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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,933 ✭✭✭robp


    Zombrex wrote: »
    Just a point. Parents, particularly fathers, are actually spending more time with their kids than they used to (up to 10 times more in the case of fathers).

    Ironically they are worrying about not spending time with their kids more as well, and as such despite spending more time with their kids than their parents or grandparents generation they still feel they are not spending enough time with them.

    Its a bit like how crime keeps falling but fear of crime keeps raising as people with greater access to information about crime notice it more than previous generations and incorrectly assume there is more of it about.

    As parents have more and more access to information about parenting, despite greatly improving parental care they offer over a generations ago, they still feel they are not doing enough because it being a good parent is so visible these days.

    Which I guess is no harm to push yourself to be a better parents, so long as it doesn't cause you to become a stressed out wreck.

    Anyway, just an aside.

    There is a view that the recession has reduced work opportunities and driven parents back to their families compared to the height of the boom years. Its a view and it may or may not be true. However if you look at it over the longer term there is no possibility whatsoever that children today receive more parent time than say 25 or 50 years ago as the numbers of mothers in the workplace has grown enormously and they are staying there. Now certainly parents are more educated now and fathers in particular probably make more effort to be a 'good parent' but the actual contact hours as a whole must be less than in previous generations.

    Sorry for drifting the thread.
    StudentDad wrote: »
    Religious institutions are private organisations that are unelected and unaccountable to the electorate - the State - part of the reason for the separation of church and state.

    The time wasted in schools on religious activities that ought to be taken care of outside school hours is unfortunate and unnecessary.

    If parents want their children to have a particular 'ethos' in a school to my mind that is a private desire that does not deserve state funding.


    SD

    There is no compelling reason why the system should be homogenised. As long there is public demand there isn't any grounds for a one size fits all curriculum. Such calls are purely idealogical and not rooted in education achievement or even spending efficiently.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,525 ✭✭✭StudentDad


    robp wrote: »
    There is no compelling reason why the system should be homogenised. As long there is public demand there isn't any grounds for a one size fits all curriculum. Such calls are purely idealogical and not rooted in education achievement or even spending efficiently.

    We'll have to agree to differ on that I'm afraid. Cost has always been trotted out as an excuse for the current mess that is our school system.

    We need a school system that is inclusive of all citizen regardless of their beliefs. To my mind 'belief' should be left at the school gate. The current system promotes division and does nothing to help children who are forced through a school day that contains religious elements that have nothing to do with their lives.

    SD


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,070 ✭✭✭homer911


    StudentDad wrote: »
    We need a school system that is inclusive of all citizen regardless of their beliefs.

    As a Christian, I agree absolutely - the school system should be representative of the type of education parents want for their children
    StudentDad wrote: »
    To my mind 'belief' should be left at the school gate.

    Beliefs are not something that can be left at the school gate - you either have them or you don't, but you cant put them aside just to suit someone else. You can however act in a way which respects the beliefs (or non-beliefs) of others - and that applies to those without beliefs, just as much as it does to those with them - its very much a two way street, unfortunately the people who are most outspoken want a one way street to suit themselves only..


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,525 ✭✭✭StudentDad


    homer911 wrote: »
    As a Christian, I agree absolutely - the school system should be representative of the type of education parents want for their children

    Beliefs are not something that can be left at the school gate - you either have them or you don't, but you cant put them aside just to suit someone else. You can however act in a way which respects the beliefs (or non-beliefs) of others - and that applies to those without beliefs, just as much as it does to those with them - its very much a two way street, unfortunately the people who are most outspoken want a one way street to suit themselves only..

    When the State is paying the bill having a system that places one religious belief ahead of others in an educational setting is to my mind incorrect. It is not the place of the state to fund the religious education of a particular section of society.

    If parents want a specific religious education for their children frankly they should fund that cost themselves. The current system marginalises and excludes those who are forced to send their children to a particular 'faith' school, mainly because there are no viable alternatives.

    To my mind schools should not promote any particular belief system and should welcome all citizens equally on that basis. Following on from that if parents want their children to be educated in a particular religious denomination, that inculcation should occur outside of school hours where parents frankly can better participate in such activities.

