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Do you ackowledge other runners or walkers while running?

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    I've only ever done it once, saw a guy doing laps around the park, met him on the way out and said hello. I wouldn't think of doing it mid run, runners I pass always seem so focused on the run I wouldn't want to distract them. If someone waves or smiles or says hi to me I would reciprocate, its never happened yet though.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,420 ✭✭✭Ososlo


    We regularly get some well known runners in our local park. Some acknowledge and some don't so interesting to see how it varies even with the internationals and elites:

    Fionnuala Britton - a glance in my direction and nice smile
    Mary Cullen - didn't appear to see me and whizzed by
    Sophie Duarte - A really nice friendly smile and a 'hi'
    Gary O'Hanlon - passing by me going in same direction - no acknowledgment
    Barbara Sanchez - no acknowledgement

    Edit: Oh I forgot! Belcarra - a half a hello :)

    anyone else?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,742 ✭✭✭ultraman1


    Ososlo wrote: »
    We regularly get some well known runners in our local park. Some acknowledge and some don't so interesting to see how it varies even with the internationals and elites:

    Fionnuala Britton - a glance in my direction and nice smile
    Mary Cullen - didn't appear to see me and whizzed by
    Sophie Duarte - A really nice friendly smile and a 'hi'
    Gary O'Hanlon - passing by me going in same direction - no acknowledgment
    Barbara Sanchez - no acknowledgement
    Kit 3...a middle finger followed by a kick in d crackers

    Edit: Oh I forgot! Belcarra - a half a hello :)

    anyone else?
    fyp


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,420 ✭✭✭Ososlo


    ultraman1 wrote: »
    fyp

    :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 76 ✭✭physiopad


    Ososlo wrote: »
    We regularly get some well known runners in our local park. Some acknowledge and some don't so interesting to see how it varies even with the internationals and elites:

    Fionnuala Britton - a glance in my direction and nice smile
    Mary Cullen - didn't appear to see me and whizzed by
    Sophie Duarte - A really nice friendly smile and a 'hi'
    Gary O'Hanlon - passing by me going in same direction - no acknowledgment
    Barbara Sanchez - no acknowledgement

    Edit: Oh I forgot! Belcarra - a half a hello :)

    anyone else?

    Have met World Champion Rob Heffernan out training and gotten a very friendly hello and he was flying along. :)


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 236 ✭✭kookiebrew


    I heard of frogs turning into princes but...

    He was a farmer from Mayo, they're all built like Brick sh1t houses....

    Running in limerick this evening and passed about 8 other runners, I said hiya to all them and all replied in some way except one girl, everyone that replied I said to myself they must have read this post. Had a nice smile to myself.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 261 ✭✭Ed Mc


    physiopad wrote:
    Have met World Champion Rob Heffernan out training and gotten a very friendly hello and he was flying along. 


    He might be able to help ososlo's mate out in the MARATHON


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,069 ✭✭✭ronn


    When out running a mountain trail I've came across a girl on her own a few times and she won't say hello/acknowledge me, I just put it down to her being cautious.
    But I came across this girl again whilist out walking with my wife, and she didn't look up to say hello,
    Just find it extremely rude,


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 10,862 ✭✭✭✭Murph_D


    Well if she's only a girl, maybe she's a bit shy of grown-ups? :pac:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 763 ✭✭✭gerard_65


    Training in city parks you would be saying hello every couple of seconds if you were to acknowledge ever runner:eek:
    Most of the time I'm so tuned out I don't notice anyone else. The amount of times friends have accused me of ignoring them, I honestly didn't see or hear them.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 763 ✭✭✭gerard_65


    Just walk away:pac:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,420 ✭✭✭Ososlo


    kit3 wrote: »
    If we all did that when asked for help the world would be a poorer place - would hate to see this place get so elitist that we can't entertain the thoughts of someone walking a 10k - we all started somewhere

    ah ffs you're really starting to annoy me now.
    She doesn't want to start running. She wants to walk the fcuking thing! This is a RUNNING forum. We all started somewhere that lead to running. She wants to walk not run. I offered to do a run/walk plan but she didn't want it. she wants walking plan.

    elitist... ffs.. me elitist. I've heard it all now.
    All I did was have a stupid harmless little rant. I thought you were going to let it go!!!!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 763 ✭✭✭gerard_65


    kit3 wrote: »
    If we all did that when asked for help the world would be a poorer place - would hate to see this place get so elitist that we can't entertain the thoughts of someone walking a 10k - we all started somewhere
    I was joking.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,677 ✭✭✭kit3


    Deleting my posts - life's too short for petty squabbling over a difference of opinion.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 763 ✭✭✭gerard_65


    For the record I agree with you, but I knew O was just having a rant and I wasn't going to disagree with her. I'm afraid of her. Did you ever read her log, she's as mad as a hatter, running, thats all she ever thinks about. Complete bonkers:D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,420 ✭✭✭Ososlo


    kit3 wrote: »
    Chill - would hate to see how you would react if someone
    had a serious disagreement with you - all that angst can't be good for you. As I
    said, life's too short
    ha ha please don't tell me to chill again unless you really want to see me angst-ridden :)
    I thought it was all forgotten about yesterday. I had certainly forgotten about it until you dragged it up again today.
    ridiculous...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,370 ✭✭✭pconn062


    Please stop the petty squabbling.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,677 ✭✭✭kit3


    pconn062 wrote: »
    Please stop the petty squabbling.

