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Nice guys should just accept bachelorhood?
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Scanlas The 2nd wrote: »
How would that belief be mysogynistic?
Because it attaches a trait to women as a whole rather than looking at women as individuals.
It's akin to the oft trotted out line "all men are bastards".
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Yeah well the world is the way it is. We don't choose the way it is we just have to accept what is.
Women don't want assholes but they can't help but be ATTRACTED to them.
ATTRACTION IS NOT A CHOICE. And attraction leads to nights of pleasure in bed.
That leads to babies.
Women are as much victims as nice guys. THEY CAN'T HELP BUT FEEL THAT ATTRACTION. IT IS A BIOLOGICAL NEED.
My point is - this is biology. It is natures law.
THE STRONG SURVIVE THROUGH PASSING ON THEIR GENES.
the weak (nice guys) get the scraps thrown to them.
You seem to imply that only alpha males pass on their genes. You are wrong.
I'm a nice guy (my wife says so and so does my ex-wife, who fecked off with a bastard
), and I have six kids and my wife loves me.
Your assertion that nice = weak is also feeble-minded sh!te.0 -
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Sittingpretty wrote: »
Because it attaches a trait to women as a whole rather than looking at women as individuals.
It's akin to the oft trotted out line "all men are bastards".
It doesn't mean they hate women, just means they might have a flawed perception of them.0 -
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Scanlas The 2nd wrote: »
It doesn't mean they hate women, just means they might have a flawed perception of them.
Good point, my choice of word could've been better I s'pose 0 -
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Sittingpretty wrote: »Because it attaches a trait to women as a whole rather than looking at women as individuals.
It's akin to the oft trotted out line "all men are bastards".
It's not exactly the same in fairness when there's an actual basis for the statement.
Of course, the stupid thing is that people assume being confident = being a bastard. In all honesty I've only met one or two women in my life who genuinely are attracted to actually being mistreated - as in, they actually become more attracted to a guy if he cheats on them and is generally abusive - and the only conclusion I can come up with for them is that they are in fact masochists. Some guys are as well, in fairness. But it really is an exceptional minority, as I say I can only think of maybe two concrete examples out of all the girls I know, and most of their friends absolutely despise the guys in question and wouldn't go near them with a barge pole.
But it's not offensive to state that women in general are wired to be attracted to someone who has testosterone driven characteristics such as being highly confident for example, any more than it's sexist to suggest that men in general are wired to be attracted to women who are more feminine, such as not having bulging six pack abs
In pure instinctive terms your brain is simply looking for someone who you have a good chance of creating a healthy family with.
I'm never too sure why people think it should be offensive to make observations about humans which are absolute gospel in the rest of the animal kingdom and aren't even questioned. Humans have natural instincts which we have to work VERY hard if we want to ignore and overcome, and there's nothing at all wrong with that - it's served nature well for the many billions of years that life has been evolving on this planet, and we are after all nothing but pawns in a much, much bigger picture.
I feel we have far too much of an obsession in human culture with denying the fact that our conscious minds, the decisions we actively make and are fully aware of, genuinely only comprise a fairly small percentage of who we actually are. After all, I don't actively think to myself every two seconds "Squeeze those heart muscles", my brain does that without any input whatsoever from me. Why the shock and horror at the idea that such automatic impulses extend to other aspects of our lives as well? We wouldn't be here today if our impulses weren't generally good ones, we'd have long since been eaten by a bigger fish and that would have been the end of it.
All that is of course a bit off topic, since the idea that being nice = being unattractive is widely accepted to be complete BS. I just find it funny when people suggest that it's actually offensive somehow to generalize humans based on evolutionary observations. 0 -
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Yeah well the world is the way it is. We don't choose the way it is we just have to accept what is.
Women don't want assholes but they can't help but be ATTRACTED to them.
ATTRACTION IS NOT A CHOICE. And attraction leads to nights of pleasure in bed.
That leads to babies.
Women are as much victims as nice guys. THEY CAN'T HELP BUT FEEL THAT ATTRACTION. IT IS A BIOLOGICAL NEED.
My point is - this is biology. It is natures law.
THE STRONG SURVIVE THROUGH PASSING ON THEIR GENES.
the weak (nice guys) get the scraps thrown to them.
Since when does being a nice normal guy equate to being weak
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Word of wisdom from a audio-blogger.:)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=61_R2X3Pr1I
He discusses the well known fact that women aren't attracted to nice guys. There are many reasons for this. Ranging from nice guys being too boring to not being like alpha males.
We are more like animals that we realise IMHO. In a animal environment it is only the alpha male. The baddest, strongest, most attitude filled stag that gets mating rights to all the females.
And if any of the other stags have the audacity to try to mate with females the alpha male will come and stick horns up his ass! Or murder the poor sod!!
The worst of the worst is the nice guy that takes care of the baby fathered by another man. Darwin (and me) would be disgusted by you.
So is bachelorhood a better options for nice guys. In my opinion it probably is. There are women that can paid to satisfy your needs. Way preferable to supporting to the child of another.
You seem to be confusing humans with yaks.
Stupid nonsense altogether.0 -
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Word of wisdom from a audio-blogger.:)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=61_R2X3Pr1I
He discusses the well known fact that women aren't attracted to nice guys. There are many reasons for this. Ranging from nice guys being too boring to not being like alpha males.
We are more like animals that we realise IMHO. In a animal environment it is only the alpha male. The baddest, strongest, most attitude filled stag that gets mating rights to all the females.
And if any of the other stags have the audacity to try to mate with females the alpha male will come and stick horns up his ass! Or murder the poor sod!!
The worst of the worst is the nice guy that takes care of the baby fathered by another man. Darwin (and me) would be disgusted by you.
So is bachelorhood a better options for nice guys. In my opinion it probably is. There are women that can paid to satisfy your needs. Way preferable to supporting to the child of another.
Are you arriving at the conclusion that because women don't appear to be attracted to you then you must be a nice guy? Big leap.
Women love nice guys, just what a lot of them mean by "nice guy" is not necessarily the same as what your definition is.0 -
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