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UK graduate thrown out of gay club after "triggering" Blurred Lines is played

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,246 ✭✭✭✭Dyr


    galljga1 wrote: »
    I have tried to stay neutral but that is sheer fcuking nonsense. Am i/we supposed to ask everyone we meet whether they should be addressed as you, we, she, he, it? Bullsh1t.

    I find if someone has a join date less than 6 months old it's best not to engage, they probably won't be around for long.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,246 ✭✭✭✭Dyr


    Let me get this straight....


    She wants a song banned cause she effectively doesn't like it?



    Wait till she hears Smack my bitch up by the prodigy....

    wait til she hears the mentors entire back catalogue


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,536 ✭✭✭Kev W


    Let me get this straight....


    She wants a song banned cause she effectively doesn't like it?



    Wait till she hears Smack my bitch up by the prodigy....

    It's just a fun song about how consent is optional!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,938 ✭✭✭galljga1


    Kev W wrote: »
    If it's not obvious when meeting, the phrase "what's your pronoun preference?" works.

    Give over man/woman. If she looks like a woman, I will address her as a woman. Mistakes may be made, but in general less offence will be given than asking everyone we meet whether they identify as male, female or whatever. Or do we have to do a Mick Dundee?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,890 ✭✭✭✭kneemos


    Kev W wrote: »
    If it's not obvious when meeting, the phrase "what's your pronoun preference?" works.


    What sort of world would you need to inhabit for that to be OK?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 40,910 ✭✭✭✭ohnonotgmail


    Kev W wrote: »
    It's just a fun song about how consent is optional!

    do you think DJs should not be allowed play it?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,074 ✭✭✭pmasterson95


    Let me get this straight....


    She wants a song banned cause she effectively doesn't like it?



    Wait till she hears Smack my bitch up by the prodigy....

    Could be worse. Smack my *insert desired gender/label here*

    that'd be truly horific


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,536 ✭✭✭Kev W


    kneemos wrote: »
    What sort of world would you need to inhabit for that to be OK?

    This one.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,074 ✭✭✭pmasterson95


    Kev W wrote: »
    It's just a fun song about how consent is optional!

    Dont ever stop listening to RTE radio 1 Kev. I dont think music suits you.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 843 ✭✭✭QuinDixie


    Are her actions the very definition of a Social Justice Warrior.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 801 ✭✭✭FobleAsNuck


    Kev W wrote: »
    If it's not obvious when meeting, the phrase "what's your pronoun preference?" works.

    you're taking the pi$$ aren't you?

    lads tell me he's taking the pi$$...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,536 ✭✭✭Kev W


    do you think DJs should not be allowed play it?

    Personally I don't know why anyone would want to but I wouldn't want it banned as I don't believe banning things really helps. Letting it exist and allowing people to have their say about it is a better solution.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,689 ✭✭✭Tombi!


    QuinDixie wrote: »
    Are her actions the very definition of a Social Justice Warrior.
    You could argue it given that she's trying to use issues for attention rather than coming up with solutions to problems she thinks exist


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,536 ✭✭✭Kev W


    Dont ever stop listening to RTE radio 1 Kev. I dont think music suits you.

    Not liking "Blurred Lines" is an indicator of not liking music?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,938 ✭✭✭galljga1


    QuinDixie wrote: »
    Are her actions the very definition of a Social Justice Warrior.

    Not sure. I thought SJWs were those who supported the outraged and easily offended.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,536 ✭✭✭Kev W


    Tombi! wrote: »
    You could argue it given that she's trying to use issues for attention rather than coming up with solutions to problems she thinks exist

    You could argue that if you knew for a fact that was the case but that's just speculation on your part.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,465 ✭✭✭CruelCoin


    Kev W wrote: »
    If it's not obvious when meeting, the phrase "what's your pronoun preference?" works.

    Possibly the silliest thing i have read on boards.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,890 ✭✭✭✭kneemos


    you're taking the pi$$ aren't you?

    lads tell me he's taking the pi$$...


    Steady . He's 80% joking.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,074 ✭✭✭pmasterson95


    galljga1 wrote: »
    I have tried to stay neutral but that is sheer fcuking nonsense. Am i/we supposed to ask everyone we meet whether they should be addressed as you, we, she, he, it? Bullsh1t.

    Greetings fellow homo sapien what is your desired label at the moment?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 40,910 ✭✭✭✭ohnonotgmail


    Kev W wrote: »
    Personally I don't know why anyone would want to but I wouldn't want it banned as I don't believe banning things really helps. Letting it exist and allowing people to have their say about it is a better solution.

    totally agree. people should be allowed have their say about it. and the people they direct that opinion at should be free to respond with their own opinion. even if that opinion is "f*ck off and stop annoying me".


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,536 ✭✭✭Kev W


    CruelCoin wrote: »
    Possibly the silliest thing i have read on boards.

    I feel sorry for you if the idea of politeness seems silly to you.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,592 ✭✭✭valoren


    This is classic attention seeking.


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    Kev W wrote: »

    That article is for transgender people. She identifies as non-binary, not transgender. Are they one in the same? To me, she seems to think they're not, otherwise she would have identified herself as such.

    My evidence that it's ridiculous? How do you prove a personal opinion as opposed to something put forward as proof?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,793 ✭✭✭tritium


    Kev W wrote: »
    It's just a fun song about how consent is optional!

    No, that's the meaning certain groups pushing an agenda have assigned to it. I'm pretty sure the writer has never come out and said its a rapey song. But hey, why let that get in the way of an outrage opportunity...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,516 ✭✭✭zeffabelli


    Kev W wrote: »
    It's just a fun song about how consent is optional!

    Are you for real?

    The irony, wow.

    You're talking about non binary and then complain about "blurred lines" when all you have been doing is defending "blurred lines of another kind.

    Sexuality has always been a dance of codes. All pleasures are perilous.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,536 ✭✭✭Kev W


    totally agree. people should be allowed have their say about it. and the people they direct that opinion at should be free to respond with their own opinion. even if that opinion is "f*ck off and stop annoying me".

    Yes, exactly! And then others are free to make a judgement on that opinion, even if that opinion is "you're being a prick!"


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,938 ✭✭✭galljga1


    Kev W wrote: »
    Not liking "Blurred Lines" is an indicator of not liking music?

    Personally, I think Blurred Lines is one of the best pop songs of this decade.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,433 ✭✭✭✭machiavellianme


    strelok wrote: »
    for example, my gender is an xbox 360 controller. my preferred pronouns are triangle, square and circle. don't you dare tell me how to live my life.

    Aren't circle, square and triangle digital buttons (and hence representable through binary)?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,536 ✭✭✭Kev W


    zeffabelli wrote: »
    Are you for real?

    The irony, wow.

    You're talking about non binary and then complain about "blurred lines" when all you have been doing is defending "blurred lines of another kind.

    Sexuality has always been a dance of codes. All pleasures are perilous.

    Not quite, Alanis.

    What "blurred lines" am I defending? If anything I'm on the side of clarity.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,074 ✭✭✭pmasterson95


    Kev W wrote: »
    Not liking "Blurred Lines" is an indicator of not liking music?

    Well if you are that sensitive then 90% of rap/hip hop is a no-no. A fair few of those poppy American gits aswell can have dodgy undertones mate. Just an idea to avoid your moral outrage.


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