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How dominant are you?

  • 11-06-2015 7:25pm
    #1
    I Miei Occhialli
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 5 ✭


    On a scale of 1 to 10 I'd say I'm a 7. If you put me in a room of people I can generally influence people a bit more than most people can on average.


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  • #2
    LadyFenghuang
    Closed Accounts Posts: 853 ✭✭✭LadyFenghuang


    Enough in myself not to have to compete with anyone.


  • #3
    I Miei Occhialli
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 5 ✭I Miei Occhialli


    LadyFenghuang wrote: »
    Enough in myself not to have to compete with anyone.

    So how dominant would you be in comparison to most people?

    Please note I won't be awarding medals.


  • #4
    mfceiling
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,884 ✭✭✭✭mfceiling


    I Miei Occhialli wrote: »
    On a scale of 1 to 10 I'd say I'm a 7. If you put me in a room of people I can generally influence people a bit more than most people can on average.

    No you can't


  • #5
    LadyFenghuang
    Closed Accounts Posts: 853 ✭✭✭LadyFenghuang


    I Miei Occhialli wrote: »
    So how dominant would you be in comparison to most people?

    I don't compare myself to other people. I am an I N D I V I D U A L.

    As are you.


  • #6
    Ruu
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,622 ✭✭✭Ruu


    [X] Unsubscribe from survey.


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  • #7
    I Miei Occhialli
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 5 ✭I Miei Occhialli


    LadyFenghuang wrote: »
    I don't compare myself to other people. I am an I N D I V I D U A L.

    As are you.

    I know you are an individual, what is your ability like to influence other people?


  • #8
    buried
    Registered Users Posts: 9,863 ✭✭✭buried


    mfceiling wrote: »
    No you can't

    Ah now, he can though in fairness, he's a "7"

    "You have disgraced yourselves again" - W. B. Yeats



  • #9
    eviltwin
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    Why would you want to influence other people? I don't tend to surround myself with people who can't think for themselves.


  • #10
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    Quickest ban ever


  • #11
    Robsweezie
    Registered Users Posts: 3,434 ✭✭✭Robsweezie


    you wanna try me, big boy?

    *cracks whip*


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  • #12
    LadyFenghuang
    Closed Accounts Posts: 853 ✭✭✭LadyFenghuang


    I Miei Occhialli wrote: »
    So how dominant would you be in comparison to most people?

    Please note I won't be awarding medals.

    You are not in a position to give them.


  • #13
    LadyFenghuang
    Closed Accounts Posts: 853 ✭✭✭LadyFenghuang


    Robsweezie wrote: »
    you wanna try me, big boy?

    *cracks whip*

    I think he might.


  • #14
    seenitall
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,723 ✭✭✭seenitall


    eviltwin wrote: »
    Why would you want to influence other people? I don't tend to surround myself with people who can't think for themselves.

    Because he is an insecure troll (aren't they always) who got banned after 5 posts, that's how transparent he is! heh


  • #15
    keithclancy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,208 ✭✭✭keithclancy


    I have a mate who pisses all over the place when at peoples houses


  • #16
    Talib Fiasco
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,428 ✭✭✭Talib Fiasco


    12. F*ck your 1 to 10 scale, that's for b*tches...I'm the alpha male here, the exception to the rule


  • #17
    222233
    Registered Users Posts: 1,114 ✭✭✭222233


    A 2, I usually am the one being pushed around.


  • #18
    LadyFenghuang
    Closed Accounts Posts: 853 ✭✭✭LadyFenghuang


    222233 wrote: »
    A 2, I usually am the one being pushed around.

    Without you though how would anyone be dominant?


  • #19
    222233
    Registered Users Posts: 1,114 ✭✭✭222233


    222233 wrote: »
    A 2, I usually am the one being pushed around.

    Yep! Thats my life purpose to be there to empower other people and boost their egos!


  • #20
    TheOtherBloke
    Registered Users Posts: 232 ✭✭TheOtherBloke


    I used to mentor people who have been in trouble with the law, had a bad upbringing ect.. Used to teach them basic life skills and help them gain useful qualifications. Some of them were arseholes but I never failed to get them to listen. So, yeah Im a 9 I'd say


  • #21
    jamesbere
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,022 ✭✭✭jamesbere


    What's a level 10, getting someone to sign over the deeds to their house or what.


