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The Gay Megathread (see mod note on post #2212)

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,063 ✭✭✭Kiwi in IE


    You are aware that C of I was the establishment Church in Ireland, and whilst now portraying a socially liberal outlook have amongst its membership some of the most conservative people you could ever meet. Some ok people too though.

    Catholics have taken a leaf out of the Protestant book in recent decades, in that they don't let the priests push them round, the way some of them used to, hence the bullying charge is OTT IMO.

    I am talking about Ireland today and since the establishment of the free state not prior to it. The RCC has controlled the state since the state was established and is very reluctant to relinquish that control over civic issues, where religion should have no place in a secular republic.

    I am also talking about the C of I and the RCC as organisations and how they represent themselves as such. Whether individual members are very conservative or very liberal is irrelevant.

    Anyhow, we will be told to take this to the Catholic/Protestant thread shortly, so had best get back on topic. My point was that you seem to think there is something wrong with a church telling its members to vote on civic issues according to their conscience. Personally I think that is highly commendable. I also think its deplorable for the opposite to occur where a church tells its members to vote against the equal rights of a minority group.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,218 ✭✭✭✭Bannasidhe


    I'm part of no campaign, pardon the pun. Nothing to do with me.

    You are a No voter.
    On many occasions you have complained of what you feel are unfair tactics on the part of the Yes supporters so I am asking for your insight as a No advocate.
    Do you think it is ok to use blatant lies and emotional manipulation to win?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,372 ✭✭✭steamengine


    Kiwi in IE wrote: »
    I am talking about Ireland today and since the establishment of the free state not prior to it. The RCC has controlled the state since the state was established and is very reluctant to relinquish that control over civic issues, where religion should have no place in a secular republic.

    I am also talking about the C of I and the RCC as organisations and how they represent themselves as such. Whether individual members are very conservative or very liberal is irrelevant.

    Anyhow, we will be told to take this to the Catholic/Protestant thread shortly, so had best get back on topic. My point was that you seem to think there is something wrong with a church telling its members to vote on civic issues according to their conscience. Personally I think that is highly commendable. I also think its deplorable for the opposite to occur where a church tells its members to vote against the equal rights of a minority group.

    Its advising, recommending - that's a big difference.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,063 ✭✭✭Kiwi in IE


    Bannasidhe wrote: »

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    She needs her mother for life? Well she's lucky that she wasn't born to a single mother in the days when representatives of the RCC got away with stealing and selling babies! Did those babies not need their mothers for life too? The irony of the faux concern for children that only rears its head when it is either LGBT parenting or unwanted foetuses being discussed is hilarious!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,063 ✭✭✭Kiwi in IE


    Its advising, recommending - that's a big difference.

    Like it was 'advising, recommending' which way TDs should vote when they were threatened over abortion?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,372 ✭✭✭steamengine


    Bannasidhe wrote: »
    You are a No voter.
    On many occasions you have complained of what you feel are unfair tactics on the part of the Yes supporters so I am asking for your insight as a No advocate.
    Do you think it is ok to use blatant lies and emotional manipulation to win?

    Your assumption is incorrect, I'm not advocating a NO, I'm not that bothered what other people do.

    As a probable NO voter, although I just may very well abstain yet, I will be very surprised if this campaign does not go OTT on both sides. That particular surrogacy poster is a turn off to me, but so is the charge of homophobia against a NO poster voting honestly from religious conviction.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,372 ✭✭✭steamengine


    Kiwi in IE wrote: »
    Like it was 'advising, recommending' which way TDs should vote when they were threatened over abortion?

    I don't know anything about the abortion thing, nor do I want to, way off topic AFAIAC.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,218 ✭✭✭✭Bannasidhe


    Your assumption is incorrect, I'm not advocating a NO, I'm not that bothered what other people do.

    As a probable NO voter, although I just may very well abstain yet, I will be very surprised if this campaign does not go OTT on both sides. That particular surrogacy poster is a turn off to me, but so is the charge of homophobia against a NO poster voting honestly from religious conviction.

    People screaming homophobe at anyone who disagrees is notsomething I agree with - although with the qualification that some people are actually homophobic and should be called on it. But let's stick to the posters for now if that's ok.



    I am genuinely trying to work out why some - and I am not saying you - No supporters believe it is ok to lie. Particularly those who are viewing this referendum through religious eyes. If one's religion is informing one's position then surely one is faced with an ethical dilemma when one sees blatant lies being employed.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,932 ✭✭✭hinault


    Bannasidhe wrote: »
    People screaming homophobe at anyone who disagrees is nothing something I agree with - although with the qualification that some people are actually homophobic and should be called on it. But let's stick to the posters for now if that's ok.



