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Travelling

  • 23-12-2013 09:17AM
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 46


    I've heard it said from numerous people that if you want to go travelling then you need to do it after college before you settle down. I don't see why you need to go travelling then, you could go travelling after the kids have left the nest later in life. Plus you would probably be more financially equipt to see more places.


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  • Moderators, Arts Moderators Posts: 36,496 Mod ✭✭✭✭pickarooney


    exactly. why do something tomorrow when you can just do it in thirty years time instead?


  • Subscribers Posts: 19,421 ✭✭✭✭Oryx


    I only looked to see what tracelling was.

    When your kids grow up they will sponge off you till they are 30, and/or have kids themselves and pawn them off on you. Go now.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,533 ✭✭✭SV


    What's the point in that? Go when young and full of life..nah wait till you're old instead cos you might be more financially stable. Silly


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,398 ✭✭✭whatdoicare


    Its gonna look very weird to be in a back packers with a load of twenty year olds when you're in your fifties!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,710 ✭✭✭Balmed Out


    I like a bit of travelling but cant stand those self righteous ejits who think that they have through travelling evolved into some sort of super human who is superior in all ways to those who have not.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,562 ✭✭✭✭Sunnyisland


    After hours don't like travellers...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,230 ✭✭✭Merkin


    Balmed Out wrote: »
    I like a bit of travelling but cant stand those self righteous ejits who think that they have through travelling evolved into some sort of super human who is superior in all ways to those who have not.

    The ones who congregate to the one part of Sydney and only ever mix with other Irish people? They're insufferable.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 46 Shrobbs


    exactly. why do something tomorrow when you can just do it in thirty years time instead?

    Or you could be changing nappies at 40 instead having that all well behind you. There are positives and negatives to both, but too many people think you can only go travelling when young.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 46 Shrobbs


    Its gonna look very weird to be in a back packers with a load of twenty year olds when you're in your fifties!

    Who says you have to back pack with 20 year olds, travel with your husband or wife, like many do.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,208 ✭✭✭✭Cienciano


    The best option is to not have kids and travel whenever the hell you want.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,969 ✭✭✭hardCopy


    If you travel now and spend the next thirty years saving, then you could maybe travel twice.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,990 ✭✭✭longshanks


    There aren't really any age restrictions. Just travel when you want. You'll appreciate different things at different ages.
    Just don't come home wearing beads and talking spirituality shite, 'cos I'll hunt you down and kill you.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,296 ✭✭✭Frank Black


    Shrobbs wrote: »
    I don't see why you need to go travelling then, you could go travelling after the kids have left the nest later in life.

    Or, you know, do both.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,482 ✭✭✭Kidchameleon


    Wait till your kids are in late teens and travel with them


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,963 ✭✭✭Meangadh


    As someone who's only done a little travelling, I'm sorry I didn't do more when I finished college. Between money, less people to travel with (married, babies, work etc), my own work responsibilities, paying a mortgage and all that jazz- I can't see a time when I will be able to afford a big holiday for a very long time (I mean like 20 years!) and I can't imagine being as energetic about traipsing around with a backpack in random places when I'm in my fifties.

    Go when you're young and you've no responsibilities. Besides, you'd never know what the hell life could throw at you so you could be sorry that you put off seeing the world.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 46 Shrobbs


    Meangadh wrote: »
    As someone who's only done a little travelling, I'm sorry I didn't do more when I finished college. Between money, less people to travel with (married, babies, work etc), my own work responsibilities, paying a mortgage and all that jazz- I can't see a time when I will be able to afford a big holiday for a very long time (I mean like 20 years!) and I can't imagine being as energetic about traipsing around with a backpack in random places when I'm in my fifties.

    Go when you're young and you've no responsibilities. Besides, you'd never know what the hell life could throw at you so you could be sorry that you put off seeing the world.

    You don't have to traipse around with a backpack.

    In the last 5 years my aunt and uncle in their late fifties, have been to Alaska, Australia, Egypt, Morocco, several places in America and Canada and a couple others I can't remember.

    In the last year my mother has been on two cruises getting to see a dozen or so cites around Europe and Africa.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,533 ✭✭✭SV


    Shrobbs wrote: »
    You don't have to traipse around with a backpack.

    In the last 5 years my aunt and uncle in their late fifties, have been to Alaska, Australia, Egypt, Morocco, several places in America and Canada and a couple others I can't remember.

    In the last year my mother has been on two cruises getting to see a dozen or so cites around Europe and Africa.
    And you can probably bet that they wish they had done it years ago.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,045 ✭✭✭✭gramar


    Shrobbs wrote: »
    Who says you have to back pack with 20 year olds, travel with your husband or wife, like many do.

    ...and if he or she is 20 then all the better!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 37,923 ✭✭✭✭o1s1n
    Master of the Universe


    SV wrote: »
    And you can probably bet that they wish they had done it years ago.

    My parents have been doing the exact same thing via cruises for the last few years and they couldn't be happier. I really don't see where age comes into it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 46 Shrobbs


    SV wrote: »
    And you can probably bet that they wish they had done it years ago.

    Well then they wouldn't have been able to retire early and be still young enough to see their grand children grow up.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,533 ✭✭✭SV


    o1s1n wrote: »
    My parents have been doing the exact same thing via cruises for the last few years and they couldn't be happier. I really don't see where age comes into it.

    Probably something to do with experiencing life before it's nearly spent.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,533 ✭✭✭SV


    Shrobbs wrote: »
    Well then they wouldn't have been able to retire early and be still young enough to see their grand children grow up.

    Well that's an entirely different argument


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 46 Shrobbs


    SV wrote: »
    Probably something to do with experiencing life before it's nearly spent.

    What difference does it make if your life is "nearly spent". So you are older, so what, you are alive now and able to enjoy the world right now.


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 12,622 Mod ✭✭✭✭Amirani


    Why wait til after college? I visited 25 countries across 4 continents before leaving college. Fair better way to spend money than getting hammered in Coppers 3 nights a week.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 46 Shrobbs


    SV wrote: »
    Well that's an entirely different argument

    All I'm saying is there advantages and disadvantages to both alternatives and saying everyone should travel when they are young isn't necessarily true.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 37,923 ✭✭✭✭o1s1n
    Master of the Universe


    SV wrote: »
    Probably something to do with experiencing life before it's nearly spent.

    My parents are in their late 40s. If their life is 'nearly spent' then we must have reverted to a life expectancy from the middle ages.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,533 ✭✭✭SV


    o1s1n wrote: »
    My parents are in their late 40s. If their life is 'nearly spent' then we must have reverted to a life expectancy from the middle ages.
    If they're in their late 40s and have the freedom to travel then they're extremely lucky and in the minority.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,533 ✭✭✭SV


    Shrobbs wrote: »
    All I'm saying is there advantages and disadvantages to both alternatives and saying everyone should travel when they are young isn't necessarily true.

    No but for the majority of people it is true and makes far more sense than risking it on a whim that you'll be able to when you're older


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 37,923 ✭✭✭✭o1s1n
    Master of the Universe


    SV wrote: »
    If they're in their late 40s and have the freedom to travel then they're extremely lucky and in the minority.

    Did I say they weren't?

    You stated that people who travel when they're older would 'probably have wished they'd done it years ago' - I was addressing that, not whether they were lucky or not.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,533 ✭✭✭SV


    o1s1n wrote: »
    Did I say they weren't?

    You stated that people who travel when they're older would 'probably have wished they'd done it years ago' - I was addressing that, not whether they were lucky or not.
    Oh for gods sake. Yeah, good man.


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