worth the effort at the min as I just don't have time


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