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How will you vote in the Marriage Equality referendum? Mod Note Post 1

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 34,809 ✭✭✭✭smash


    That was a pretty awful debate to be fair. A missed opportunity for everyone if you ask me. But at least the myth about adoption was debunked at the end.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,540 ✭✭✭joseph brand


    Did Tom try to say that heterosexual couples will be discriminated against when it comes to adopting a child? He couldn't have, surely?

    Norris knows bigotry and he seen it in Kathy and Tom. He barely concealed his anger.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33 Blogatron52


    I will be voting yes.
    I do not think it should be the decision of the nation to decide if 2 people can marry. Maybe a lot of lgbt people won't marry.. Maybe they will.. But they should have the option to decide like any other couple.
    If EVERY lgbt couple in the world DID get married.. The world still wouldn't end.. Trust me! :)
    It's totally cool if people find being lgbt weird or strange or unnatural.. Everyone is entirely entitled to their own opinion.. But in this case.. ACTIVELY campaigning against people..voting no and denying someone else equality and happiness.. That's unfair.. In my humble opinion.
    It's upsetting to see people's lives being debated and torn apart publicly and I would be concerned for any sensitive/scared members of the lgbt community with the intensity of the debate and the possibility that the no vote will win.
    Not being morbid.. But if it doesn't pass.. In 100 years someone will probably just implement it without even asking.. And we'll be the long dead "conservative" generation that failed to foster equality, fairness, open mindedness and happiness!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 34,809 ✭✭✭✭smash


    Did Tom try to say that heterosexual couples will be discriminated against when it comes to adopting a child? He couldn't have, surely?

    And to top it off he thinks that courts will deny a child a preference to have a father and a mother... But that's his preference, not the child's. All a child needs is love and care.


  • Moderators, Education Moderators Posts: 5,028 Mod ✭✭✭✭G_R


    That was a pretty awful debate tbf.

    Kathy what's her face just seemed lost and confused

    Also, love Vincent's Aongus O'Riordan - he's minister for... something comment.


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,951 ✭✭✭frostyjacks


    The young fella should have been left to run with the no argument on his own, he was well able for it. Dunno what Hook brought to the party, his claim to be representing the ordinary guy in the street was laughable. Norris is just Norris, he gets as animated talking about gay rights as he does about Bloomsday.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,218 ✭✭✭✭Bannasidhe


    smash wrote: »
    That was a pretty awful debate to be fair. A missed opportunity for everyone if you ask me. But at least the myth about adoption was debunked at the end.

    It was a car crash.

    It's something when Hookie is the voice of reason.

    Very disappointed in Vinny B. Thought he would be the one broadcaster who would insist that the 'debaters' would stick to the actual topic but once again it looked like we are really voting on the Children & Family Relationships Act and not SSM.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 34,809 ✭✭✭✭smash


    Bannasidhe wrote: »
    Very disappointed in Vinny B.

    Have to agree. I usually like him but he was brutal tonight. He let the debate go completely off topic and there didn't seem to be a clear agenda.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,000 ✭✭✭✭aloyisious


    At least I know what Tom Finegan look's like now, assuming it is the same Dr Tom Finegan who had a letter in the papers recently in support of the "vote no" campaign. The blurb say's somewhere that he's the legal advisor for MAFM. Bit trendy with the long sideburns.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,540 ✭✭✭joseph brand


    It seemed a tad unfair teaming Norris up with an undecided (Hook), versus two definite No voters. I also thought Hook looked a little sleepy.

    Kathy and Tom, by talking about adoption, managed to avoid pretending they have LGBT friends. You know the line which goes something like: "how can I be homophobic if I have a friend who is a gay?" Racists often use a similar line. Then they play the victim, claiming they are being discriminated against for discriminating! ??


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,540 ✭✭✭joseph brand


    aloyisious wrote: »
    At least I know what Tom Finegan look's like now, assuming it is the same Dr Tom Finegan who had a letter in the papers recently in support of the "vote no" campaign. The blurb say's somewhere that he's the legal advisor for MAFM. Bit trendy with the long sideburns.

    Taken from broadsheet.ie
    Mothers and Fathers Matter includes among its members David Quinn of the Iona Institute (top), Ray Kinsella (centre), a Pro-Life activist and Professor at the Michael Smurfit Graduate School of Business UCD and Tom Finegan (bottom), one-time assistant to Senator Ronan Mullen.

    The website shares the same IP address as catholicbishops.ie, catholicireland.net, dublindiocese.ie, and gettingmarried.ie .

    All because teh gays want to adopt your children.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,888 ✭✭✭AtomicHorror


    Then they play the victim, claiming they are being discriminated against for discriminating! ??

    That's about half this thread summed up.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,232 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    If anyone wants to help yes equality here you go


    http://www.yesequality.ie/canvass/

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,000 ✭✭✭✭aloyisious




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,603 ✭✭✭tigger123


    aloyisious wrote: »

    That article's hilarious!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,821 ✭✭✭floggg


    I'd say one is a tank, the other is a very well armoured security van. Why not just bulk up the armour on your van instead of trying to squeeze into my tank?

    Why are you so insecure that you can't handle the idea of us both having the same type of tank?