    Sorry, I'm out of here - won't be dragged in again


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,742 ✭✭✭ultraman1


    Ososlo wrote: »
    She doesn't want to start running. She wants to walk the fcuking thing! She wants to walk not run. !!
    let me recommend Mci...I'm sure they have a training plan


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,545 ✭✭✭tunguska


    ultraman1 wrote: »
    let me recommend Mci...I'm sure they have traininhg plans..

    Boom!!!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,062 ✭✭✭davedanon


    I would whole-heartedly endorse everything KK said in his post, and very well-put it was too. In my own experience, I divide runners into two camps. There are, well, let's call them 'club runners'. These are the epitome of everything Krusty's talking about - friendly, inclusive, aware they are part of a wider community, and who nearly always acknowledge brother/sister runners. The other camp, I call iPhone runners. The machine is clamped to the arm, the headphones are on, and MapMyRun is recording the route/mileage. These, mostly, are the people who don't say hello. In my view this is because their running is different. They aren't part of a collective, a greater whole. They'll never join a running club, but they are in a gym. They go to the gym when it's raining and run on the treadmill. Their physical activities, whatever they may include, are all about 'personal fulfilment'. I suspect some of them don't really enjoy running, and that's why they are put off by bad weather or work/life-enforced inconvenience. When they run, they aren't out in the world, encountering others walking, running, cycling. They are in their zone, and the outside world doesn't really exist.

    Ok, that's my no doubt massive over-generalisation done with. Now down to the specifics. Personally, I always try to acknowledge other runners, and anyone else who's willing to reciprocate, for that matter. If I'm blowing hard, doing a tempo, whatever, I mightn't be willing to spare the breath, but I'll still lift a hand. As to men being the ones who mostly do the ignoring, I'd have to disagree. In my own experience, more women than men just pass on by. I suppose it's got to do with personal security, and a perception of danger, and as a man I'm in no position to tell any woman she's mistaken in doing so, but I still think it's regrettable. I nearly always say hello to female runners, and if I get a response, great. If not, no harm. I certainly don't subscribe to the "say nothing in case they think you're a lech" view. that's more than a bit insecure, I'd have to say.

    As for running on the road, for all the reasons mentioned above, I do it too, unless I think it's actively dangerous. My reply to any drivers who challenge me, or cyclists for that matter, and to be honest I've only experienced it, once, with the latter - is always the same. "When did you last drive/park/cycle on the path?" That's right, the last time you felt like it, or it suited you to do so. Now fcuk off out of my face.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,009 ✭✭✭Firedance


    It seems then that 'in general' guys will respond to guys and girls will respond to girls :-) ill be very interested to see if there's any change on my lunchtime run down the quays on Monday if any of those runners read this thread :-)

    Another reason for running on roads v footpath is tarmac is less harsh on the joints than concrete apparently. I find a little wave of thanks wards off potential angry drivers.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,069 ✭✭✭ronn


    Murph_D wrote: »
    Well if she's only a girl, maybe she's a bit shy of grown-ups? :pac:

    She's a grown up girl, :-)
    Didn't think too much of it when she didn't say hello to me on my own, but when I met her the 2nd time i was with my wife,

    On another note my mother brought us kids to djiouce one Stephens day and we met a priest he didn't say hello either, scared the crap out of my mother she hasn't been back since and has never forgotten it either,


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 270 ✭✭Hani Kosti


    Sum up of today's run
    7 runners - 4 female and 3 male
    Said hello or waved at each of them, ignored by all females and 1 male
    Defo not a gender thing!!!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,272 ✭✭✭Dubgal72


    Trail run in Djouce woods today, everyone said hello but it was definitely along the lines of 'greetings you fellow nutters' (rain, sleet and snow) :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,833 ✭✭✭✭ThisRegard


    Ososlo wrote: »
    anyone else?

    A "good man" from Eamon Coughlan one day while running around the Munich mile, although he wasn't running.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,184 ✭✭✭Spirogyra


    Passed many runners as I ran a miracle 14 miles in hail and floods, the only person to acknowledge me was a female pedestrian,I made an effort to at least casually acknowledge most,just didn't seem to be on their agenda though......


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 76 ✭✭physiopad


    Spirogyra wrote: »
    Passed many runners as I ran a miracle 14 miles in hail and floods, the only person to acknowledge me was a female pedestrian,I made an effort to at least casually acknowledge most,just didn't seem to be on their agenda though......

    Got a "well god bless yer energy" from a nice old lady this morning.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3 Wvrunner


    Yes you should. When I run in USA, everyone nods or smiles or gives you the thumbs up- cyclists are the best!!! It lifts your day. I started a Facebook page AFA- acknowledge your Fellow Athletes to bring attention to this. I'm not a super speedy runner- Im slow and awkward but I'm out there doing the best I can- and for a speedy guy/girl just to acknowledge my effort- well, it makes a huge difference in my run that day- so yes- just nod- it will make you feel good too!!!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,062 ✭✭✭davedanon


    20 miler yesterday. Passed many people: walkers, cyclists, runners. We're in a group of a Sunday morning, so the dynamics of that mean that cycling groups tend to acknowledge us en masse- we're like two flocks of birds tipping the hat to each other or something- meanwhile many walkers, who that early tend to be older and more regular, will say hello or good morning. I did notice one lone female who ran towards us. I was in the lead, and bade her a cheery hello. She went past stone-faced, which had I been on my own would have put down to female caution around lone males. So I asked the guy behind me, and she had blanked everyone; which I have to say is curious. On the other hand, while coming down a steep hill in the waterworks, I encountered two attractive young women. Now A) I was alone, and B) the location could be considered somewhat remote. Yet I got big smiles and hellos from both of them. It cheered me right up, I have to say. Faith in womankind restored.


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