    SD


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,933 ✭✭✭robp


    StudentDad wrote: »
    We'll have to agree to differ on that I'm afraid. Cost has always been trotted out as an excuse for the current mess that is our school system.

    We need a school system that is inclusive of all citizen regardless of their beliefs. To my mind 'belief' should be left at the school gate. The current system promotes division and does nothing to help children who are forced through a school day that contains religious elements that have nothing to do with their lives.

    SD

    The cost argument is baloney. As it stands the schools are overwhelmingly Catholic and there are already usually small by international standards. Thus Irish school size is low due to reasons that must be unrelated to attempts to create ETs or VECs. If you want to reduce costs go head and close schools but there is no reason why schools couldn't be rationalised while still maintaining a variety of choices. It is only in the most remote rural areas while only a tiny minority lives is a variety of school choices not feasible. It is unlikely that schools are going to be rationalised any time soon as it is problematic and political dangerous so the Irish system may continue to be usually well suited to a denominal schools approach for the foreseeable future.
    When the State is paying the bill having a system that places one religious belief ahead of others in an educational setting is to my mind incorrect. It is not the place of the state to fund the religious education of a particular section of society.

    One system is treated not above others. Each are given the pre-eminence according to local demand.

    Although we know there is shortage of ETs locally there is no evidence of the widespread exclusion and marginalisation which you suggest.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,525 ✭✭✭StudentDad


    robp wrote: »
    The cost argument is baloney. As it stands the schools are overwhelmingly Catholic and there are already usually small by international standards. Thus Irish school size is low due to reasons that must be unrelated to attempts to create ETs or VECs. If you want to reduce costs go head and close schools but there is no reason why schools couldn't be rationalised while still maintaining a variety of choices. It is only in the most remote rural areas while only a tiny minority lives is a variety of school choices not feasible. It is unlikely that schools are going to be rationalised any time soon as it is problematic and political dangerous so the Irish system may continue to be usually well suited to a denominal schools approach for the foreseeable future.


    One system is treated not above others. Each are given the pre-eminence according to local demand.

    Although we know there is shortage of ETs locally there is no evidence of the widespread exclusion and marginalisation which you suggest.


    You're missing the point.

    As it stands these 'Catholic' schools you mention are funded by the State. If you want a system of 'Catholic' (or any other faith for that matter) schools they should be wholly funded by the parents who choose to send their children to such schools. Bearing in mind that these schools should be subject to the full weight of equality legislation and any exceptions in that legislation should be removed.

    Just because the system 'is' does not make it correct.

    The denominal approach you seem to recommend does nothing for social inclusiveness and frankly is a waste of resources.

    SD


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,070 ✭✭✭homer911


    StudentDad wrote: »
    The denominal approach you seem to recommend does nothing for social inclusiveness and frankly is a waste of resources. SD

    You cant talk about social inclusiveness and then demand that everyone else changes their views to suit yours. Your argument is only relevant based on facts and figures. Show me, say, a catholic school which has say a 90% non-catholic student roll and I will agree with you. There is no
    empirical evidence to support the notion that non-catholic pupils in a catholic school are somehow socially excluded.

    For the record, my children attend a protestant school which has a significant catholic student group and its fully inclusive - to the point where nobody asks, cares or complains

    I presume that you would be happy to bear the full economic cost of your child attending a non-denominational school..


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,682 ✭✭✭Gumbi


    homer911 wrote: »
    You cant talk about social inclusiveness and then demand that everyone else changes their views to suit yours. Your argument is only relevant based on facts and figures. Show me, say, a catholic school which has say a 90% non-catholic student roll and I will agree with you. There is no
    empirical evidence to support the notion that non-catholic pupils in a catholic school are somehow socially excluded.