    I am genuinely trying to work out why some - and I am not saying you - No supporters believe it is ok to lie. Particularly those who are viewing this referendum through religious eyes. If one's religion is informing one's position then surely one is faced with an ethical dilemma when one sees blatant lies being employed.

    What lie is the poster (shown on that lamp post) conveying?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,063 ✭✭✭Kiwi in IE


    hinault wrote: »
    What lie is the poster (shown on that lamp post) conveying?

    What is the correlation between the upcoming referendum and surrogacy Hinault?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,218 ✭✭✭✭Bannasidhe


    hinault wrote: »
    What lie is the poster (shown on that lamp post) conveying?

    The lie that voting No will have any impact on whether or not same sex couples or individuals will become parents.

    Gay people are already parents.
    They will continue to become parents.

    Surrogacy is a matter for legislation and what ever is decided neither a Yes or a No vote will have any impact on that. It is a lie to link it to this Referendum.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,932 ✭✭✭hinault


    Bannasidhe wrote: »
    The lie that voting No will have any impact on whether or not same sex couples or individuals will become parents.

    Gay people are already parents.
    They will continue to become parents.

    Surrogacy is a matter for legislation and what ever is decided neither a Yes or a No vote will have any impact on that. It is a lie to link it to this Referendum.

    Well a child can only be conceived by the union of a man and a woman.
    So that union is inherently heterosexual, and not homosexual.

    What lie is the poster (shown on that lamp post) conveying?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,932 ✭✭✭hinault


    The lie is the implication that there is any relationship between this referendum and surrogacy. Surrogacy will continue to occur regardless of the outcome.

    Surrogacy results, and can only result, from a union of male and female.
    A male and female union is a heterosexual union.

    Therefore what lie is the poster (shown on that lamp post) conveying?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,063 ✭✭✭Kiwi in IE


    hinault wrote: »
    Surrogacy results, and can only result, from a union of male and female.
    A male and female union is a heterosexual union.

    Therefore what lie is the poster (shown on that lamp post) conveying?

    What is the correlation between the upcoming referendum and surrogacy?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,218 ✭✭✭✭Bannasidhe


    hinault wrote: »
    Well a child can only be conceived by the union of a man and a woman.
    So that union is inherently heterosexual, and not homosexual.

    What lie is the poster (shown on that lamp post) conveying?

    Did you actually read my response?

    And no - a child is conceived when a oocyte is fertilised by a spermatozoid. This usually - but not exclusively - occurs when a male and a female have sexual intercourse. There is no requirement for the male and female to be married. Sometimes it is not possible for fertilisation to occur during sexual intercourse so other methods are employed. This use of alternative methods is more common among heterosexuals than homosexuals.

    At the moment due to a lack of legislation to regulate surrogacy, the woman who carried the child is considered the mother even though she may not be biologically related to the child. Surrogacy is more common among heterosexuals than homosexuals.

    Now - care to tell us why you believe the poster is relevant to a debate on allowing two people of the same gender enter into a civil contract of marriage?

    Straight answer (pun intended) please and none of your semantics as I really can't be bothered getting into a discussion with someone who only wants to play word games and engage is some ridiculously childish point scoring.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,372 ✭✭✭steamengine


    Bannasidhe wrote: »
    People screaming homophobe at anyone who disagrees is notsomething I agree with - although with the qualification that some people are actually homophobic and should be called on it. But let's stick to the posters for now if that's ok.



    I am genuinely trying to work out why some - and I am not saying you - No supporters believe it is ok to lie. Particularly those who are viewing this referendum through religious eyes. If one's religion is informing one's position then surely one is faced with an ethical dilemma when one sees blatant lies being employed.

    No, it's clearly not ok to lie is the short answer. Time to wrap it in - good night to you all.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,932 ✭✭✭hinault


    Bannasidhe wrote: »
    a child is conceived when a oocyte is fertilised by a spermatozoid. This usually - but not exclusively - occurs when a male and a female have sexual intercourse. There is no requirement for the male and female to be married. Sometimes it is not possible for fertilisation to occur during sexual intercourse so other methods are employed. This use of alternative methods is more common among heterosexuals than homosexuals

    So you do agree that conception is the union of male and female, and is therefore and can only be heterosexual.

    Good.
    Bannasidhe wrote: »
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    At the moment due to a lack of legislation to regulate surrogacy, the woman who carried the child is considered the mother even though she may not be biologically related to the child. Surrogacy is more common among heterosexuals than homosexuals.