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  • #22
    LadyFenghuang
    Closed Accounts Posts: 853 ✭✭✭LadyFenghuang


    222233 wrote: »
    Yep! Thats my life purpose to be there to empower other people and boost their egos!

    You can't empower another person nor boost their ego really. You can't get that from outside.


  • #23
    mad muffin
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,034 ✭✭✭mad muffin


    I am the puppet master


  • #24
    LadyFenghuang
    Closed Accounts Posts: 853 ✭✭✭LadyFenghuang


    mad muffin wrote: »
    I am the puppet master

    Gottle of geer!


  • #25
    shalom
    Registered Users Posts: 206 ✭✭shalom


    TheOtherBloke wrote: »
    I used to mentor people who have been in trouble with the law, had a bad upbringing ect.. Used to teach them basic life skills and help them gain useful qualifications. Some of them were arseholes but I never failed to get them to listen. So, yeah Im a 9 I'd say

    What was the trick/secret in never failing? Do tell, I'm more than intrigued.


  • #26
    TheOtherBloke
    Registered Users Posts: 232 ✭✭TheOtherBloke


    shalom wrote: »
    What was the trick/secret in never failing? Do tell, I'm more than intrigued.

    A handgun shoved under my belt, pull my jacket back to reveal it when one did not listen


  • #27
    TheOtherBloke
    Registered Users Posts: 232 ✭✭TheOtherBloke


    shalom wrote: »
    What was the trick/secret in never failing? Do tell, I'm more than intrigued.

    But on a serious note. Confidence is a major factor


  • #28
    LadyFenghuang
    Closed Accounts Posts: 853 ✭✭✭LadyFenghuang


    Dunno how dominant I am but I am way too smart for this ****e.


  • #29
    my teapot is orange
    Registered Users Posts: 313 ✭✭my teapot is orange


    I'm very non-dominant. I don't want to dominate others. But I am equally adamant that nobody will dominate me. Some dominant people are quite surprised by the second bit. They put me in the quiet, easy to push around category, and almost get angry when I refuse to conform, like they are entitled to obedience from me, it's the natural order of things or something.


  • #30
    LadyFenghuang
    Closed Accounts Posts: 853 ✭✭✭LadyFenghuang


    my teapot is orange wrote: »
    I'm very non-dominant. I don't want to dominate others. But I am equally adamant that nobody will dominate me. Some dominant people are quite surprised by the second bit. They put me in the quiet, easy to push around category, and almost get angry when I refuse to conform, like they are entitled to obedience from me, it's the natural order of things or something.

    That's actually how most people are.


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  • #31
    my teapot is orange
    Registered Users Posts: 313 ✭✭my teapot is orange


    LadyFenghuang wrote: »
    That's actually how most people are.

    Which is how most people are?


  • #32
    LadyFenghuang
    Closed Accounts Posts: 853 ✭✭✭LadyFenghuang


    my teapot is orange wrote: »
    Which is how most people are?

    Ah ha so it's like that is it? Very well then. Goodbye.


  • #33
    seenitall
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,723 ✭✭✭seenitall


    Fralp wrote: »
    I think you a dealing with domineering people, not dominant.

    Oh hai, you're back! :)


  • #34
    discus
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,049 ✭✭✭discus


    LadyFenghuang wrote: »
    You can't empower another person nor boost their ego really. You can't get that from outside.

    Sadly, you have never been in the presence of a truly inspiring leader.


  • #35
    my teapot is orange
    Registered Users Posts: 313 ✭✭my teapot is orange


    Fralp wrote: »
    I think you a dealing with domineering people, not dominant.

    If you think about your social circle there is usually some individuals whose lead everyone else are more likely to follow.

    And they tend to grow to expect it.

    The difference between dominant and domineering is just a question of the degree of insistence on compliance. I don't want any of their dominance.


  • #36
    PizzamanIRL
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,147 ✭✭✭PizzamanIRL


    Mods don't like Italians.


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  • #37
    seenitall
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,723 ✭✭✭seenitall


    PizzamanIRL wrote: »
    Mods don't like Italians.