    For the record, my children attend a protestant school which has a significant catholic student group and its fully inclusive - to the point where nobody asks, cares or complains

    I presume that you would be happy to bear the full economic cost of your child attending a non-denominational school..
    Well, don't you need a baptisimal certificate to register in a Catholic school? So, it's not like there's much choice in the matter...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,525 ✭✭✭StudentDad


    homer911 wrote: »
    You cant talk about social inclusiveness and then demand that everyone else changes their views to suit yours. Your argument is only relevant based on facts and figures. Show me, say, a catholic school which has say a 90% non-catholic student roll and I will agree with you. There is no
    empirical evidence to support the notion that non-catholic pupils in a catholic school are somehow socially excluded.

    For the record, my children attend a protestant school which has a significant catholic student group and its fully inclusive - to the point where nobody asks, cares or complains

    I presume that you would be happy to bear the full economic cost of your child attending a non-denominational school..

    I'm not asking you to change your views. Whatever your beliefs are frankly they're unimportant to me.

    However, this country is supposed to be a Republic with a definite separation of church and state. That being the case the State should not be funding the religious education of private citizens.

    As I said earlier to my mind if religion is taught in schools it should be an exam subject that covers all religious belief in a non-biased manner. Students should be able to decide if they want to study this accordingly. Otherwise reference to religion should remain outside.

    There are private schools all over this country who derive their income from fees. I have no problem with such institutions so long as they do not try to tap the public purse for funds and adhere to equality legislation.

    So long as the State pays the bill to my mind 'religious studies' that are not an exam subject should remain separate.

    SD


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,070 ✭✭✭homer911


    StudentDad wrote: »
    I'm not asking you to change your views. Whatever your beliefs are frankly they're unimportant to me.

    But you want my children and the future children of this country to leave their beliefs at the school gate??
    StudentDad wrote: »
    However, this country is supposed to be a Republic with a definite separation of church and state.

    Says who? There isn't!
    StudentDad wrote: »
    As I said earlier to my mind if religion is taught in schools it should be an exam subject that covers all religious belief in a non-biased manner.

    It usually is - its the "add-ons" associated with religous ethos schools that I think you have issue with - probably without any clear picture of what these actually are other than your own personal experiences
    StudentDad wrote: »
    Students should be able to decide if they want to study this accordingly.

    There is a school curriculum with mandatory subjects. Should children be allowed to opt out of History? CSPE? Maths? If they dont agree with it?
    Would you prefer children grow up ignorant of the reasons why Muslims are killing each other and Christians?
    StudentDad wrote: »
    There are private schools all over this country who derive their income from fees. I have no problem with such institutions so long as they do not try to tap the public purse for funds and adhere to equality legislation.
    So if an school has a religous ethos which impacts say 5% of the school day, the entire cost of the school should be borne by the parents?? Have you any idea of the cost of this? Atheists are now establishing atheist churches - perhaps they should be classed as a religion?

    The state could not afford to force those attending religous ethos schools to pay for the full cost of their education - because nobody could afford it, and because the state couldn't afford to buy or build or run the schools for so many additional pupils who could not afford the fees in the religous schools..
    StudentDad wrote: »
    So long as the State pays the bill to my mind 'religious studies' that are not an exam subject should remain separate.
    SD

    Let the state pay the full bill then - we can all expect to pay higher taxes, have no school costs and no vested interests in our children's education or the environment in which they learn. Welcome to your Utopia..


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,644 ✭✭✭✭lazygal


    homer911 wrote: »
    Let the state pay the full bill then - we can all expect to pay higher taxes, have no school costs and no vested interests in our children's education or the environment in which they learn. Welcome to your Utopia..

    Would you be happy to bear the full economic cost of faith based education for your children in the event the entire public school system was secular?


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,933 ✭✭✭robp


    Gumbi wrote: »
    Well, don't you need a baptisimal certificate to register in a Catholic school? So, it's not like there's much choice in the matter...

    This kind of thing only occurred when a place shortage developed. I think the average school would not care at all if there was space for all. Most people I would be familiar with will have had non-catholic peers in the catholic schools they went to.

    Overall its very difficult to say what is the norm when so much has been anecdotal.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,525 ✭✭✭StudentDad


    homer911 wrote: »
    But you want my children and the future children of this country to leave their beliefs at the school gate??

