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Singles thread.

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  • #4742
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 18,161 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    mg1982 wrote: »
    Embarassing to admit but i have never being on an actual date.
    I wasn't until I was 29. It has only been in the last 18 months or so that I've been on some.


  • #4743
    Hugo Stiglitz
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,891 ✭✭✭✭Hugo Stiglitz


    mg1982 wrote: »
    Embarassing to admit but i have never being on an actual date.

    Me neither friend.


  • #4744
    mg1982
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,772 ✭✭✭mg1982


    toastedpickles wrote: »
    Me either, it usually just "happens" for me

    You have no problem pulling the ladies then tp. :D


  • #4745
    toastedpickles
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,606 ✭✭✭toastedpickles


    mg1982 wrote: »
    You have no problem pulling the ladies then tp. :D

    Haaaaa :pac:

    I've more bloody problems than a maths book when it comes to that :o


  • #4746
    ShadowHearth
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,924 ✭✭✭✭ShadowHearth


    mg1982 wrote: »
    Embarassing to admit but i have never being on an actual date.

    Not missing out much m8. At this point I prefer having some time with friends and do something fun, then go on date.
    Finding someone, who would be at least on same level of your character is pretty much impossible. And if you are not one of those people who just looking for someone just not to be alone, then you are screwed.
    I started dating only recently too after long term one, which was my only one date back in the day lol. I don't know how people actually enjoy dating lol.


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  • #4747
    Hugo Stiglitz
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,891 ✭✭✭✭Hugo Stiglitz


    I've met up with girls but it was nothing like a date that you would see on TV or in movies.


  • #4748
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 18,161 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    For me, my dates have been more casual meetups for a chat, usually going for a walk or in a pub. Not your typical Hollywood dinner date.


  • #4749
    mg1982
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,772 ✭✭✭mg1982


    ShadowHearth wrote: »
    Not missing out much m8. At this point I prefer having some time with friends and do something fun, then go on date.
    Finding someone, who would be at least on same level of your character is pretty much impossible. And if you are not one of those people who just looking for someone just not to be alone, then you are screwed.
    I started dating only recently too after long term one, which was my only one date back in the day lol. I don't know how people actually enjoy dating lol.

    Id say if i went on a date now i wouldnt know what to do with myself :D. Im not much of a talker either so it would probably be really awkward. Your right though, meeting someone on your own wave length is pretty hard these days or maybe im just on the wrong wave length. :o


  • #4750
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 18,161 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    mg1982 wrote: »
    Id say if i went on a date now i wouldnt know what to do with myself :D. Im not much of a talker either so it would probably be really awkward. Your right though, meeting someone on your own wave length is pretty hard these days or maybe im just on the wrong wave length. :o

    I was always terrified of this, especially on my first one as she had previously said she was quite shy. But she talked more than I did and we got on great! It has been the same on most other dates I was on.

    Even now I'm wondering how I'll get on tomorrow but I'll probably be OK, we've been chatting for a few weeks now.


  • #4751
    kissmequick
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,065 ✭✭✭kissmequick


    I wanna go out! :/ Wish it was possible to just magic people up to go do stuff with! :/


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  • #4752
    chrysagon
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,813 ✭✭✭chrysagon


    magic people up?..visit "rentamob"..


  • #4753
    eternal
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 8,867 ✭✭✭eternal


    I love the wanting to go out when everyone is coming home. Last night was like a zoo. You'd swear people never saw drink before. No sense to it at all.


  • #4754
    eternal
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 8,867 ✭✭✭eternal


    Something a bit sick to start the day.

    http://wundergroundmusic.com/man-doing-cocaine-suffers-friction-burns-to-the-penis-after-he-failed-to-pull-a-girl-on-night-out/


  • #4755
    Gillo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,566 ✭✭✭Gillo


    kissmequick wrote: »
    I wanna go out! :/ Wish it was possible to just magic people up to go do stuff with! :/

    I hate nights like that :-/
    Ended up spending last night drinking wine and watching Impracticable Jokers, it turned out pretty good


  • #4756
    chrysagon
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,813 ✭✭✭chrysagon


    sometimes yer own company is the best company!


