Have you ever beaten the sh1te out of somebody.

DEFTLEFTHAND · 30-05-2015 07:06AM #1

Straighten somebody out as my Dad would say. At around 15 I turned on my mother, she beat myself and brother like pet dogs for years.

I got into throwing hands in college where I would go loco and kick the ****e out of some ****. However it would always be with a group though, The rare times The red mist descended and exploded and I acted alone I would always feel genuine guilt afterwards.

aujopimur · 30-05-2015 07:09AM

Not until now.

AndyBoBandy · 30-05-2015 07:09AM

Never been in a fight in my life, never thrown a punch in anger,
I'm 33

galljga1 · 30-05-2015 07:11AM

DEFTLEFTHAND wrote: »

Straighten somebody out as my Dad would say. At around 15 I turned on my mother, she beat myself and brother like pet dogs for years.

I got into throwing hands in college where I would go loco and kick the ****e out of some ****. However it would always be with a group though, The rare times The red mist descended and exploded and I acted alone I would always feel genuine guilt afterwards.

What I get from this is that it is ok to beat the crap out of someone in a group but not on your own, unless it is your mother.
Am I reading this right?

Penny Tration · 30-05-2015 07:11AM

Nope.

I've hit people in defence, that's about it.

Banjo String · 30-05-2015 07:12AM

Yes.

E Honda on street fighter two.

He was giving it socks with his torpedoes dives and hundred hand slaps, but I was 'sadouken'! Him all over the shop. Even got a 'perfect'

happy days.

stefanovich · 30-05-2015 07:16AM

I've only really punched one person. Mother's boyfriend at the time. He was a proper sociopath. Said something about my father so I punched him in the head a hard as I could.

realdanbreen · 30-05-2015 07:18AM

DEFTLEFTHAND wrote: »

Straighten somebody out as my Dad would say. At around 15 I turned on my mother, she beat myself and brother like pet dogs for years.

I got into throwing hands in college where I would go loco and kick the ****e out of some ****. However it would always be with a group though, The rare times The red mist descended and exploded and I acted alone I would always feel genuine guilt afterwards.

Why would anyone beat a pet dog?

Timberrrrrrrr · 30-05-2015 07:22AM

DEFTLEFTHAND wrote: »

Straighten somebody out as my Dad would say. At around 15 I turned on my mother, she beat myself and brother like pet dogs for years.

I got into throwing hands in college where I would go loco and kick the ****e out of some ****. However it would always be with a group though, The rare times The red mist descended and exploded and I acted alone I would always feel genuine guilt afterwards.

What the hell does this bit mean?

Once chased 2 las through Temple bar after one spat in my face, caught them near Dorans and made ****e of them.

MathDebater · 30-05-2015 07:29AM

DEFTLEFTHAND wrote: »

Straighten somebody out as my Dad would say. At around 15 I turned on my mother, she beat myself and brother like pet dogs for years.

I got into throwing hands in college where I would go loco and kick the ****e out of some ****. However it would always be with a group though, The rare times The red mist descended and exploded and I acted alone I would always feel genuine guilt afterwards.

Poor fcuker having to go through that. I will say this. You experienced violence and disliked it. So don't introduce it to others.

DEFTLEFTHAND · 30-05-2015 07:35AM

realdanbreen wrote: »

Why would anyone beat a pet dog?

We were treated like dogs, anytime the bitch didn't have her meds she'd give us a good trashing. For a simple thing like not having your bed made or not taking your plate up from the table. Belt strap to the arse, slamming doors in your face, General intimidation. A violent bitch who myself and bro deeply feared.

realdanbreen · 30-05-2015 07:40AM

DEFTLEFTHAND wrote: »

We were treated like dogs, anytime the bitch didn't have her meds she'd give us a good trashing. For a simple thing like not having your bed made or not taking your plate up from the table. Belt strap to the arse, slamming doors in your face, General intimidation. A violent bitch who myself and bro deeply feared.

Obviously your mother was half mad(come to think of it,typing that sentence is a first for me) Anyway you have two choices. Dwell on it and use her as an excuse for all your behaviour or ,Man up, put it behind you and behave like a real man.

darkpagandeath · 30-05-2015 07:43AM

Yes for deep-seated Emotionally/psychological harm/abuse man up... :rolleyes:

realdanbreen · 30-05-2015 07:52AM

darkpagandeath wrote: »

Yes for deep-seated Emotionally/psychological harm/abuse man up... :rolleyes:

And what would you recommend? Spend years(plus a small fortune) talking things through with a 'professional'? Very few people that I know were born with a silver spoon in their mouth but a lot of people that I know drift through life blaming everyone and anyone for all their woes. Unless this guy is a head case like his mother then he has no excuse for acting like a thug.

darkpagandeath · 30-05-2015 07:55AM

realdanbreen wrote: »

And what would you recommend? Spend years(plus a small fortune) talking things through with a 'professional'? Very few people that I know were born with a silver spoon in their mouth but a lot of people that I know drift through life blaming everyone and anyone for all their woes. Unless this guy is a head case like his mother then he has no excuse for acting like a thug.

I was not talking about the violence I was talking about the suggestion of just "Man Up" As a sufferer of chronic Depression it kind of greats the grain when I hear stuff like that. I am not suggesting violence as an outlet.

macnug · 30-05-2015 08:09AM

In a lot of fights in my teens. I would say at least 20 fights but have not been in one since I was about 21. Since the kids came a long I actively avoid confrontation with people.

