Is sex passionate and meaningful anymore?

ALiasEX · 22-10-2013 02:19AM

"Love ain't what it used to be
That is what they tellin' me
Push it in, stick it out
That ain't what it's all about"

karareilly · 22-10-2013 02:26AM

the sex with my ex was amazing and always meaningful to me.... not once was it just sex!!

Insect Overlord · 22-10-2013 02:52AM

Savoir.Faire wrote: »

If you meet someone who you find physically attractive and if there exists that mysterious chemistry between the pair of you, then a good long porking session is still as enjoyable as ever. The passionate embrace of lovers entwined in each other, the ecstasy of la petite mort, sharing a cigarette post coitus, watching her naked form walk across the room to the bathroom, silently congratulating oneself on another top-class tupping.

And then the cage comes down!

Legs.Eleven · 22-10-2013 06:40AM

Kauto0709 wrote: »

On nights out these days, blokes seem to want to just meet someone to get their h**e with for the night, in fact they seem to expect it, and if a girl says no they can't understand why, they seem to automatically think there's something wrong with you for not wanting to go home with someone you just met and have sex with them! What is the world coming to??!!! What's worse is the girls who do this and give us all a bad name! It's sad but I would have to agree that sex seems to have very little meaning to most people these days. Guys just expect it, there's no getting to know someone first anymore or god forbid exchanging numbers or asking them out on a date.

The only person giving them "a bad name" are people who have similar attitudes to yourself. No one else gives a ****.

Red Nissan · 22-10-2013 10:02AM

Legs.Eleven wrote: »

The only person giving them "a bad name" are people who have similar attitudes to yourself. No one else gives a ****.

That, sir, is exactly the point. And TBH, it is very sad. Life has a cruel way of changing attitudes at times. Stay young.

Tasden · 22-10-2013 10:19AM

Red Nissan wrote: »

And the insecurity of one's partner who may or may not have these fun memories and wondering if, while doing the act, their partner is not in fact actually thinking of those fun times and not of you.

And was he better? Bigger? "Why are you smiling ... "

Tbh if someone is that insecure about the person they're sleeping with and their past experiences then they shouldn't be having sex with that person. Everyone has past partners- whether they were from a LTR, a one night thing, a randomer from the internet. None of that should have a bearing on the sex you are having with them- obviously aside from possible stds and protection.

Legs.Eleven · 22-10-2013 10:29AM

Red Nissan wrote: »

That, sir, is exactly the point. And TBH, it is very sad. Life has a cruel way of changing attitudes at times. Stay young.

The point is most people mind their own business? Good stuff.

22-10-2013 11:36AM

solas111 wrote: »

There would be none of this trouble if it wasn’t for that Gay Byrne and his Late Late Show and that awful Sunday World.

There was no sex in Ireland ‘till they started talking about it on television and putting pictures in the papers of girls with big breasts that had lost their brassieres. You’re all going to burn in hell for putting sinful thoughts in people’s heads. Let’s go back to the old days I say, when there was no sex and it was all Immaculate Conception in Ireland.

That's not what immaculate conception means

Lollipops23 · 22-10-2013 11:50AM

Red Nissan wrote: »

That, sir, is exactly the point. And TBH, it is very sad. Life has a cruel way of changing attitudes at times. Stay young.

Why is it sad that most people don't give a hoot about who sleeps with whom? The way I see it is people's attitudes towards sex is a personal thing and I would never judge or ridicule someone who prefers "relationship only" sex for instance. It's not my business what two consenting adults do in the bedroom.

old hippy · 22-10-2013 12:13PM

theblaqueguy wrote: »

I beg to differ I have graduated with a masters in sex from college I just think your jealous of my exploits with the many different women I have bedded

It's not a competition. Perhaps in the schoolyard it's thought as such but once you get out into the real world, you can bed as many men and women as you like and most people won't give a damn.

Lollipops23 · 22-10-2013 12:19PM

old hippy wrote: »

It's not a competition. Perhaps in the schoolyard it's thought as such but once you get out into the real world, you can bed as many men and women as you like and most people won't give a damn.

Except for some of the posters on this thread apparently.

old hippy · 22-10-2013 12:46PM

Lollipops23 wrote: »

Except for some of the posters on this thread apparently.

I often wonder if sex terrifies them, or they just aren't getting any?

Bolikov · 22-10-2013 12:55PM

old hippy wrote: »

I often wonder if sex terrifies them, or they just aren't getting any?

Usually they aren't getting any. The judgment stems from insecurity I find.