    No I want the children of this state to be educated in a setting that does not incorporate a particular religion as being dominant. A system of education that encourages children to recognise diversity in society. A system of education that teaches that all citizens are equal.


    Says who? There isn't!

    Time will tell. Society is changing. Power in society flows from the people through it's elected representatives which forms the State. When religious groups run for election, then I'll listen to them.


    It usually is - its the "add-ons" associated with religous ethos schools that I think you have issue with - probably without any clear picture of what these actually are other than your own personal experiences

    As I said if you want to educate your children in a 'religious' ethos that is your decision. It isn't the place of the state to pay for the education of children in the beliefs of an unelected, private enterprise.


    There is a school curriculum with mandatory subjects. Should children be allowed to opt out of History? CSPE? Maths? If they dont agree with it?
    Would you prefer children grow up ignorant of the reasons why Muslims are killing each other and Christians?


    The media is doing a rather good job of informing citizens of religious fundamentalism. Whether religion is taught in school or not will not alter this.

    I'd rather children took up history in greater numbers. As I said I do not feel that religion should be compulsory in school as it is something that is a private matter and should be dealt with at home.

    So if an school has a religous ethos which impacts say 5% of the school day, the entire cost of the school should be borne by the parents?? Have you any idea of the cost of this? Atheists are now establishing atheist churches - perhaps they should be classed as a religion?

    As it stands the State has paid for the upkeep of buildings in private/church ownership for decades. These buildings should be passed to State ownership.


    Your statement is in bold, my replies below in regular text.

    SD


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,497 ✭✭✭✭VinLieger


    Lets be honest its not Religion thats being taught in schools its Catholicism which is only one religion. If we are gonna have religion in schools then it needs to be taught as a subject where children learn the philosophies and historys of all major religions and are properly examined on it and if parents want to encourage they're own beliefs onto their child its up to them to do it in their own time and at their own cost


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,682 ✭✭✭Gumbi


    Btw, Homer, Atheism BY DEFINITION is not a religion. Much the same as theism. So please don't mention that "church" again.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,070 ✭✭✭homer911


    VinLieger wrote: »
    Lets be honest its not Religion thats being taught in schools its Catholicism which is only one religion. If we are gonna have religion in schools then it needs to be taught as a subject where children learn the philosophies and historys of all major religions and are properly examined on it and if parents want to encourage they're own beliefs onto their child its up to them to do it in their own time and at their own cost

    Have you even looked at the RE curriculum in schools? particularly in secondary schools?


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,933 ✭✭✭robp


    homer911 wrote: »
    Have you even looked at the RE curriculum in schools? particularly in secondary schools?

    That is the thing. None of these criticisms acknowledge that all major religions are covered in the curriculum and in a respectful way too. I remember covering religions as specialised as ancient Polynesia and traditional African systems.

    I don't believe one can study maths as an observer so why should religion automatically be taught from an observer perspective. I don't feel one has to be a believer to study religions but it certainly is a valid approach.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,080 ✭✭✭lmaopml


    StudentDad wrote: »
    I'm not asking you to change your views. Whatever your beliefs are frankly they're unimportant to me.

    I don't think that is entirely the truth!
    However, this country is supposed to be a Republic with a definite separation of church and state. That being the case the State should not be funding the religious education of private citizens.

    That would include yourself?
    As I said earlier to my mind if religion is taught in schools it should be an exam subject that covers all religious belief in a non-biased manner.

    Well, you see that kind of says that you would like a 'non-denominational' system and to exlude any kind of public worship at all -
    Students should be able to decide if they want to study this accordingly. Otherwise reference to religion should remain outside.

    Give a good reason? Perhaps it held you back in some ways and that's your testimony, but the statistics for 'faith' ethos schools says different -


    There are private schools all over this country who derive their income from fees. I have no problem with such institutions so long as they do not try to tap the public purse for funds and adhere to equality legislation.

    Well, that's where you are wrong - the teachers are paid from the public purse, because they are providing a 'public' service to the 'public'...
    So long as the State pays the bill to my mind 'religious studies' that are not an exam subject should remain separate.