    You accept that surrogacy can only result from the union of male and female,
    and is therefore, and can only be, heterosexual in cause?

    Bannasidhe wrote: »
    Now - care to tell us why you believe the poster is relevant to a debate on allowing two people of the same gender enter into a civil contract of marriage?

    Straight answer (pun intended) please and none of your semantics as I really can't be bothered getting into a discussion with someone who only wants to play word games and engage is some ridiculously childish point scoring.

    Surrogacy can only result from the union of male and female, a heterosexual union. That being the case, surrogacy asserts the primacy of heterosexual unions because without a heterosexual union surrogacy is not possible.

    Is surrogacy and the right to homosexual marriage related? Without a heterosexual union creating new life, homosexuals would not be able to adopt what hasn't been created.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,113 ✭✭✭shruikan2553


    hinault wrote: »
    Surrogacy results, and can only result, from a union of male and female.
    A male and female union is a heterosexual union.

    Therefore what lie is the poster (shown on that lamp post) conveying?

    "She needs her mother for life, not just 9 months"

    I'm no doctor but last time I checked a child is capable of surviving without a mother. Statistically a person is more likely to outlive their parents, when the parents die the children don't just vanish or die.

    Then theres the whole thing with surrogacy being used by heterosexual couples but nobody cares what they do because they aren't gay.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,218 ✭✭✭✭Bannasidhe


    hinault wrote: »
    So you do agree that conception is the union of male and female, and is therefore and can only be heterosexual.

    Good.



    You accept that surrogacy can only result from the union of male and female,
    and is therefore, and can only be, heterosexual in cause?




    Surrogacy can only result from the union of male and female, a heterosexual union. That being the case, surrogacy asserts the primacy of heterosexual unions because without a heterosexual union surrogacy is not possible.

    Is surrogacy and the right to homosexual marriage related? Without a heterosexual union creating new life, homosexuals would not be able to adopt what hasn't been created.

    We both know I said nothing of the kind. Sperm can fertilize egg without male ever even meeting female but apparently in your world that is a 'union' so it is clear you have chosen the childish word games response.

    It is a shame that you appear to be incapable of engaging in discussion as an adult but such is life. Some people are like that.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,932 ✭✭✭hinault


    Bannasidhe wrote: »
    We both know I said nothing of the kind. Sperm can fertilize egg without male ever even meeting female but apparently in your world that is a 'union' so it is clear you have chosen the childish word games response.

    There are no childish word games here. Basic human biology perhaps.

    Sperm can only come from a male, and an egg can only come from a female.
    Sperm is intrinsically male, the egg is intrinsically female.

    Male + Female = heterosexual.
    Life can only be conceived through heterosexuality.

    Surrogacy can only result from the successful conception via heterosexuality of human life.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,218 ✭✭✭✭Bannasidhe


    hinault wrote: »
    There are no childish word games here. Basic human biology perhaps.

    Sperm can only come from a male, and an egg can only come from a female.
    Sperm is intrinsically male, the egg is intrinsically female.

    Male + Female = heterosexual.
    Life can only be conceived through heterosexuality.

    Surrogacy can only result from the successful conception via heterosexuality of human life.

    No-one is disputing that males produce sperm and females produce ovum. What is being disputed is that conception only occurs when they have sexual intercourse.

    1978 Louise Brown was born. No sexual intercourse was involved in her conception.
    In vitro fertilization (IVF) is the most common and most effective type of assisted reproductive technology (ART) to help women become pregnant.

    The procedure involves fertilizing an egg outside the body, in a laboratory dish, and then implanting it in a woman's uterus.....

    To date, IVF has contributed to approximately 5 million births.
    http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/262798.php

    5 million children conceived with no sexual intercourse involved.

    So yes - you are playing silly word games again.

    Mind you - it may soon be possible to conceive via a 'lesbian' union - while I am not sure how I feel about this I would enjoy reading your attempts to twist it into being somehow a 'heterosexual' union.

    Scientists from the University of Newcastle upon Tyne led by biologist Karim Nayernia discovered a method of creating partly developed sperm cells, otherwise known as "spermatogonial" stem cells, from the bone marrow of both sexes, entirely in-vitro (outside the human body), and is seeking funding to see whether such techniques can be used to make female sperm....

    If created, a "female sperm" cell could fertilize an egg cell, a procedure that, among other potential applications, might enable female same-sex couples to produce a child that would be the biological offspring of its two mothers. It is also claimed that production of female sperm may stimulate a female to be both the mother and father (similar to asexual reproduction) of an offspring produced by her own sperm even though many queries both ethical as well as moral may arise on these arguments
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_sperm

    You still haven't explained what surrogacy has to do with the Referendum by the way. Did you forget that was the original question?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 310 ✭✭3wayswitch


    hinault wrote: »
    Is surrogacy and the right to homosexual marriage related?