    The argument that we should be happy with a separate but equal form of civil partnership is the most nakedly prejudiced argument the no side have.

    The objection is clearly not to us having the same rights and obligations as marriage - simply to having to recognise the equality of our relationships in the language used to describe them.

    It achieves nothing but to create an artificial difference and to exclude unnecessarily.

    It is a rather transparent argument which readily exposes the insecurity and prejudice of it's proponents.*



    * I'm not saying all no voters are insecure and prejudiced - just those that want to insist on a equal in everything but name charade.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,259 ✭✭✭Daith


    floggg wrote: »
    Why are you so insecure that you can't handle the idea of us both having the same type of tank?

    Agreed, it's not about cars or tanks but access to the same road.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 38,244 ✭✭✭✭Guy:Incognito


    tigger123 wrote: »
    That article's hilarious!

    Across the aisle, Micheál was trying to take a squint at them. Whereupon Government Chief Whip, Paul Kehoe chortled: “You’re looking at the pictures upside down. They’re putting those posters up!”



    :D:D:D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,821 ✭✭✭floggg


    Like their urgent need to be included in the Constitutional right of married couples to import contraceptives for their own use?

    :eek:

    Why don't they just get them from Boots like the rest of us?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,080 ✭✭✭✭Maximus Alexander


    Ugh, the posters are out in force now. They were plastered all the way from my front door to the office, both yes and no in equal number. For no posters to be matching the combined postering might of all the major parties, they must be getting some serious offshore investment. Sickens me.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,007 ✭✭✭✭VinLieger


    Ugh, the posters are out in force now. They were plastered all the way from my front door to the office, both yes and no in equal number. For no posters to be matching the combined postering might of all the major parties, they must be getting some serious offshore investment. Sickens me.

    Money = speech


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,664 ✭✭✭MrWalsh


    Ugh, the posters are out in force now. They were plastered all the way from my front door to the office, both yes and no in equal number. For no posters to be matching the combined postering might of all the major parties, they must be getting some serious offshore investment. Sickens me.

    The yes postering seems to be a bit lax. Only the political parties have produced a small number of posters. Yes Equality havent porduced any and no other Yes interest groups seem to have either.

    On the plus side all political parties are backing a yes vote as is the Law society of Ireland, all the childrens charities, the GAA and various other groups.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 912 ✭✭✭gravehold


    Ugh, the posters are out in force now. They were plastered all the way from my front door to the office, both yes and no in equal number. For no posters to be matching the combined postering might of all the major parties, they must be getting some serious offshore investment. Sickens me.

    It sickens you both sides get to use freedom of speech to get their side out?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,080 ✭✭✭✭Maximus Alexander


    gravehold wrote: »
    It sickens you both sides get to use freedom of speech to get their side out?

    I don't know why you quoted me, this doesn't relate to what I said.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,821 ✭✭✭floggg


    smash wrote: »
    And did you hear the no side?

    "If we pass this referendum it will be constitutionally impossible for any future office ever again to give preference in law for a child to have a mother and a father"

    Just read that. It's a direct quote from the no side. There's no specified preference in law for it at the moment, so why would there be preference for it in future if gay people could marry? I'll repeat, there's no specified preference for it now... And for what it's worth, adoption is a separate issue and that legislation will pass disregarding this referendum.

    This is THE ONLY argument that the no side can offer, and it means nothing in relation to the vote.

    It pisses me off that the Yes side seem to be trying to steer the conversation away from this argument, rather than just blasting it out of the water.

    It's essentially saying if we vote yes now, we won't be able to discriminate in the future. Great - discrimination is what we are trying to do away with.

    George Hook has been the only one to try and call them out on this yet - though he didn't do so all that forcibly.

    I also hate the argument that if two men can marry they will have a right to a child at all costs.

    Bull**** - if two infertile people or two elderly people marry, the State doesn't have to give them a baby from somebody else. Why should it chance for a same sex couple?

    As Norris said last night, their own Legal Opinion says it will not change the package of marital rights.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,821 ✭✭✭floggg


    Is Kathy American, and is she in the Tea Party?
    Tom Finegan looks a bit young for the old conservative views which he holds. Perhaps the pay check makes it easier.

    She's even too crazy for the Tea Party. Privitisation of babies? Somebody watched the matrix one too many times....


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 912 ✭✭✭gravehold


    I don't know why you quoted me, this doesn't relate to what I said.

    You said it sickens you that both side are equal on posters


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,163 ✭✭✭Shrap


    gravehold wrote: »
    It sickens you both sides get to use freedom of speech to get their side out?

    It sickens ME that one side (and I'll leave you to guess which) claimed that they were only spending 150,000 on their entire advertising campaign (posters and youtube combined) and have somehow managed to poster every small village in the country, every busy intersection in cities and have an ad playing for every youtube view.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,821 ✭✭✭floggg


    kevin12345 wrote: »
    Someone from MAFMatter on the Vincent Brown debate now. Absolutely ridiculous.

    I'm sure this has been asked, but what do First Families First have against second families?

    And is it non-presidential families they dislike, or just any new family a person might start after a divorce or other family break up?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,080 ✭✭✭✭Maximus Alexander


    gravehold wrote: »
    You said it sickens you that both side are equal on posters

    I didn't.


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