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Do you expect an inheritance?

  • 04-05-2012 01:56AM
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    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 460 ✭✭four18


    I know this guy who gets cross if his elderly folks change ther car or take a holiday ? The miserable ***tard reckons they are spending HIS Inheritance ? They put him thru collage and bought him a car and he actually scolds them when they spend a few bob ! Miserable or what ?
    My kids will get the prce of my plot and maybe the house, Thats it. What you think ?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,207 ✭✭✭The King of Moo


    I expect little more than a predisposition towards depression and male pattern baldness.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,499 ✭✭✭✭DEFTLEFTHAND


    I believe in creating a dynasty somewhat in the reflection of the Rockefellers. My vast empire will be left to my first born son to either grow further or be pissed down the drain, its his choice I'll be dead.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,443 ✭✭✭Bipolar Joe


    My Pop told me I'm getting nothing, my Sister from his new marriage is getting the lot. Oh well.


  • Users Awaiting Email Confirmation Posts: 43 Sparklepants!


    OP your mate deserves a nice loud slap in the face. I hope he gets nothing.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,398 ✭✭✭whatdoicare


    My dad often jokes when he buys stuff that it's coming out of my inheritance and I always say "Flipping right too!".
    I don't give a hoot if I get no inheritance - my folks gave me what matters, their love and time - they helped me when I needed them from the day I was born and they work damn hard.
    If I had a choice of my folks living their last years on a cruise ship living it up and an inheritance - I'd be marching them into that booking office before they could blink!


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 460 ✭✭four18


    OP your mate deserves a nice loud slap in the face. I hope he gets nothing.
    He is not my mate and I hope he gets nothing too. I hate mean people. I dropped a fiance once for that very reason. She was so so miserable !


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,377 ✭✭✭zenno


    four18 wrote: »
    I know this guy who gets cross if his elderly folks change ther car or take a holiday ? The miserable ***tard reckons they are spending HIS Inheritance ? They put him thru collage and bought him a car and he actually scolds them when they spend a few bob ! Miserable or what ?
    My kids will get the prce of my plot and maybe the house, Thats it. What you think ?

    This fcuktard needs to be watched carefully, as for any son to be angered/cross with his parents spending their own money defo needs to be watched. Lazy-ass bloke if this is the case and full of greed. I pitty his parents.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,910 ✭✭✭OneArt


    I prefer being able to make my own money.

    I wouldn't want to get the house or anything. The stress of owning a property in Ireland...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,725 ✭✭✭charlemont


    four18 wrote: »
    I know this guy who gets cross if his elderly folks change ther car or take a holiday ? The miserable ***tard reckons they are spending HIS Inheritance ? They put him thru collage and bought him a car and he actually scolds them when they spend a few bob ! Miserable or what ?
    My kids will get the prce of my plot and maybe the house, Thats it. What you think ?

    That's scandalous, I'm from a wealthy background but am not exactly flowing with cash myself and I personally don't expect anything from my father when he passes on, If they help my son with fees for college in a few years then I'll be happy, My dad earned his money and he should spent it on himself, My brother and sister don't need his money either so my dad should spend it on hookers and holiday's.:)

    The guy you know is a greedy shít and I hope they give him nothing.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,390 ✭✭✭IM0


    expect? NO!


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 460 ✭✭four18


    IM0 wrote: »
    expect? NO!
    Accept ?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,515 ✭✭✭LH Pathe


    Couldn't possibly expect such my ma is working the crumlin hospital canteen for thirty ur or thereabouts "just to pay the bills" as she always says, can take all the holidays she wants think she's entitled to spend whatever te fùck it is she has left over on herself after that


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,637 ✭✭✭Show Time


    LH Pathe wrote: »
    Couldn't possibly expect such my ma is working the crumlin hospital canteen for thirty ur or thereabouts "just to pay the bills" as she always says, can take all the holidays she wants think she's entitled to spend whatever te fùck it is she has left over on herself after that
    Good chance so she feed myself and my folks when i was up there thirty odd years ago during my run under the knife.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,515 ✭✭✭LH Pathe


    she "worked for bono's brother" before that, some office in town around the turn of the eighties anyhow I doubt many people are retaining much savings these days it's fùckd. There is a house for someone to inherit however n that'll never be sold by me, ohh no not over my dead body. actually I do, smell bitter inheritance wars


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 193 ✭✭fitzeyboy.