    It IS a subject, an exam subject no less where they are taught about all faiths in the curriculum, that the world is not necessarily a Christian world - and they are not hidden away from the world - students are not 'idiots' or taught to be such?

    - they are brought up in a school with an ethos, a Christian one, not an Atheist one, but they are not taught to be unthinking, their grades speak for themselves, and of course the demand that parents have to get their children into faith ethos schools speaks for itself. Especially in countries where the state public system has been rolled out in the secular way.

    Personally, I think that it would be cool to introduce students to the great philosophers actual teaching rather than merely the historical impact ( they know the poets ) but also the great philosophers, and thinkers too, in 5th year and have some cool discussion in religious education, rather than wait years for people to introduce such things on the 'internet' - I think it's the one thing lacking in the system that genuine question and answer sessions are not engaged in.

    To be honest, I had a pretty cool religious teacher, but that was only in 5th year - prior to that they were ok and child friendly, but my 5th class teacher was really really cool...It made the difference - he knew what he was talking about!

    LM.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,063 ✭✭✭Kiwi in IE


    robp wrote: »
    There is a view that the recession has reduced work opportunities and driven parents back to their families compared to the height of the boom years. Its a view and it may or may not be true. However if you look at it over the longer term there is no possibility whatsoever that children today receive more parent time than say 25 or 50 years ago as the numbers of mothers in the workplace has grown enormously and they are staying there. Now certainly parents are more educated now and fathers in particular probably make more effort to be a 'good parent' but the actual contact hours as a whole must be less than in previous generations.

    I am no expert on the subject and am basing this on personal opinion not research, but I am not sure the above is correct.

    Before contraception was widely available and it was not unusual to have 10 or 12 children, how much 'parent time' do you think these children got? Men went out to work and women stayed home. If you were solely responsible for the feeding, washing, and cleanliness of family of 12 or 14 people, I imagine there would be very little time for any personal, quality interactions with 10 to 12 individual children.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,080 ✭✭✭lmaopml


    Kiwi in IE wrote: »
    I am no expert on the subject and am basing this on personal opinion not research, but I am not sure the above is correct.

    Before contraception was widely available and it was not unusual to have 10 or 12 children, how much 'parent time' do you think these children got? Men went out to work and women stayed home. If you were solely responsible for the feeding, washing, and cleanliness of family of 12 or 14 people, I imagine there would be very little time for any personal, quality interactions with 10 to 12 individual children.

    I'm the youngest of eight children, and it was very very very cool having the camaraderie of a close family, having brothers and sisters, and still having them - and the love and example of amazing parents. I don't think I could possibly explain or even begin to imagine the amazing parents I had, that even thought that they could possibly have me - no. eight! All I can say is 'Wow', and really really thankyou for giving me 'life'....

    I wouldn't be posting here if they didn't. They were amazing, my parents! I love them.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,063 ✭✭✭Kiwi in IE


    homer911 wrote: »
    unfortunately the people who are most outspoken want a one way street to suit themselves only..

    This is very evident to me, as I have no realistic choice but to send my child to a school that is going to attempt to teach him religion as fact. A one way street that suits Catholics it definately is! If you truly preferred a two way street you would be in favour of secular schools that are appropriate to every child, of any religion or none.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,080 ✭✭✭lmaopml


    Kiwi in IE wrote: »
    This is very evident to me, as I have no realistic choice but to send my child to a school that is going to attempt to teach him religion as fact. A one way street that suits Catholics it definately is! If you truly preferred a two way street you would be in favour of secular schools that are appropriate to every child, of any religion or none.

    Kiwi, speaking frankly, there was a time in the history of our very young state when Catholics couldn't be educated at all - we weren't allowed because of the 'State'. I don't mean to be 'mean' but this is the truth -

    Our state is a 'young' state - we're finding our way - not everybody is out to control a child's education, we're dealing with what we have right now - perhaps it's time to trust others and not demonise people?

    I love seeing the adversity in my childs school, he is friends with people of so many different ethnic and religious backgrounds and yet he attends a Catholic school because normal folk realise that it's important to give a welcome hand and love to kids.