    Well they don't seem to have a problem with pizzamen?


  • #38
    LadyFenghuang
    Closed Accounts Posts: 853 ✭✭✭LadyFenghuang


    Fralp wrote: »
    I think you a dealing with domineering people, not dominant.

    If you think about your social circle there is usually some individuals whose lead everyone else are more likely to follow.

    Adjective vrs present participle.

    No in reality bullying vrs trying to argue you are right or simply accepting others will not agree.

    I have to watch myself on this. I tend to get into lengthy debates I can be goaded.


    This thread is one epic goading session. I try to use humor to diffuse.

    Domineering people feel admitting they are wrong makes them weak. Dominant people don't.

    It's not about brainwashing or who is convinced ...we can all be duped. Dominant people fight for the greater good or try to. Domineering people do it only for themselves and what they want. In fact frequently dominant people are most strong when fighting for the greater good.


    To be dominant you need good character. In reality it's a work in progress because you are always trying to work on that.


  • #39
    LadyFenghuang
    Closed Accounts Posts: 853 ✭✭✭LadyFenghuang


    Interesting question. The role of the fool in dominance hierarchy is quite a fascinating one.


  • #40
    my teapot is orange
    Registered Users Posts: 313 ✭✭my teapot is orange


    Fralp wrote: »
    I think you have a blind spot about this.

    Because I don't agree with you?

    Tell me, what can't I see?


  • #41
    LadyFenghuang
    Closed Accounts Posts: 853 ✭✭✭LadyFenghuang


    Fralp wrote: »
    I don't think you necessarily need a good character to be dominant, but you do need a bad character to be domineering.

    I agree with the second part of that statement whole heartedly. I think that the best dominants have good character. I hope at least I am right. It is something I think of as being part and parcel of real leadership.


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  • #42
    my teapot is orange
    Registered Users Posts: 313 ✭✭my teapot is orange


    Fralp wrote: »
    I don't think you see how social dynamics work, there's always some people who have more of an influence on the group than others.

    What post of mine indicates that I am unaware of that?


  • #43
    LadyFenghuang
    Closed Accounts Posts: 853 ✭✭✭LadyFenghuang


    my teapot is orange wrote: »
    What post of mine indicates that I am unaware of that?

    What part of your teapot is orange?


  • #44
    LadyFenghuang
    Closed Accounts Posts: 853 ✭✭✭LadyFenghuang


    Is there infact a teapot?


  • #45
    my teapot is orange
    Registered Users Posts: 313 ✭✭my teapot is orange


    LadyFenghuang wrote: »
    What part of your teapot is orange?

    How is that on topic?


  • #46
    LadyFenghuang
    Closed Accounts Posts: 853 ✭✭✭LadyFenghuang


    my teapot is orange wrote: »
    How is that on topic?

    It's very relevant. I ...shall ...show you...how


  • #47
    seenitall
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,723 ✭✭✭seenitall


    Battle for on-thread dominance being fought live between Lady Fenghuang and my teapot is orange right now - tune in folks!!


  • #48
    my teapot is orange
    Registered Users Posts: 313 ✭✭my teapot is orange


    seenitall wrote: »
    Battle for on-thread dominance being fought live between Lady Fenghuang and my teapot is orange right now - tune in folks!!

    She's gonna win. She's gonna SHOW ME HOW!


  • #49
    LadyFenghuang
    Closed Accounts Posts: 853 ✭✭✭LadyFenghuang


    seenitall wrote: »
    Battle for on-thread dominance being fought live between Lady Fuenghuang and my teapot is orange right now - tune in!!

    Nah...he's my buddy..if he wants to be only of course. It's a communal thread. I just talk a lot more than others.


  • #50
    LadyFenghuang
    Closed Accounts Posts: 853 ✭✭✭LadyFenghuang


    my teapot is orange wrote: »
    She's gonna win. She's gonna SHOW ME HOW!

    I AM!


    But in order to show you how i need to know do you have a teapot and which part is orange?


  • #51
    my teapot is orange
    Registered Users Posts: 313 ✭✭my teapot is orange


    LadyFenghuang wrote: »
    I AM!


    But in order to show you how i need to know do you have a teapot and which part is orange?

    Yes, I do. The entire thing is orange.


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