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Do you "play the game" at work?

  • 24-07-2013 05:43PM
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,743 ✭✭✭


    Are you someone who will kiss up to the right person, listen to the dramas of certain people and hang others all in the name of climbing the ladder and getting on, promotions etc? I know there is a certain amount needed to get by in life but on the whole, would you play the game or do you prefer the quiet life of working, coming home and forgetting about it, even if you suffer as a result?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,299 ✭✭✭✭The Backwards Man


    I'd suck my bosses' balls if I could.

    I'm self employed.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,366 ✭✭✭✭Kylo Ren


    I like games.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,408 ✭✭✭Captain_Generic


    I find brooding silently in the corner works for me, content in the fact that if I get in early enough I can dip my balls in the coffee machines water


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,204 ✭✭✭dodderangler


    I'd suck my bosses' balls if I could.

    I'm self employed.

    Then hire some employees and get ya balls sucked off them


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,612 ✭✭✭dobman88


    Yes, im not in work to make friends, im there to climb the ladder, quickly, and look after myself. Promotion would mean more money with a lighter work load so if I hang a few people on the way it wouldn't bother me


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,557 ✭✭✭KeithM89


    Awww i thought you were on about having a danger-**** in a cubicle before someone else came in.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,049 ✭✭✭✭Degag


    Nah, I try to be nice to everyone tbh.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,061 ✭✭✭leggo


    You need to play a certain amount of 'the game' to look after your own best interests, but you also need to be able to stick up for yourself and take 'the man' to task too. That's something I think I've balanced out over the past couple of years.

    Ireland favours people who play the game, we're too lazy and apathetic in our work lives to judge people on merit. I've been the guy who tells my bosses off and it's **** on actual good work I've done. You get no thanks being a rebel without a cause. It's a dumb naive attitude, not brave and rebellious as it's often made out to be.


  • Site Banned Posts: 19 Das Kissen


    I live my life through the 48 laws of power by Robert Green.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,247 ✭✭✭✭B.A._Baracus


    I never 'played the game' in any job I had. My mentality was always screw the job. They are employing me now but could be sent down the road in 6 months.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,650 ✭✭✭✭minidazzler


    I love my job, but I kiss up to no one, I drink with and talk to everyone (it's a bar). I'm more friendly with some than others, but I'm friendly with everyone, If someone pisses me off I'll tell them.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,840 ✭✭✭Rezident


    No which is partly why I don't get promoted but I'd rather go home early and do important stuff instead.

    Like right now I'm sitting in my pants, eating chocolate and watching Barcelona while my colleagues will all be in work for at least another hour or so :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,801 ✭✭✭Ruudi_Mentari


    I'd suck my bosses' balls if I could.

    I'm self employed.

    Sickophant!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 200 ✭✭Citycap


    I'd do anything to move up the ladder and away from the common folk


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,648 ✭✭✭Cody Pomeray


    At first I thought you meant charades.
    Anyone remember this classic on a Saturday evening?

    Yes, charades, *live on TV*



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,461 ✭✭✭--Kaiser--


    There's being successful at all costs and there's being able to look at yourself in the mirror in the morning.
    So, no, I don't play 'the game'


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,995 ✭✭✭Sofiztikated


    Not particularly. A promotion above where I am at the moment means a fúckton more work, for very little payoff.

    Was previously at a higher level, and I stepped down. Couldn't deal with the stress, was affecting my relationship, my happiness, and my health. Wasn't worth it.

    On the other hand, it does seem like the ones that do well, don't particularly give a fúck about the work.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 43 George Huxley 1983


    dobman88 wrote: »
    Yes, im not in work to make friends, im there to climb the ladder, quickly, and look after myself. Promotion would mean more money with a lighter work load so if I hang a few people on the way it wouldn't bother me

    This man has obviously never been promoted before


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,387 ✭✭✭witnessmenow


    I think everyone plays the game a little bit. Ever go on work nights out that you didnt want to go on just cause you should show face... playing the game right there


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,461 ✭✭✭--Kaiser--



    On the other hand, it does seem like the ones that do well, don't particularly give a fúck about the work.

    In my experience, many business people who climb the ladder just play the game, suck up the right people, hang the right people, take credit for other peoples work and are generally worse than useless at their job, and I mean criminally inept. They also seem to be people with no friends or life outside of work


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34,788 ✭✭✭✭krudler


    Nope, I come in, do my job and go home. There's way too much bullsh1t and drama and cliquey behaviour in here as it is.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 981 ✭✭✭Stojkovic


    krudler wrote: »
    Nope, I come in, do my job and go home. There's way too much bullsh1t and drama and cliquey behaviour in here as it is.
    Me too.
    And God help anyone who tries to hang me or grass on me. I hate snakes.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 95 ✭✭ILikeFriday


    What shocks me, and maybe I'm naive, is the extent to which "playing the game" actually works.

    Can everyone else in the office not see when one person has taken credit for anothers work, when someone has exercised a complete double-standards in how they treat people, when someones work "friends" are a bunch that is exclusively made up of the "right" people?


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,463 ✭✭✭Celly Smunt


    Yes I do,work isn't a place to be personal,its work.Ill step all over anybody's toes if I know it will benefit me.I might sound like a dick saying it that way,but im not in work to make friends or stagnate with a group of people.Its not college,its work.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,305 ✭✭✭April O Neill


    What shocks me, and maybe I'm naive, is the extent to which "playing the game" actually works.

    I know, it's depressing.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,305 ✭✭✭April O Neill


    Yes I do,work isn't a place to be personal,its work.Ill step all over anybody's toes if I know it will benefit me.I might sound like a dick saying it that way

    Yup.

    Nobody said you have to be friends with your colleagues but why does that mean one must walk all over people?


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,463 ✭✭✭Celly Smunt


    Yup.

    Nobody said you have to be friends with your colleagues but why does that mean one must walk all over people?

    Why should I sit back for the people I don't know to step all over me?.In work you either grab it or watch somebody else take it,and im not prepared to allow somebody else take for the sake of being nice to people.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 95 ✭✭ILikeFriday


    Why should I sit back for the people I don't know to step all over me?.In work you either grab it or watch somebody else take it,and im not prepared to allow somebody else take for the sake of being nice to people.

    Ok, you've made it clear being nice to these people for the sake of being nice isn't important to you, but do you not worry that this tactic will come back to haunt you? If you annoy enough people, could that not have a detrimental affect on you at all?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,305 ✭✭✭April O Neill


    Why should I sit back for the people I don't know to step all over me?.In work you either grab it or watch somebody else take it

    You don't have to sit back and "let somebody else take it". Being assertive without being a cock is possible, though not everyone is blessed with this skill.


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,463 ✭✭✭Celly Smunt


    Ok, you've made it clear being nice to these people for the sake of being nice isn't important to you, but do you not worry that this tactic will come back to haunt you? If you annoy enough people, could that not have a detrimental affect on you at all?

    Not really,its not like im making their lives hell or being in their face all the time.Im just saying when the situation arises when its me against somebody else I'll favour myself always and never be guilty about the other person.


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