MathDebater · 30-05-2015 08:29AM

DEFTLEFTHAND wrote: »

We were treated like dogs, anytime the bitch didn't have her meds she'd give us a good trashing. For a simple thing like not having your bed made or not taking your plate up from the table. Belt strap to the arse, slamming doors in your face, General intimidation. A violent bitch who myself and bro deeply feared.

Your ma sounds like a hateful cnut. She sounds mean.

Laoislion8383 · 30-05-2015 08:39AM

I thankfully didn't have an upbringing like that, but was brought up on a pretty rough council estate, I feel I learned far more about life going up like that than I ever did in school or college, in my opinion I learned how to be fair treat people with respect and I also learned if they don't treat u with respect then it's time for a few slaps, had a few fights in my time never started any of them, got attacked by a bunch of scummys one day walking home from work they gave me a good pasting for nothing literally nothing, but I got each of them on there own over time and they got equally as good of a pasting back, there are just some people out there and all they understand is a good beating talking to this people does not work simple as that

DEFTLEFTHAND · 30-05-2015 08:41AM

MathDebater wrote: »

Your ma sounds like a hateful cnut. She sounds mean.

A damaged woman who had no business having children, I feel more sorry for my father hooking up with her and getting tied down. He's a lovely man.

Laoislion8383 · 30-05-2015 08:42AM

DEFTLEFTHAND wrote: »

A damaged woman who had no business having children, I feel more sorry for my father hooking up with her and getting tied down. He's a lovely man.

Where is she now? Would you or your brother have much to do with her at all??

DEFTLEFTHAND · 30-05-2015 08:53AM

Laoislion8383 wrote: »

Where is she now? Would you or your brother have much to do with her at all??

Herself and my Dad are still living together. I don't have much to do with her at all, she's a pillhead, and will go through stages where she takes her sleepers in bulk and zonks about the household. She never worked a job in her life, my dad takes care of her. I work with my Dad and my brother works further a field, my contact with her is minimal, the only time I see her is when I bring my son around.

MathDebater · 30-05-2015 08:56AM

DEFTLEFTHAND wrote: »

A damaged woman who had no business having children, I feel more sorry for my father hooking up with her and getting tied down. He's a lovely man.

He sounds it. I'm very sorry to hear about your mom.

Laoislion8383 · 30-05-2015 08:57AM

DEFTLEFTHAND wrote: »

Herself and my Dad are still living together. I don't have much to do with her at all, she's a pillhead, and will go through stages where she takes her sleepers in bulk and zonks about the household. She never worked a job in her life, my dad takes care of her. I work with my Dad and my brother works further a field, my contact with her is minimal, the only time I see her is when I bring my son around.

How is she with your son? Would she treat him ok?

You dad sounds like a top bloke

DEFTLEFTHAND · 30-05-2015 09:09AM

Laoislion8383 wrote: »

How is she with your son? Would she treat him ok?

You dad sounds like a top bloke

She loves him and I know that. She's always acted that way towards him.

Laoislion8383 · 30-05-2015 09:11AM

DEFTLEFTHAND wrote: »

She loves him and I know that. She's always acted that way towards him.

Fair enough, fair play to you for letting her even see him, after a childhood like she gave you I doubt I would have anything to do with her.

realdanbreen · 30-05-2015 09:15AM

darkpagandeath wrote: »

I was not talking about the violence I was talking about the suggestion of just "Man Up" As a sufferer of chronic Depression it kind of greats the grain when I hear stuff like that. I am not suggesting violence as an outlet.

What do you suggest he does? My choice of words 'man up' might not be the best but whether you want to call it 'shape up' 'straighten yourself up' or whatever, you get the gist of it. We get one shot at life and nobody but nobody can live your life for you and if I decide to go out tonight and clock someone or if I decide to take to the bed for three days then those are my choices . There may be underlying causes for me doing that but ultimately I am responsible for my own actions.

mad muffin · 30-05-2015 09:19AM

Yes regularly. I furiously beat my meat on a daily basis. I've even known to choke a chicken or two.

renegademaster · 30-05-2015 09:28AM

Was bullied in my youth and had the fear, then once got into an argument with a bloke from work I was on the piss with and beat seven shades of ****e out of him after he had the first 2 punches.

One time I tackled a gang of 3 travelers on a packed bus that were being verbally and physically racially abusive.

30-05-2015 09:33AM

DEFTLEFTHAND wrote: »

Straighten somebody out as my Dad would say. At around 15 I turned on my mother, she beat myself and brother like pet dogs for years.

I got into throwing hands in college where I would go loco and kick the ****e out of some ****. However it would always be with a group though, The rare times The red mist descended and exploded and I acted alone I would always feel genuine guilt afterwards.

Eek.

"I beat the snot out of my mum, I've beaten people with groups, I've beaten people on my own...but I regretted beating people on my own..."

There's a lot if issues in the OP. Never beat anyone, never crossed my mind and never felt any need to raise my fists, and just don't get beating up a woman whether it be a mum, wife, whatever.

But do admire your honesty.

gumbo1 · 30-05-2015 09:33AM

AndyBoBandy wrote: »

Never been in a fight in my life, never thrown a punch in anger,
I'm 33

When did you throw one in happiness? When does anyone??

cloud493 · 30-05-2015 09:37AM

I've been in plenty of fights/had the **** kicked out of me when I was a kid more times than I can count. Only difference is I lost all my fights

Have you ever beaten the sh1te out of somebody.

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