  • #4757
    deise08
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,330 ✭✭✭deise08


    But what if your own company is the only company you have?
    Can become hard.


  • #4758
    deise08
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,330 ✭✭✭deise08


    eternal wrote: »
    Something a bit sick to start the day.

    http://wundergroundmusic.com/man-doing-cocaine-suffers-friction-burns-to-the-penis-after-he-failed-to-pull-a-girl-on-night-out/

    That can't be real can it?


  • #4759
    oceanstreet
    Closed Accounts Posts: 177 ✭✭oceanstreet


    deise08 wrote: »
    But what if your own company is the only company you have?
    Can become hard.

    Humans need company, not meant to be on our own for too long otherwise insanity sets in pretty fast.

    Join a club, martial arts, book, knitting, sniper, go karting doesn't matter....choose one and get out there and you'll soon have company!


  • #4760
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 18,161 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    That's something I realised about myself last night. I've felt fairly crappy over the last while and it's because I've been locking myself away as a defence mechanism.

    I think I need some social contact, should get that tonight anyway. :)


  • #4761
    mg1982
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,772 ✭✭✭mg1982


    chrysagon wrote: »
    sometimes yer own company is the best company!

    Company is nice but i like alone time too. You need a balance.


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  • #4762
    Hugo Stiglitz
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,891 ✭✭✭✭Hugo Stiglitz


    Company is great but it has to be the right kind of company, otherwise it'll just drive you mad.


  • #4763
    ShadowHearth
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,924 ✭✭✭✭ShadowHearth


    Meh, I enjoy company when I have it, but at thecsame time I can go days without human contact. It never bothers me. I spend a lot of time on Skype/ventrilo with friends even if I don't play games with them.
    If you can't be happy on your own, who said you will be happy with someone else. Sort out happiness first, then drag someone in to it! :pac:

    Another lady Messeged me first on pof Today. Starting to like it, takes the hassle away lol.


  • #4764
    chrysagon
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,813 ✭✭✭chrysagon


    Its good when the ladies make the first contact


  • #4765
    Autosport
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,280 ✭✭✭✭Autosport


    Evening all, hope your Monday is going well :)


  • #4766
    Hugo Stiglitz
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,891 ✭✭✭✭Hugo Stiglitz


    Autosport wrote: »
    Evening all, hope your Monday is going well :)

    Evening there AS! x :)


  • #4767
    Roquentin
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,130 ✭✭✭Roquentin


    you have to love yourself before you can be loved.


  • #4768
    Hugo Stiglitz
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,891 ✭✭✭✭Hugo Stiglitz


    Roquentin wrote: »
    you have to love yourself before you can be loved.

    Sometimes that can be a hard ask though.


  • #4769
    acuriouscat
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 122 ✭✭acuriouscat


    Just recently single and I must say I hate it!!! It's a cruel world out there in the dating scene, ugh!


  • #4770
    Hugo Stiglitz
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,891 ✭✭✭✭Hugo Stiglitz


    acuriouscat wrote: »
    Just recently single and I must say I hate it!!! It's a cruel world out there in the dating scene, ugh!

    Welcome to the thread friend! :)


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  • #4771
    ShadowHearth
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,924 ✭✭✭✭ShadowHearth


    chrysagon wrote: »
    Its good when the ladies make the first contact

    I actually love it. So far from my own experience, the ladies who messege first ar the most interesting/fun and have highest potential.

    Anyway, cleaned up all house! Poker night today and I am hosting a BBQ tomorrow! If weather ****, then a gaming night with pizza! It will be fun.. I think 8 people so far and only 2 of them non chefs lol.


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