The Backwards Man · 22-10-2013 01:08PM

Seems a lot of people in this thread are in need of a damn good seeing to.

jester77 · 22-10-2013 01:13PM

The Backwards Man wrote: »

Seems a lot of people in this thread are in need of a damn good seeing to.

Lack of sex is not healthy, too many turn to boozing and comfort eating to compensate and then they can't even get into their own pants.

Call Me Jimmy · 22-10-2013 01:49PM

jester77 wrote: »

Lack of sex is not healthy, too many turn to boozing and comfort eating to compensate and then they can't even get into their own pants.

Ha!

pundy · 22-10-2013 02:51PM

its more so the element of meeting a stranger online that i find disturbing, and how willing a lot of people are to go and do that. you dont know what situation you could end up in. im not scaremongering, but jesus it's a stupid thing to be doing...

and just for the record, im getting plenty.

Zubeneschamali · 22-10-2013 02:54PM

pundy wrote: »

its more so the element of meeting a stranger online that i find disturbing

Yes, much safer to get hammered and meet strangers in a dark, noisy nightclub.

pundy · 22-10-2013 03:37PM

Zubeneschamali wrote: »

Yes, much safer to get hammered and meet strangers in a dark, noisy nightclub.

why would ye do that either? the point im making is that casual sex with absolute randomers is wrong - you dont know if that person is HIV, or has any no. of stds, or whether they are psychotic, whether they're gonna give you a hiding, rob you, whether you'll get a hiding off their husband/partner if he walks in, or if you're ruining a marriage/relationship, whether she is going to sober up in the morning and cry rape...

anyway, my point is, it seems to be the "done thing" amongst people who can't get some the normal way - a date and getting to know if someone is a psycho first -

it's like all the ugly/fat people that wouldnt get any another way go online to meet other ugly people so they can add a few notches to their otherwise empty bedpost?

i dunno, it's creepy.

Zubeneschamali · 22-10-2013 03:39PM

pundy wrote: »

the point im making is that casual sex with absolute randomers is wrong

So, nothing to do with the internet at all, so?

pundy · 22-10-2013 03:40PM

Zubeneschamali wrote: »

So, nothing to do with the internet at all, so?

well that's what i mean - clearly from the part of what i said that you chose not to quote.

Zubeneschamali · 22-10-2013 03:44PM

pundy wrote: »

well that's what i mean - clearly from the part of what i said that you chose not to quote.

People can get to know each other online. People can go home with randomers they meet at the church.

Still not really sure what you mean.

pundy · 22-10-2013 03:48PM

Zubeneschamali wrote: »

People can get to know each other online. People can go home with randomers they meet at the church.

Still not really sure what you mean.

i mean - to put it bluntly:

if you go around riding people off the internet on a regular basis you are slut and must have low morals to not even question it.

hook up apps/websites are mainly used by people who want to have an affair and keep it quiet. are you telling me that's not "wrong"???

paulieeye · 22-10-2013 03:51PM

pundy wrote: »

i mean - to put it bluntly:

if you go around riding people off the internet on a regular basis you are slut and must have low morals to not even question it.

hook up apps/websites are mainly used by people who want to have an affair and keep it quiet. are you telling me that's not "wrong"???

You do realise that alot of people use dating sites for relationships and not just hook ups? Have you ever been on a dating site??

chessman · 22-10-2013 03:54PM

BBDBB wrote: »

its even harder when you are trying not to wake your partner

you going solo or what.

Potatoeman · 22-10-2013 03:55PM

pundy wrote: »

i mean - to put it bluntly:

if you go around riding people off the internet on a regular basis you are slut and must have low morals to not even question it.

hook up apps/websites are mainly used by people who want to have an affair and keep it quiet. are you telling me that's not "wrong"???

Depends on the person. Online dating gives you more options and people do go on dates. Its not just for hookups.

Zubeneschamali · 22-10-2013 03:55PM

pundy wrote: »

if you go around riding people off the internet on a regular basis you are slut and must have low morals to not even question it.

Surely if you go around riding people you met in the pub/church/tag rugby on a regular basis, you are in the same boat?

I don't see where the internet comes into it.

Ash.J.Williams · 22-10-2013 03:56PM

jeeeaysus i had great sex last night...awesome

Nodin · 22-10-2013 03:59PM

pundy wrote: »

i mean - to put it bluntly:

if you go around riding people off the internet on a regular basis you are slut and must have low morals to not even question it.

If you go around riding people you pull at the pub on a regular basis are you a slut and must you have low morals to not even question it?

pundy · 22-10-2013 04:00PM

Ash.J.Williams wrote: »

jeeeaysus i had great sex last night...awesome

so did i - with someone i know

Is sex passionate and meaningful anymore?

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