    The country will find some kind of equilibrium, but I think that demonising those who love their Catholic ethos or Christian ethos schools is really cutting off our nose despite our face - we're 'people' we're not baddies, we're just parents like every other parent. No different. We live in this country with this history, but you can't re-write it - no more than anybody else can..


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,063 ✭✭✭Kiwi in IE


    lmaopml wrote: »
    So basically your worldview trumps other citizens simply because you hold it? That's nice.

    Is it nice? Catholics are in a great position to be able to tell the rest of us how nice it is.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,080 ✭✭✭lmaopml


    Kiwi in IE wrote: »
    Is it nice? Catholics are in a great position to be able to tell the rest of us how nice it is.

    No, Catholics fund raised in the community when they could in order to set up schools and parishes and in order to set up some kind of education system for children who otherwise would have been illiterate.

    They, hid, they fought, they died, they worked and campaigned in order to 'build' - they didn't just 'apply' for funding to an apparently lovely state of the nice people that run the state all the time -

    That's where you are wrong - blood, sweat and tears and effort went into every single brick of every single school built since independence -

    Now, you can have a 'so what' attitude if you like, but it's not very complimentary to those who went before you?

    .. and didn't expect everything to fall into place just because they decided after they were born that the world should just be the way they think it should be and it owes them because they walk on it.

    That's not life - that's a big fiction!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,063 ✭✭✭Kiwi in IE


    lmaopml wrote: »
    Kiwi, speaking frankly, there was a time in the history of our very young state when Catholics couldn't be educated at all - we weren't allowed because of the 'State'. I don't mean to be 'mean' but this is the truth -

    Our state is a 'young' state - we're finding our way - not everybody is out to control a child's education, we're dealing with what we have right now - perhaps it's time to trust others and not demonise people?

    I love seeing the adversity in my childs school, he is friends with people of so many different ethnic and religious backgrounds and yet he attends a Catholic school because normal folk realise that it's important to give a welcome hand and love to kids.

    The country will find some kind of equilibrium, but I think that demonising those who love their Catholic ethos or Christian ethos schools is really cutting off our nose despite our face - we're 'people' we're not baddies, we're just parents like every other parent. No different. We live in this country with this history, but you can't re-write it - no more than anybody else can..

    I find it a bit difficult to get my head around the argument 'because we were oppressed in the past, now we are going to oppress everybody else'.

    I have no choice but to send my child to a religious school. I have chosen COI because I prefer it to Catholicism, but it is still religious. I am atheist and I don't want him taught religious beliefs or practices as reality. Now I don't expect, or even desire, an atheist school. I don't want my child taught officially that there is no god anymore than I want him taught that there is one. I would rather he were taught only what different groups believe and which practices are attributed to which religion. Religious people seem to get confused between atheist and secular schools. Secular schools are suitable for everyone whether atheist, Christian, Muslim or Scientology. No religion is dismissed but neither is any taught as the 'true religion' and presented as fact.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,080 ✭✭✭lmaopml


    Kiwi in IE wrote: »
    I find it a bit difficult to get my head around the argument 'because we were oppressed in the past, now we are going to oppress everybody else'.

    Who is being oppressed?
    I have no choice but to send my child to a religious school. I have chosen COI because I prefer it to Catholicism, but it is still religious. I am atheist and I don't want him taught religious beliefs or practices as reality. Now I don't expect, or even desire, an atheist school. I don't want my child taught officially that there is no god anymore than I want him taught that there is one. I would rather he were taught only what different groups believe and which practices are attributed to which religion. Religious people seem to get confused between atheist and secular schools. Secular schools are suitable for everyone whether atheist, Christian, Muslim or Scientology. No religion is dismissed but neither is any taught as the 'true religion' and presented as fact.