    Nope. I hope my parents will do the decent thing and blow it all on themselves. They earned it with hard graft over the years and have put 4 kids through college. If anyone deserves a spectacular retirement it's my parents.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,243 ✭✭✭✭Jesus Wept


    My Pop told me I'm getting nothing, my Sister from his new marriage is getting the lot. Oh well.

    :-/

    People make such retarded decisions when it comes to inheritance. Tools.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 460 ✭✭four18


    fitzeyboy. wrote: »
    Nope. I hope my parents will do the decent thing and blow it all on themselves. They earned it with hard graft over the years and have put 4 kids through college. If anyone deserves a spectacular retirement it's my parents.

    Tell them to take a cruise thru Alaska, Barron, Icy, Breathtaking. They deserve it


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,669 ✭✭✭✭RobbingBandit


    Been told I am getting a €1 all cash in a good luck card.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,670 ✭✭✭Doc


    I do expect that I will get some kind of inheritance but that's just because my parents aren't the kind of people who are likely to die with nothing but I wouldn't feel any sense of entitlement to anything. I would never presume to tell them what to do with their own money, now or in the future unless I thought what they were spending it on would adversely affect them. Even then it would only be advise that they could take or leave.

    I have two brothers and I imagine that anything that was left after both my parents pass away would be split equally between us and if it was not I cant see myself questioning any decision my parents would make in that regard as anything they pass on to me would be a gift not mine by right and I would look on it as such.

    I have seen inheritance really cause rifts in families when siblings feel that they have been unfairly treated or that one of them has taken things they shouldn't have. I would hate to think that anything like that would happen within mine.

    But this will never affect me because my parents are never going to die, so shut up!!! :(


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,455 ✭✭✭Where To


    Im going to leave everything to boards.ie


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 311 ✭✭hungrypig


    hope my parents spend anything they have on themselves to enjoy life. practically speaking the family home will be left and parents are very fair so it will just be split. the inlaws will just leave a bill for their funeral.......bastards


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,039 ✭✭✭force eleven


    Only winners in inheritance law are the government. Gotta use your money to pay back the bankers right?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 853 ✭✭✭toexpress


    One of my sisters and her husband are only waiting for it to happen my parents are only in their early sixties so I think and hope she has a good wait like. Last year my sisters father in law died and she was going on at Christmas about how great it was that he had his affairs in order and so on, basically nearly asking my parents what she could expect. And so the devil got a hold of me as they say around here and I suggested to my parents that they should sell the lot and spend it on nice holidays and any other comforts they would like before they die! She wasn't happy :D

    And to be fair they are well entitled, they set each of us up with a property and a car when we came of age so they have given us enough already


  • Moderators, Regional Midwest Moderators, Paid Member Posts: 11,397 Mod ✭✭✭✭MarkR


    I thought this thread would be about passing on an iphone or something...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 350 ✭✭ICANN


    Inheritance that way is something I never heard about really ntil I moved to England and a girl at work told me her grandparents bought her a car from her inheritance because they wanted her to enjoy it while they were alive. I just don't get it- slaving away to save your money to give your family when you die?!

    Like some said already I hope my parents enjoy themselves with their money, they've worked hard enough for it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,801 ✭✭✭✭suicide_circus


    As the eldest son, I will inherit the bulk of my fathers estates in linolnshire and devonshire, my four brothers shall receive handsome yearly allowances ranging from £5000
    - £1000 with provision for substantial increases on their production of a male heir.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,050 ✭✭✭token101


    Well if I don't the funeral money will be kept and a DIY cremation carried out.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,900 ✭✭✭Quality


    My mam and dad have lots of savings and I always tell them, you had better spend it before you get too old to enjoy it!

    Cause if they leave it to me it's going on cars, clothes and holidays!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,754 ✭✭✭oldyouth


    Strange to see this thread, given that I've been awake since 5am mulling over the fact that I have yet to make a will myself.

    Anyway, my folks gave me everything I needed and some of the things I wanted, when I was growing up. I was given a great start in life and that's enough for me. I'm trying to follow that through with my sons. I know exactly where my parents are with their financial affairs and I know it is all designed to give their extended family little treats (birthday presents, the odd €20 when the grandchildren visit etc). That's what gives them happiness

    However, their main plan is to have sufficient savings so that they can provide for their own care needs later on. In that respect, they are using any inheritance for the benefit of the family

    Legends, both of them

    X


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,983 ✭✭✭Red Hand


    You should be able to stand on your own two feet once you're in the workplace/finished college. Family buying you cars/holidays/cash handouts in your 20s seems a little much to me.

    And actually expecting an inheritence once they die is just a step too far. Their job was to bring you into the work and help you become an independent person.


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