    No. Any homosexual (or heterosexual) couple who wishes to avail of a surrogate can already do so and will still be able to regardless of the result of the forthcoming referendum.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,932 ✭✭✭hinault


    Bannasidhe wrote: »
    No-one is disputing that males produce sperm and females produce ovum. What is being disputed is that conception only occurs when they have sexual intercourse.

    1978 Louise Brown was born. No sexual intercourse was involved in her conception.

    http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/262798.php

    5 million children conceived with no sexual intercourse involved.

    You appear to be trying to dispute it.

    Sexual intercourse? Sexual intercourse is merely one means of enjoining the sperm with the egg.

    Whether conception takes place through sexual intercourse, or conception is derived through some other means, is extraneous to the point that it is only through male + female that human life can be conceived.

    Bannasidhe wrote: »
    You still haven't explained what surrogacy has to do with the Referendum by the way.

    The poster appears to be asserting the primacy of heterosexuality. And the poster appears to be asserting that surrogacy can only result via heterosexual union.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,932 ✭✭✭hinault


    3wayswitch wrote: »
    No. Any homosexual (or heterosexual) couple who wishes to avail of a surrogate can already do so and will still be able to regardless of the result of the forthcoming referendum.

    But you accept that surrogacy can only derive where there has been a heterosexual union. You have no choice but to accept it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,113 ✭✭✭shruikan2553


    hinault wrote: »
    But you accept that surrogacy can only derive where there has been a heterosexual union. You have no choice but to accept it.

    Do you accept that a child doesnt need a mother once born as the poster claims?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,063 ✭✭✭Kiwi in IE


    hinault wrote: »



    The poster appears to be asserting the primacy of heterosexuality. And the poster appears to be asserting that surrogacy can only result via heterosexual union.

    The poster appears to be asserting nothing of the sort! The poster appears to be protesting surrogacy in general and then attempting to mislead people into believing that surrogacy has something to do with the upcoming referendum.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,279 ✭✭✭NuMarvel


    hinault wrote: »
    There are no childish word games here. Basic human biology perhaps.

    Sperm can only come from a male, and an egg can only come from a female.
    Sperm is intrinsically male, the egg is intrinsically female.

    Male + Female = heterosexual.
    Life can only be conceived through heterosexuality.

    Surrogacy can only result from the successful conception via heterosexuality of human life.

    Now tell us how marital status plays a role in any of this, and you could be halfway to explaining the relevance of surrogacy in a discussion about marriage equality.


  • Posts: 24,816 ✭✭✭✭ Perla Little Slipknot


    Your assumption is incorrect, I'm not advocating a NO, I'm not that bothered what other people do.

    As a probable NO voter, although I just may very well abstain yet, I will be very surprised if this campaign does not go OTT on both sides. That particular surrogacy poster is a turn off to me, but so is the charge of homophobia against a NO poster voting honestly from religious conviction.

    This statement doesn't particularly make sense from a NO vote perspective imo.

    A NO vote is a Vote to deny* other people the right to marry. Surely if you weren't fussed/bothered, abstention or a YES vote would make more sense?

    *by non-extension of the right


  • Posts: 24,816 ✭✭✭✭ Perla Little Slipknot


    Read my post s..l..o..w..l..y .

    I did.

    I read a part saying you're not that bothered what other people do.
    Your assumption is incorrect, I'm not advocating a NO, I'm not that bothered what other people do. .
    I then saw the part where you said you are a probable No voter.
    As a probable NO voter, although I just may very well abstain yet, I will be very surprised if this campaign does not go OTT on both sides.
    These don't make a lot of sense, because of what I pointed out.
    This statement doesn't particularly make sense from a NO vote perspective imo.

    A NO vote is a Vote to deny* other people the right to marry. Surely if you weren't fussed/bothered, abstention or a YES vote would make more sense?

    *by non-extension of the right

    These values don't tally. I'm just pointing out the logical flaw.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,372 ✭✭✭steamengine


    I did.

    I read a part saying you're not that bothered what other people do.

    I then saw the part where you said you are a probable No voter.

    These don't make a lot of sense, because of what I pointed out.



    These values don't tally. I'm just pointing out the logical flaw.

    Thank you, I'm still actually thinking the thing through, at the moment it looks like I'll abstain, actually - I do listen and I hope others do to. That's it for now the golf course beckons.


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