    Well, then I will make a suggestion - get up off your bum cheeks, and meet people like you and apply for state funding to open an ET school, you lucky person who can 'apply' for state funding! - and while you are at it, ask Catholics in the area to recommend that it's necessary, and ask for their recommendation, do a survey - because I don't think you will find a single parish that will deny you an ET school, or parents who want to control you -

    You may find a Catholic school that accomodates others and truly loves them and the diversity - just like my little boys school - but you won't find parents who even feel the remote need to control you or your choice -

    The opening of a school is not up to 'me' - I'm Catholic, my ancestors built and fought hard to open education at all to Irish people - the opening of another 'ethos' school is up to YOU, and your effort, and I am not your enemy - that's a lie, it's not the truth at all - it's the worst lie ever.

    It's up to you though, not to 'grumble' and moan, but DO something, nothing happens unless people 'do'.....just like Catholics did right here not so long ago.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,933 ✭✭✭robp


    Kiwi in IE wrote: »
    I find it a bit difficult to get my head around the argument 'because we were oppressed in the past, now we are going to oppress everybody else'.

    I have no choice but to send my child to a religious school. I have chosen COI because I prefer it to Catholicism, but it is still religious. I am atheist and I don't want him taught religious beliefs or practices as reality. Now I don't expect, or even desire, an atheist school. I don't want my child taught officially that there is no god anymore than I want him taught that there is one. I would rather he were taught only what different groups believe and which practices are attributed to which religion. Religious people seem to get confused between atheist and secular schools. Secular schools are suitable for everyone whether atheist, Christian, Muslim or Scientology. No religion is dismissed but neither is any taught as the 'true religion' and presented as fact.

    Not if you oft-out. Their is huge chunk of the population who does have access to ET or VEC schools. The reality is no one is forcing religious instruction on your kids. Additionally you chose to live in a certain suburb or rural area lacking your school preference. If I choose to live in Mayo I could not expect the elite Dublin 4 education that I might well prefer. That is life. That is not 'oppression'. Maybe in the future it will be different but not yet as school infrastructure is costly to set up and slow to adapt.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,933 ✭✭✭robp


    Kiwi in IE wrote: »
    I am no expert on the subject and am basing this on personal opinion not research, but I am not sure the above is correct.

    Before contraception was widely available and it was not unusual to have 10 or 12 children, how much 'parent time' do you think these children got? Men went out to work and women stayed home. If you were solely responsible for the feeding, washing, and cleanliness of family of 12 or 14 people, I imagine there would be very little time for any personal, quality interactions with 10 to 12 individual children.

    That would be a good point, if it were true. Here is why its not. To have have a family of 10 or 12 a women needs to start rearing children very early in her life. To have 12 living children she probably would have suffered 2-4 miscarriages in the old days, so she needs to start very early. Since the 1960s in many European countries the trend for women has been increased education, and employment so women are forced to have children later in life. This is well known and can be proved with data in many countries but in Ireland the mean age of child rearing in 2011 was the same as 1960! Its true Irish family sizes are getting smaller but in 1960 the average fertility rate per women was not 12 children it was less then 4 children (TFR metric). In a family of four there would be plenty of parent time with the mother at least, and possibly with the father too.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,497 ✭✭✭✭VinLieger


    homer911 wrote: »
    Have you even looked at the RE curriculum in schools? particularly in secondary schools?

    Yes i have but that doesnt change the fact that Communions and Confirmations are still run through schools religion class time which invalidates any argument about how diverse the RE curriculum. Now if it was only private schools doing it this way I would have no problem but its a disgrace that during publicly funded school time kids are basically being taught how to be a catholic.


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,933 ✭✭✭robp


    VinLieger wrote: »
    Yes i have but that doesnt change the fact that Communions and Confirmations are still run through schools religion class time which invalidates any argument about how diverse the RE curriculum. Now if it was only private schools doing it this way I would have no problem but its a disgrace that during publicly funded school time kids are basically being taught how to be a catholic.

    I hate the GAA. Even my though hypothetical child can opt out of this and play ruby instead its a disgrace that that those who opt in are taught to love hurling and football. The organisation who runs this is unaccountable and unelected by the public (the GAA). That is the bones of your argument. It becomes even more mad when one bears in mind that the educational roles models we hold ourselves against (Finland) teach directional religion classes just like Ireland.


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